Dingguo Gong seemed to have fallen into a fog, knowing that ignoring it would be a solution, but he still couldn't move. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

Banxia sighed and said, "You never thought about how Ying'er is doing now, right?" ”

Parents must want their children to be healthy and safe, but people like Dingguo and his wife seem to only want their children to be healthy and safe, which is too child's play.

Banxia didn't know how to tell her feelings, before she decided to come to Northern Xinjiang, she had already figured out, even if she couldn't stop a catastrophe, but at least it would stop a family tragedy.

She didn't want Gongsun Ying'er to end up like her, in the end, her family was not family, and her relatives had no relatives, so it would be too miserable.

The past is vivid, Banxia can still remember the experience of her going home, it seems that many years have passed, and it seems that it has never passed, in her heart, that parting is the most painful, profound and unforgivable farewell in the two lives.

"If you choose your own path, you must explain it to your daughter, whether she agrees with it or not, at least you, as the parents of the child, need to explain the origin of the matter clearly, and then decide where to go."

It's not about saying goodbye, and it's not about deception and concealment.

Parents feel that their children are very fragile and will always need the protection of their parents, as if they will not be able to survive the slightest difficulty, but parents have never understood their children, they are far stronger and braver than parents think.

Perhaps all it takes is an explanation, or a conversation, many contradictions and problems will be gone, and many family tragedies will be reduced, rather than being avoided forever, or forever deceived and coaxed, which is not the best explanation for children.

Listening attentively and teaching earnestly are all good ways to communicate, and only speaking out is the best choice.

Banxia didn't know if Dingguo Gong understood, but when she came here, she had to make her meaning clear, "I hope you can write a letter to Ying'er and tell her what you really think in your heart." ”

Gongsun Ying'er and Tao left and went to the capital, and Banxia could receive letters from them from time to time to keep them safe, but Banxia didn't know what they were doing. If it is so turbulent today, according to Gongsun Ying'er's temperament, it is not good to say what impulsive things she will do, Banxia just wants Gongsun Ying'er to have more nostalgia, don't be too careless and presumptuous to do anything, as long as there is concern, presumably Gongsun Ying'er can also be cautious and careful, don't follow those people to play with their lives.

After the Gongsun family arrived in the capital, it calmed down, as if the water droplets entered the lake and sea, and there was no movement at all, who knows what happened to the Gongsun family? According to Gongsun Ying'er's clear temperament of love and hate, it is impossible not to plan for the Gongsun family, and she is still so young, she still doesn't understand many things, if she thinks that she is only one person, she is not afraid of life and death, so she is not afraid to do anything, then she will be kicked down quickly.

Tao Ruyi's letter faintly mentioned the change in Gongsun Ying'er's temperament, Tao Ru naturally can't control Gongsun Ying'er, the two have always been opposites, and it can't be said that they can hug each other to keep warm and become allies when they go outside, so Tao Ru is words are saying that he can let Banxia persuade Gongsun Ying'er not to take his life too seriously.

When Banxia received a reply, of course, he hurriedly wrote a reassuring letter to Gongsun Ying'er, and then set off for northern Xinjiang.

To solve the matter of Gongsun Ying'er, it is necessary to start from the roots.

And Gongsun Ying'er's heart knot, many people know, no one has explained it, so no one does what Gongsun Ying'er does, Banxia has to try it for her.

Who called Banxia has also had an experience?

However, can Dingguo Gong understand Banxia's painstaking efforts?

Banxia looked at the change in Ding Guogong's expression, and somehow, he seemed to see the dampness in his eyes, as if he was about to cry, and without waiting for Banxia to see clearly, Ding Guogong turned around and hurriedly said, "I can't leave now, I can't go to see her." ”

Half-summer air knots.

Could it be that she came all the way to northern Xinjiang just so that they could meet Gongsun Ying'er, which is too pediatric!

"I mean, you and Ying'er have made it clear, no matter what knots you have, it's good for everyone to say it." When Banxia said this, she also felt that this was a good way, "I know Ying'er, she is a very straightforward girl, as long as you tell your thoughts truthfully, she will not blame you for ignoring her for so many years, after all, it is much better to make up for being late than not seeing each other for a lifetime." ”

Dingguo Gong turned his back to Banxia, he couldn't see the expression on his face clearly, and he only heard his voice very hoarse, "I can't leave, I can't go......"

"I didn't tell you to leave!" Banxia couldn't help but raise his voice, and asked a little hateful inside, "I mean, you guys talk straight to the point, and make your worries clear in your hearts, after all, it's a family, can there be any knot that can't be untied?" ”

Dingguo Gong still has his back to Banxia, this kind of behavior is very rude, of course it will be impolite to speak without looking at the other party, but no one is in the mood to think about this at the moment.

Banxia saw that Dingguo Gong did not express his position, and said hurriedly, "Actually, this matter is very easy to handle, since you can't leave now, then write a letter to her, I can help you deliver the letter and ensure that you will not be robbed!" As long as you show your care and love for her, as long as you let her know that you have always loved her, then everything is solved! ”

As long as Dingguo and his wife can take the lead in expressing their stance and give a little care to Gongsun Ying'er, it is already a great comfort for people like Gongsun Ying'er who are eager to see their biological parents, talk a few words to their biological parents, and get the love of their parents.

As long as Gongsun Ying'er has people and things that she cares about very much, don't always worry about the danger of Gongsun's family, many situations will be better.

After all, Tao also said that the current situation of the Gongsun family should not be too presumptuous, Gongsun Yinger has been jumping up and down to help the Gongsun family, which is not conducive to the resumption of the Gongsun family, there must always be a buffer stage, in order to let the originally heinous wealthy family stand again, and wait for others to forget the previous things, and start again, this is the best choice for the Gongsun family at present.

But Gongsun Ying'er didn't know whether she couldn't understand or go against Taoru, anyway, she didn't listen to what Taoru said, and she became more and more aggressive, which was not good for Gongsun's family and Gongsun Ying'er, and would become a target for others.