"He's not, he's from the same school as us, but he's not in the same class," Speaking of his boyfriend, Shao Xiaoyu's expression immediately became different, with a smile in his eyes, and his tone involuntarily became extremely gentle, and he didn't feel that there was anything wrong with two strangers who met for the first time and whose identities were not yet clear to talk about his personal affairs in terms of feelings," At the beginning, the two of us fell in love at first sight, and they both liked each other, but for a long time no one dared to express it to anyone, and then it was a very tacit understanding and naturally together, my boyfriend and Bu Zhiqiang originally knew each other when they were in school, I didn't know at first, and then Bu Zhiqiang and I became good friends, I told him who my boyfriend was, and he was quite surprised to tell me that he and my boyfriend knew each other, and the two of them used to play basketball together for a while, oh, I didn't tell you just nowMy boyfriend is a great basketball player!"

Hearing her words, He Ning and Tang Li quickly exchanged glances, the two of them didn't need to communicate in words to be able to reach an agreement on this matter, that is, Shao Xiaoyu's mental state was definitely not normal. www.biquge.info When they knocked on the door at the beginning, she rushed to the door and called out the word "Kang" in her mouth, which is probably the person she wants to see, and it is very likely that it is the boyfriend in her mouth, and the relationship between this person and Shao Xiaoyu is likely to have problems, Shao Xiaoyu insists on staying here, and is unwilling to move out earlier in the face of the deadline for demolition, which must also have a lot to do with this boyfriend. They can even have a more daring speculation that the man with the word "Kang" in his name has brought emotional damage and blows to Shao Xiaoyu for some reason, and Bu Zhiqiang has been the "flower messenger" who has guarded Shao Xiaoyu for many years and loyal fans, seeing that the goddess who had not received a response for many years of unrequited love was betrayed and hurt by someone like this, and suddenly the jealousy and bitterness accumulated in his heart for many years turned into hatred for the man, so he teamed up with others to plan the murder and destruction of the man.

It's just that Shao Xiaoyu talked for a long time, and he didn't mention the man's name, but he accidentally called out one of the "Kang" words at the beginning, whether this "Kang" is the man's surname or first name, it's hard to say, if you want to lock the scope through this word, it's still a bit of a waste of time, if you can get more personal information about this man from Shao Xiaoyu's mouth, it would be better.

"Huh?" He Ning seemed to suddenly think of something, and while exclaiming in his mouth, he looked at Shao Xiaoyu with curious eyes, "Bu Zhiqiang, you and your boyfriend are all classmates of the same grade, so you should be about the same age, right? You look a lot younger than Bu Zhiqiang! Plus you said your boyfriend, not your husband, so if you didn't say it just now, I thought you were his younger sister!"

Listening to He Ning's words, the expression on Shao Xiaoyu's face became a little complicated, and she was praised for her youthful appearance, which made her face show a little joy, but at the same time, hearing He Ning say words like "boyfriend" and "husband", it quickly became a little bitter in her joy.

"Well, I didn't feel like I looked that young. Shao Xiaoyu carefully suppressed his sadness, and while responding to He Ning's words a little shyly, he touched his cheek with his hand.

"You are too modest, you are really young, and you have a temperament, at first glance, you are the kind of young woman of literature and art!" He Ning continued to buckle Shao Xiaoyu's hat, but after eating the sweet dates, it was time to slap the next, she suddenly changed her words and asked, "Then you are all classmates, Bu Zhiqiang's head child is not young, why are you and your boyfriend not married?" Although you are not in a hurry to get married now, you are both thirty-five or sixteen years old, right?" If you are not in a hurry to get married, then if you have a child in your forties, won't you really become an older mother?

He Ning is the person who doesn't like to talk about this kind of topic on weekdays, and she herself is also a person who is not married, and is not so anxious to get married, and advocates everything to follow fate, but now in order to get out of Shao Xiaoyu's mouth, she must try her best to make herself act as if she has dealt with those old aunts who are keen to find out whether other people's children are looking for a partner all day long, whether they are married and have children.

Sure enough, as soon as Shao Xiaoyu heard He Ning ask, her face suddenly became gloomy, her eyes were faintly red, and she looked like she was about to cry after being poked in a sad matter, and she also tried hard to maintain Fang Cai's smile, which made the expression on her face look a little weird, and the muscles on her cheeks were twisted.

"We're not in a hurry, we're going to wait a little longer, marriage is a big deal, it's very serious, it's definitely not a joke," she tried to keep smiling, but didn't realize that her expression looked bitter. I think two people should grow and mature together first, and after the relationship is stable enough, it is too late to talk about marriage, and in fact, to be honest, in an age like this, if you don't rely on feelings to maintain, what role can you play by simply relying on that piece of marriage book? This year is not like before, in the past, divorce was a particularly shameful thing, now it will not, now you can get divorced if you can't get together, so the marriage certificate can't say anything at all, as long as the hearts of two people are together, whether you get married or not is the same, the same can last forever, and you can grow old. ”

When she said this, the first half was convincing Herning and Tang Li, and when she said the second half, it was more like convincing herself. He Ning found that when Shao Xiaoyu spoke, he would subconsciously say something close to self-hypnosis, which seemed to confirm what Bu Zhiqiang's wife mentioned before, about the "negative man", Shao Xiaoyu seemed unwilling to accept the fact that the other party had betrayed him emotionally, so he kept waiting for the other party to turn back, and kept giving himself psychological hints.

