Chapter 485
"Friends can be said to be you help me, I help you, cheer each other up, and make each other a stepping stone to each other's growth. In the process of growing up, the support and encouragement of friends are the most precious. When you encounter setbacks, this kind of friends can often help you share part of the psychological pressure, and their trust is just your strengthening, giving you great strength. Xu Feng said.
"Friends are shortcomings, they will be politely pointed out, if there are difficulties, don't let you speak, they will come to help you. If he is in trouble, you are willing to help him in time and with all your might, this is a real friend. Chen Zihao said.
Friends are not found, but inadvertently bumped into. For example, when you help someone pick up the items they have left with them and show them the way, you may get to know each other and become friends, in fact, friendship is so simple. As the saying goes, it is enough to have a confidant in life, a thousand dollars are easy to get, and friends are hard to find. Friends are an important part of a person's spiritual life, and people without friends are like living in a lonely wilderness. People who lack friends will feel lonely in the world. People need friendship because sincere friendship can make people excited, make people happy, make people happy, and make people move forward. The wealth of life is endless, but what is the real wealth? is money, is it power? neither, it is friendship. A philosopher once said that wealth is not a true friend, but a friend is eternal wealth.
When you know the value of friends, don't pay too much attention to the trivial matters between friends, you should know that friendship is not a moment, but a normal time. Not by age, but by heart. Only people who make friends with their hearts can get real friendship, and regard friendship as a trader, which can not produce real friendship, but also cannot stand the test of time, it harms others and harms themselves. Friendship is one of life's most precious feelings. I don't know how many celebrities at home and abroad have used many beautiful poems to praise and praise it. A great man once said that those who do not get friendship will be a poor loner for life, and a society without friendship is just a prosperous desert. Friends are the spokesmen of friendship, and they never dislike or give up on anyone. And use their generous hearts to accommodate and accept others, so that others can feel the warm care of friendship in them. In good times. Friends get to know us, and in adversity, we get to know friends. Friendship is felt and conveyed with the heart, and only when you have experienced it yourself will you know the preciousness of friendship.
"In the journey of life, family and friends are our most important fellow travelers. Family and friendship are our most important emotions. Chen Fei said.
The bond of kinship is blood relationship, and we have no choice. Friends are the sky of fate. We have both the opportunity to choose and the object to be chosen. You can't live without friends on the road of life, and friends are not only the foundation of success in life, but also the sign of successful life. Almost all true friendships do not depend on anything, on career and status, on experience, status and circumstances. In essence, it rejects utilitarianism and refuses to belong. It is the mutual echo and confirmation between independent personalities, so that people are alone and not alone, and interpret the meaning of their own existence with each other. Therefore. The so-called friends are those who make each other's lives warmer and more comfortable.
Friendship is deep because it asks for nothing, whether it is balanced or unbalanced with each other. Friendship is spiritual sustenance, sometimes it doesn't need too many words, just a tacit understanding and a warmth. In life, you can have no merit. You can have no money, you can have no official position, etc., but you can't have friendship. Friendship to help merit is merit, and finding friendship for merit is friendship and death, and the two cannot be reversed. Friendship is a flower that opens instantly, and time will make it bear fruit. Friendship is two figures under an umbrella. It's two pairs of bright eyes on a desk. Friendship are two small flowers in the ideal soil, two notes in a grand movement. Friendship is the sun that never sets, let friends come close to your heart and nourish your soul.
"A person's life requires contact with many people, so there are two levels of friendship. Chen Zihao said. Friendship in the broad sense and friendship in the strict sense are difficult to be restrained without the former, and difficult to be profound without the latter. Friendship in a broad sense is the bright side of a person's entire history. Friendship in the strict sense of the word is a spiritual destination that a person seeks throughout his or her life. But when you don't find true friendship, you can only continue to search, not stop there. Therefore, we cannot speak lightly of our confidants. Once you get a true friendship, you should cherish it even more.
As the saying goes, the friendship of friends is as light as water, and the light is not the light of friendship, but as a friend of friends, it is a kind of wantless and wantless. It's just the form and the way that is light, but it's the emotion that's strong. The positioning of friends is not measured by age, gender, occupation, location, and region, but whether they still maintain a constant honesty and truth in the process of intersecting with each other. Friendship is actually very simple, it does not need to make any transactions to have an emotion. In the natural and real process, people can harvest a comfortable mood and a good memory. The possession of friendship can be noted rather than deliberately, and the pursuit of attention is a natural and flowing flow, rather than a deliberate conspiracy that goes against the grain.
