Chapter 695: Don't Fight Yourself
Wang Sufang put down the phone and felt that Chen Zihao hung a curtain on the wall, which was too unusual, and he didn't take her seriously at all. Isn't it just a matter of a loan? Why is it so complicated, the bank is only engaged in the sale of loans, what to eat if they don't lend loans, and who they don't give them to, so why don't they give her this face? And a beautiful girl will lend her a loan if she wants to, which is too much, what is the relationship between them, is it really like Ma Zhongxiang said, the two have a special relationship. You have to figure it out, if that's really the case, Hugh will blame her for being unkind. Thinking of this, I called Zhang Yuying and asked about it, Zhang Yuying told her that she didn't know the specific situation, Director Chen and the field staff didn't come back when they went to the countryside, so they probably went out to drink, so they had to wait for the afternoon.
"Tell me as soon as you get the situation clear. Wang Sufang said.
"Okay, but I can only ask from the side, after all, I am a teller, so it is not good to ask about the loan directly. Zhang Yuying said.
"I don't care what you do, just get the situation straight. Wang Sufang said. It seems that I have to wait for Zhang Yuying's reply, and then think of a way after the situation is true.
After Chen Zihao finished eating, he saw that the time was not early, and there were still a few loan households to turn around, and told Qiu Weiqiang and Xu Feng that they would go to the countryside together now. Of course, the two had no opinion, and set off immediately, and received a call from Qian Xiaolong on the way, whether to inform Bao Yongliang and Wang Sufang of the evening treat.
"Of course, I have to inform them, they are all old people in the office, and if you want to treat them, you can't forget them, and if you don't say that you are not interesting in the future, no matter what you say, you must not be rude, and you can't let them find out the reason. Chen Zihao said.
"But I don't want to inform them, especially Wang Sufang, she is not very human. These people can't talk to her at all, so I don't want to call her, so I don't have to worry about us. Qian Xiaolong said.
"That's not what I said. After all, they had worked together before, and they had a little affection. We can't leave them behind, and besides, as long as we do, she won't say anything. Chen Zihao said.
"Okay, I'll listen to you, I'll call them in a moment. Qian Xiaolong said.
"Director Chen, you are really, why do you have to think about them. These two people themselves are not good, no one wants to see them, just don't invite them to go, so as to save everyone from being upset, and if you want to drink, you don't have a good time. Qiu Weiqiang said.
"I don't think so, people have feelings, even if they don't deal with people, they won't do anything out of the ordinary when the occasion comes. Xu Feng said.
"I agree with this, everything must be thought of for the good, we can't live the heart of a villain with the belly of a gentleman. One qiē should think more openly, and don't think too badly of people. Chen Zihao said.
"I really admire your belly, especially Wang Sufang. I really don't have any conscience for you to think about her like this, and then to hurt you. Qiu Weiqiang said.
"Thinking about the good in everything means thinking about things in a positive way, that is, thinking positively, learning to think in a positive way, especially when something unfortunate happens, like when a needle a finger, you want to be fortunate that it your hand, not your eye. Chen Zihao said.
"You think so, but some people don't. People like Lao Bao and them don't have a good heart. Thinking about calculating people all day long, I can't work with them. It's a misfortune to meet them, and it's been eight lifetimes of mold. Qiu Weiqiang said.
"There will always be some unfortunate things in life, and even many are not unfortunate, but they can't meet people's expectations of it, and at this time, more people are complaining, remorseful, depressed, and thinking that it's good that it's not like this, why it's always yourself who is unlucky, so you fall into the terrible trap of negative thinking, and if you don't have enough to worry about it, it becomes very insufficient. Chen Zihao said.
In fact, as long as you think about it the other way around, the so-called misfortune is not so terrible. As long as you look at it from a different perspective and think from the good side and the positive side, there will naturally be a bright sunshine in your heart. Maybe some things are really unfortunate, even great misfortunes, but don't indulge in grief too much, and you should be glad to have such a life experience. Because after suffering, the heart will be stronger, the experience will be richer, and people will be more united and friendly. Not everyone has such a lucky opportunity to experience the joys and sorrows of life, and when you think about it like this, you will smile.
Positive or negative thinkingOne of the questions hidden behind it is what kind of person to be. Why some people are good at thinking positively while others are always thinking negatively is the choice of pessimists and optimists. The optimists always look at a qiē with a smile. If it is a good thing, it will naturally be more joyful, and when it encounters a bad thing, it will also turn sadness into joy. Pessimists, on the other hand, don't say that something big or bad happens, even ordinary things will make them dissatisfied, always magnify their shortcomings, always pursue perfection too much, but unfortunately there is no perfection in this world.
