Women have always been complex creatures, and they must not be taken by their mouths. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

Just like just now, Xiao Jiang said that she would never see Wang Meng again in the next life, but after Yang Ying said a hypothesis, she immediately changed.

Of course, this point also fully shows that Xiao Jiang loves Wang Meng so much.

Emotions are never a thing that is defined by reason, on the contrary, too much reason will miss many opportunities.

The two of them fell silent and didn't know what to think, and that faint sadness permeated the space.

"If life is only as ...... first seen" inexplicably, Yang Ying remembered the scene of the first time she met Wang Meng.

She has Wang Tian bragging to her all day long that her brother understands Wang Meng.

She always thought that the first meeting between the two should be at the premiere of "This Man is from Earth".

At that time, she saw the high-spirited Wang Meng on stage in a place where Wang Meng couldn't see offstage.

From the mouth of her good sister Wang Tian, she was curious about what kind of person Wang Meng was? That first meeting really made her eyes shine.

The second meeting between the two was the first time that Yang Ying thought that Wang Meng had met her, in Wang Meng's house!

Wang Meng's house, Wang Tian led her there, and she was very shy at that time. When, Wang Meng looked at her in surprise, she still remembered it vividly, and the two may have been close together since then.

But she didn't know that Wang Meng didn't meet her for the first time at home. It's an actress that Wang Meng was infatuated with in the last time and space!

"What's the matter with the autumn wind and sad painting fan......" Xiao Jiang heard what Yang Ying said, and subconsciously continued the next sentence.

Both of them recalled this situation, the first time Xiao Jiang and Wang Meng met was at the orientation party, and since then, the two have been ambiguous, and the two have a good impression of each other since then, and it didn't take long to be together!

In fact, Xiao Jiang has always regretted one thing, that is, Wang Meng's time to chase her was too short, and she herself was too unreserved, and it didn't take long for them to be together!

I have not experienced a lot of dog blood, I have not experienced the scenes of life and death, and I have not experienced a series of episodes such as family disagreement.

It's so natural and so simple and straightforward to be together!

Loving someone, being together when it feels right, maybe this is how young people love each other.

I don't care if my future partner has money, is it capable?

Some just feel like that!

So Xiao Jiang is also glad that he was young at that time, and he didn't need to add motives other than love, such as money, power, etc.!

What she loves is feeling, what she pursues is purity, it is not easy to help each other until she is old, and it is not easy to help each other until now!

When the two finished the verse, they looked at each other.

In fact, the thoughts of the two are chaotic, and it is not denied that they have sweet memories, but these memories are interspersed with each other, plus the addition of time experience, the thoughts of the two are very complicated.

I don't know what I'm thinking, or rather, I want to know what I'm thinking!?

In short: that is, tongue twisting, and brain twisting!

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"Why does the big director have so much time? How is King Kong's shooting?" Huang Bo was a little curious after coming to the private room, and saw Wang Meng drinking there alone, looking very decadent and confused.

"It's going well, a quarter of the way through the shooting, and I'm going to shoot in the army!"

"So fast?" asked Huang Bo.

"It's not fast. In fact, I started preparing in March this year, and I started to make special effects in April. Ostensibly, it was opened in July, but like "Jurassic World", I have been preparing for it a long time ago. Wang Meng explained.

"Oh, such a situation!" Huang Bo sighed, seeing that Wang Meng was still like that, as if he didn't care about the movie. He asked, "What's the matter? Drinking alone here? Not having a confidante?" Isn't it a waste?"

After Wang Meng heard this, he smiled depressedly!

"Go to the side. I'm a lover in your eyes, what kind of confidant?"

I thought to myself, I'm so uncomfortable with just a few apples, and I'm looking for a confidante, I'm looking for nothing! I really think I'm the kind of bastard, the ruthless person who lifts his pants, and even says that I'm a prodigal son and a hooligan?

"May I ask you something?" Wang Meng asked.

"Say!"

Wang Meng lit a cigarette and seemed to be thinking about how to say it, not because he didn't trust Huang Bo, but because he really didn't know how to start.

Well, in terms of feelings, I feel that I am very greedy, and I always don't want to let go of good things, and I always want to hold them in my hands. I've been ashamed of a lot of women!"

"Good person?" Huang Bo didn't laugh, but was a little pensive.

Strictly speaking, there are many definitions of a good person, just like the definition of happiness! It is also like the definition of life!" Huang Bo said.

"What do you mean?" Wang Meng asked.

"It's very simple, you start to get confused, you feel that you have several confidantes, you don't meet the social values, you start to deny yourself, you feel that you are not a good person. "Huang Bo.

"Yes, that's it!" Wang Meng said.

"So, you've misunderstood the definition of a good person. A good person does not simply refer to the emotional aspect, but also includes many aspects such as public welfare, morality, thought, behavior, contribution, value and so on!"

"I know, but do you say I am? Am I a good person?" asked Wang Meng.

