"I just felt sudden, I didn't think it that much, it seems that things are much more complicated than I thought. Xu Feng said.

"After a long time, you will slowly become clear, but who to promote is a matter of officials, none of us can stop it, just go with the flow, but you have to be more careful in the future, the business department is a branch directly under the agency, often deal with them, talk and do things very carefully, especially Wang Sufang as the deputy director, don't underestimate her, such a woman is not easy to deal with, maybe when will you give you small shoes to wear, always be careful. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"I've heard of this before, Sister Gu once reminded me that I must be careful when dealing with her, I can't be calculated by her, but I didn't have a long contact with her and was transferred. Xu Feng said.

"So you have to be careful everywhere you contact with her, you can't be earned by her, you must not say anything to her, so as not to be caught by the handle, and it will change the taste through her mouth, the red may become black, the round may become square, and then you can't wash it even if you jump into the Yellow River. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"This is easy to do, just don't provoke her, and I am a small loan officer, doing work, and not in the same unit, what does she have to do with me, we can't afford to hide, just don't contact her." Xu Feng said.

"I'm afraid that she is not right, in order to achieve the goal of unscrupulous means, there is a good saying, the tiger in the mouth of the arrow, the wasp tail needle, both are not poisonous, the most poisonous woman's heart, is talking about this kind of woman, what is even more infuriating is that some people will listen to their slander, so that you can hardly argue, you don't know the black pot on your back in a daze, it is really more wronged than Dou E. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"What can I do if my heart is not right, I have no grudges with her, and I can still pick bones in eggs and deliberately find ballast. Xu Feng said.

"You can't say that. You are different from me, after all, you were originally from the office, and you used to work with her for a while, you are Director Chen's person, and he is the person who replaced Lao Bao and snatched his black yarn hat. Naturally, she will be dissatisfied, and she is unpopular in the office, although she doesn't say it in person, she must have an idea in her heart, and she will treat the people in the original office as enemies, if she gains power, she will definitely find a way to retaliate, so she must be more careful in everything she does in the future. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"I don't think she's going to do anything to me. Xu Feng said.

"Don't forget that people are jealous, but some people are a little less. Some people, especially women, are jealous, and jealousy refers to resentment because their own character and talents are inferior to others. Instead of being happy with the merits and achievements of others, jealous people often feel uncomfortable and believe that they are detrimental to their own interests. This kind of person is more uncomfortable to see others succeed than to see her own failures, and you say that her heart can feel better. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"But you can't have a harmful heart, don't calculate anything against others, don't do anything harmful to others. There is no morality at all, and it will not be respected. Xu Feng said.

"That's who it is. She couldn't do anything, when Lao Bao was in power, she was so red and purple that she covered the sky with one hand, what she wanted to do, who dared to say anything in the office, this time Lao Bao was dismissed. Naturally, she lost her momentum, and no one ate her set anymore, and there would definitely be a sense of loss, so she tried her best to leave the office, and only she knew how to transfer away. Now that I have become the deputy director of the sales department, although the official is not big, there will be a certain weight in the minds of the leaders. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"There will be such a large weight, the leader will not rub the sand in his eyes, the good and the bad will naturally be able to distinguish clearly, and he will not listen to someone's words lightly. Xu Feng said.

"The key is her relationship with the leader, if there is really that kind of indescribable relationship, in order to please her, we will naturally listen to her, so we must be careful everywhere, not to say something excessive, once it passes through her mouth and conducts into the leader's ears, it will make you unable to eat and walk around, and it may ruin the future. Qiu Weiqiang said.

If this is the case, Director Chen will also be the target of her revenge, after all, she has robbed her sweetheart's position. Xu Feng said.

"Needless to say, Wang Sufang must have an opinion on him, but Director Chen has a good relationship with the president, otherwise he would not be allowed to be the director, it is not easy to bring him down, it depends on how Wang Sufang develops, and it is impossible to say after a long time. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"What else can there be to develop, will it be promoted, a woman can be the deputy director, it is difficult to rise. Xu Feng said.

