Chapter 893
"The way everyone treats their friends is how we give to our friends, how we always have an oasis with our name written in our friends' hearts, how to make friends always feel that there is a light ahead, a signpost to guide, and a heart to hope, express and cherish the same way. Such friends are real bosom friends, and a person will have many friends. Qiu Weiqiang said.
In fact, a true friend is a lifelong confidant, and only a true friend is called a friend's friendship. Chen Zihao said.
However, not all friends are real confidants, and there are also ordinary friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, and the most confidant friends. A true friend is a confidant who makes oneself worthy of cherishing and trusting, and the person you trust the most in your heart. Friends will know how to be grateful and reciprocate, be righteous, keep promises and have a conscience. Friends should be people who can give each other, not take, and can share weal and woe, and who can take the initiative to stand up and speak up, give you comfort, do things for you, help you, and relieve your troubles when they need help the most in the most difficult times. A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and a guardian who is willing to give to each other and be faithful to each other.
"The more familiar the friend, the rougher the conversation, the more familiar the friend, the more obscene the behavior, the more familiar the friend, the more indifferent the joke, the more familiar the friend, the more you have to take care of you when you come out to play, the more familiar the friend, the less you see each other, the more you miss, the more familiar the friend, the more faceless he scolds you as soon as you do something wrong, the more familiar the friend, the more you think of the first person he thinks of when he is unhappy. Qiu Weiqiang said.
"Otherwise, this is a friend, just like keeping promises, although it is the first time to deal with it, but the character is straightforward, there is no diǎn crooked evil, which makes people feel very happy, and feels that it is worth dealing with, this is the most worthy person. Liu Hongzhi said.
"If it's a friend, don't pretend in front of your friends, don't be reckless in front of your friends, it's really best. Chang Shouxin said.
"I just like this kind of person, I have a solid heart to make friends with this kind of person, and I don't have any sense of crisis. Liu Hongzhi said.
"It's easy to write about a person, only a skimming and a pinch, but it's very difficult to really be a good person, I stand in heaven and earth∝→dǐng∝→diǎn∝→ Xiao∝→ said, .2↖3.□os_(); Thinking only about being a good person is the first priority. Being a human being does not necessarily have to be dǐng, but at least you must be worthy of your conscience. Chang Shouxin said.
People can live without virtue, and they can't be without virtue for a day. It is all about the importance of self-cultivation and conduct to personal growth. A person with bad conduct may be able to rise to a certain level in his career, but he cannot stand the test of time, and sooner or later he will have to fall behind. Good conduct must at least be upright, and in life, only write yourself correctly. Only then will they have the confidence to serve the public and the qualifications to be respected, and truly not be tempted by reputation and not afraid of slander. Therefore, we must be upright and upright. Be a down-to-earth person and do things in a down-to-earth manner. It is necessary to start from the self, from the present, from the small things, and from the details. To be an honest person, to tell the truth, to do honest things, this is the long-term and fundamental. Therefore, as a human being, you must ask yourself if you are real.
"Sincerity for sincerity, integrity into real gold, this is the modern people's understanding of integrity. Xu Feng said.
A famous person once said that honesty is the best strategy, the greatest wisdom, and the smartest person in the world is the most honest person. It is possible to tell a hundred lies and be believed by others, or it is entirely possible to be ruined by the exposure of a lie. In modern society, reputation is considered to be the most expensive capital, and it is better to gamble on one's own reputation for the sake of a small profit. Therefore, it is the wisest choice to treat people with sincerity and trust in the world.
"To be upright, to be upright, to be upright, to be fair, is the foundation of life, the foundation of life. People are not afraid of shadows, feet are not afraid of crooked shoes, and the body and mind are peaceful and stable. Good conduct, confidence in being a talent, hard in doing things, selfless in the bottom of the heart, wide in the world, and broad in the outside and inside. Chang Shouxin said.
"What do people have to do in life to be worthy of themselves, worthy of their own experience in the world, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and be a real person is the foundation of a person's life. Liu Hongzhi said.
Do things really, as a person will have real gains. Be a real person, as a person in the process of getting along with others, you will gain reliable friends and sincere friendship. Maybe this person doesn't have a pretty appearance, maybe this person can't say pretty things, and even less flattery. Maybe the first feeling of this person may not be so profound, but after a long time, such a person can bring a sense of steadiness and reality to the people around him. What he does, maybe there is nothing wonderful and dazzling, but it is definitely done seriously, maybe there is no icing on the cake, but it is definitely the result of quiet design and excellence, and will not change his principles and bottom line for the sake of temporary interests, and will not shake his own principles of doing things and being a man because of one or two words of others, always giving people a feeling of porcelain, a simple texture, just like porcelain that has been washed over the years, so bright and thick.
