Chapter 480: Finding a Soulmate
Chen Zihao returned to the office and remembered about Xu Feng and Chen Fei, Xu Feng had already returned to work, and the two of them had that meaning, it was time to explain the words. ↑, so he called Chen Fei to the office and told her that Xu Feng had come back and was now at work. Ask her for her opinion if she has any ideas for making friends with him. Chen Fei's face blushed when he heard this, and then nodded, indicating that he was willing, and Chen Zihao explained Xu Feng's situation in detail.
"I met by chance in the car that day, and told me about him, as long as the person is good, I will not pursue the previous things. Chen Fei said.
"In fact, everyone can remember the past, but remembering and keeping it in their hearts are two different things. Although he had various reasons and experiences in the past, as you should not mention these things, in fact, it is not beneficial to both parties, and it will not help your relationship, on the contrary, it is what you should do to make him love you better, instead of always interrogating his past. Chen Zihao said.
Maybe he had a girl he liked in the past, but because of some reason they weren't together, it left a scar in his heart, so he said that he would put the past in his heart and not touch it. At this time, you should be more tolerant to understand him and communicate with him with your love. No one can change the past, only the present, and he will slowly forget the past. Even if you don't forget it, you don't always take it to heart.
If he really loves you and is reluctant to mention his past, there's a reason for that. Because he doesn't want some things from the past to disturb your love life now, he wants to show a new self to you. And he won't be like he used to be, so there's no need to always ask about his past. This will only make him feel more pain in his heart, and falling in love is a matter of two people. Both sides can understand and tolerate each other. I believe that there will be a good relationship.
"Big brother is right. Both sides can understand and tolerate each other. Don't count his past. Chen Fei said.
Although Xu Feng suffered some setbacks, but he is a good person, has a certain sense of dedication, after coming to work in the office, he is very serious about his work, leading by example everywhere, and has achieved very good results, which is deeply liked by his colleagues. You can't go wrong with making friends with a man like that. If you have no opinion, you can call him up now. Chen Zihao said.
Seeing that Chen Fei didn't speak, knowing that she had no opinion, he immediately called Xu Feng and asked him to come to his office. After Xu Feng arrived, Fei was there, and couldn't help but be surprised, how could she come here. suddenly remembered that she was Chen Zihao's cousin, and this was intended to match him and invite her to meet. He's really, why didn't he tell him in advance. Giving him a surprise attack, so that he was not prepared in the slightest. I can't help but feel a little nervous.
"Old classmate, why are you here. Xu Feng asked.
"Why can't I come, I heard that you came back from the study, so come. Chen Fei said with a smile.
"Sit down, I'll pour you a glass of water. Xu Feng said and gave Chen Fei a glass of water.
Due to the presence of Chen Zihao, and the relationship between them as brother and sister, Xu Feng had no topic for a while, and stood still stupidly. Chen Zihao saw Haha Yile and said: "Why do old classmates have nothing to say when they meet, after you met in the car that day, you have a good impression of each other, Chen Fei asked me about your situation, I told her truthfully, and I am very satisfied with you, this is not that you just came back today, so I brought her here, I am involved in the line, and I don't care about the rest." ”
"Big brother, yes. Chen Fei said with some embarrassment.
"Okay, I won't talk about it, you can talk for yourself, the space here today belongs to you. Chen Zihao said and walked out. Because things were too sudden, Xu Feng was not prepared at all in his thoughts, and he didn't know what to say.
"The training class is over?" Chen Fei said in a quiet voice.
"Yes, it's been a stressful few days, but I've learned a lot. Xu Feng said.
"It's good to improve your business. Chen Fei said.
"You know all about me. Xu Feng said.
"Big brother told me about you, and I had an unusual experience. Chen Fei said.
"I fell into Li Jinghe's trap. Xu Feng told him again how he broke up with Yuan Yuan, after all, it was a disgraceful thing, and she should be let know, otherwise she would think that she deliberately hid it from her, since she wanted to go down, she had to tell her the truth, so that she could show her sincerity.
"I won't blame you for this matter, I blame Li Jinghe for not being a human being, in order to get Yuan Yuan, he used such despicable means, Yuan Yuan was also blind, and he would like him. Chen Fei said.
