. So you agreed. Li Jinghe said.

"What if you don't agree, this is a set in itself, who doesn't want to take advantage of their own people, Ke Liang has already told me, this face can't be given without giving it, and it will also sell you a favor, establish some prestige for you, and be more thoughtful in the future, don't let people be gunslingers. Li Youde said.

"Buddies are good, they won't sell me. Li Jinghe said.

"You are arrogant, feel good about yourself, walk in society and be tender, you haven't suffered a big loss, you naturally don't know what is going on, don't treat everyone as a good person in the future, you can't be like this when you go to work in the government, you have to be careful everywhere, and you can't be calculated by villains. Li Youde said.

"I know, no matter how stupid I am, I can still distinguish between good people, and I can't be calculated. Li Jinghe said.

"In short, you must be careful when you talk and do things, you can't have a hot brain, you must do whatever you want, you must use your brain first, go to work in the government, which is equivalent to entering the officialdom, which is very different from your current work, everything must be thought before acting. Li Youde said.

When entering the officialdom, you have to deal with all kinds of people, and it is inevitable that you will encounter some villains, who do not make big mistakes, and small mistakes are very hateful. We must have more eyes, beware of villains, use wisdom to see through their tricks, and act at the right time, in short, not to fall into the trap. It is generally believed that honesty is the foundation of life, the most basic value needs of society and a kind of social moral norm. However, under the impetus of the historical rings, with the increasing prosperity of the market economy, and with the increasing spread of modern thought, the spiritual outlook and value orientation of the people have undergone fundamental changes. Duplicity, people with honey and swords keep pouring out. Counterparting honey-bellied sword, those who play duplicitous must be on guard. Many of the incidents were caused by them.

The knife hidden in the smile is often used as a metaphor for people who are kind on the outside but insidious and vicious in their hearts. People's explanation of the behavior of the person who hides the knife in the smile is also the kind of practice of swords, swords on both sides, shouting brother in the mouth, and touching the guy in the hand. It's a seemingly friendly and murderous tactic. There is such a story. A fox is being chased by a hunter, and when it sees the woodcutter, it quickly calls for help. The woodcutter told him to hide in his little hut. Soon after, the hunter caught up and asked the woodcutter if he had seen a fox pass by, but the woodcutter said he hadn't. But the hand pointed to the place where the fox was hiding. But the hunter did not see the woodcutter's gesture and left. When the fox saw that the hunter was gone, he immediately ran out and left without thanking the woodcutter. The woodcutter reproached it for not being grateful, and the fox replied: If your heart is the same. I'll thank you. If you hide a knife in your smile and are inconsistent with your words and deeds, you are a two-faced person. It is impossible for the woodcutter to please the fox and the hunter in his mouth, and to get benefits on both sides.

Although modern society is not the era of you fighting for me, people's hearts are unpredictable, and it is a long communication process to understand a person thoroughly. There is verbal communication and there is non-verbal communication. It needs to be experienced with the heart, and it needs to be felt with the heart. To understand a person is to understand a heart. And it is difficult to really understand a person's heart, Lu Yao knows the horsepower, and sees the hearts of the people over time. That being said, even if you spend a lifetime observing carefully, you may not be able to truly understand a person. It is absolutely impossible to really understand a person. There is one more sentence. The widest in the world is the sea, and wider than the sea is the sky. Wider than the sky is the human heart. The sea is unfathomable, let alone the human heart, which is even more unfathomable.

Life is like a one-way ticket with no return, there is no rehearsal, every game is a live broadcast, and if you miss something, you will miss it for a lifetime. People are changeable, and they can't keep an unchanging promise, but they can't keep a fickle heart. Life often jokes with people, what you expect it will be farther away from you, and whoever you cling to will be hurt the most. How many people can see through, how many past events are unbearable, the clock of time wakes up the dream of immortality, life is a mixture of joys, sorrows, sorrows, and joys, how many touches can be kept, how many friends accompany to the end, this world comes and goes every second, never stays for anyone, and the search for a lifetime is empty in a blink of an eye.

Therefore, you have to be careful to watch out for the people around you, and beware of the kind of people who hide knives in their smiles and harm you invisibly. Remember, before believing in a person, you must learn to observe and test him comprehensively, and don't blindly give yourself an assumption that the other person is kind, because everyone has selfish intentions, especially in today's materialistic world, there is no way to stop them from using your kindness to achieve some of their own goals.