"So look at Wang Sufang's horsepower, now it's not accurate, once it is reused by the leader, the position will definitely be higher than now, if you still have bad intentions towards Director Chen, you will definitely have to suffer a tribulation, it depends on how Director Chen copes. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"I think Director Chen is a good person, and the leaders trust him very much, and he will not be rectified because of this. Xu Feng said.

"He's a good person, he's a good person, he's a good person, and that's something to be admired. Qiu Weiqiang said.

However, sometimes an upright person may not be able to eat well, and in order to survive, he has to keep his mind and have a prudent lifestyle and attitude. Life is also a war in a way. As the saying goes, a soldier never tires of deception, and since it is a war, this kind of deception is everywhere. Nowadays, the society is mixed, and there are traps and traps everywhere, and we must be careful to guard against them. If you don't have a little scheming, are deceived by others, and suffer a big loss, you don't have to complain that others are too despicable, you can only say that you are too simple and careless.

"I think it's better to be honest and feel at ease. Xu Feng said.

"These are two different things, some people are very good at dealing with people, they know how to express themselves without being off-putting, and they can always present their best self in front of others. When interacting with people, they are able to grasp the appropriate distance from others, no one is offended, and they calmly move around the comings and goings. Qiu Weiqiang said.

These people are both principled and flexible, and they know what needs to be cold and what needs to be heated, and when to be clear and when to be confused. They are good at grasping the opportunity to deal with problems, and they can deal with problems with their hands and knives, and cure the disease. They are easily accepted and respected by those around them. They can also easily convince others when they say. If they come up with something, it is always easy to get the approval of others. When they encounter difficulties, others will not hesitate to lend a helping hand and help them through them.

On the contrary, some people are always ostracized by those around them, and what he says has no influence or effect on others, and others may not even be interested in listening. Any of his suggestions are insignificant in the eyes of others, I am afraid that such a person is insignificant in the eyes of others, he has difficulties, how can others be willing to help, the reason why the two kinds of people have a world of different treatment, the fundamental problem is whether they know how to be a man, know how to deal with the world. Only by knowing the basic common sense of being a person in advance can you eat well in society and win beautifully.

It would be a mistake to think that those who succeed must be knowledgeable and talented. In fact, as long as you are more scheming than others, then you are likely to outperform others. If you don't have scheming, you can only be obscure, and it is difficult to achieve success. Even, a person without scheming is not only difficult to succeed, but even difficult to save his life.

How does a slow-moving tortoise protect itself, when in danger, the tortoise retracts its head and claws into its shell, so that it will pretend to be dead for a few minutes before slowly sticking its head out to peep, and when the enemy is gone, it will come out of the shell. When the hedgehog encounters danger, it also knows to hide all the soft parts of its body, and turns its sharp thorns outward to resist the invasion of the enemy, so that the intruder has no choice but to go. The rabbit also knows how to protect itself, although the rabbit looks very happy and simple, but when it sees the eagle hovering in the air, the rabbit knows that it can't escape just by running fast, and can only fight back. It rolls around, lies on its back on the ground, pretends to be dead, and when the eagle swoops down, it leaps up and strikes the eagle's chest and abdomen with its talons, and the wounded eagle screams a few times and flies into the sky in a hurry.

Animals in nature know how to use scheming in the face of opponents to get themselves out of danger, how can you be too simple as a person, you should be cautious and cautious when dealing with people, and you may wish to prepare some preventive measures when dealing with people, just in case, and it will be too late when things develop into a bad course.

Scheming is not cunning, but wisdom, being a man without scheming, can only suffer losses in the open, secretly angry, work and life are full of holes, a mature person in life is often a very peaceful person, they will not be sad or happy because of a thing, they have a city in their chests, silent, just with a plain face, it is difficult to know whether he is happy, sad or resentful. And those who are immature tend to be glamorous. Some people who have just entered the society are so transparent that people can see it at a glance. They put all their love on their faces, and they can see through their hearts at a glance.

If people can't hide things in their hearts, they often write their inner moves on their faces, they can't help themselves when they are happy, and they turn their faces immediately when they are not happy, which makes it easy for people to see through their hearts at a glance and understand their moods. Writing your joys, sorrows, and sorrows on your face is equivalent to showing others what you have in your heart, and it is easy to suffer losses in your interactions with others. (To be continued.) )