Just after ten o'clock, Xia Meili called, the child was a little uncomfortable, she wanted to go home early, she didn't come in the afternoon, she hung up the phone without waiting for him to agree, it was really more and more disagreeable, I went back yesterday morning, I didn't come to work in the afternoon, today is like this again, it's not as good as yesterday, I went to work for a while yesterday morning, participated in the meeting, and today just fell behind, and then I don't know where to go. At this time, he called him to ask for leave, and hung up the phone regardless of whether he agreed or not, he really didn't take him seriously, and he was very angry. But there is no way, people don't even show their faces, what do you say to her, you have to wait until tomorrow to go to work, remind her to pay attention to the impact, you can't always be like this every day, colleagues will gossip. He will also feel embarrassed, everyone works together, they have to understand each other, and they can't be too out of place to make people talk badly.

When he was about to get off work, Wang Qinping came to him, his cousin had already taken the money back, in order to express his gratitude, he had a treat at noon, Yuan Weihua hurriedly excused himself, they are all colleagues, they can help as much as possible, it is not easy for everyone, as for the treat, he still has something to do at noon, thank him for his kindness.

"Let's go, don't shirk anymore, let's be polite to each other, there's nothing to eat, help him get back so much money, and treat him as a treat." Wang Qinping said. Then Wang Xing was called, and the three of them went to the hotel together.

Liu Quan was already waiting for them in the room, Wang Qinping introduced Yuan Weihua, Liu Quan shook hands with him warmly, today thanks to Director Yuan, this account has been waiting for a long time, no one helps, I don't know when I can come back, this is equivalent to saving his life, without this money his business can not go on at all.

Director Yuan helped a lot from it, and he didn't come forward. The money will definitely not come back. Wang Qinping said.

"Indeed. I've been there many times but it didn't work. I am very grateful that you asked for it back in one sentence, and without your help, my business is completely finished. Liu Quan said.

"Don't be polite, Director Wang is my old director, and he naturally has to help if he has something. Yuan Weihua said.

naturally talked about work during the chat, Yuan Weihua said about Xia Meimei, and was very dissatisfied with her. The work is too bad, and I don't do anything for the past two days, except for asking for leave or leave. Yesterday morning it was the same thing, I asked him for leave to go back, and I made a phone call in the afternoon, whether he agreed or not, and hung up the phone, and it was the same today. As soon as I went to work in the morning, I didn't know where to call and ask for leave, didn't I know what I was doing, how could people do their work like this? It's not possible to indulge yourself a little bit, but it's not okay to go on like this. When I come back, I'm going to talk about her. It is fate for everyone to work together, we should understand and support each other, have a collective concept in our hearts, and not act on our own and commit liberalism. As the saying goes, there are no rules, there is no circle, this is a unit, not a small workshop of a few people, do whatever you want, this has a bad impact, after all, he is the director, the size is an official, and he can't even control his subordinates, and it doesn't make people laugh.

"About her, you also understand in your heart what's going on, she doesn't dare to do this without a special relationship, I advise you to say less as well, she's not easy to provoke, don't look at the long Wen Wen quietly, the words are very powerful, you can't say her, there will be a lot of reasons waiting for you, not to mention that she is a lesbian, it's not light, it's not heavy, it's not right to cry and wipe your tears, you will think you are a bully. Wang Qinping said.

"I just can't get used to it, doing work is doing work, you can't fill the numbers indiscriminately, a grain of mouse feces spoils a pot of porridge. Yuan Weihua said.

"If you can't get used to it, you can only do it to her, and you can't reflect it to the leader, in fact, they know very well what is going on, don't say it to your face, you must have opinions behind it, just don't care about her, don't poke the hornet's nest, the leader doesn't say what you're afraid of, get by, even if there is a mistake, you won't blame you. Wang Qinping said.

Now no matter what people do, they turn a blind eye, because interpersonal relationships are the most complex and difficult things, and they have to work step by step everywhere, be careful, and if you are not careful, you will fall into a minefield.

To behave in the world, you need to open one eye and close one eye, that is, you have to be confused about some things, so that you can stay away from troubles, avoid conflicts, and when to open your eyes and when to close your eyes, which is really a profound art. You may wish to turn a blind eye to the world, small things are confused, big things are understood, it is not advisable to be careful, a little grievance, you should endure it, let it go, take a step back is to go further, heroes sometimes have to suffer immediate losses, it is not ashamed to be humiliated under the crotch, the big belly can tolerate the world's affairs, you have to forgive people and forgive people, tolerance is a kind of belly, the wind and waves are coming, retreat is to protect yourself, confusion is a kind of wisdom.