The villain who is good at stammering is easy to please the master, and when the villain is successful, anyone who offends them will not have a good result, and revenge will be avenged. The villains seem to be such a group, they can't see, they can't touch, they are in a trance, they are a group of filthy rats hiding in dark corners. The villain is both yin and sinister, yin is on the outside, and danger is on the inside. The villain has a complex psychology and mysterious behavior. Because the villain is small, it often does not attract people's attention. However, the lethality of the villains is enormous, and the danger they cause is also far-reaching. The insidious viciousness of the villain is even more terrifying than that of the tiger dinosaur.

In life, there are all kinds of people around you, and it is inevitable to encounter villains who are pretentious. The villain always has infinite energy to entangle with you in small things. A look or a word from you will make the villain excited, and use his smart brain to challenge your concentration. If you get into a situation where you're dealing with a villain, that's exactly what he expects, because it's you who is doomed to fail. The villains are close to the leader, and the skill of yang and yin is far higher than that of honest and loyal people. People who only know that they are immersed in hard work will be like being pulled by a mess, and even if they get rid of it, they will be scarred. As far as the leader is concerned, if the villains don't listen to their words, once they listen to their beliefs, then your position, even if it is not his, will not be long away from the time when you roll up and leave. Therefore, villains should not be despised or guarded against. The ancients have long said that for the villain, we must be good at seeing through his various masks and stay away.

Tight-lipped like a bottle, defensive like a city, only three points of words when meeting people, not all of your heart. It is to tell everyone to be cautious when speaking. However, it is impossible to keep silent, so you can only be cautious. This is a protective measure for one's own safety and character. Some people in society are afraid that the world will not be chaotic, and they are making waves every day, arranging the shortcomings and rights and wrongs of others and the rights and wrongs between people vividly, and exaggerating to say when they meet people, I don't know how many seeds of resentment have been planted.

There is a fable about the fact that one day the lion called the sheep to him and asked him if it stinks, and the sheep said, "Yes." The lion bit off its head. The lion called the wolf again and asked the same question, and the wolf said, "It doesn't stink." The lion bit the wolf into pieces. Finally, the lion called the fox to him and asked, and the fox said, "I have a bad cold and can't smell it." As a result, the fox survived. It can be seen that it is not good to speak too honestly, and those who say good things and flatter also suffer, and those who only say three points are just right.

Therefore, in today's competitive workplace, it is best to keep your mouth shut, not to complain everywhere, and not to confuse the friendliness and friendship between colleagues, so as not to make yourself the center of attention in the office and leave a bad impression on the leader. This world is full of struggles and contradictions, and there are villains everywhere in society. As the saying goes, it is easy to retreat and rise, and it is easy to overturn the hearts of villains. A gentleman can't fight a villain, and if he speaks carelessly, he is in danger of being trapped and slaughtered.

There is a saying that it is difficult to be a scholar, and it is even more difficult to be a person. Being a man is a great science, and a person who does not have a long mind will always be the object of other people's calculations. For a person, having an eye is not a bad thing, and not having it is called sad. Because interpersonal relationships are complex and the world is changing, it is impossible to deal with interpersonal relationships without using more brains and thinking too much in terms of being a person and doing things, and making dim sum eyes can help you a lot. People often use words like "heart-eye" to describe that some people's motives are not pure, and they are good at using deceitful tricks, so that the heart-eyed and scheming leave a derogatory image on people. In fact, the heart eye is a mature and stable person's necessary IQ must pay attention to the psychological details.

From ancient times to the present, there are hundreds of kinds of life, there are gentlemen and villains. There are not many gentlemen, but there are many villains. If you are not careful, you will be framed by villains or fall into their trap and be accused by them, or even be killed by someone and die somehow. Therefore, to be a man, you must keep an eye on it and beware of the trapping of villains.

In life, some people still can't avoid the villain's conspiracy despite all precautions, and some people still can't avoid the villain's conspiracy no matter what they do. A villain is a villain, and no matter who you are, he will give you a shot in the back. Therefore, in Shengluo, we must pay attention to our words and deeds, especially in dealing with people and things, and don't fall into the trap of others.

The words of people are terrible, and the two sentences of people's hearts should be guarded will not be outdated no matter when they are used, and they still have a lot of educational significance for modern people. People say that you can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to guard against others, and that's true. The characteristics of society itself are that interests and interests are mutually contained, and some people who do whatever it takes to achieve their goals are always around, and they are treated with more eyes than being careful.

When you are elated and carried away, it is also the time when the villain takes advantage of the void. Therefore, no matter what time we are, we should not get carried away, we must be cautious in doing things, and always keep a clear head, so as to achieve the final success. (To be continued)

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