"It's normal to break up, I don't blame her, it means that there is no such fate between us, as long as she is doing well, I will sincerely bless her. Xu Feng said.
"You're right, feelings can't be forced, just go with the flow. Chen Fei said.
People can't always live the days of reminiscing about the past, even if the memories are good, they can't always be immersed in it. After all, it is in the past tense, and we must bravely face the hardships of real life, and find happiness and happiness from it. I can't even think that the old days were so good, and it would be nice to be able to go back to the past. Remember, time is never turned back, and you can never go back to the way it was. If you always think like this, you don't have the courage to continue to live well. If the memories of the past are sad and painful, then there is no need to live in the past. Who is not sad, you must know to adjust your mentality, after all, there are many relatives, friends and family around who care about you and love you. They don't want to be sluggish, they have to dare to face pain and failure, and be an optimistic person. Of course, it is important to keep the failures of the past in mind in order to achieve future success. For yourself, and even more for those who care and love your family. You must know that real life is very cruel, always living in the past, how can you be in the mood to live a good life. In the long run, I will be eliminated by the world, by society, and by my family, and I hope to return to real life, and I will find that there are many things that need to be done. There are also many people who need help, and you are also a member of society, and you can also add luster to life. You will definitely find something more to cherish and grasp in real life than in the past, and remember that life is always full of sunshine.
"Thank you for your understanding, a lot of people have nostalgic episodes, and I'm no exception. Xu Feng said.
As soon as I have free time, I think about the past, indulge in it, and don't want to come out. Often I meditate alone, thinking about the past, happy and unhappy. Most of them are unhappy, I don't know why, and I can't remember how happy they are. If you're unhappy, you can't forget it. I like this kind of memories of the past very much, so that those who once had and now lost are engraved in the depths of my heart over and over again, and then hide them in the softest part of my heart after heartache again and again, quietly, silently. I like the taste of heartache, indulging in the tickling feeling of tears running down my cheeks. It is said that a wise person is a fool who never cherishes the past and lets go of the present.
"Everyone has to face reality, although the reality is cruel, but it is also beautiful. Chen Fei said.
You can't always close yourself in a certain space in the past, you can always close yourself, although the memories are beautiful, but the reality still has to be faced, you can only take the past as a good memory, and leave a good memory in your life. Yesterday, already a voided check, only today, is the first and only day we can rely on for the rest of our lives. And tomorrow is a blank check, and only today's blank check can fill in today's good deeds and achievements. Whether to live happily or unhappily is an inescapable choice that everyone faces every day.
"You're right, but I've always missed the past. Xu Feng said.
"Okay, don't talk about it again in the future, and a new life starts today. Chen Fei diverted the topic and said.
The two began to chat, chatting about the happy things between classmates and the happy things at work, the two chatted very speculatively, and time passed quickly unconsciously. At this time, Xu Feng's mobile phone rang, and Cheng Li told him to come down and seal the money, and it was almost time to get off work.
"Go ahead, I'll go back later. Chen Fei said.
"Alright, I'll send you. Xu Feng said.
Xu Feng came to the business room, and several people smiled, making him a little embarrassed. Cheng Li asked, "How is it, the two of them can talk okay." Cheng Li said.
"Okay, the two of us can talk very well, we used to be old classmates, and we have endless topics. Xu Feng said.
"From the expressions, you guys had a great time. Cheng Li said.
"No wonder we talked about it for so long, I almost forgot to get off work, we are a natural pair. Cheng Li said with a smile.
"That's good, I finally found a soulmate, take the initiative in the future, contact her frequently, don't twist and pinch like a big girl, then people won't like it. Gu Xihua said.
"Chen Fei, we all know each other, she is a very good girl, I really hope you can be together. Cheng Li said.
"You haven't been here for a few days, she comes here every day to inquire about you, and she cares about you very much, you two will definitely be able to do it. Gu Xihua said.
"A few eldest sisters praise you like a flower, and treat them well one day. Cheng Li said jokingly.
"Thank you, big sisters, I'll invite you one day. Xu Feng said.
Fei is really interested in him, he is not in the unit these days, and he has come here many times to inquire about his situation, Cheng Li and the others must have said good things for themselves, and they are very grateful. (To be continued......)