Qiu Weiqiang sent the notebook and helped plug it in. At this time, Yu Jinrong fetched water in, politely poured water for them, and then retreated to the side and waited for instructions.

"Thank you, Director Qiu, for taking the trouble for my business, and I am very grateful. Shan Baocai said.

"Don't thank me, thank Xu Feng well, if he didn't intercede for you, don't say that we don't agree, even the branch leaders won't let you go, you are bold, you dare to beat people. This is nothing serious, once a major incident occurs, you can't eat and walk around, this life is over, don't think about yourself, you should also think about your wife and children, you have a big incident, what should your family do, so old, and so impulsive, as the saying goes, impulse is the devil. Once you can't control yourself, you will pay a heavy price. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"What Director Qiu said is that impulsiveness is indeed the devil, and I have done impulsive things before, and I still regret it a little. Xu Feng said.

"Have you had such an experience?" Shan Baocai asked.

"It was when I was in college, and it was a very small thing. Xu Feng told what happened.

One day, after lunch, he walked around the corner. When someone sued him, classmate Wu Haiwen wanted to scare him and ask him to pay attention, because the two had conflicts before, and he couldn't help but believe it, so he waited outside for several minutes. It took about five minutes before he walked in, and sure enough, there was no one. At that time, he was very angry, although there were contradictions, he couldn't do this, he had the ability to come clearly, why bother using such means, it was obviously him, deliberately playing tricks on him. The anger suddenly surged up, and without thinking, he quickly ran into the classroom and punched Wu Haiwen, who was playing, Wu Haiwen was immediately annoyed, and punched him back. That's it, you punch, he punches, and the punch gets harder and heavier. Later, after the mediation of classmates. The smell of gunpowder finally dissipated, but I was still indignant.

Thinking about this incident afterwards, I felt that I was indeed too impulsive, and I shouldn't have beaten him without asking Wu Haiwen at that time, because of the impulsiveness, I might lose my precious friendship. The impulse of the moment may pass by success. The impulse of the moment may make for a little less love between people. A little more hatred, if it makes hatred more and more. Then it will be out of control. However, once people are impulsive, they will inevitably lose their minds, and small things will eventually become big things, and small troubles will always become big troubles. Therefore, people should be open-minded, downplay small things, be open-minded, and be tolerant of others. As a member of the real world, everyone is in a network of different relationships at different levels. If you don't handle it well, it will not only affect your mood, but more importantly, it will affect your work and study, and in the end the gains outweigh the losses, and it is too late to regret them. Therefore. Don't pay too much attention to small things, think about the problem from another angle, and accept it with an open-minded and optimistic mental attitude. As the saying goes, retreat three feet, the sea and the sky. As long as everyone is calm. If you don't pay attention to things that don't go your way, then there will be love between people, and there will be no place for hatred and hatred.

"In the Water Margin, Yang Zhi was so depressed in Tokyo that he had no money to spend, so he had to sell his ancestral sword. But it happened that he met the famous local Niu Er, who said that he wanted to buy a knife but didn't give money, so Yang Zhi didn't sell it to him. Niu Er insisted on grabbing, and Yang Zhi's blood surged during the scramble. On the spur of the moment, he killed Niu Er, and even laid the groundwork for his life, which is the evil result of impulse. Qiu Weiqiang said.

The things of life should be treated calmly, whether it is a loss or a loss. Human life is alive, along the way, there are many things that are unsatisfactory, you can sigh, you can complain, but don't linger. It's not a good thing to be obsessed, you can only make yourself feel bad, and add chaos to your life, and being obsessed with a small thing can only implicate others, just like the butterfly effect, which will have a lot of negative effects. If you want to live an easy life, don't be obsessed, others give you a face, you don't have to worry about it, smile indifferently, maybe the heart is in the breeze, and let these unhappiness drift away with the wind. Other people's gossip can be pretended not to be heard, good and bad are comments that live on one's own people, and can only be a reference for life. For people and things, try to keep yourself from caring and maintaining a tolerant attitude, maybe life will be much more fulfilling, and there is no need to waste time for those little things.

Therefore, no matter what situation you encounter, you must be calm, do not hate others, and do not fight for a moment's anger, gamble for a moment to win or lose, as the saying goes, endure a moment's anger, so as not to worry about a hundred days, so that the end can be beneficial, and patience will not hurt money. Qi is no open fire, and forbearance is the enemy calamity. Bear with a word, calm a anger, spare a moment, and take a step back. Able to endure and endure, patient and patient, impatient and impatient, small things to make big. Always remember that impulse is the devil and reason is the god. Xu Feng said.