"What you said also makes sense, indeed, as long as two people love each other enough, it doesn't mean anything if they get a certificate or not. He Ning nodded, agreed with Shao Xiaoyu's words, and then asked, "When I came here just now, I saw that your area seems to be about to be demolished? This is a good thing! This neighborhood is very good, if the demolition compensates you for a suite in the same place, it is equivalent to appreciation, whether it is to live or sell it, it is good, if you are given subsidy money, go to buy a house elsewhere, then the price will not be low, horizontal and vertical are good things!"

Shao Xiaoyu didn't seem to be too interested in the practical interests mentioned by He Ning, and her attitude was obviously much colder than when she talked about emotional topics, she nodded lightly and said, "I don't care, the old house lives with feelings, and I'm not willing to move it." ”

"That's right, people are nostalgic. He Ning echoed casually.

Unexpectedly, such a sentence suddenly aroused Shao Xiaoyu's resonance, her eyes lit up, and she looked at He Ning excitedly, so she almost didn't rush to He Ning and grabbed her hand: "Really? Do you really think so? I think so too! How can people not love the old! Otherwise, why are there so many historic sites and buildings left, why are we still learning ancient poetry and ancient texts, why are there still the four classical masterpieces, doesn't this all show that people are nostalgic for the old!" There is nothing in this world and people who are always new! Once new, no matter how new it is, it will become old! On the day of marriage, it is called the bride and groom, and the next day it becomes the wife and husband, isn't this the same reason! Why do so many people not understand it? Why do they always say that they like the new and hate the old and like the new and hate the old! If you want me to say, people are greedy for freshness for a while, and then they still have to be nostalgic for the old, just like people who have fun and excitement outside, and they still want to go home when they are tired! Isn't it! So, what's wrong with me guarding this home, guarding this old place? If I move away, even if I leave and give me a house in the same place, who knows if it will be built in the Year of the Monkey? What if he can't find me in the meantime? What should I do?"

As she spoke, she buried her face in her hands and cried, crying very sadly, tears seeped out along her fingers, flowing on the back of her thin hand, Shao Xiaoyu's shoulders shook and shook, looking pitiful.

I just went around and said so much, Shao Xiaoyu has always insisted on pretending to have a good relationship with her boyfriend, very happy, and refuses to let go at all, I didn't expect to ask her a few words about the house, and the casual sentence suddenly broke down her psychological defense, which was indeed unexpected by He Ning, and it was not a good thing for her and Tang Li, you can continue to ask Shao Xiaoyu about some contradictions and entanglements about her and Bu Zhiqiang, as well as the "negative man".

"Don't cry, don't cry," He Ning hurriedly sat down next to Shao Xiaoyu, put his hand on Shao Xiaoyu's shoulder, and comforted him softly, "Is there a conflict with your boyfriend?" It's okay, it's okay, how can there be a relationship between two people who don't quarrel, and they can quarrel means that both people still have the desire to communicate, but the way is not quite right, wait until a few days later, and then communicate well, there will be nothing!"

Shao Xiaoyu took the opportunity to pill his head on He Ning's shoulder, and cried loudly, although He Ning said that he was not used to such physical contact with unfamiliar people, now he could only stand up, while letting her rely on herself so much, while still having to comfort with kind words, after a while, Shao Xiaoyu was able to calm down a little, sobbed and straightened up to wipe his tears with the back of his hand.

"I'm so sorry......" she choked up, and after some bitter crying, she spoke in a thick nasal voice again, "You are Zhiqiang's friends, you came to look for him, but I didn't find him, and I let you cry with me for so long, I'm really embarrassed!

"Don't say that, isn't Bu Zhiqiang your good friend, that good friend's good friend, naturally also our good friend, what are you unhappy about, if you can talk to us, talk about it, vent it, it's also good, if you always hold it alone, it's easy to hold back your heart after a long time." ”

Shao Xiaoyu nodded again and again: "Yes, I used to say that Zhiqiang came to me to listen to me, I have something unhappy, make a phone call, and he will come over, I am willing to listen to him talk if he is unhappy, but recently, he has not been here, and he told me that he has some things, and it is not convenient for me to know, so unless he contacts me, let me not take the initiative to contact him before that, so as not to cause any trouble, I don't understand what is going on, I will do what he says, but ...... I've been waiting alone for a while, carrying it alone, it's really hard, I'm very depressed in my heart, and I don't know who I can say, it's like my chest is going to explode, it's too hard and too hard!"

"Are you in a conflict with your boyfriend?"

Shao Xiaoyu's eyes flickered, and he replied hesitantly: "Sort of, mainly blame me, blame me for being too anxious, just like you just said, I also felt that I was thirty-six years old this year, and I was not young anymore, old classmates and old friends of the same age as me, some of the children are in junior high school, and they are late to get married and have children, and now the children are almost in kindergarten, and I am the only one, and I am not even married, let alone having children!" So I was a little out of breath, so I told my boyfriend that I wanted to marry him, the sooner the better, I didn't want to continue to consume like this, he may have been provoked by me, so he said angry words, saying that I didn't want to continue to consume and give up, he never asked me to wait for him, and said that I should hurry up and find my own happiness, he didn't want to delay me...... I was so sad at the time, and I didn't hear that he was deliberately angry, so I quarreled, he shook his hand and left, and he didn't look for me until now, what about me, after calming down, I slowly figured it out, whether I get married or not has nothing to do with feelings, and whether it can last forever has nothing to do with it, he may just not like to be bound by such a piece of paper that has no value, it's not that he doesn't love me, it's me who is wrong, and he hasn't been able to withstand his test, so I've adjusted my mentality now, and I won't urge him to get married in the future, but when will he come to see me！”