Chapter 392: The Toad Wants to Eat Swan Meat
Wu Qiong returned home full of joy, seeing that her father had not come home yet, she learned that her friend's child was going to get married, and she went to help at night, and she didn't know how long it would take to come back. So I told my mother about Xu Feng, and today I had a special interview, and the bank decided to hire him, and he could go to work after the approval from above. And said his own thoughts, the person he loves is him, and he wants to make friends with him, it turns out that his father does not agree, because he thinks he has no job, which is understandable. Now that he has been hired by the bank, the two of them work together, and it should be agreed that they will continue to develop. The mother knows her daughter's thoughts, and it is still on Xu Feng's body, it seems that her daughter is iron-hearted, and she really wants to live with Xu Feng for the rest of her life, she has no opinion, respects her daughter's choice, and the two will be very happy in love and live freely, but his wife has prejudices against him, and it is difficult to turn the corner in his heart, and this level is not very easy.
"Wu Qiong, Xu Feng is good, I have no opinion, I support your continued development, but I don't know your father's opinion. Zhang Guiyu said.
"That's because he doesn't have a job, but now that he has a job, he should agree. Wu Qiong said.
"When I come back, I will tell him, you should also take the initiative, after all, it is your father, your dearest person, you can't have a good face every day, then his heart is uncomfortable. Zhang Guiyu said.
"When my dad came back, I talked to him and apologized to him, it was all my fault before. Wu Qiong nodded and said.
Thinking of having an awkward relationship with his father these days, ignoring him when they meet, he has really done too much, and he is a little sorry for his father, Xu Feng now has a job, and his status has naturally improved a lot, so he should agree with them to continue to communicate. Wait for Dad to come back and take the initiative to talk to him. Zhang Guiyu was very happy in his heart. The contradiction between the two can finally be resolved. Xu Feng now has a job and works in the same unit as his daughter, which is a good thing. Although I used to have some opinions about him, as the saying goes, no one is perfect, there is no perfect thing in the world, and people are the same. Everyone has certain shortcomings and shortcomings, and they will forgive him for the sake of their daughter's affection. As long as he is genuinely good to his daughter, he can accept him.
"It's better that you talk to him much better than I do, and I'll talk to you then. Zhang Guiyu said.
"Thank you, Mom. Wu Qiong said. It's still that her mother understands her and knows her thoughts, and if she doesn't agree again, there's really no way to do it.
"As long as you two live happily, my heart will be happy. Zhang Guiyu said.
"He is kind-hearted and has a certain sense of justice. It can be seen that he is a responsible man. Wu Qiong said.
At ten o'clock, Wu Feitong came back. When Wu Qiong saw her father, she took the initiative to call: "Dad." ”
Wu Feitong heard his daughter call him, he was very happy, his daughter finally talked to him, so he asked his daughter about her work, in fact, he was very worried about his daughter, but his daughter was reluctant to talk to him, and he was embarrassed to ask because of his face, so he had to know his daughter's situation from his wife. Listening to his daughter's story, Wu Feitong was even happier in his heart, his daughter now has a job, and she is working in a bank, what a good work unit, people are very envious when they know it, praising him for having a good daughter, and he has something to rely on in this life.
"Dad, Xu Feng is a heroic act of righteousness and bravery, and the bank leaders attach great importance to it, and decide to hire him exceptionally. Wu Qiong said.
Hearing his daughter mention Xu Feng, Wu Feitong was suddenly unhappy, it seemed that his daughter was still thinking about him in her heart, he thought for a while, and told his daughter that although Xu Feng had a job, his family conditions were too poor, and his parents were both laid-off workers, so he didn't have much source of income, and his marriage life could not be good. He went to Uncle Hao's house today to help, his son got married with a car and a house, and gave a lot of money, which people are very envious. Now that I go to work in a bank, my identity is very different from before, and I should consider it more carefully in marriage, although I don't want to find a rich man, I should also find a similar one. Although Xu Feng went to work in the bank, when will he be able to buy a house with this salary, maybe he won't be able to buy it in this life, he is not too old now, and he is not too ugly, this is capital, he must find a better condition, so that he will live comfortably, and he does not have to worry about his future life.
Wu Qiong listened to her father's tone, and still disagreed with her and Xu Feng's exchanges, how can she think like this, who doesn't rely on their own struggle to buy a house, how many young people who have just married have a house and a car, it can be said that they are a few, their lives are still very sweet, and a happy life is not measured by money, houses, and cars, but by the relationship between the two, and the marriage in exchange for money has no certain emotional foundation, and life is not very happy.
