In the real society, if a person pays too much attention to principles, he will inevitably hit the nail, be tolerated by the people around him, and even hate, and feel that it is difficult to deal with the world. Whether people are a person or in the world, they should not be too serious, do not let the rare confusion break through our own moral bottom line, open one eye to everything, close one eye, and not be too shrewd, which is the best plan for people to deal with the world. The philosophy of life with one eye open and one eye closed is the truth that has been experienced and summed up by predecessors. When you open one eye and close one eye, it means that you have to learn to give up, so that it seems that confusion is no longer stupid, but a kind of open-mindedness, a kind of chic that takes a step back and broadens the sky.

Dealing with the world, foolish in small things, shrewd in big things. You can't take the little things too seriously, just open one eye and close one eye. But it's not that you can go with the flow and not pay attention to principles, but don't be too concerned about small things that have nothing to do with the overall situation. In this rapidly changing world, we must accept the ugliness and beauty of the world with an open mind, and we also need to look at everyone with a broad mind, do not expose their secrets, and keep a self-esteem for them and a kindness for ourselves. It's better not to be too smart, smart people will make the other party more attentive in the eyes of others, and they will always be in the perspective of being observed. Sometimes it's better for us to pretend to be a little confused, so that we can see more clearly, understand better, and it is easier to cherish the existing time, and grasp the present moment is the most important, because life is made up of each moment.

There is a kind of wine called Little Fool Fairy, and the name of the wine can be described as rich in philosophy and auspicious. And the little foolish fairy is to ask people to learn to forbear, humble, and understand small things and big things, so that they can enter the fairyland of life with many good fortunes and auspicious things. There are so many things in life that contain this meaning. Just find out with your heart. Feel it with your heart. You will understand the truth. And the confusion of small things is by no means to make everyone confused and confused everywhere. If you are indiscriminate and principled in the face of major rights and wrongs, you will really become a fool. In short, in life, the big things are clear and the little things are confused, and you can keep your mind calm and happy.

Both in life and at work. You might as well be confused about small things and understand big things, so that you will not delay big things, but also show a broad mind, and showing your foolishness and wisdom is also a perfect plan to protect yourself. Since there is no absolute fairness in the world and the universe, then life should not be overtaken and demanding absolutes because of trivial matters. Calculations often complicate and contradict things, and even make them struggle, and most of the unpleasant things are born from calculations. Grasping the big aspects of everything, and the small aspects are good and big, this should become the basic principle of dealing with people.

Whether it's life or work. You can't take it too seriously. Do you always like to divide things clearly at work, and whose job is it? Whose job is that, I always help others do things, and I always feel that I have suffered a loss. In fact, some things are just a gesture, do more yourself, others will be grateful, the most important thing is not to care about everything, otherwise interpersonal relationships will only get worse and worse, in fact, everything is like this.

"But sometimes I feel very twisted in my heart, and I can't say it. Xu Feng said.

"A lot of things are not as they appear on the outside, when you encounter things, you can't figure it out, it's because you don't have enough wisdom and practice, and you should bear it. Perfection and imperfection lie in the state of mind. If you can think from different angles, take all aspects into account, and then treat them in different ways, then all of them will be complete, and I will tell you a little story. Qiu Weiqiang said.

One day, two angels, one old and one young, stayed one night in a wealthy house, and the family was very rude to them, and only let them sleep in a clammy and narrow basement, and when the two angels were about to go to bed, the old angel found a hole in the wall, and mended the hole, and the little angel asked him why, and he said: Many things are not as they seem. The next night the angels stayed in a poor house, where the couple was very kind and hospitable, and after sharing a small amount of food together, they let the angels sleep in their beds so that the two angels could have a good rest. Early the next morning, the angels found that the couple had tears in their eyes, it turned out that the cow they relied on for their livelihood had died, and the little angel was very angry and asked the old angel: How can you let this happen, the rich family before lacked nothing, but you helped them to mend the wall, although the couple was poor, but they shared everything with us, but you let the cow on which they depended for their livelihood die.

