Chapter 478

"I was very touched by your words, and I regained a new understanding of myself and treated my life correctly. ," Bao Yongliang said.

"Life is like a bouquet of flowers, only by looking closely can you discover its beauty." Li Moran said.

Life is a process, although the result of things is important, the process of doing things is more important, because we will be happier when the result is good, but the process makes our life full. By the eye, the world is very small. With the heart, the world is very big. Some people and some things can only be understood more truly if they are tasted with their hearts. If you always cover the depths of your soul with your hands, then the dirt will never be washed away. The meaning of human life should be in the process, not the conclusion. Therefore, one should not influence another person with his own experience and opinions, let alone that he is not you, and you are not him. The process of everyone's growth is different, and the ups and downs of life should be tasted by themselves, and trying is life. Learn from the best of others and be the best version of yourself.

The most persistent thing hurts me the most, and when my heart is calm, I will be calm. If the heart is correct, it will be smooth sailing. When the heart is let go, joy and happiness follow. If we are not attached to happiness, happiness will come naturally. If we don't run away from pain, it will naturally stay away. Letting go is not giving up, being relaxed is not slacking, being comfortable is not letting go, being casual is not casual, and not being attached is not not being serious.

People are often like this, they don't work hard, but their eyes are fixed on others, mistakenly believing that they have been in the forefront of the times, and there are people who surpass themselves and are obsessed. Sullen. If you try to run. The effect is different. There are many people in the back who are chasing themselves, and there are many people in front who are being chased by themselves and are out of breath, so you are suddenly open-minded, and the wind is under your feet, which is full of fun.

Smart people must learn to be kind to themselves, there will always be so many failures, frustrations, pain and torture in life. Don't lock your mind at this time. Don't let your heart be clouded, don't leave behind the good things in life, open your heart. When misfortune befalls you. Learn to love yourself and say to yourself: this qiē will pass, and you must cherish every inch of your life.

The reason why people are prone to wrestling is because they lose their balance. The truth is simple but easy to ignore, and when the mind is out of balance, it will think crookedly. The body loses its balance and is bound to tilt. Doing things out of balance is inevitably incomplete. Being a man loses his balance and is prone to forks in the road. Balance is not level, but a balance of power. Just want to get. will lose more. Reject the pain, and the pain will only get worse. Fear of failure. Success will not come.

Life is like a car, long or short. Life is like a play, happy or sad. Many things have passed, and they are destined to become stories. When many people leave, they are destined to become old friends. The old people in life, the stories accumulated, these are all experiences. People are slowly maturing in experience, and some things break into life, happy and painful, and time will eventually fade them. After more experience, the heart will be stronger, and the road will be steady.

Don't miss what you should get, don't lose what you should lose, and give it up freely. Caring too much will halve the fun of life, and you will be relieved as soon as you get it. Attachment is actually a burden, even a kind of suffering, too much thinking becomes a kind of bond, and losing too much time becomes a kind of pain. Giving up is not to give up the pursuit, but to let us face life with an open-minded heart.

Everyone has a beautiful experience in the past, cherish it, but don't compare it with the present, it can't compare with maturity, happiness, or time. Everyone has a magnifying glass in their hearts, and it is up to us to decide whether to aim it at something negative or something that is extremely accumulated. Most of the time we target it at the negative category, so we don't succeed, so we don't be happy.

We are losing all the time, losing time, losing lives, losing wealth, losing opportunities. We try our best to have more wonderful, but unfortunately we only have two hands, so we must learn to choose and learn to give up. To be clear about what we don't need, if the heart is too big and wants to grasp everything, you may not be able to grasp anything in the end. Only by learning to give up can we hold better.

Life is like a long river, it is impossible to flow through the same place twice at the same time, and the long river is wrapped in countless grains of sand, which are actually your passers-by. You are my passerby, I am also your passerby, but some passers-by are so casual, unintentionally appearing and then disappearing unintentionally, some passers-by are so hard-boiled, although they disappear from life but always remain in the bottom of our hearts, there are countless passers-by in our lives who come and go, go and come, they either bring us wonderful, or bring us pain, or give us laughter, or give us bitterness, thank you for every passer-by in life, it is because of their appearance that our life is richer.

