Bao Yongliang listened to his wife's nagging and had no words, what else could he say at this time, if he had something to say, he couldn't rely on the society, he couldn't come to the government because of his hard life, he could only rely on his own bad luck and hit the muzzle. ◎, my wife works in the government department, stays in the agency all day long, deals with the leadership, hears and sees many things, and has a lot of understanding of the dark side of officialdom, so naturally she will have her opinions, and what she says is not unreasonable, although it is a little mean, it is still in line with some truths. And when I was the director before, I was an official, I used to be proud of marrying a good husband, but now I am not the director, I will inevitably have a sense of loss, women are just good nagging, give her an ear to say.

"You usually don't have a good grasp of the relationship with the leaders, so you end up like this. Feng Aihua glanced at her husband and continued.

Between subordinates and leaders, there is absolutely no friend at all, and don't treat the leader as a buddy friend, if the new leader is kind to you, if you stand in the wrong position, put yourself in the role of his buddies, and speak lightly or seriously, it is a big mistake. In a few days, he will find a way to let you understand that a leader is a leader, a subordinate is a subordinate, and the relationship between you is not really like that, not to the point where you have nothing to say.

Imagine that when you stand next to the sun, you can never shine. So, when you become the sun, you still want others to look back on yesterday's sunset. As the old saying goes, only women and villains are difficult to raise, but in fact, only women and leaders are difficult to raise. If you are far away, you will be angry, and if you are near, you will not forgive, and you will be like a tiger. Alienating leaders and attracting annoyance. Too much to do for leadership. He'll be jealous of you. Slowly, the pro-pole anti-sparse. In fact, interpersonal relationships are all psychological warfare, and we must pay attention to the boundary effect and grasp a degree between affinity and sparseness. For example, the newly transferred or newly appointed leaders are smiling and cordial no matter who they meet. If you think that the new head is approachable, connected to the masses, and has no shelves, you are very wrong. Three days later. Most of them are exposed, their eyes are facing upward, there is no crowd, and they can no longer find the shadow of the beginning of their tenure, but they are full of officialdom and the shelf is not small.

Everyone understands the truth that once a son of heaven is a courtier, a king and a tiger, so it is not okay to get too close to the leader, and it is not okay to be too far away. If you follow too closely, you are afraid of standing in the wrong line, once the big tree falls. When the trees fall and the macaques scatter, great calamity will come. It's too far away. The good will never be your turn, and the bad will not be indispensable to you. Neither is the left nor the right, and this is a lingering worry for the employees of the unit, especially those who have an official and a half-job. Those who want to pursue careers and seek benefits value the relationship between upper-level leaders, and those who want to be chic and popular, and the relationship between brothers and sisters. It doesn't matter if you have the ability to eat hard, if you don't have the ability and it doesn't matter, you just look at others to eat, if you have the ability and the relationship, don't worry about eating, and if you don't have the ability, you can eat with it. The problem is that people who think they have the ability may not be able to get the approval of the leader, so those who have the ability and those who don't have the ability have to desperately find a relationship, and those who have a relationship do not hesitate to rack their brains to consolidate the relationship. Anyone who does not go up in his position, the word of the public will not pull the relationship, and no one thinks that his ability is not enough, which is the most decent reason. But in front of the leaders, he never said that he was a talented person, and it was difficult for anyone in the DPRK to be an official. But this is still the reason, but it can't be said.

In officialdom, you must learn the rules of changing your face and be a good person, relying on a kind heart, and being a good person depends on a fickle face. Seeing the boss only chattering, this is forced out, seeing the same level giggling, this is pretending, seeing the subordinates not smiling, and seeing the masses fierce, this is the natural outpouring of emotions. Learn to adapt to the situation, change your face three times a day, vary from person to person, watch the wind make the rudder, see people put off the dishes, maybe you will be able to use your wings when they are hard, this is the foundation of officialdom and the way of survival. Although you need to strengthen your learning and physical and mental conditioning to be more productive. But you'd rather browse the online news and listen to music when no one is around, and you don't concentrate on reading the newspaper during work hours, otherwise everyone who meets you will say, "Hey, you're so idle." Actually, your head was speeding through the motions. Over time, your leaders and peers will not see you well. For example, in the departments of the organs, the atmosphere of the busy departments is always united, tense, strict and not lively, while in the idle departments, the atmosphere becomes active when the leaders are not there, and they seize this opportunity to use the opportunity to open the sky, talk and laugh, brag, talk about the news, discuss women, and pass the boredom. Overtime equals dedication, and efficiency can be ignored. And when the leader is not there, overtime is equal to nothing.

