"Xiaohe, what about you, do you think the same as our tonics?" asked Tang's mother. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

He Ning nodded: "Yes, there is no conflict between my thoughts and that of Tonic in this regard. ”

"Then what are your future work plans?" After listening to He Ning's answer, Mother Tang did not continue to ask the two of them about their relationship, but suddenly changed direction.

He Ning was also a little confused, she knew that Mother Tang must have something to say, and she also knew that she was actually paving the way for her central idea by asking so much, but she didn't ask about her personality, her character, or even her parents, but she asked what her work plan was, which made She Ning a little confused.

If I don't understand, I don't understand, she can't avoid the questions that should be answered, not to mention that there is nothing worth avoiding this kind of question, so she smiled and said frankly: "I was originally an internal officer, and then I started to do the front line after being transferred to City A, I found that I actually enjoy the value generated by being a front-line criminal police officer in my work, so I plan to continue to work hard in the future, after all, my qualifications are still relatively shallow, and my experience is not rich enough, and I still have a long way to go if I want to become an excellent criminal policeman." ”

"But...... Have you ever thought about a question, I know, you are a little younger than our family Tonic Li, and you may not be so anxious to enter the threshold of marriage," Mother Tang frowned slightly, it was obvious that He Ning's answer was not particularly satisfactory to her, and it was not unexpected at all," But Tonic is not young anymore, my father and I still hope that he can stabilize as soon as possible, you and he are colleagues, what kind of working environment he is must know better than us, so for me and his father, we all hope that he can have a stable rear, no matter how hard he works at work, after returning home can have a comfortable and warm environment, so that he can relax, there is a person who knows the cold and the hot, and can care for him by his side. So what I mean with your uncle is that if you have such psychological preparation, then we also respect the relationship between the two of you, but if your mind is mainly on work and career, then we hope that you can be good colleagues and good friends, and don't continue to develop and waste each other's feelings and time. The two of us are from the past, and we have more experience in the comprehensive consideration between feelings and reality than you all. ”

He Ning didn't speak, because it didn't seem right for her to say anything at this time, if she said that she would give up her career for the sake of her relationship with Tang Li, it was against her subjective will, and she couldn't do it. If you say that you have to live according to your ambitions and will not give up on Tonic is tantamount to openly arguing with Tonic parents, then it seems that it is even more difficult to communicate with each other.

"Of course, I don't mean that you have to quit your job and get married and go home to do laundry, cook and take care of your husband," Mother Tang saw that He Ning's face changed a little, and hurriedly explained her own point of view, "I just think that in a family, two people can't be too ambitious, and two people can't work so irregularly, there must always be one person who retreats to the rear, right? Otherwise, how will you live this day? Wouldn't it be a family." I can also understand that the two of you must have a certain relationship now, so if you really love tonics, then you should be willing to make some concessions for him, right? I think you can consider changing to a more stable job while you are young, such as going to other public [HX] clerk positions or anything else, as long as you don't become a police officer, there will be no problems. When my son is a police officer, we are already worried about the nature of his work, and we don't want him to find a colleague. Xiaohe, you are also a child, I believe you must understand the intention of your aunt to say this, and I think it should be a good thing for your parents to change jobs, after all, they only have one daughter, right? ”

He Ning understood in his heart when he heard this, so he smiled at Mother Tang, and didn't pay attention to the conditions put forward by Mother Tang, but asked her: "Auntie, let's not talk about those things first, can I ask first, I have never met you and my uncle before, this is the first time we have met, but about my work situation, I think you should have understood it before you met me, right?"

Mother Tang's eyes flickered, and her gaze shifted from He Ning's face to the floor in front of her.

Seeing that Tang's mother didn't speak, he nodded and replied: "Yes, we listened to an old neighbor about your work, after all, it's a big deal that our son has found a girlfriend, we as parents can't ignore it, and if others have more pertinent suggestions, we still have to take them seriously and adopt them carefully." ”

Mother Tang gave him a look on the side, but it was a pity that although the couple had been married for a long time, they were usually busy with each other, and they didn't spend much time and energy cultivating a tacit understanding together, so Dad Tang didn't notice the hints and signals that Mother Tang sent to him on the side, and after saying something, he was still very frank, and Mother Tang's face was slightly unnatural.

He Ning now completely understands, why Tonic Li's parents are so anxious to meet with him, to talk to him, it seems that this is someone who is unwilling because he is out, and wants to play a centipede who dies but does not stiffen, it doesn't matter if he has no chance of winning, the most important thing is that He Ning's so-called victory must also be won unhappily.

Tang Li obviously understood, originally he still wondered why his parents were so urgent, but now the premonition that he faintly felt that he was not very solid in his heart finally came to fruition, his state was not as tense as it was at the beginning, and he seemed to relax a lot, after silently listening to these words of his parents, he quietly signaled and asked He Ning to stop talking, looked at his parents again, and asked Mother Tang: " Mom, as a person who has come over, are you really more experienced than all of us in terms of the comprehensive consideration between feelings and reality? Or can I put it another way, as a person who has come over, is your experience with your father a successful experience?"

