Chapter 35: Adapt to your circumstances

In a person's life, everything can not be smooth sailing, let alone everything can not go well, there will always be troubles and sorrows accompanied, otherwise human beings will not have development and progress, when things do not go well from time to time, how to face it, that is, to go with the fate of the troubles. In fact, casualty is a kind of enterprising, it is the behavior and motivation of the wise, and it is also the excuse of the fool. It is not to follow, but to go with the flow, not to resent, not to be aggressive, not to be excessive, not to be forced. It is not casual, it is to grasp the opportunity, not pessimistic, not rigid, not flustered, and not forgetful. With a kind of concept, it is a kind of free and easy, a maturity of life, and a practice of human feelings. What is fate? Everything in the world has the possibility of meeting, accompanying and having fun with each other. Possibility, possibility, possibility, non-possibility. Fate is everywhere and all the time. You, me, and him are all in the network of fate. As the saying goes, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles, but there is no fate to meet on the other side. Thousands of miles away, in a foreign country, strangers even look at you and smile, this is fate. There are also those who have been in love for a long time, but they will meet for no time. Fate, there is gathering and dispersing, there is a beginning and an end. Some lament that there is no feast in the world that will never be dissolved. If you want to disperse, why gather? Rim is a kind of existence, a process. If there is a fate, there is no chance to live, and the breeze sends the white clouds. Life has something to ask for, ask for it, I like it, I can't ask for it, and I don't have to worry about it. If so, where will there be any troubles in life? Bitterness and happiness follow fate, gain and loss follow fate, cultivate with the attitude of the world, and harvest with the attitude of birth, this is the highest state of life with fate.

Fate is often understood by some people as not needing to do something and resigning itself to fate, which also serves as a reason to avoid problems and difficulties. As everyone knows, casual fate is not to give up the pursuit, but to let people face life with an open-minded attitude, casual fate is a kind of wisdom, can make people in a fanatical environment, still have a quiet mentality, calm mind, casual fate is a kind of cultivation, is full of vicissitudes of life, is the experience of reading all human feelings, is the epiphany of overdraft life. Fate is not without principles, without a position, and it is not casual and sloppy. Fate requires many conditions to be established, and if you can follow the cause and not violate the truth, then this is called fate.

In life, some people often have such feelings and confusion: Why do some people not like me? Why don't some people understand me? Why is this the case? If you look at it from the perspective of fate, you don't need any reason to dislike it, and you don't need any reason to like it. You don't need any reason to understand, you don't need any reason to understand, fate is fate, you don't need any reason.

There are many living beings in the world, and it can be said that there must be fate for things, such as happy fate, good fate, human fate, wealth fate, chance, good fate, bad fate, etc. This is not only the attitude of Zen practitioners, but also a spirit that we need for a happy life, and it is a peaceful attitude towards survival. After listening to Zhou Jun's ramblings, several people couldn't help but be in awe of him, in the end, he was a person who often wandered outside, and his opinions were different from ordinary people.

"My brother's words made me feel a lot more comfortable, and I had a great understanding of life, which really benefited me a lot, but it is my enlightenment teacher, and I will learn more in the future." Xu Feng admired it very much, he had indeed experienced extraordinary experience in walking in society for a long time, and the meaning was profound, simple and clear, otherwise he would not have been able to say such a thing.