In Yao Qi's hometown, after the child is born, a banquet will be held, which can be three wines, full moon wine, 100 days wine, first birthday wine, or will also ask the fortune teller to watch the most auspicious day to hold a banquet. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

Anyway, no matter when you do it, you can only do it once, after all, relatives and friends come to the banquet to give red envelopes, and if you do more, you will be suspected of deliberately collecting money.

Yao Qi's uncle is a fortune teller, and after Millet was born, Yao's mother called him as soon as possible and asked him to calculate the days of the banquet.

The banquets in the countryside are all held at their own homes, but the date is set, Yao's father and Yao's mother even invited the chef, and their relatives also notified them, but Su Haijiang lost his temper and asked them to do their not to invite his relatives over there.

Of course, Su Haijiang's reason is very big - he said that he didn't discuss the banquet at home, and he originally planned to hold a 100-day wine.

People who don't know hear this or really think he is reasonable, after all, he is the father of the child, and it is really unreasonable not to discuss this matter with him.

But in fact, this is not the case at all, after Yao Qi's due date came down, the family began to discuss the banquet. Yao's father and Yao's mother deliberately brewed more wine that year, and there were many more side dishes such as onions, garlic and coriander, all of which were prepared for the banquet.

The Yao family is used to discussing things at dinner, and when Yao Qi was pregnant, the family talked a lot about discussing the banquet at the dinner table, and Su Haijiang either talked nonsense or didn't pay attention to it. For this kind of family communication, he always asks before answering, and even does not answer when asked, and will not take the initiative to participate. Yao Qi doesn't do much housework at home, but she won't leave immediately after dinner, but will stay to talk to her parents, and then help her parents clean up the dishes and chopsticks. But Su Haijiang ate dinner silently every time, and then immediately left to play games and play mobile phones.

-- Su Haijiang is also naïve, and after getting along for a long time, the Yao family found that every time someone said two words to him at the table, he would only eat one bowl of rice, while he usually ate two bowls of rice. For example, once he had skin moss, and at first there was only a little bit on the side of his eyebrows, but Yao's mother bought him a potion, and he applied it twice and threw it away because he thought it was useless, and then he didn't care about it. Later, there were more and more skin mosses, and even ate them into the scalp, Yao's mother couldn't see them, so she said to him: "Haijiang, your skin moss is getting more and more serious, hurry up to the hospital to see, although it is not painful or itchy, but it is not ugly?" This was originally a good intention, but Su Haijiang said with a stinky face, "What's ugly?" And then only ate one bowl of rice that day. This kind of thing happened many times, and the family didn't think much about it at first, but it took many times to discover this pattern.

There is another point, Yao Qi's uncle's cousin went to the military school in college, and only during the winter vacation will take about 20 days off a year, the two families are far away, Yao's father and Yao's mother pondered that their nephew had not come for several years, and when he graduated and entered the army, he would not be free, and he would not have the opportunity to come, so he wanted to set the day when he was on vacation, and he also told his uncle that he would pay attention to it when he looked at the day.

Besides, the wine in the countryside will try to do it in winter, because the weather is cold, the dishes can be stored, and the chef's work is comfortable. If it's summer, you have to throw away a lot of dishes, and the chef has to sweat a lot. Millet grains are born in winter, and there is no reason to wait until the 100 days are hot to make wine.

The most important thing is that Yao's father and Yao's mother plan to pay for the banquet of millet grains, and Su Haijiang wants to call the shots regardless of everything, so there is no reason at all.

Of course, whether it is Yao Qi or Yao's father and mother, they all think that he is looking for an excuse to have a seizure, but in fact, he doesn't care when the child's banquet is held.

The basis is that later, in order to prevent his granddaughter's banquet from being seen as a joke, Yao's father compromised and agreed to make a hundred days of wine, but he said with a cold face that he would not do it.

Later, Yao Qi was also popular, and at that time she had already decided to divorce Su Haijiang, she thought that she couldn't say anything about not holding a banquet for her children after the divorce, and it would really make people laugh at that time. So I discussed it with Yao's father and Yao's mother, and asked my uncle to watch the banquet again.