Open one eye, close one eye left and right to meet the source of interpersonal relationships, learn to let people step is etiquette, learn to lie is goodwill, drinking half drunk is demeanor, bowing your head and bending over is self-protection, seeing people talk about people, seeing ghosts and talking nonsense is learning, silence is better than sound, silence is golden, in the face of other people's hostility to be indifferent, the outer circle and the inner square is a realm.

In fact, it is rare for the sages to be confused, which is a kind of great wisdom and not confused. The price of wisdom is contradiction, which is a joke of life on the outlook on life, and the opening and closing of the eyes is the contention and avoidance of life.

There is a way to open your eyes to see people, to think about things with your eyes closed, to see the world with your eyes open, to enjoy life with your eyes closed, to close your eyes, to open your eyes, and to live a day. Once you close your eyes, don't open your eyes, and your life is over. Eyes and closures, contention and avoidance, the width of life and the length of life, all in it. The most important thing is to know clearly what needs to be opened and what needs to be closed. In particular, I need to figure out that my head grows on my shoulders, and I rely on it to drink thin and eat thick.

"I can't always go on like this, how can the work be carried out, let the leader know what to look at me, not to mention that I am incompetent. Yuan Weihua said.

"This is a special person, and you can't compare it to ordinary people, so you have to pay attention to strategy. Wang Qinping said.

There are some things that can't be said too clearly, and sometimes it's not good to be clear, especially today's topic, so it's best to stop here. As the saying goes, the wall has ears, talking on the road, there are people in the grass nest, there is no impermeable wall in the world, if it really reaches the ears of individual people, the speaker has no intention, and the listener has intention, it will be seized by people with ulterior motives, whether it is for the person who says it or the person who hears about it. On the surface, everyone is of one heart and one mind, peaceful and peaceful, but in their hearts, they may have their own calculations. Stakeholders may also work together in harmony with each other, or they may think about their own concerns. The so-called heart of harming people is indispensable, the heart of defending people is indispensable, the open gun is easy to dodge, the hidden arrow is difficult to prevent, others will not tell you in advance, some people do not hesitate to set a trap to fight other competitors in order to be promoted. In order to survive, some people do not hesitate to betray their friends at the stakes, and some people are desperate and jump over the wall in a hurry. Consolidate the city, that is, let people not figure out your details, the actual way is not to casually reveal the weaknesses of your personality, not to show your ** and intentions, not to show your edge, not to offend people, not to be too honest. Others can't figure out the details of you, so they naturally won't use you and frame you casually, because you don't give them a chance. When the two armies fight against each other, the reality is exposed, and the other side will be given an opportunity to take advantage of it, and the same is true for guarding against people.

In the new management concept, everything must be done in person, which is not in line with the trend of the times, and the normal implementation of the work should be let go as much as possible to let the subordinates do and carry out, and set a tolerable space for mistakes, as long as it does not affect the overall situation and cause heavy losses. Let your subordinates accumulate experience from their mistakes, and the losses caused by mistakes will be used as tuition fees for cultivating talents.

Everything must bow to the subordinates to produce a bad habit of dependence, everything wants to wait for the leader to solve it in person, the leader himself must bow to everything, the subordinates want you to take care of everything, you don't want to do it, the leader must bow down to the family will make some subordinates disgusted. For example, if there is a conflict between subordinates, which could have been resolved by themselves, and the leader thinks that he should intervene, he or she may make an unfair judgment without understanding, causing the subordinates who have been treated unfairly to feel resentful and less motivated to work.

"You're saying something completely different from what I thought. Yuan Weihua said.

"You have just taken office, and you don't have much experience, so it's naturally different from what I thought, in fact, being an official is the easiest thing, especially a sesame official like us, if you want to have a quality or not, you have no level, as long as you obey the leadership consciousness and grasp the overall situation, it is very easy to be an officer. Wang Qinping said with a smile.

"To be honest, I didn't want to do it after a day yesterday. Yuan Weihua said.

"Don't think like that, that's a big mistake, the leader will definitely be dissatisfied with you, thinking that you have an opinion about him, and if you become a person, you have to do it. There is a good saying, being an official is better than being a soldier, you are old, you know the past production captain, when you go to work, the feet of the members are all mud all day long, and the captain has no mud, which means that the work of the official is not to work, and it is all commanded by the mouth. Wang Qinping joked.

"That's what you're saying. Yuan Weihua said.

"What kind of work will Wang Xing do in the future, he is young, he has not been working for a long time, he is very insufficient in all aspects, he needs to exercise well, and it is good for him to do more work, what can he do if he is young, give him more pressure, which is good for future development. Wang Qinping said.

"Uncle Yuan, if there is any work for me to do in the future, you will command it on the side. Wang Xing said.

Yuan Weihua nodded, through the past two days of work, he felt that Wang Xing was a good boy, he heard that he was very satisfied, he was a hundred times stronger than Xia Meili. (To be continued......)