Chapter 063: The Pain of Escape This is the right time
Li Dali stood up suddenly and shook Xin Zhi's hand: "Good brother! You are a golden and jade good word! It turns out that you have seen the depth of our two abilities, and you have also seen our problems, and your deep talk is to instruct us on how to advance! Da Lili finally understands that your mind is so broad! Admire, admire, convince and convinc, thank you, thank you!"
"Good boy!" Ma Kebo also stepped forward and punched Xin Zhi hard, "I really want to make friends with you, even if I give you the position of the boss! I'm not afraid to leak it to you, our combination is not only a duo, including the Yan Datou you have already met, we have a total of six good brothers, if we have you, we can be upgraded to the 'Miracle Seven', how great it would be! It's a pity that this is not the time, and the relationship between you and me is not clear, it's a pity!"
Xin Zhi also returned a punch, judging from the feeling that this person had also practiced physical skills hard: "Don't mention this matter first." Pen, Fun, Pavilion www.biquge.info good guys, now it's a combination of six heroes, it's a six-character Daming mantra, right? It can be called a 'six-character mantra' combination. They're all great guys, standard humanoid singles, and each one has four big sticks, plus twenty-one short sticks per personβa lot of sticks!
"Twenty-one short sticks! You're so good!" the three boys laughed in unison. I don't know how profound the meaning is.
After the three bad boys laughed together, they sat down in a small circle again, this time sitting closer together, and after a little bad thought together, it was easier to get along.
There is still a small half of a cigarette left, and there is still some time to continue the conversation. Even the clever Li Dali still didn't understand the mystery of "who is in charge of ups and downs", and very rashly, he asked another question, pushing Xin Zhi to the position of the speaker again: "Brother Xin, if we want to say it, we will say what we want to say, we will not hide it from you, we have used a huge amount of financial and material resources to have such an achievement, I am very curious, how high the conditions must be to create such a miracle, so that you, who are several years younger than us, have reached the strength that I can't measure." If Brother Xin is not particularly embarrassed, can you relieve my doubts?"
"Brother Li is still a little too superstitious about the dominance of huge resources over talent training. There are many ways to become a talent, and this is why there will be a colorful talent world. If we take a closer look at the top 100 of the most cutting-edge talents, how many of them have become talented people with financial resources? It is easier for money and money to train high-level talents, but the path to the establishment of the most cutting-edge talents is different. If you want to talk about myself," Xin Zhi smiled a little self-deprecatingly, "how good can I be? Although I was also born in a family of educators, I turned my back on my family, I didn't even go to college, I was mixed in with volunteers at the age of eighteen or nineteen, and now I have achieved nothing. β
Ma Kebo said: "This is not quite right? There must be a miracle happening to you, otherwise there would not be such a strange thing, no matter how talented a high school student is, can he easily suppress him, a son of heaven with two masters, two doctorates and a postdoctoral degree? After college, he can obtain more than one high degree and more than one special base training certification almost every year." How can such a person say that he will be defeated if he loses?" This is the fierce material, high education is the signboard of Mingli, and the certification of special bases is even more expensive in secret, almost unobtainable, not rich and powerful.
"Forgive your sins, forgive your sins! Brother Li is covered in famous brands, openly and secretly virtual and real are endless, if you don't talk about it, how can I, a mountain baby who has never entered a prestigious school, know? It's really incontinence! Haha. "Brother Xin, let's not talk about those illusory things, we can't always play haha, we are sincerely asking for advice, you have to tell us something practical, and it is not in vain that we spell out the first acquaintance." β
"Well, I will solemnly tell you that I have accepted a point of view, that is, no matter how long a person studies, how much he has learned, and how advanced he has learned, it is impossible for him to get in touch with the edge of the sea of learning, and the gap between the fate of most talents and talents is to start from when he withdraws from the sea of learning and enters his own world.
"If you leave as soon as possible, you can enter your own world as soon as possible, but you may not have enough academic ability, you can only move hard, and you will hate less when you use the book, hate the pain of less, and you will not want to live;
"It's too late to get out of Xuehai, maybe the time is not waiting for me, I missed the good day, I have the heart to work hard, but I can't do it, why does God no longer give me decades?
"Some people have been learning the sea for a long time, the fun takes root, and they don't think about it and can't bear to leave it (just like sinking the boat in today's company), the more they will be addicted, the deeper they will become, and finally they will completely catch up with themselves, and they will also become a part of the sea of learning.
"The best time for everyone to get out of the sea of learning is different, it depends on whether they can see it accurately and whether they can make up their minds! Those students who are ripe and follow the crowd do not feel much pain. Those who are only a little short but can't always pass the exam, or those who are admitted but can't afford to read, or those who have a natural end of fate with Xuehai, these students are not the most painful. The more students with excellent grades and good conditions, the more difficult it is to easily break away from Xuehai. The pain in it is no less than childbirth, which is the real strong man breaking his wrist and cutting off his flesh. If these pains do not fall on oneself and experience them personally, you will not really understand how painful it is and how much suffering there is. When Xin Zhi said this, he stopped talking, didn't want to say much, and buried himself in smoking.