No one can measure how long the fate is, and how long the passerby will accompany him, you and I will not have the answer in our hearts. Some can accompany you for a lifetime, some can only accompany you for a while, some can only accompany you for a cup of tea, some can only sleep with you for one night, come in a hurry, leave in a hurry, some have passed without a trace, and some have left a deep pain in the bottom of their hearts.

Everyone is a passing guest in each other's lives, but there is a difference in the length of time they spend in the living room of the soul. Many people say: I lack a confidant in my life, I just want to find someone who understands me, in fact, the friends around you can become people who understand you, but you are not willing to open your heart and let others walk in. People are actually creating an image, whether the image is positive or negative, they are playing a role, and such a role is what you expect. People sometimes say that they are tired, but in fact, the root of tiredness is that you have too many masks, and people are unwilling to let go of these hypocritical and real masks to face the people in their lives. People sometimes feel that their lives are always unsatisfactory, but what is really the wish? As the saying goes: life is unsatisfactory, ten out of ten **. How many ancestors have talked about it, why do we still add troubles to ourselves?

In fact, as long as people live a little more truthfully, there will still be a lot of friends around them, don't make yourself like a saint at every turn, like a character, who is not the best in your own industry and family. No one is worse than the other, as soon as you put down that mask and step out of the shackles of your soul, you will find that you feel as if you are back in childhood.

People are too good at face, too strong in comparison, and fighting for face in the end will only make you a joke for everyone, a way of embodiment of immaturity, and an example for everyone to take as a warning. Face is actually given to you by everyone, everyone doesn't agree with you, you have nothing. Don't talk about face, there is also the possibility of being cleared out of the existing circle of friends. Don't worry too much about everything, and if you can get by, it's over. People are in such a hurry for decades in this life, and the time that belongs to our own life is just a few years. Friends and confidants should all be in their own time.

At this time, Li Moran's mobile phone rang, and after connecting it, he was going to hold an executive meeting, saying: "Lao Bao, it's very speculative to talk today, let's have a chance to talk again." I hope you can change your thinking and concepts in time and really cheer up. ”

"I've been talking to you for so long, I'm very happy, and I will definitely face up to my problems and work hard to do a good job." Bao Yongliang said.

"Send back water, accumulate mud, after one thing, grow a wisdom, and learn a lesson will have greater development." Li Moran said.

After Li Moran left, Bao Yongliang recalled what he said, which touched him a lot and made him feel a little small. I thought about a lot of things that happened around me before, and I always thought that I was the director and had the idea that I was superior, and none of you were as good as me, and now that I think about it, how naïve I was. Compared with the others, I feel a lot different, without their unpretentious thoughts. They didn't make big statements, but they did their work conscientiously and hard. Li Moran is the chairman of the board of supervisors, there is no one who is a leader, and he is so approachable and amiable, he knows the psychology of every employee well, knows that he has feelings in his heart, and his thoughts can't turn around for a while, so he deliberately talked to him.

In the afternoon, Shen Jing rushed back, and Bao Yongliang took the initiative to find him, admitted his mistake to him, and explained the reason for the incident. This matter was asked by Li Jinghe to do this, Shen Jingchong listened and nodded, they already had something inside. It's just that the specific details are not very clear, in order to take care of his feelings, he didn't say it, and now the employees have some discussions, afraid that he will be unbearable, so they discussed it with Li Moran and decided to let him stay at home for the next few days, so that he can calm down and reflect on it.

"In the morning, the chairman of the board of supervisors talked to me a lot, which made me understand the truth of being a human being, and I was really guilty when I thought about my past." Bao Yongliang said.

"Lao Bao, you can really realize your mistakes, we are all very happy in our hearts, I hope you put down your burden and move forward lightly, don't have any worries in your heart, none of us will look down on you." Shen Jingchong said.

"Thank you for your trust in me, and I will work hard in the future." Bao Yongliang said.

"Try to deal with Li Jinghe and the others as little as possible, they will only use you, it is impossible to treat you as a real friend, and you will be unlucky in the end." Shen Jingchong said.

"I know this, and I will draw a line with them in the future." Bao Yongliang said. (To be continued......)