Chapter 449: Unloading the Burden
After learning the truth from Huang Song, Chen Zihao and several people made preparations for both in order to recover the loan after negotiation. If Rong Quan doesn't repay the loan for Lu Weifei, and then goes to Huang Song and puts pressure on him, after all, he is a lender, no matter what the inside story is, he has a certain relationship with him, and he asks for money for drinking and carrying bottles. Let him deal with this matter, everyone knows his character, he will definitely not do it, and he will definitely not let Lu Weifei go. However, because Bao Yongliang wrote down the note, it was extremely unfavorable to recovering the loan, and he would not go to him unless he had to. If there is really no drama, it is better to make a fuss about him.
"So that's what happened. Bao Yongliang had to admire Chen Zihao when he heard it, in order to take care of his face, he was afraid that he would not be able to accept that he would not be able to come to the stage, although he knew the truth, but he did not make it clear in person, but he was thinking about a solution to the problem in private.
The two found Huang Song and explained the situation to him, Huang Song was a little unconvinced, and called the office to get in touch, and after learning that the loan had indeed been returned, he took out the note, and Bao Yongliang burned it in front of him. Only then did he breathe a deep sigh of relief, if Rong Quan didn't repay Lu Weifei's loan today, he didn't know what to do.
Three days later, with the help of Chen Zihao and Zhang Jian, Bao Yongliang's problem was finally solved, and he was very happy to feel that these two people were really good. Take Chen Zihao as an example, now he is the director, and he has the final say in the office, if he wants to rectify him, he can do it in one sentence, and the loan violation alone is enough for him to drink a pot. In order not to take responsibility and save yourself from trouble, since the problem is found, the child cries to his mother to hug. Escalated the problem. Whose problem is solved. This is a very normal phenomenon, and if you don't get it right, you will really get stuck in the office and can't pull out your legs. Because this is an illegal loan, he does not say that the problem cannot be solved. Now it is a warm and cold world, flattering in every way when you are in power, revolving around you all day long, letting them do anything, and being very cold when you lose power, just like Lu Weifei who turns his face and doesn't recognize people. When you succeed. There will be many people who will come to give you care, but when you lose a qiē, there is no one around you, no one will help you speak, and it is not possible to think about you if you don't step on you. But Chen Zihao is not like this, he has no grievances and grievances, and takes the initiative to help him solve the problem, which ordinary people really can't do.
and Zhang Jian, who used to treat him like that. Because the loan almost closed him to the end of the road, people didn't treat him like this. is still so broad-minded, regardless of previous suspicions, help him wipe his buttocks. If he hadn't come forward, some things wouldn't have been resolved so smoothly. People know that they are out of power and have no use for them, so they are lukewarm to him, and they don't say they won't pay it back, but they don't have money for the time being. But the above gave a death order, all the problems must be solved, you say that Bao Yongliang is not in a hurry. This is a critical moment, it is absolutely impossible not to repay the loan, and the branch leader will not let him go, but there is no way, so he has to stare and worry. It was Zhang Jian who helped him play a round and made the stakes clear, so that the loan problem was solved, and you said that he would not be grateful.
In order to express his gratitude, Bao Yongliang invited Chen Zihao and Zhang Jian alone, and the three of them came to a restaurant and asked for some wine and food, and Bao Yongliang poured wine for them. said: "Director Chen, Director Zhang, without your help in the past few days, I would not have been able to pass the current level, in order to express my gratitude, I respect you both." ”
"Don't be so polite, we are all colleagues and we should help each other. Chen Zihao said.
"Director Chen is right, as long as everyone treats each other with sincerity, there is no flame mountain that cannot be passed, and there is no problem that cannot be solved. Zhang Jian said.
"To be honest, I thought I had a lot of friends and could do anything, but after a few days I realized that I was wrong, and it was very wrong. Bao Yongliang said.
It turns out that he is too self-righteous and takes others too seriously, but in fact, others don't take him seriously at all, just like unrequited love for a person, it's just his own wishful thinking. Take some lenders in the past as an example, no matter how good the relationship was before, usually buddies are long and buddies are short, and they are blessed and enjoy hardships together, which can be called a vow. What is the final result, the critical moment is not to drop the chain, I am afraid that you will make trouble for him, I dare not see each other, I have learned too much, and I feel too deeply. Sometimes don't take others too seriously, and don't take yourself too seriously. What is called people to go to tea and cool, and what is called sharing weal and evil. Time can dilute a pain, but it can also dilute a friendship, the pain that can be diluted is called no pain, the friendship that can be diluted is not called friendship, at most it is only called a friend of wine and meat, is it a friend of wine and meat? Only your relatives are still the most selfless, always appear in front of you in a timely manner when you need it most, no matter how big the difficulties you have, you will spend the difficulties with you without complaint or expecting anything in return, so you must be kind to your relatives. There are still sincere friendships in this world, but not much, not too much, and there are a few who are already very happy. It is also a great blessing to have so many true friends in your life, and it is also the so-called rare confidant in life. There are not many friends, as long as the people are good.
