He Ning and Tang Li nodded clearly, without revealing any emotion, lest Bu Zhiqiang's wife would retract again because of embarrassment and hurt self-esteem, avoiding the question and refusing to say it. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

This bland reaction of the two of them did make Bu Zhiqiang's wife seem to be a little better from an emotional point of view, at least not because of the damage to her self-esteem, as He Ning feared, so she refused to continue.

She was still a little entangled, bit her lip, and looked at her cousin again, who seemed to be very relieved to see that she was willing to take the initiative to face this matter, and hurriedly nodded on the side, encouraging and encouraging her.

Bu Zhiqiang's wife continued: " At the beginning, the two of us were introduced to each other, let me tell you the truth, don't laugh at me, I know that maybe you don't think he has anything special when you see Bu Zhiqiang, but I really think I like him from the first time I saw him, and I feel that this is the person I have been looking for, so I was very happy to agree to continue to contact him, but at that time Bu Zhiqiang did not say anything, saying that he still wanted to think about it again, which suddenly made my parents and the introducers on our side very unhappy, and felt that he said this too much to save face for me, as if he wanted to see if there was a better choiceIf only there was no better consideration of me. At that time, his parents also seemed to be very unhappy, and after telling him, he changed his words, explaining that he felt that he should be serious about his feelings, and if he decided to continue to contact, that is, to be able to get married, and to have a result. As soon as he said this, the introducer on his side also helped, and my parents and the introducer looked a little better, promised to give him a few days to think about it, and said that we could send text messages to chat during this period, and then improve our understanding of each other, and consider a little more mature when making decisions. Seriously, when he said and did that, I didn't feel anything bad at all, nor did I feel hurt my self-esteem, I just felt that this man was really good, really traditional, and really duty!"

"In the relationship, everyone will have times when they are blind and not objective, and with a little color after their own subjective processing, it is inevitable that they will be a little confused. He Ning nodded to her in understanding.

Bu Zhiqiang's wife felt that someone understood her state at the time, and felt very relieved, and when she continued to tell, she didn't have so many worries, she continued: "After that time, he didn't send me any text messages, I originally wanted to send it to him, but I think I'm a woman, no matter how I say it, I have to be reserved, otherwise if I send text messages one by one to others on my side, people still feel annoyed, and go back and tell the introducer that forget it, I don't want to go down, then I will be embarrassed." So I endured it, two days later he took the initiative to call me, asked me to have dinner together, I went, he showed a lot more enthusiasm than before, said that he had considered it, he thought I was a good girl, he wanted to get along with me, I was also very happy, after eating he also asked me to go shopping together, the two of us also took a few headshots, oh, you don't think you necessarily have that kind of life, we didn't have such advanced smartphones at that time, and it was particularly popular to shoot headshots, there are always that kind of small shops on the street. took a big sticker, and he also specially asked the shopkeeper to print two copies, saying that one copy for each of the two of us...... Anyway, at the beginning of our relationship, he was very affectionate and enthusiastic, and then slowly I also felt that his enthusiasm for me was obviously not as good as at the beginning, but I didn't think much about it, I think it might be like this for a long time, the freshness has passed, it may be dull, how can two people be together for a lifetime, enthusiastic for a lifetime. ”

He Ning obviously disagrees with her point of view, although He's father and He's mother say that they are not as enthusiastic as fire, but the kind of relationship between the two people has never cooled down, so she also feels that in fact, as long as the two people still love each other, the years can not wear out the enthusiasm, but the fire is boiled to a low heat and simmered, the temperature is moderate, and the only thing that is omitted is publicity, if the temperature between the two people has obviously cooled, there is only one reason, and it is not the erosion of the years, but the feelings between the two people have weakened, and the psychology of one or both parties has quietly changed。

But of course, she didn't preach Bu Zhiqiang's wife, firstly, the other party may not need the guidance of others, and secondly, it was not such an opportunity at the moment, so He Ning remained silent.