"I'm just this temper, sometimes I can't control myself at all, but this time I finally understood it and regretted my actions. Shan Baocai said.

"Self-control is gradually honed in the small things of daily life, which are all tests of self-control. If you strengthen the exercise of self-control in small things, you can also show strong self-control when you encounter big things. Gorky said that even a little restraint on oneself can make a person stronger. Goethe also said that whoever plays with life will achieve nothing, will not be able to master himself, and will always be a slave. If you practice self-control and enhance self-control, you will have fewer gaffes and more cherishes on your life path. In this world, no one wants to become what you are, only yourself has to become what you are. Only by perfecting your personality cultivation, taking self-discipline as the premise, and grasping your self-control ability, will you be invincible. Xu Feng said.

"It's different to stay with you literate people, unlike those of us, who talk nonsense together all day long, turn their faces and scold their mothers when they are in a hurry, and even fight for a little thing, without any self-cultivation at all. Shan Baocai said.

"Self-cultivation makes people strict but not withdrawn, makes people lively and not dissolute, makes people steady but not dull, makes people enthusiastic but not frivolous, makes people calm but not silent, makes people kind and not blindly obeys. Xu Feng said.

Everyone is an engineer who shapes themselves. Self-cultivation is not bondage, but liberation. Opportunity works only in those who are prepared, and for ordinary people, opportunities come and go like thieves, and those who know how to avoid problems are better than those who know how to solve them. In this world, when you don't know what to do, choosing to go with the flow may be the best choice. The winner is often not the ability but the perception. Beliefs change thinking, thinking changes mentality, mentality changes action, action changes habits, habits change character, and character changes destiny. To change your fate, you must first establish your beliefs.

"A person's self-cultivation represents a person's maturity, a person's self-cultivation, not when the heart is calm, but when the heart is impetuous, a person's rationality, not when the wind is calm, but when the crowd is noisy, a person's compassion is not when he is condescending, but when he is soft-spoken. Qiu Weiqiang said.

In the face of fame and fortune, everyone can no longer hide themselves, and will reveal their truest side. What are the ideas. It will expose what kind of statement, what kind of ideological background color, and what kind of ideological understanding will be expressed. Without the test of fame and fortune, some people will wrap themselves up. Even camouflaged, so that people can only have that glamorous side and wonderful side. And the dirty side of his soul, the dark side and the dusty side, people are not easy to see, in front of fame and fortune, no one can disguise themselves, and everyone will be exposed in their true form.

Sometimes strengths make a person have no self-cultivation, and some people say that strengths are a prerequisite for a person to do things successfully. Sometimes, however, this advantage can lead to arrogance. So that the advantage of doing things can be turned into an accelerator of failure or rapid decay. Self-cultivation enables a person to have a broad mind, understand reason, understand things, and know how to advance and retreat. Self-cultivation is not a constraint, but allows people to release greater intelligence, learn more knowledge, and do greater careers.

"A lot of times, we don't fail on our own flaws, but on our strengths, because flaws can often remind us, and strengths often make us forgetful. Xu Feng said.

There is a way that a high IQ is not as good as a good emotional intelligence, and a person who can control his own emotions can calmly face difficulties and challenges, and turn unfavorable factors into favorable factors. Only then can we win, not be arrogant or discouraged, and only then can we know ourselves and our opponents and win all battles. Self-cultivation is not about being physically strong, but about being truly strong inside. In ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, all those who have achieved great things are all people with strong hearts. In other words, there are only people who are truly cultivated. In order to be calm, to have a peaceful attitude, to be not arrogant or impetuous, to be not arrogant or arrogant, and to be down-to-earth. Even if such a person does not achieve a career, he is still a moral person in the ordinary.

"People must have self-cultivation, and only those who have self-cultivation can be respected by others, so they are educated to seek knowledge and knowledge, all in order to let people have self-cultivation. A well-cultivated person speaks of reason, etiquette, respect, respect, and modesty. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"People should live truth, goodness and beauty, not hypocrisy, not pretentious, straightforward and simple, this is true, treat people with compassion, love people with compassion, this is goodness, communicate the heart and appearance, integrate human beings and nature, this is beauty,

To be a person with a taste of truth, goodness and beauty is endless. Xu Feng said. (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for the recommendation ticket, your support is my biggest motivation. )