"Dad, I think as long as the person is good, nothing else can be mentioned, a good life is bought with the labor of both hands, as long as we truly love each other, the future will be better. Wu Qiong said.
"Child, that's not what you say, you think too simply, often the first love will think of a qiē is very beautiful, and sketch a wonderful life blueprint, but that qiē is a fantasy. Real life is definitely not like this, although money is not omnipotent, but no money can never be, this is the eternal truth, the so-called love is just a myth, it is a fictional thing made up by the authors, deceiving those boys and girls who fall in love, you must not take it seriously. Wu Feitong said.
There are two kinds of people who often talk about love, one is a young boy and girl who is not deeply involved in the world, and the other is a crazy poet, these are two extremes. Boys and girls say love, because of naïve romance, when they struggle out of recklessness in love, they will suddenly find out that in fact, love is the ignorance of teenagers and the temptation of sex, just a fantasy, such a discovery makes them completely disappointed, they will be enlightened, obediently into the castle called marriage. Like ordinary people, he has children and runs a family, and sees the younger generation drunk on the so-called love with the vicissitudes of the past. Poets say that love is because of the world, and most of the poets have been weathered, and most of them don't believe in love. But they also write, they deceive themselves and the world. They want to be rapids, barren forests, and so on, but they want their lover to be a docile little fish, a beautiful little bird. In fact, poets know that they are not those things, nor are their lovers, they are human beings, and they can never be those things. When they are inhuman, the love in the pen is holy and beautiful, which makes people linger and admire, and when they are human, the love in life is mundane and plain. Firewood, rice, oil, salt and vinegar in real life, without a certain material and economic foundation, it is impossible for married life to continue.
"Dad, I don't accept your concept, a marriage without love will not be happy, especially a marriage based on money, and it may suddenly collapse one day. Wu Qiong said.
"In a loveless marriage, you may feel dissatisfied and disappointed at the beginning because you don't love each other, but the relationship is slowly cultivated over time. Wu Feitong said.
Marriage contains too many feelings, there is love and family affection is more responsible, in the current marriage is more not love but responsibility, as long as both parties have the same good impression of each other, and are responsible, then they will be happy. In this way, two people will move in the same direction, in marriage, they will be humble to each other and work hard for each other's sake, not afraid of no happiness, no responsibility even if there is love, love will always become responsibility, and people without responsibility will leave when love loses its freshness.
"I think Xu Feng is good, and now he has been hired by the bank, what's wrong with the two being together, no matter how rich they are, they can't compare to the relationship between the two. Zhang Guiyu said.
"What do you know, people are very realistic now, there is no money to rely on to support their families, even eating and drinking are a problem for the little salary they earn, how to live in the future, whose daughter does not find a decent in-law, he also feels the scenery, in the situation of his family, there will be a lot of burdens in life, we are getting older day by day, it is impossible to accompany her for a lifetime, and she is the one who suffers in the end. She's ignorant when she's young, don't you understand either? Wu Feitong said.
"Aren't we the same, after so many years of ups and downs, aren't we also very happy. Zhang Guiyu said.
"What era was that, it's different now, if you have money, you are an uncle, if you don't have money, you are a grandson, we have no hope in this life, but our children can't do this, we must let them live better. Wu Feitong said.
"I'm not afraid of a hard life, as long as the two of us really love each other, no matter how hard and tired we are, we will definitely live a happy life. Daddy, please trust us, we will never let you down. Wu Qiong said.
"No, I will never agree to your relationship, so quickly cut off relations with him. Wu Feitong said.
"If you don't agree, it's my freedom, and no one can interfere with it. Wu Qiong said angrily.
"You dare. Wu Feitong was also angry.
In addition, after drinking some wine in the evening, he was a little excited, and Wu Qiong brought up Xu Feng's matter to him, and he was even more unhappy. used to be very disgusted with Xu Feng, thinking that he was an irresponsible man, otherwise he would not have done such a thing, and his daughter would not have a sense of security following him. My daughter brought it up today because she was provoked by Xu Feng, and she thought it was very beautiful, thinking that she also had a job, and she would be on an equal footing with her daughter, and she was qualified to talk about marriage with him. Let the daughter talk to herself about it, thinking that he will agree, think about it, is this possible, it is really a toad who wants to eat swan meat, and his daughter just can't get married, and she won't marry such an irresponsible man, otherwise it will be his shame. (To be continued......)