After a few days of treatment, Li Jinghe recovered from his injuries and was discharged from the hospital. √∟, Yuan Weihua and his wife came to visit the house, knowing that Li Jinghe was discharged from the hospital, and his uncle Li Youzhi's aunt Su Mei's cousin Li Lanzhi also came over for dinner in the evening, Li Youde mentioned Xu Feng's matter and praised him very much, it was he who saved Li Jinghe's life, if he didn't know what it would be like, so this kindness can't be forgotten, and you must come to the door to thank you.

"I will contact him tomorrow, make an appointment, and go to his house with Yuan Yuan to express my gratitude. Li Jinghe said.

"Then I will go with your mother to show our sincerity. Li Youde said.

"It's best to do this, as the saying goes, the grace of saving lives is unforgettable, and the gift should be heavier, not to be underestimated. Li Youzhi said.

"It's time to go home, it's a life-saving grace, and you can't forget anything you say. Yuan Weihua said.

Xing Yanfang heard this husband's glance, Xu Feng saved Li Jinghe's life, and it stands to reason that he should come to the door to thank him. But thinking of Yuan Yuan's previous relationship with Xu Feng, I felt very different in my heart, what could the two say after they met. Yuan Yuan took the initiative to break up with him, and she must blame her in her heart, wouldn't it be embarrassing to ignore her, she would not be able to get off the stage on the spot, and her face would be passable, in order not to embarrass her daughter, so she didn't want Yuan Yuan to go, as long as Li Jinghe went alone, she could buy more things, which was reasonable. I didn't want my daughter to go, but it was hard to say it in front of everyone, so I had to talk to Yuan Yuan behind my back.

After eating, Yuan Yuan sent her parents home, but Xing Yanfang did not let her daughter go back. Speaking of going to Xu Feng's house to thank her, she said her thoughts, given her previous relationship with him. After all, there was a history of love. It's better not to go in person. Neither side will be happy. Let Li Jinghe handle this matter, in order to show his sincerity, he can buy more gifts, which is reasonable. Yuan Yuan nodded when she heard this, her mother still understood her thoughts, and she was also worried about whether to go or not.

"Is this appropriate, after all, it saved Jinghe's life, and Jinghe's parents can not go. It's understandable that you're older, why can't the two of you go together, it seems that we are a little unreasonable. Yuan Weihua said.

"What's wrong with this, you don't know the previous relationship, wouldn't it be embarrassing for the two of them to meet, if I don't go. Xing Yanfang said.

"I have too many hearts, and I can't fall in love a lot, since I can't become a husband and wife, I can still become friends, and this matter can completely resolve the previous contradictions. Untie the knots in your heart, what's wrong with that. I'd better go with them, or it would be rude. Yuan Weihua said.

"What do you know, lovers don't work but become enemies, which man is not like this, Yuan Yuan took the initiative to break up with him, how can he not hold a grudge in his heart, and he can give her a good face after he goes, since this is the case, it is better not to go, so as to avoid being ridiculed, then I feel uncomfortable. Xing Yanfang said.

"I'm not that kind of person, he was able to save Jinghe, which shows that he has a tolerant heart, and gave him so much blood, otherwise he wouldn't have done that, don't think too badly of people. Yuan Weihua said.

"It's not that I think too badly, the reality is like this, everything can be tolerated, but feelings can't be tolerated, it's impossible not to hold grudges, why make everyone unhappy. Xing Yanfang said.

"It can't be like this, come, Xu Feng is a magnanimous person, even if he has an idea in his heart, he won't come out on the spot, there is no need to worry about this. Yuan Weihua said.

"Don't always say nice things about him, it's just your thoughts, think too well of him. The truth is not like that at all, once you are left out, you can't feel good. If you don't go like that, why bother yourself. Xing Yanfang said.

"Yuan Yuan, you" Yuan Weihua asked.

"This. Yuan Yuan didn't say it.

felt that his mother was reasonable, although he met him that day, he greeted him when he saved Li Jinghe. At that time, I was also anxious, after all, I saved Li Jinghe, and his parents were present, so how could they not agree, so they promised to come to the door to thank them in the future. When it's time to go, it's really not a good feeling in my heart. It is inevitable that I will think of the past, and the feeling of sadness in my heart will spring up again. felt that Xu Feng had lived up to his true feelings, he was an ungrateful villain, and he would not forgive him in this life. I never dreamed of meeting him, but in this special situation, it was unreasonable not to go to it, and I really didn't want to go in my heart, which made her feel very embarrassed.