"In real life, everyone's interactions involve interests, so many times our attitudes are swayed by interests. Chen Zihao said.
To overcome these problems, we must first know how to look at the warmth and coldness of the world. Most of the people in the warm and cold world are caused by not being good at communicating and dealing with colleagues around them. In fact, most of the time, the people around us are still very enthusiastic, mainly depending on how we communicate with them. There are all kinds of people around us, who are not static things, but who are vivid and vivid like us. They need someone to care about, someone to respect and love. If you need others to treat you how you want to be treated, you have to treat others first. Be sincere, don't care about other people's reactions, as long as you have a clear conscience, you must believe that Lu Yao knows the horsepower, and you can see the hearts of the people over time, so that you can overcome the cold and cold situation of the world.
In fact, it is inevitable to look at the cold and warm world from a large perspective, so how to look at the cold and warm world is an attitude issue, and we must correct our mentality. Don't bring anything out of work into your work to avoid this situation. If you want to get rid of the cold and warm human feelings, the hot and cold situation of the world must break the silence, ask questions if you don't understand, ask for advice with an open mind, and learn more knowledge. Life is the product of sublimation in ups and downs and difficulties. After experiencing this situation a lot, I have another thought, because the twists and turns of life are inevitable, and the later experience seems to have some understanding, and the experience of life may be to enjoy the joy of success, so I feel that as long as I make myself happy and happy all the time in life, that qiē will become perfect.
"In this materialistic world, it is not easy to find simple and simple emotions, and it is even more difficult to stimulate the deep emotions of the soul. Zhang Jian said.
When people leave a collective, a unit, the vast majority of people have little contact. Even if they used to have a good relationship, they may be busy with their own affairs, and there is less contact, even if they are very close, it is not easy to meet each other. There is a master who has an incisive analysis and wonderful writing in terms of looking at the problem of human warmth and coldness and the hot and cold state of the world. He wrote, people are in the sea of people, and they can't help themselves. What is sad when you lose, and what joy is there when you gain. Once in the sea, unexpectedly encountered. After the flowers, it becomes a stream.
Everyone has a time of pain and loneliness in the soul, we often feel full of bitterness, but we feel that among the family and friends, there is no one to spit out the depression, especially when we find and understand that most people like to see your smiling face when the spring breeze is proud, and do not like to listen to your complaints when you see the donation. When you are ready to talk about your heart, but you see your lifelong friend graciously thank you for the appointment and leave the table, at that time, what is the feeling in your heart?
It is precisely because there are many stories of the hot and cold state of affairs that the sincere friendship between people is ruined, and many negative so-called aphorisms of the world are produced. Chen Zihao said.
What kind of human affection is like a thin piece of paper, the world is like a new chess game, there are few troubles when the governor is less, there are many people who know right and wrong, and they are not afraid of hurting people and tigers when they enter the mountains, they are only afraid of two-sided knives of human feelings, and they only say three points when they meet people, and they can not throw a piece of heart and so on. The normal interpersonal relationship is shrouded in a layer of cold clouds of repeated human feelings, perhaps because people's hearts are barren.
Everyone can't count which important person they meet on any day that they repeat and continue, and from then on, they will haunt your memories for a lifetime. When the wind rises, I learn to laugh and see the fall, when the wind passes, I learn to listen to the lonely singing, sentimentality has long become the vicissitudes of life, it doesn't matter how to wait, there is no expectation of waiting, waiting for your own future, relying on yourself to create a zào future.
There is an old man who has gone through most of his life and said that the gold is empty, the silver is empty, and he has no hands after death. The fields are empty, the land is empty, and how many masters have been changed. The name is empty, the profit is empty, and in the blink of an eye, the wilderness is a letter. Life is short, decades are rushed, and in this world, there is nothing that must be had, and there is nothing that cannot be forgotten. We can let go of those who can't stay in our lives for a long time, and don't go into the swamp of **.
"The two of you gave me a vivid lesson today, this is the most true words I have heard in my life, it can be said that it is my heartfelt words, it is my blessing to meet the two of you, without your help, I will not solve the problem so smoothly, I will not forget you in this life, I will correct my shortcomings in the future, pay attention to my own behavior, ensure that I will not make similar mistakes, and start my life again. Bao Yongliang said. (To be continued......)