Seeing Xin Zhi's residual pain, Li Dali opened his mouth and did not speak, but Ma Kebo didn't care at all, and asked directly: "Then at what stage did you leave school? Did you feel pain at that time? Do you regret it now?"
"My situation is the best, my father is the principal, he is sure that I have enough self-learning ability, half a month before the college entrance examination, fully support me not to take the college entrance examination, my determination, he took the initiative to help me clear all obstacles, all relatives and friends let him persuade, I just need to choose a point in time to step out of the school. I should be the kind of person who is particularly lucky and lucky, no matter how blind I go, most of them will be smooth sailing, and there will always be noble people to help me at the turn of fate. It seems effortless to achieve what you want to do. I had been guided by the most brilliant pioneers before that choice, and it was not very difficult to make up my mind, and I never regretted it afterwards. But I was still in pain, almost suicide, that kind of pain, still waking up in my bones, she never closed her eyes, and kept biting on my pain nerves. I'm already in pain, I can't imagine how sad those who make difficult choices!"
"Taking the initiative to leave school may be the first major choice in your life, you have to lose sleep once, this choice is too big, the stake is all the future, and you are only a seventeen or eighteen-year-old teenager when you make the decision, this is not a teenager who can bear the weight physically and mentally. Your pain is so deep, I understand it, I just think that for this choice, the pain is certain, but it is not the most important and critical, I think the weight you cast when you make up your mind is the most important. That is to say, on what basis do you measure that your departure is 'now'? There must be a primary, decisive reason for not before or after. β
"When most of your knowledge sources are not from textbooks and teachers, when you have won all the awards in the same grade, no matter how high the praise is, it is common for you to praise you. The most important thing is that when you can hear and know all the teachers' explanations, but your ideological articles are not even known to the school's biggest famous teachers more than once, you are already torturing yourself and wasting time when you stay in Xuehai, can you still not understand 'is the time to go'? When it is time to go, there will be a force in your heart that cannot help but be driven, and you will naturally understand if you want to leave. In Xin Zhi's view, there will not be very few people who know it, and it is difficult to make action, so you have to have the courage to grow hairs on your guts, and you have to have the will to be willing to cut your body to endure the pain and cut your love, this kind of person is not one in ten thousand. β
"That's right! When people reach the age of youth, they can already understand their own needs, and they have the ability to take the broad road, but they must resolutely turn around and go alone to overcome obstacles. In Yima Pingchuan, galloping Zhenghuan wants to drill into the crypt to explore the abyss, how many normal people dare?"
"It's not just a warrior, it's a ruthless person, a ruthless person, ruthless to himself. It's a pity that I, Li Dali, am not a literati, and I don't have the literary talent to show that ruthless method. β
Xin Zhi said: "Two, you understand the bitterness of words so quickly, so Xin Zhicai wants to say that poetic language is also a good medicine needed for upgrading." We don't have to learn poetry to write poetry, we can learn the beauty of poetry and intellectualization. β
"Let's hear it!" the two spoke in unison, once again showing a high degree of tacit understanding.
"Okay, listen. Remember when I mentioned that 'very brilliant pioneer', who had an incredible talent for language and literature, and who wrote words that had been detached from the sea of learning, and I dare not forget a few words of him, and I will share some of them with you from memory. He said that this kind of detachment is a beautiful thing?" "A beautiful thing, a beautiful death is almost the same, and even you have a painful choice, can it be said that it is a beautiful thing?" "So we can't be poets. He didn't use poetry either, he just listed two sets of key words to record it. Although it is only a record of the event, there is a lot of poetry in it, and each sentence is the title of a poem. Here's what he said:
Detachment - what a beautiful thing.
The feathers were falling, and the wings were stiffened.
Break the chrysalis and go away, turning into a butterfly dance.
The snake proclaims the joy of growth.
If you fall into mud, you will get precious seeds.
The leaves fall to the earth, and are not subject to the branches.
The fish scales are detached, and the dragon is turned into a dragon.
Brother Li, I have heard it, you are a corporate executive, after listening to these words, don't think about it, thinking that you are encouraging employees to change jobs, when the person said this, the word job hopping has not yet become popular, he cited six paragraphs, and pointed to six ordinary spiritual objects of flowers, leaves, snakes, insects, birds, and fish, they fall off once, it is a big leap, and they are all happy events, right?
The fish wants to turn into a dragon, and the armor is not left.
The leaves want to be free, and there are no branches to lean on.
The flower will have seeds, and the flesh and bones will be fleshed out.
The snake grows and peels off a layer of skin.
The pupa of insects does not break, and the butterflies bind their wings.
The wild geese flutter their wings, what a pity for the feathers.
Beautiful things don't happen often, no matter how beautiful you think, you still have to pay to be realistic. None of these six major detachments are light and labor-saving. My pioneer, who can do what others can't and can't bear to endure, seeks a way to find a strange way, and uses the mental journey of the sixth reincarnation to experience all kinds of detachment from the sixfold psychology, six flavors and six products, six combinations and six scriptures, six desires and six elements, six words and six listening, six out of six Tao, six roots and six degrees. All of them, with the essence of his writing, cannot be exhausted one by one. β
(To be continued)