"We have been together for more than a year, and the family is urging us to get married, saying that we are both in our twenties, and it is time to get married. I don't have any opinions, just listen to Bu Zhiqiang, he was a little hesitant at first, and then thought about it for a few days, and it was very sudden to tell me, let me take my household registration ID card, and go to the Civil Affairs Bureau with him to register for marriage, I was startled, asked him why it was so sudden, he said no why, marriage is a matter of enthusiasm, and it is necessary to take advantage of that enthusiasm, when there is that excitement [HX] feeling, I will hurry up to get the certificate, then I can feel it. I was really stupid at the time, I didn't think about anything, I just agreed, and after I got the certificate back, I didn't feel right, I always felt that when he was with me, he was not enthusiastic at the beginning, and then he suddenly became active, and he got married too, at first he was obviously not particularly willing, and then suddenly he was so anxious, and he always felt that someone else put pressure on him, or he was angry with someone. ”

Bu Zhiqiang's wife continued: "I secretly inquired about some of his things, it turns out that I have never done this, I think two people together, the most important thing is to trust each other, if you can't trust each other, then you doubt me all day, I doubt yours, what's the point of being together, do you say?"

He Ning and Tang Li both nodded, what she said was right, but in this context, there would definitely be a big turn in what she was going to say next.

As they expected, Bu Zhiqiang's wife continued: "At that time, I really felt that the more I thought about it, the more wrong it became, so I secretly inquired about him, and this inquiry really made me inquire about something. Bu Zhiqiang has a high school classmate, his name is Shao Xiaoyu, I heard that she is a more beautiful girl in their school, Bu Zhiqiang has always liked her since he was in school, and has a good impression of her, but that girl doesn't seem to mean anything to him, but Bu Zhiqiang doesn't give up and keeps chasing, that Shao Xiaoyu also has a favorite person, and a boyfriend, I don't remember so clearly, anyway, that's what happened. At the beginning, when others introduced me to Bu Zhiqiang, Bu Zhiqiang himself was unwilling, but he couldn't resist his parents, so he came to meet, and after meeting, he didn't agree, and then he went back to find that Shao Xiaoyu, saying that he was going to fall in love with a girl, Shao Xiaoyu was not jealous at all, he was quite happy, I wish him happiness, I want to look back at his girlfriend's photos or something, Bu Zhiqiang was very angry, a little angry, so he agreed to be with me, and specially took a photo or something to show that Shao Xiaoyu, wanting Shao Xiaoyu to feel jealous, sad and sad。 ”

"That Shao Xiaoyu hasn't responded all the time?" He Ning guessed.

Bu Zhiqiang's wife nodded: "Yes, people have boyfriends, and they like their boyfriends very much, they don't like Bu Zhiqiang at all, it's just Bu Zhiqiang's own shaving head and picking his head hot, and he is just an amorous unrequited lover." I estimate that the temperature dropped when Bu Zhiqiang fell in love with me later, and it had something to do with Shao Xiaoyu not being jealous and not careful, and finally he suddenly wanted to get a marriage certificate with me, also because he told Shao Xiaoyu that he was going to marry me, Shao Xiaoyu was not sad and sad, and happily said that he wanted to eat his candy, Bu Zhiqiang was angry again, and called me to get the certificate on the same day, I was a big fool, and I really followed others. I was very sad when I first found out about this, and my cousin also persuaded me to break up with him, after all, he has someone else in his heart, whether he is in love with me, or getting a marriage certificate, it is all for the sake of being angry with others, making people jealous or something, this is too inauthentic, but on the one hand, I really like Bu Zhiqiang, on the other hand, I also feel that the certificate has been ripped off, even if there is no wine, if I go to change the certificate with Bu Zhiqiang, then I am also a divorced woman, then I will not lose! Anyway, I also like Bu Zhiqiang, so I might as well give it a try, in case he slowly forgets Shao Xiaoyu after marriage and likes me, then I won't succeed in saving my feelings! So I didn't listen to my cousin's persuasion, and later set up a banquet under the old man of the two families. ”

"What happened to the result? After so many years, has he forgotten which Shao Xiaoyu?" the cousin said to Bu Zhiqiang's wife with an unhappy face on the side, "You are just whimsical, I told you a long time ago, girls can't be too active in their relationships, they can't give too much, otherwise they will suffer in the end." ”

"Don't talk about me, I already admit that you are right, what's the use of you saying these things to block me at this time!" Bu Zhiqiang's wife said sadly, and seemed to be quite dissatisfied with her cousin.