Huang Bo said with a smile: "Of course it is! In addition to the morality and values involved in feelings and feelings. You're pretty good in other things. At least you are a very public welfare person, and your value to the society is also great, and there are no other bad behaviors, as a public figure, you have played a good leading role, which is also within the definition of a good person!"

"So ......?" Wang Meng asked.

"So, I said that it should be connected to the definition of happiness and the definition of life!" Huang Bo said.

"Tell me!" Wang Meng was interested!

"All your negations have their own reasons! The reason is that you feel ashamed of a few women who are dead to you, right?" asked Huang Bo?

"That's the case!"

"That's easy to say. You are right to deny yourself, at least you have no morality to the bottom line, and you still know self-reflection......? The definition of happiness and life I am talking about is to position it for your confidante. Huang Bo said.

Wang Meng didn't speak, waiting for Huang Bo's explanation.

"What do you think? Your confidante knows your situation, why hasn't he left you, why hasn't he abandoned you?" asked Huang Bo?

"Why?" Wang Meng said.

"It's very simple, because the value of happiness is different, your confidante is the same as leaving you and being by your side? They feel that even if you have a few confidantes, they are much happier than if they leave you? So you have to think about that. Say something I'm very unhappy about! You're so good, so good that I take it for granted, it's very against the sky, you know?" Huang Bo looked at Wang Meng with a little resentment.

"Uh!" Wang Meng was stunned!

"Women are not stupid. You don't define yourself too high. In that case, you're going to live in an infinite tangle. Their refusal to leave you shows that they agree with my definition of happiness, and that this is the path they have chosen, not the path you have imposed.

You can't just think about your own failures and not consider their opinions. Speaking of which, you're too machismo. I always think that women should be guarded and loved, but people, first of all, are independent individuals, independent thoughts, and then they are social creatures.

The definition of a trade-off is set by yourself, not by you, understand?"

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Wang Meng instantly felt a little enlightened!

"You're saying that no amount of guilt I can feel about it will help, and I can't give up a few and keep only one, right? I can't give it up either! So instead of feeling guilty, I should do my best to make them happier. Wang Meng asked.

"Correct!" Huang Bo snapped his fingers!

And he said, "You see, you are too promiscuous, that is, too greedy to give up." So why think about it so much? Why don't you think about how to make your women happier? They are independent individual thinking creatures with their own ideas. If you don't leave, you don't choose this way, it's not something you impose? If someone really can't stand you and wants to leave you, can you still stop you and not let go?" asked Huang Bo?

"That's right!" Wang Meng nodded violently.

Although he is greedy, there are really women who want to leave him and don't want such a life, Wang Meng will choose to let go for the happiness of his own woman.

Of course, the premise is that after all his means are useless, ahem!

Your misconception is that you feel that all the bad things are caused by you! It is caused by your misuse! But ...... You're ignoring that your woman also has the right to choose. We men tend to think like this?

Huang Bo said again: "My explanation is not to evade responsibility, this is not nonsense, but the greatest respect." Respect her choice. Whether to be together or not, to be separated or not, is caused by the choice of two people. ”

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Wang Meng couldn't help nodding after hearing this, feeling a little like clearing the clouds.

However, Wang Meng knew that what this guy said in order to comfort himself was a bit biased!

It's a matter of choice, and there is also a moral definition!

The choice of Huang Bo may be right, but morally it is his own lack and his unfaithfulness to his feelings that leads to such a situation. It is my own greed that has this result.

But what?

Wang Meng still wants to thank Huang Bo, morality? He has long lost his emotional morality, so he can barely accept it.

Besides, since their women have chosen this way, it is really useless to feel guilty, it is better than what Huang Bo said, it is better to make up for these women and give them everything they have, which is the best way!

The two talked a lot after that, and Wang Meng explained with a wry smile why he didn't go home in the middle of the night. Huang Bo said a few times "deserved"!

After that, Huang Bo also explained to him the definition of life.

In short, no matter how it is, it's life, just taste it yourself, and the lives of all women should also be summarized by themselves.

If you feel okay in your life, you can continue, and if you feel bad, you will find a way, or even give up.

In short, it corrects his guilty mentality, guilt is not bad, but don't go wrong for this.

Huang Bo also drank a little too much in the end, Wang Meng asked him why he explained himself like this, he said: "You are not a simple director now. It is still the hope and pride of many people, and even the pride of the Chinese film industry.

I don't want you to live in emotional guilt all day long, the greater meaning of your existence is not your personal feelings, but your career, because your confidantes are a few, and the people who expect the same from you are innumerable.

I don't want to give you pressure and benchmarking, but you do have to carry a banner.

People are not perfect, our attitude of pursuing perfection is positive energy, but we can't give up because of imperfection, this is negative energy.

Trade-offs are also an attitude, I hope your choices are worthy of the face and the public!"

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Wang Meng was very grateful after hearing this, and thought of a poem: "The world is safe and perfect, and it lives up to its promise!"

Yes, look away, because he has other responsibilities!

That's the movie!

It's also - the director!

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