The old angel replied: "Many things are often not as they seem, and in the basement I noticed that there was gold hidden in the hole, and since they were so greedy and unwilling to share it with others, I sealed the wall so that they would not find it, and yesterday when we were sleeping, the Grim Reaper came to take the life of the peasant woman, and I let the cow take her place.

"It's just an allusion, to put it bluntly, it's funny, and you still have to go on your own. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"Many times things do not happen as expected, more often we really feel that God is against me everywhere, but if you have faith, you just have to believe that anything that doesn't go your way, no matter what the result is, is always good for you, maybe you will always understand this truth after a long time. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"You can be regarded as refining the oil residue on the pot, and you know so many life philosophies. Xu Feng said.

In fact, life is like wearing shoes, the best shoes are the best shoes, and the best life is the most suitable life for you. How big are the feet and how big are the shoes, the shoes are big and don't follow the feet, the shoes are small to clip the feet, don't envy others for wearing big shoes, that is the big feet of others, and the best is suitable. Going with the flow is the most admired philosophy of Taoism. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"Incisive, it's a wise saying. Xu Feng said.

"What kind of feet to wear what kind of shoes, what kind of environment to wear what kind of shoes, to wear the right feet, at the right time, to be comfortable. You can't wear leather shoes in the mud, and you can't wear slippers on important occasions. If you want to wear it the other way, it's not a personality, it's out of place. Qiu Weiqiang said.

How much luck enjoys how much blessing, luck ten liters, blessings one bucket. More is not much, less is not much. Whoever is it, sooner or later, it's not yours, even if you have done it, it's not yours after all. If you are a simple, worry-free blessing, but you make you rich overnight, you may have been unhappy with this food, unable to sleep at night, and even a cup bow and snake shadow, plants and trees are soldiers, and it is strange not to exhaust the blessings. How much ability to do big things, how much water and how much mud, and how much to do small things, this is called driving ducks to the shelves, it will be difficult for yourself. If you have the ability of a three-plate axe like Cheng Biting Jin, you should not hold it hard when it comes to the fourth plate axe. Don't force yourself to carry a thousand burdens on your shoulders, because those who have the strength to carry them will carry them. Don't expect to be fat in one bite, even if you add strong nutrients to food, you can't eat it, don't envy the brilliance of others, others can create zào brilliance because others have the energy to shine.

"Life is really difficult, when I didn't graduate, I didn't feel these things, I always felt that it was still far away, but after graduation, I entered the society and had a sense of crisis. Xu Feng said.

"Find the direction of your life, don't care about the position, keep going on will have no regrets, when the opportunity comes first, you must go all out, it may be the happiness of your life, encounter the potholes and bypass, meet the bumps and jump over, the flat road will go directly to the past, don't think too much, go with the flow, and have the confidence to go to the best. Qiu Weiqiang said.

No matter what you do, you have to face the reality of life, escape is not necessarily hidden, face is not necessarily the most uncomfortable, loneliness is not necessarily unhappy, gain may not be long, loss may not be no more, turning around is not necessarily the weakest, don't rush to say that there is no choice, don't think that the world is only right and wrong, there is more than one answer to many things, so there is a way to go, you can find a reason to be sad, you can also find a reason to be happy, people who know how to relax find ease, people who know how to forget find freedom, people who know how to care find friends, cold weather is not cold and cold is cold, love in the heart will not be lonely。 Life is short, and all the moments are fleeting. Life is an accident, death is an inevitability. Why bother to ask for some unnecessary people, things, feelings, and hearts, how do you get it, what do you get, what do you can't get? The process of living is life. Don't ask yourself to take every step is right, only ask yourself to take every step without regrets, life is enough. When you are alive, you must find the value of your own existence, so that you can live a little fuller. To live, you must have your own goals and dreams, and paint a few colors on your life. If you can't find the value of your own savings, think about how you can give an explanation to yourself, to your parents, friends, and the person you love the most. Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset, giggle, and draw a perfect end to your life.

The meaning of life is to find the meaning of life, treat everything in life with a normal heart, you will have a very happy life, work hard to pursue what you like, don't let yourself go, don't let yourself regret it, laugh at life, and live in vain. (To be continued.) )