Her cousin folded her arms over her chest, rolled her eyelids, and said nothing.

"Do you have any evidence to prove that Bu Zhiqiang's foreign debts must have something to do with Shao Xiaoyu?" asked Tang Li.

Bu Zhiqiang's wife shook her head: " I can't come up with any actual evidence, but after so many years of marriage, I have children, I always thought that I was 100% invested in him, my family, and my children, so he should definitely be able to live a good life, and he is usually good to children, but then I found out that he seems to have been in contact with Shao Xiaoyu, Shao Xiaoyu's feelings don't seem to be developing very well, her boyfriend later seems to have dumped her, and married a girl with better conditions than her, she was quite stimulated, and then she couldn't let go of the negative man, so he always cried to Bu Zhiqiang, and Bu Zhiqiang was always affected by these things。 ”

"You mean, Shao Xiaoyu and Bu Zhiqiang ......," He Ning tentatively guessed.

Bu Zhiqiang's wife shook her head: "No, I have never suspected that there is anything between Shao Xiaoyu and Bu Zhiqiang, because if Shao Xiaoyu is interesting to Bu Zhiqiang, she may not be hurt like that by that negative man, that negative man heard that he was married and had children, and he also broke off the connection with Shao Xiaoyu in private, so she couldn't let go of it, and it was impossible to be together, so it was very painful, and there was a suicide in the middle, if it wasn't discovered by Bu Zhiqiang, he might really die." Shao Xiaoyu purely regarded Bu Zhiqiang as her lifesaver, and felt that the people around her cared about Bu Zhiqiang the most for so many years and treated her best, so she had any sadness and sadness, especially about the negative man, she told Bu Zhiqiang. ”

"Okay, don't call others a negative man, isn't Bu Zhiqiang a negative man to you? So caring about others, taking care of everything, you are the woman who lives with him, marries him and has children! He does this openly, what position is he putting you in? Has he considered your feelings? Can he still be regarded as a person if he does this?" The cousin scolded angrily on the side.

"Don't say that, isn't this also my choice......" Bu Zhiqiang's wife opened her mouth to defend Bu Zhiqiang.

He Ning was still wondering why Bu Zhiqiang's wife was so clear about Shao Xiaoyu's private affairs, this kind of thing was not something that could be heard casually from others, but now that she heard the conversation between the two cousins, she finally understood, and was a little surprised: "What do you mean...... Bu Zhiqiang didn't secretly have dealings with Shao Xiaoyu, but openly and openly?"

Bu Zhiqiang's wife's cheeks were slightly red, and she seemed to be a little embarrassed, she nodded, bit her lip, and then said: "Yes, he was sneaky at first, and then I had a showdown with him, I said that I know Shao Xiaoyu, and I will not interfere with him caring for Shao Xiaoyu, as long as he doesn't do anything unfaithful to his relationship and family, I can even care about Shao Xiaoyu with him, after all, a woman who has suffered emotional betrayal, I also think it's quite pitiful." So he hasn't shied away from me since. I think that if they are put under their noses like this, they will not have any behavior that crosses the line, and if they are sneaky, it will be difficult to say after a long time. But usually he calls Shao Xiaoyu in front of me or something, the only time I have seen Shao Xiaoyu is the time Shao Xiaoyu looked for a short time, that time Bu Zhiqiang really had no choice, he couldn't handle it alone, so he called me. ”