Chapter 329: Go Your Own Way
Wei Dahai and Han Caifeng came to the Yuhua Road branch, the two are currently in love, this is still Li Yandang's matchmaker, the first time the two met very head, and then determined the relationship, because Wei Dahai often came to help, Han Caifeng and Xu Feng had worked together before, so they were not outside, and they came to help if they had nothing to do. Wei Dahai told Xu Feng that Yuan Yuan had been transferred to work in the district court, or to do the old business, doing financial work, in order to contact feelings, Li Jinghe invited all the staff of the court's finance department to a banquet last night, and President Zhu Kaipei was present, and at the same time called Zhou Jun to accompany him, and the scene was not small.
Hearing this, Xu Feng frowned, and had to admire Li Jinghe for having two times, in order to get Yuan Yuan, he tried his best to find a job for her, and he was transferred back so quickly, all thanks to his father, no one else would do it except him. In this way, Yuan Yuan will willingly marry Li Jinghe, and now the wood is complete, although he has an opinion on Li Jinghe and is worried about Yuan Yuan, it has become a fact, Yuan Yuan really loves Li Jinghe, no one can change his mind, the only hope is that Li Jinghe treats her sincerely and treats her as his beloved.
"Li Jinghe is okay with Yuan Yuan, and he arranged her so well, it can be seen that he is sincere to Yuan Yuan. Wei Dahai said.
"He's a weasel who doesn't have a good heart for the chicken, he caught Yuan Yuan and her mother's good vanity, please them, remember my words, he won't be really good to Yuan Yuan. Xu Feng said casually.
"You are worrying for nothing, he has nothing to do with you, the two have now received a marriage certificate, and a marriage relationship has been legally formed, and they are now preparing to handle the marriage. Why do you still have her in your heart. Wei Dahai said.
"Forget it. No more mention of her. Xu Feng said.
Tong guò these days of running-in. Yuan Yuan has been forgotten in her mind, since she likes Li Jinghe, that is her power, and as for the ending, it is also her own business. Maybe it will be like Wei Dahai said, Li Jinghe is sincere to Yuan Yuan, which is also what he hopes for the most, since there is no hope between them, only secretly wishing her happiness.
"How. Is there any news about the recruitment of workers in the comptoir? Wei Dahai changed the topic and asked.
"There is no news yet, if there is really news, the second sister will notify me. Xu Feng said.
"Don't do it without this, then you will review in vain and delay a lot of time. Wei Dahai said.
"I didn't have much hope, there was the best, it didn't matter if there was not, anyway, there was nothing to do at night, it was all a pastime. Xu Feng said with a smile.
"But I still hope that you can be admitted, and it is not a way to go on like this, what future can the self-employed have. Wei Dahai said.
"Why don't you look down on the self-employed. Your dad isn't also self-employed, you've worked with your dad before. After just a few days as a civil servant, he forgot his roots, and his children cannot be taught. Xu Feng said with a smile.
"I didn't mean that, who dares to look down on you, I just think it's a bit condescending, and it's a bit overkill to do this. Wei Dahai said.
"I think this is good, my brothers are very happy together every day, you are now a civil servant, my thoughts are different from nature, good is good, but I don't have that life, just go with the flow, maybe this is my destination, destined to work for a lifetime." Xu Feng said.
"Yuan Yuan has broken up with you for so long, and has established a marriage relationship with Li Jinghe, you should consider your lifelong events, it can't always go on like this, don't you want to fight singles. Wei Dahai said.
"That's for later, and I don't think that way yet. Xu Feng said.
"Don't always have a shadow in your heart, face the reality. Wei Dahai said.
"I know this, but marriage is about fate, and I haven't met the person I imagined in my heart. Xu Feng said.
"I think Wu Qiong is good, she seems to be a little interesting to you, and she often reviews her homework together, if you have an idea, Caifeng and I will match it for you. Wei Dahai said.
"I just think she's like a little sister, I don't feel that way. Xu Feng said.
"You have already said this, but I think the two of you are very suitable, they used to be classmates, and they know each other better, don't always worry about Yuan Yuan in your heart, everyone is about to get married, and you can't have any ideas. Wei Dahai said.
"Don't worry, I'm not the kind of person who can't think about it, I just think she's not suitable for me, this kind of thing can't be forced, there is a way to come naturally, and the god of love will suddenly come one day. Xu Feng said.
"It's okay to fight with me haha, I really don't know what you think in your heart?" Wei Dahai said.
"To be honest, I want to make a career. Xu Feng said.
"Career and marriage are not contradictory, the two can be taken into account and will not have any impact. Wei Dahai said.
"I've already thought about it, if I don't have a career, I won't think about marriage. Xu Feng said.