"Those who rely on lip service, those who play with power, it is impossible for society to progress and develop. What social development and progress need is these people who can do things in a down-to-earth manner and be real people, because only these people can do some achievements, because only these people can really concentrate on doing things and be real people. Chen Zihao said.
"There is one to say, there is two to say, what should be said is done, what is said is true, and what is done is the right thing. Improper scheming, trickery, duplicity, scheming, tricks, one thing in front of the face, one thing behind the back, how to uphold justice and uphold justice. To be a person, you must walk straight, do right, and do it properly, and you must ask yourself whether you are honest and fair. Chang Shouxin said.
"There is an ancient adage called, self-discipline should be strict, treat others should be forgiven, tolerance for others is a sublimation of one's own humanity, the release of previous suspicions can be exchanged for understanding, in exchange for harmony, in exchange for friendship, and even can turn enemies into friends, and lingering on the nostalgia will only make people more and more distant between people. Chen Zihao said.
"People in the rivers and lakes, involuntarily, mixed tastes, some people are stingy, some people are insidious, some people are treacherous, some people treat people harshly, some people have small bellies, nitpicking, in fact, why bother, everyone has a lack of diǎn, everyone has shortcomings, said in the front, appreciate your shortcomings, can tolerate your shortcomings to find people, grow up in a relatively stable environment, occasionally one or two dishonest people, but become everyone's talking point, in the future diǎn head smile, know that this is not my peers, from now on only here, will not associate with him is。 Liu Hongzhi said.
"When will they arrive at the sea?" Xu Feng asked.
"Just got on the phone, they arrived in a moment, the meal was ready, and they started drinking as soon as they arrived. Chang Shouxin said.
Sun Wanhe and Liu Zhengdong walked in, and when they saw Xu Feng, they hurriedly greeted each other, and Chang Shouxin introduced Liu Hongzhi, and everyone greeted each other and expressed friendship.
"What's going on with the sea today, he used to eat most actively, he always arrived first, and now it's the last thing. Qiu Weiqiang said.
"Soon, they'll be there. Chang Shouxin said.
"Call him to urge him, and he is still so grinding and grinding when he drinks, and he doesn't have any diǎn speed. Qiu Weiqiang said.
"Don't rush it, it's time to rush it again. Li Tiecheng said.
"What is he bothering, he can't let everyone wait for him. Qiu Weiqiang said.
"You guys are really, he'll play with you again when he comes, and I'm not afraid to talk nonsense with him. Chang Shouxin said.
"He's a bastard in mahjong, and this kind of occasion is not lively without him. Qiu Weiqiang said with a smile.
While chatting, Wei Dahai and Pan Xueliang walked in. Qiu Weiqiang said with a smile: "The sea, why are you free today, I didn't eat and drink with the leader." ”
"There is a big boss for a treat, and everything has to be pushed back. Wei Dahai said.
"Just talk about it, the leader must have given you a holiday, otherwise you wouldn't have stopped like this. Xu Feng said.
"Who am I, and I still use him to give me a holiday, what's the matter is not my word, I have the final say on what to do. Wei Dahai said.
"You are not afraid of the wind fanning your tongue, what is the great thing about a stinky driver, he is not a mule in the horse pen, the Lord who listens to it, let you not dare to go to the west, don't talk in this poor vernacular. Pan Xueliang said.
"How can this taste change when it comes to your mouth, how can you say it so ugly, you can't say diǎn good. Wei Dahai said with a smile.
"What's polite to you, you don't make fun of us on weekdays, and you don't have much to say. Xu Feng said.
"Don't be poor, let me introduce to you, this is Mr. Liu of the electrical appliance mall, who just signed a franchise agreement today, and he can be regarded as a partner of the barbecue square. Chang Shouxin said: "Pan Xueliang, deputy director of the Power Supply Bureau, Wei Dahai, Secretary Li's driver." ”
"I'm Liu Hongzhi. Liu Hongzhi said: "I have admired the names of the two for a long time, it is really a pleasure to meet you today, I am very happy to meet you, and please take care of me in the future." ”
"You're welcome, since we are already a partner of the barbecue square, we will be friends from now on. Wei Dahai said.
"At first glance, you are a cheerful person, which is very admirable. Liu Hongzhi said.
"You can't underestimate him, at the beginning of his secretary Li Jinghe, there is nothing he can't do. Xu Feng said.
"I can drive for the leader, of course, I am not an ordinary person, please take care of it. Liu Hongzhi said.
"No problem, as long as you speak, I will do it, and I guarantee that you will be satisfied. Wei Dahai said. (To be continued.) )