Tang's mother was a little stiff by her son's words, she was silent for a few seconds, and sighed: "Tang Li, I know that you have always had a big opinion about the fact that your father and I have been busy with work and neglected you since I was a child, as a mother, I am indeed not competent enough to play this role, as you said, your father and I are experienced, but I'm afraid it's not a successful experience." It's because of this lesson of failure in the two of us, this lesson that neglects the family and neglects the children because both of us are so focused on their careers, that we don't want the same thing to happen to you again, don't we? What's more, our work is still just busy, and your work is still dangerous and irregular? Have you ever thought about this problem? Have you ever thought about the problem of no one taking care of your family in the future?"

"I didn't think about it before, but now that you've reminded me, I've thought about it, and I've thought of a solution. Tonic had a faint expression on his face, but his tone revealed an indescribable seriousness and firmness, "If you think that it will not work for both of you to focus on your career, and there must be someone who shifts the focus to the family, then there is nothing difficult to solve in this matter, I can change jobs, or resign." ”

As soon as he said this, not only Father Tang and Mother Tang were dumbfounded, but even He Ning on the side was stunned, she originally thought that Tang Li would tell her parents that the two of them could balance this kind of energy distribution between work and family, but she didn't expect Tang Li to say that he was willing to change jobs or resign, this is really too unconventional, even He Ning thinks that he has a tacit understanding with Tang Li, and now he is a little confused, and he doesn't know what kind of script Tang Li is.

"What nonsense are you talking about?!You work so well, why do you want to change jobs or quit?" Mama Tang came back to her senses first, and asked Tang Li with surprise.

Tonic Li's expression became more sincere and serious: "It's what you just said, someone must take care of the family." ”

"But that's what I told Xiao He!"

"Is there a difference? There is no law that stipulates that the person who chooses to take care of the family and return to the family must be a woman, and He Ning's current work performance is also very good, and she can afford to put it down, which shows that she can do her job, and I voluntarily retreated to the rear, isn't this what you just said, there is a stable rear, a warm family. ”

"Tonic don't mess around," Tang's mother listened to Tonic say this, a little panicked, her son has not let herself spend much effort and energy since he was a child, nor has he made trouble for himself to worry about himself, but another aspect of this peace of mind and independence is that she has never really touched her son's personality, and her son's independent personality has also made him a man of action who does not need the escort of his parents, others may just talk, but when it comes to Tonic here, if he really makes up his mind, maybe he will really do what he says, "Isn't it your ambition to be a policeman or a criminal policeman! At the beginning, your father and I disagreed, but you ignored it and insisted on taking the police academy to become a policeman.

"Being a policeman is also He Ning's ambition, don't you also want her to give up when she says to give up?" Tang Li said to Tang's mother with a calm face, "And the two of you only have one son like me, your only son should be more down-to-earth if he changes to a more comfortable, stable and not tiring job, shouldn't you?"

Tang's mother was a little unable to answer what Tonic said all of a sudden, these words were all what she just said about He Ning, and now they are being used by Tonic on his own body as they are, so that she has no way to refute it, because if that remark is treated equally to everyone, it is reasonable to say it, and if it can only be used to talk about others, not to his own son, it is selfishness that cannot be covered.

"Then since you are serious about this relationship, you must always think about some things in the future, right?" she thought about it, and finally found a seemingly convincing entry point, "There are some things that you can't say for Xiaohe, can you return to the family for her, do the rear security, can you give birth to the next generation for her?"

This reason is really a bombshell, and all of a sudden He Ning, who has not spoken again, is about to open the pot, only to feel the heat on his cheeks, and I don't know if his head will be steaming like in a cartoon. The first time I met my boyfriend's parents, I didn't even put the matter of when to run to the marriage hall, and the other party's parents directly jumped the topic to the topic of having children and reproducing the next generation, which is really ...... It's so exciting!

"I didn't plan to have children. "My personal upbringing has taught me a truth, if you can't guarantee to invest a lot of energy and effort in nurturing, then choosing not to give birth is the most responsible attitude for a life." I'm sure He Ning will also understand my choice, so this matter doesn't need to be brought to the table to worry about. ”

Originally, when I heard Tang Li say that he didn't plan to have children in the future, the faces of Tang's father and Tang's mother changed suddenly, but when they heard him mention his childhood life, the two of them didn't make a sound with complicated faces, but just sighed in unison, and then fell silent, and the atmosphere in the living room became a little embarrassing for a while.

After a while, Mother Tang looked at Father Tang, Father Tang nodded slightly to Mother Tang, Mother Tang was silent for a few seconds, and sighed softly: "Okay, since your attitude is already so clear, then your father and I will no longer say anything, nor will we interfere with anything, as long as this is a choice you make cautiously, we as old people, or choose to respect on the premise of retaining our own opinions." ”

After speaking, she looked at He Ning again and smiled at her: "Xiaohe, I hope you don't have any opinions about your uncle and aunt because of this matter, we don't have any opinion on you personally, it's just out of a little selfishness of parents for their children, you can understand more." ”

He Ning also smiled at Mother Tang and nodded: "Auntie, I can understand your intentions, if you don't mind, I hope you can also listen to how you look at the relationship between me and Tang Li from my point of view." ”