Sadness and hatred are relative, and the key is how to look at it. If you look at the world with sad eyes, then there is nothing to be happy in this world. If you look at it with the eyes of joy, even great compassion will not make people feel that the world is over. There is a saying that is very good, you are right, the world is right.
"Positive thinking makes us more optimistic and relaxed, let us find sunshine in the layers of dark clouds, see the starlight in the long dark night, and make us grateful for the arrangement of fate and the wonder of life. Xu Feng said.
"So, we have to learn to think positively, be good at positive thinking, and finally get used to positive thinking, so that positive thinking can bring infinite joy to our lives. Chen Zihao said.
If you think about the good in everything, you will enjoy life with a calm and calm mood, that is, you can live with a soothing heart, so that you can fully enjoy every drop of elixir given by life. You can accurately find the angle of life and show the style of life. In the process of life, there is vigorous greatness, unpretentious ordinariness, perseverance without hesitation, and tragedy of ups and downs. It's not a summer breeze, it doesn't have to be charming, it's not winter snow, why condense, we have our own favorite life. Life is like this, there are setbacks, hardships, distress, and confusion, and there will be setbacks. However, a good attitude calms us, makes us open-minded, and makes us confident.
If you think about the good in everything, you can dilute fame and fortune. Pink and fragrant, leaning on red and green, that is a chic star, I laugh and avoid it, gold is rich, fat and light fur, that is a huge rich, I stay away. You can treat yourself rationally, grasp the meaning of youth, a childishness, a maturity, an obsession, a self-confidence, a purity, and an enthusiasm. You can become a generous and chic person, an empathetic person, a generous and open-minded person, a confident and happy person, a person who will love himself and know how to respect others, and a person who likes the scenery of the four seasons. Like Beethoven, he shouted the words full of pride to the crowd: Life is so good, live it for a thousand lifetimes.
"As the saying goes, the best way to be happy is to look at more people who are less fortunate than you, pessimistic losers see difficulties as traps, optimistic successes see difficulties as opportunities, and the result is two completely opposite lives. Life is not a lack of beauty, but a lack of discovery. As long as we think about the good in everything, we will see hope, and with hope can we increase the courage and strength of our lives. Xu Feng said.
"You two are really optimistic enough, and I admire that from the bottom of my heart. Qiu Weiqiang said.
"In life, the most indispensable thing is the spirit of optimism, good times need to be optimistic, adversity must be optimistic, if a person can not face life optimistically, it will make life lose the fun. Because the long voyage of life cannot be smooth sailing, in the face of setbacks, big sorrows and small disasters, a pessimistic person sees a desperate dead end, while an optimistic person sees a bright and smooth road through the darkness. Xu Feng said.
But reality sometimes makes you not optimistic, often caught in the whirlpool of troubles, and feels very depressed when you think about it, but there is nothing to be done. Qiu Weiqiang said.
"There will inevitably be troubles in life, there will inevitably be unexpected and unexpected things, and the mood at that time will often be very bad and bad, whether it is happy or painful and unforgettable, don't complain about life. Chen Zihao said.
Because, no one's life is smooth. The reason why people can't be as happy as the sea, grass, trees, and meteors is that people often worry about themselves when they are bored. And they are happy because they have all abandoned their sorrows, and they never look at the negative, sad side. And choose the positive side, choose happiness. Happiness is like the nectar, as long as you taste it, you can feel that the sweet and beautiful taste is so beautiful. No one can be happy all the time, as long as you adjust your mentality, there is no difficulty that can make people unhappy. In fact, when doing something, think of the worst result, and when the worst result happens, it is impossible not to have something to be happy about. The important thing is how you choose to deal with it. If you pay close attention, you will see that they are so close and so easy to get. In that case, why not choose to be happy. Why can't we throw away our sorrow and live a more sunny and brilliant life, wouldn't it be better? To maintain the current pain or choose happiness again, in fact, whether you live pain or happiness is only the difference between this thought.
"Love is a demon in the heart, so if you want to be open, don't compete with yourself, for a lifetime, for a moment, if you look away, most of you are happy, if you care, most of you are troubled, and if you have tomorrow in your heart, you will not be sad for yesterday. Xu Feng said. (To be continued.) )