Saturday in the office to look at the Internet is also considered overtime, and overtime is always fixed units, some departments never see overtime, but the same normal operation. When the moon goes, I will go, and if the leader does not leave when he gets off work, his subordinates will not be able to walk confidently. For departments, those who are close to the leader's office often work in the morning and leave work late and go to dinner last, and the office far away will not take these into account. For individuals, people who are far away from the leader always feel that those people are also leaders when they look at the people around them. The temperament and preferences of a unit leader will always subconsciously affect his subordinates. Organs usually talk about the difference in the characteristics of a certain department, but it can always be attributed to the factor of the section chief. Because leadership is the guide, after a long time, the leader's hobby will often become the common hobby of office members, that is, the hobby of the leader, the happiness of the leader, and the happiness of the leader.

"Okay, don't say it, I understand these things, I should be on my back, and I have to think I'm unlucky when I become a scapegoat for some people. Bao Yongliang said with some annoyance.

"What do you know, I don't think you understand anything, you can't tell the stakes, otherwise it wouldn't have come to this point. Feng Aihua said.

The difference between the big guy and the little guy is that the former makes the rules, while the latter can only follow the rules. In officialdom, there are regulations to do things according to regulations, there are no regulations to do things according to the rules, and there are no rules to do things according to the instructions of the leaders. Even if it's a big thing, you have to follow the procedure, and even if you make a mistake, the board won't hit you. The left and right hands of the so-called leader are an assistant and a thug. Whoever sticks to the matter first is unlucky, don't think that if you transfer, instruct, and implement a thing according to the procedure, everything will be fine, in fact, in the end, there are a lot of things to wipe your ass to deal with, who let you do it comprehensively, the thing is assigned by you, and you have to draw a round in the end. Those who can write are often not as good as running errands, those who are capable are often not as good as those who can blow, and those who can speak are often not as good as those who can send. Those who are down-to-earth and do their duty are not as good as those who are good at publicity, those who abide by the system are not as good as those who are obedient, and those who adhere to principles are not as good as those who can be flexible.

Everyone wants to take less responsibility, do less things, cause less trouble, and do more good people. Therefore, the principle of most people is to push things that are not beneficial to themselves, to hide if they can cause trouble, and to never do things that offend people. There are many things in this world, and the reason why people do them is not because of how important the thing is, but because of a certain person who does it. If you lose someone worth doing, there is no point in a qiē. People who work more have a higher chance of making mistakes, more opportunities for training, more overtime, and a higher probability of offending people. People who do less or don't do often don't make or make fewer mistakes, often have a better impression of the leader, and often get higher votes at the end of the year. The night is always hazy because he hides some of the inside story.

You usually don't hear whining and weird things in the office, such as a newspaper that has found a corrupt official in a certain place, and you can only choose to slander and hate it in your heart. If you are emotionally aroused and lash out with your mouth open, some people will think that you are insinuating, pointing at Sang and scolding Huai, Qu Gao and Widow. While you show your love and hate, you are actually isolating yourself, and you are likely to become the target of others, especially the leader. Maybe one day you'll be targeted. At that time, it will be a big mold, and it may be cleaned out, or even lose your job. If you want to talk about it, you can talk about Clinton in the United States and Saddam Hussein in Iraq. After the experience of the world, everyone will grasp the principle of talking about the past and not talking about the present, not talking about the outside, and not talking about the near and far, and never say anything sensitive to politics. If you say too much, you will lose, and disaster will come from your mouth. Lies are all truths that go against the will, and they are an important mediator in interpersonal relationships.

In this world, only lies can earn people's tears, and only lies can be said to be earth-shattering and cry ghosts and gods. Listening to people only believe half of what they say, that is wisdom, knowing which half can be believed, that is shrewdness. If you learn too much, no one will pay attention to you, if you learn too little, no one will look up to you, you just need to seem to be a little more knowledgeable than the people around you. The most vigilant thing for others is that the officials are not big, and people who are especially capable of doing things are the most taboo about the truth, so most of them dare not confide in the truth, always worrying that saying too much will isolate themselves and bring disaster to themselves.

Listening to his wife's chatter, Bao Yongliang's heart was very uncomfortable, it can really be described as a dragon swimming in shallow water and being played by shrimp, a tiger falling in Pingyang and being bullied by dogs, a cat is more male than a tiger, and a fluffy phoenix is not as good as a chicken. It's just that the people outside humiliate him, and their mouths grow on their heads, and they can't stop their mouths, so they have to let them arrange themselves as they please. I didn't expect that even his wife would count himself like this, and he would talk endlessly, regardless of his depressed mood at all, even if there was a word of comfort, his heart would feel better.

But what can be done, who let himself be dismissed. If he was still in power, he would never have said this to him, and he would have to coax him to talk, and he would never be counted as useless as he is now. Isn't it just not the director, what's the big deal, there is a way that is ten years in the east of the river and ten years in the west of the river, feng shui takes turns, maybe good luck will fall on your head, and then you will say no. (To be continued......)