"Isn't it embarrassing?" Mr. Yuan said. Knowing her daughter's mood at this time, it is not surprising that the two have had a relationship for many years, and they broke up suddenly, which is equivalent to becoming the most familiar stranger. I don't want to see each other again in my life, and this situation is very difficult, and I am wandering between them, and it is difficult to make a choice for a while.

"It's not easy for me to make decisions, and I always have a feeling of depression in my heart, which makes me breathless. Yuan Yuan said.

"Your mood is understandable, but you can't always get caught in the whirlpool of past emotions and try your best to extricate yourself. Things have passed, and you can't always take it to heart and just go with the flow. Yuan Weihua said.

"It's easy for you to say, you have suffered so much damage, how can you say forgive, forgive, this is not Yuan Yuan's responsibility, it was all caused by him, he actually did something dirty, he was angry when he thought about it, and there was no way to forgive him. Xing Yanfang said.

"That thing is in the past, and Hugh should mention it again, so as not to upset the child. Yuan Weihua said.

Is this possible, how much damage she has to her heart, she will never forget it in her life. Xing Yanfang said.

"The mood is understandable, although it has hurt you and deeply pierced your heart, but you must have a tolerant heart to tolerate a qiē, forgive others and liberate yourself at the same time. Learn to be tolerant of a lot, treat people and things with a broad mind, don't worry about trivial things, especially when you encounter such things, you should be more generous, so as to reflect your own mind. Yuan Weihua said.

"This is not a trivial matter, he broke Yuan Yuan's heart, he can't make up for it in this life, don't say it's a child, even I won't forgive. Xing Yanfang said.

"In the process of communication, there will inevitably be some friction between people, the spoon will always touch the edge of the pot, and the foot board will always wipe the ground. But remember, in this little world, we all live together, and since that's the case, there's always a big deal in our minds. Let your mind go a little bit, think about the future, forget about your sorrows and troubles, and everything will pass. Yuan Weihua said.

"I don't agree with you, although he saved Jinghe, the knot in his heart will never be untied. Xing Yanfang said.

"To forgive others, don't feel how many people have hurt you, how many times you feel that others have been unfair to you, and forgive them forward, not only for them, but for ourselves. Yuan Weihua said.

If you always use what others have done or failed to do to you in the past as an excuse and don't move on, you will never get the happiness you want. Because you focus on the people you've hurt, it's hard to focus on your future. Many hurtful feelings are just self-pity, and saying that others hurt you are irresponsible to yourself is an excuse, then it is easy for you to fall deeper and deeper into the quicksand of blame.

The heart of tolerance does not mean that you can have it, you have to experience it from many things, and you will understand it if you think about it from the perspective of others. There are too many unsatisfactory things in life, and without a tolerant heart, you will be very tired. The most important thing to be tolerant is to learn to empathize, think more from the other person's point of view, be considerate, and calmly deal with immediate problems. After the problem, you should also reflect on yourself so that you don't make the same mistake next time. If you can do this, I believe that whether it is relatives, friends, colleagues and other relationships, you will definitely get along better and better. In the long run, it is natural to have a tolerant heart.

But I couldn't accept that he had hurt my feelings. Yuan Yuan said.

"Maybe yesterday, maybe a long time ago, someone hurt you, and you can't forget it. Some people may have hurt you intentionally, or some people may have hurt you unconsciously, and you shouldn't have been hurt in this way, so you buried it deep in your memory. However, you must know that there are many people in the world who have been hurt like you, and you are not the only one. Yuan Weihua said.

The world is delicate, everyone is coping with the world in their own way, and in this world, one can hurt others even with good intentions. Friends betray us, parents scold us, loved ones leave us, in short, each of us will be hurt. When people are hurt, they are most likely to have two different reactions, one is resentment and the other is forgiveness.

Resentment is a natural reaction to being deeply innocently hurt, and it comes quickly. The woman wants her ex-husband to be unlucky with his new wife, and the man wants the friend who betrayed him to be expelled or even disappear. Whether passive or active, resentment is a pent-up evil that suffocates pleasure and hurts the resentful more than resentment. For the sake of one's own happiness, resentment must be eliminated. The most direct and effective way to get rid of resentment is to forgive, to forgive them for their past mistakes. Forgiveness is a virtue, and to forgive others is to liberate oneself. Forgiveness is not only compassion, but also a form of cultivation. In the face of the harm brought to by others' mistakes, abandon resentment, choose forgiveness, and forgive others, which is to liberate oneself and give oneself a new world. (To be continued......)