In the face of friends, a person should use the most natural and true side to give friends, without embellishment and embellishment, he can have a heart-to-heart dialogue with others, and he can communicate with his heart. The basis of friendship is to learn to understand and trust others, and guessing and doubting are the natural enemies of friendship. If friends do not have even the most basic understanding and trust, that kind of friendship is false and short-lived. If a person desires to be trusted by others, then he must learn to trust others first.
We are all mortals, so we are not destined to be perfect, perfection is the measure of God, and this desire to achieve perfection is the measure of human beings. If each of us is perfect, then what do we need friendship to do? Because we have friendship, we can make our world brighter, and because of friendship, we can make our lives more colorful, and because of the company of friendship, we can have more beautiful memories in our lives. Successful individuals have a good friend. In fact, almost all of the key opportunities are provided by friends.
"Gorky once said that when you are successful, you should be happy and not cheered, when you encounter misfortune or sadness, give you timely support and encouragement, and give you correct criticism and help when you have shortcomings and may make mistakes. Xu Feng said.
If you want to get friends, you should first treat yourself well and become better and more independent. It is necessary to maintain a strong interest and curiosity in learning and working**. Be able to maintain a correct sense of self and accept oneself. Self-awareness is the core of personality and refers to one's perception and experience of one's relationship with the world around them. Able to coordinate and control the feelings, and maintain a good state of mind. Always be able to maintain a happy, confident and satisfied mood, good at seeking fun from action, full of hope for life, and have a good temperament. Able to maintain harmonious interpersonal relationships and willing to socialize. Maintain a complete and unified personality quality.
"Friends, in fact, are a specific circle. Chen Zihao said.
In fact, the circle is like gathering like and people are divided into groups. For example, car enthusiasts can join the car circle, digital product enthusiasts can join the digital circle, and even people who like to drink can join the wine tasting circle, etc. In fact, many circles are formed naturally by the characteristics of social behavior among people, such as social circles, IT circles, etc. And this division of circles is actually a classification of the crowd, that is, the mode of focus. Although the circle is small, the role is difficult to estimate.
"You are very right, the barbecue square is with the help of everyone, it will have such a scale, if they go to Longtan today, the place is suitable, then there will be a fifth branch, this qiē is the result of everyone's help. Xu Feng said.
"Faith has a certain influence and appeal, otherwise it would not have developed so rapidly. Chen Fei said.
"The trustworthy person has a good personality and is a good person. Chen Zihao said.
Using the power of friends and using others to serve oneself so that oneself can be superior to others is a rare place for a person to be valuable. Especially for what you lack, you have to borrow it in many ways. Friends should complement each other, borrow from each other, and don't be idle friends, just to be bored and pass the time. Don't be friends with foxes and dogs, collude with each other, and do evil to each other, then it will harm others and yourself, and lose the original intention of using people's strengths to benefit each other.
Exploitation is not an ugly thing, but to each according to his needs. No matter what kind of work, career, love and leisure a person is, he is inseparable from this kind of mutual use between people. That's how friends are. Because of the limitations of each person's abilities and the differences in interpersonal relationships, it is necessary to use each other. With the help of friends, it is the place where a person is smart. Those who come to the order in terms of social and natural conditions cannot win the fight and form gangs. If a person does not have friends and help from others, he will be in a very bad situation in society. This is true for ordinary people, and even more so for a person who has achieved great things. Without the help of others, and without the ability to harness the power of others, there is no way to start any business.
Between friends, they use each other for their own purposes, and it is not something that can be done by talking. There are many subtleties in the relationship between people, and if they are not carefully maintained, there will be no gain at all. This should be based on the interests of the other party, temperament and interpersonal relationships, etc., and compare hearts with hearts and be good at making connections. Don't forget that friends are also people, just like you, they also have their own selfishness and plans, you have to be careful with them, if you don't get it right, you will become enemies, then it will be troublesome. Therefore, we should be more cautious and thoughtful about the relationship between friends. (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for the recommendation ticket, your support is my biggest motivation. )