As a result, the cousin has returned to the military academy on the day of re-watching, not to mention, the most irritating thing is the attitude of the Su family. Su Haijiang didn't care about it, but the Yao family didn't want his granddaughter's banquet to go wrong, and Yao's father specially sent invitations to several relatives of the Su family. As a result, whether it was Su Haijiang's three uncles, aunts and uncles, and the cousins below, they all said that they couldn't come if Su Haijiang didn't let them come, otherwise Su Haijiang would be angry and ignore them. The third uncle, who had promised well, finally regretted not coming.

At this juncture, the Yao family has to hold this banquet no matter what, because if you don't do it, you really can't do it.

――In Yao Qi's hometown, no matter who has children in either family of men and women, they will hold a banquet, unless the family can't live anymore, they don't want millet grains to be wronged no matter what.

Then on the day of the banquet, none of the Su family came, and the two tables of dishes prepared were wasted.

Although the relatives are kind, the villagers are simple, and they don't say anything unpleasant, Yao Qi still feels aggrieved for her daughter.

What's more, after the divorce, Su Haijiang's eldest uncle also came to their village to say some unclear words.

is similar to saying that Yao Qi didn't let Su Haijiang touch Su Haijiang before the two divorced, but someone said that in front of Yao's mother, Yao's mother sprayed back - where did you really want to touch the child? Can my daughter have a baby alone?

also said that the matter of the children's banquet would be like that because Yao's mother was too small and reluctant to have two tables of banquets, and the people who didn't know it took it seriously.

In fact, Yao's father and Yao's mother did have a disagreement with Su Haijiang on the matter of inviting people, and Su Haijiang wanted to invite all the relatives in the clan - they have a lot of relatives in the clan, and the men who enter the family according to the rules are treated as daughters who have been married, except for those who are close to them, they are basically not invited. But the people of the Su family don't know what psychology is, and they call everything, so the gift money that the Yao family took out was not five thousand, but two or three thousand.

What's even funnier is that the Su family called them to hold a banquet for their children, but the child's generation is the same as Su Haijiang's, so it stands to reason that there is no need to give out red envelopes. As a result, the Yao family felt embarrassed to go empty-handed, and Yao Qi thought that when the two got married, they received 600 gifts, so they wrapped 600 and returned it.

After two years of marriage, the Su family's red and white ceremonies alone went to seven families, and the key is that these seven families are all very distant.

And Yao's father, Yao's mother, and Yao Qi felt troublesome about this, so they decided to only call close relatives at this banquet, which was a gesture and asked those distant relatives not to come to invite them if they had something to do in the future, but Su Haijiang was stunned and wanted to shout. I talked to him in a good voice, but he said with a straight face that so-and-so in the clan was a very good little brother with him.

――Yao Qi almost cursed, good little brother, you never contact people on the phone? She wondered if he had the other party's mobile phone number.

Also, at that time, Su Haijiang said that he wanted to invite a colleague, and then Yao Qi asked him if his colleague had a child and he had ever been to a banquet, and he said no, Yao Qi said that such a thing is not very good, it is too expensive, after all, if you eat a banquet, you will have to give a red envelope. As a result, Su Haijiang got angry and said that they asked him to come to eat, and said that he couldn't get a red envelope.

- This kind of thing, even if you say you don't want red envelopes, people can't really come to eat and drink for nothing. In the final analysis, it will still be said that it is greedy for cheap money. What's more, Luo Qi didn't think much about it at the time, but in hindsight, Su Haijiang didn't go to work after she gave birth to millet grains, and he is not a character who will call to inform him on purpose, people don't even know that he is a father, who will ask him for a banquet?

Even if the reason is not in Su Haijiang, but because he is worried that he will lose his temper and mess things up, Yao's father and Yao's mother feel that inviting more people is just a trivial matter, since he wants to invite it, he will invite it, and promise to invite the Su family and his colleagues.

Who knew that he still made a fuss later, and his relatives over there were not allowed to come.

Later, his uncle also told people that they were actually going to come to the banquet, but Su Haijiang's name was not on the invitation, so they didn't come.

- Is this something that is not clear? Su Haijiang was not allowed to invite his relatives over there, why should he write his name? Let him find another reason to make a big fuss?

Later, Yao Qi would go to the capital to settle down, more or less for this reason. If it weren't, she would have loved to stay in her hometown for the rest of her life.