Chapter 29: Conflict

Xing Yanfang returned to the living room, the doorbell rang, and when she saw her sister Xing Yanfen coming to see her, she hurriedly let her go to the living room, afraid of affecting Yuan Yuan's review and closed the door, the two sisters chatted with interest, and the topic naturally mentioned Yuan Yuan, Xing Yanfang told her sister that her child was reviewing in order to take the civil service exam.

"How is Yuan Yuan talking about friends?" Xing Yanfen asked.

"It's not settled yet. "Xing Yanfang.

"The child is not young, lifelong events should be grasped, and it is difficult to find an in-law when he is older, and now it is difficult to find a good boy, and it is even more difficult to find a good job and good looks. Xing Yanfen said.

"It's useless just for you and me to be anxious, what can you do if she's not in a hurry. Xing Yanfang said.

"I think Li Jinghe in the court is in good condition, not only the family conditions are good, but he can also find a job for Yuan Yuan, but he can't find something with a lantern, don't miss such an opportunity, I think we should seize it." Xing Yanfen said.

"Is someone looking for you to talk about the matchmaker, and today I came to talk about it. Xing Yanfang said.

"It's still my sister who is smart, Li Jinghe's mother came to me today to talk about this matter and asked me to be a matchmaker. I think the conditions are good, the two of them can make friends first, get to know each other and increase their feelings. Xing Yanfen said with a smile.

"I told her that day that I didn't want to, I haven't mentioned it these days, and I see that I have to take a civil service exam, and it can't affect her feelings, so I'll talk to her after the exam. Xing Yanfen said.

"You have to make it clear to her, if not, I will persuade her well. Xing Yanfang said.

"It's better not to bother her these days, if you don't agree, it will affect your mood, and if you don't pass the test, you will blame us. Xing Yanfang said.

"Okay, but you have to think about doing her job well, what does the child know when she is still young, she just wants to chase what love ideals, romantic and naïve is not realistic, parents should think more for their children in the future, love can not be eaten, as the old saying goes, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, marrying the right person in this life has no worries about food and clothing, no need to work hard, parents also follow the worry. Xing Yanfen said.

"You help me understand the man's situation in detail, in short, the more the better, including his family, sometimes just looking at the surface is not enough, although the conditions are good, don't be a playboy, we don't ask for too much money, as long as the character is good, the child can't be wronged." Xing Yanfang said.

"No problem, I'm her aunt, I care about her more than you, I will never let her jump into the fire pit, and I will follow if I find a good person. Xing Yanfen said.

"The child is now the same as passing the test, if he can't be admitted to the civil service again this year, the New Year is even more slim, we are worried all day long, can't find a job, what to eat in the future, his father in order to find a job for the child, everywhere to ask for people without any news. Xing Yanfang sighed after speaking, with a helpless expression on her face, the child's matter really made them very troubled.

"Now there are too many children, and in such an era, the market competition is extremely cruel, and people with jobs don't know when they will be laid off, not to mention that children can find good jobs, and they can't do it without some special skills and relationships. Xing Yanfen said.

"Who said no, but how can there be such a social relationship, and finding a way is also through guò people to trust people, and the money for hospitality is not less spent, and it is not so fruitless. Xing Yanfang said.

"So I think making friends with Li Jinghe is a way out, you can find a suitable job, and you don't have to worry about your children in the future. Xing Yanfen said.

"Sometimes I think about it and I have contradictions in my heart, which is equivalent to exchanging with each other, using the child's life as a bargaining chip, and at the same time feeling inferior, after all, it is the man who finds a job, and I am afraid that my in-laws will look down on us in the future. Xing Yanfen said. The man's conditions are good, but there are some concerns and thoughts in his heart, people find a job for their children, they will feel inferior to others, they will be more careful when they talk and do things, and they have to be accommodating and obedient if they don't match their minds.