"I know what you think in your heart, this is a competition with Yuan Yuan, you want to surpass Li Jinghe, right, let her see what kind of person you are. But it's not easy to talk about, Li Jinghe has his father as a backer, and he can do whatever he wants, but we don't, we only rely on ourselves, and we only face reality, there is nothing wrong with listening to me, you can't drill the horns of the bull, and go all the way to the dark, otherwise you will hurt yourself. Wei Dahai said.
"I don't have anything to do with her, I just want to prove myself and prove my worth. Xu Feng said.
"Xu Feng, to tell you the truth, your original intention is good, but it is not as simple as you imagined, I just joined the work when I had a very high idea, but after these months of training, I have heard and witnessed many things, which are not at all what you and I imagined. If a person wants to make a career, it can be said that there are many difficulties, not only will he encounter setbacks, but also difficulties and hardships. It's better to let go of those so-called ideals and start your life in a down-to-earth manner. Wei Dahai said.
Life often makes people mistakenly think that it is providence to make people, lovebirds fly in but fly away ruthlessly, work hard in the end but are still empty, what you want to get has not been obtained, and what you want to keep is always lost lightly. Always complain that life has taken away their happiness, always complain about the suffering of the impermanence of the world, and always complain that life is too helpless. However, the more light you are about what you lose, the less worthy of sadness and attention you have, because what you lose is not your own.
The things you have lost, in fact, have never really belonged to you, and you don't have to regret it, be a chic person, don't be sad about the things you can't get, and don't work hard for those things that don't belong to you. Attachment to happiness that does not belong to oneself will not only lead to no results, but will only make those happiness that belong to oneself miss out as well. What life gives you must be accepted calmly and grasp it well, those that do not belong to you, you can't grasp it if you want to, you don't need to worry about yourself.
Jiaolong has not met, diving between fish and shrimp, the gentleman lost time, handed over to the villain, this is the helplessness of the unlucky, but thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, the frank one does not care about the gains and losses of the moment, and the calm one knows the true meaning of fate. Life is unsatisfactory ten of the **, can talk to people, 12 out of 10, the road of life will inevitably encounter bumps and thorns, there are a few wind and rain, a few cold and wet, and a few helpless and lonely. Many things in life are unpredictable, let alone forced, so it is inevitable to have all kinds of frustration, hesitation, confusion and helplessness.
However, it is just a test that life gives us, a trial on the road to a happier one, we might as well jump out and look at the problem from a different angle, so that we will not be depressed because of a moment of frustration, nor will we get carried away for fame and fortune and praise. There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it. Where fate is, you can naturally have gains. If there is no fate, then it proves that they should stay away from each other in the first place. Don't worry about what you missed in life, and be overly obsessed with trying to get back what doesn't belong to you in the first place, which will only add more meaningless pain.
"I have the courage to face difficulties to make a career, and I have to go my own way, and as for who else talks about it, it's their own business. Xu Feng said.
Difficulties can only frighten those who are weak in character, and for those who are truly strong, it is difficult for any difficulty to compel him to comply. On the contrary, the more difficulties and the stronger the opponent, the more they feel that the struggle tastes. Hegel said that the greatness and strength of personality can only be measured by the greatness and strength of contradictions. Under normal circumstances, some people are not afraid of difficulties, but if they encounter too many difficulties and feel that their opponents are too strong, they are often intimidated. In fact, under the limitations of nature and social history, the master of life is the person himself, whether it is the stumbling person, the disabled, the lovelorn, or the unsuccessful, as long as the self-improvement continues, you can dig out the sweet spring of life. How many people simply can't get over the difficult hurdle, because they can't pass their own hurdle in the first place. They are afraid of themselves, afraid of illness, afraid of death, afraid of public opinion, afraid of hardship, afraid of tiredness, afraid of losses, plus laziness, impatience, procrastination, prevarication and other internal weaknesses and external difficulties echo each other, internal and external attacks, perseverance can not have a reason, if you want to pass the difficult pass, you must first pass your own pass.
Adjust your mentality, show your courage, not afraid of the sky, not afraid of the earth, no matter what difficulties, come on, let's compete, with this kind of courage that is not afraid of difficulties, there is the spiritual strength to conquer difficulties. Hope is always one more time than disappointment, and those who are rarely disappointed must be rarely truly happy. Sometimes disappointment is like a cactus, it just wants to tell you to survive more tenaciously in the desert. We have to believe in the future, because there is no end to the journey of life, it is just a turn.
"Pure and pure is an idealist, but the reality is beyond your imagination, and no one can escape this strange circle. Wei Dahai said.
"If you don't have a will, there is nothing you can do in the world, and those who have a will will do it. Xu Feng said. (To be continued......)