Chapter 490: Be generous

As soon as several leaders of the branch left, Chang Shouxin, Wei Dahai, Pan Xueliang, Li Tiecheng, and Han Pingqun walked in. As soon as he saw the leader leave, he immediately walked in. After all, they are buddies who get along day and night, Xu Feng was admitted to the hospital, how could they rest assured and asked about their physical condition with concern.

"Look at what scared you, I'm fine at all, I'm all right, I really treat me as a sick number, isn't it just a little blood, what's the big deal, it's not as strict as you think, you're not good." Xu Feng said with a smile.

"The doctor just won't listen, if you listen to the doctor and rest for two days, nothing like this will happen, and we will worry about you. Wei Dahai said.

"I thought it would be fine, but I drank brown sugar water again, thinking that I could get through it. Xu Feng said.

"After so much blood, how can it be fine, but now it is much better, and we are all very happy. Pan Xueliang said.

"It must be the sea that told you, in fact, I'm fine at all, there's no need to worry about me. Xu Feng said.

"How can you not worry, Chen Zihao called me, only then did I know that you were admitted to the hospital, which made us worry about death. Wei Dahai said.

"I heard about you, but I don't know what the condition is, so we hurried over. Chang Shouxin said.

"The sea, what is Li Jinghe?" Xu Feng asked.

"Why, you still think about him like that, if I will never come to the rescue, I should make him suffer more. Li Tiecheng said.

"These are completely different things, I can't do anything that I can't save when I die, as a man, I don't think you will do such a thing, you will definitely come to the rescue. Xu Feng said.

"I'm just talking, but Li Jinghe's behavior is really infuriating, he is not worthy of being a man, he can compete fairly for love, and any of us can accept it. Why do you secretly do it, I don't approve of this, I won't forgive him in this life. Li Tiecheng said.

"I went in the morning, he has woken up, and he will be discharged from the hospital in a few days, knowing that you saved him, my heart is very touched. Show that I was sorry for you before and shouldn't have done that to you. When you get better, I will come and thank you in person. Wei Dahai said.

"This kid still has a bit of a conscience, and he knows that he's sorry for people, so what did he do earlier. Xu Feng didn't bother him, why did he calculate him endlessly, he had the ability to come clearly, why bother to play those three indiscriminate methods. Chang Shouxin said.

"It's not necessary to say thank you, as long as you don't trouble me anymore, so that I don't care about him every day and do business at the same time. I still have to think about him all the time, for fear that he will send me a generous gift. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"You saved him this time, if you hadn't given him a blood transfusion, he might have lost his life, and if you did that, it would be a human being. Wei Dahai said.

This kind of person has no virtue, and he should not associate with him in the future, even if he comes to thank him in person, it is not acceptable. Knock him out on the spot. Give him a roast chicken with a big nest neck, so that he can also taste the taste of teasing people, otherwise he really thinks he is a character. Li Tiecheng said.

"It is better to settle the grievance, there is still a long way to go, since he has a sense of remorse, he can't beat people to death with a stick. Just give him a chance, we can tolerate him, and at the same time it will be a lesson for him. Chang Shouxin said.

"Then you can't spare him like this, Xu Feng has suffered such a big grievance, there must be an explanation. Li Tiecheng said.

"It's over, what else can be said. Xu Feng said.

"That can't be so cheap for him. Li Tiecheng said.

"You should be generous, and generosity is a good quality of life. It is happy and tolerant, happy and serene. A person can be in a calm state of mind, in the face of the old enemy has a smile and enmity of enmity, encounter the opponent has a forgiving and forgiving bosom, the journey of life, the journey is long, here to help people, there to let people go, is the personality of a generous person. Pan Xueliang said.

"That's not too cheap for him, one sentence can release the suspicion, isn't it a little low, if I definitely don't do it. Li Tiecheng said.

"Xueliang is right, be generous, and there is no need to fight for everything. Chang Shouxin said.

The statue of the smiling Maitreya is often seen in the famous mountain monasteries, and he is smiling, kind and loving. He sat on his stomach and had a good sense of humor. On the two sides of the statue of the Buddha, there is a couplet. The big belly can tolerate the intolerable things in the world, and he laughs at the ridiculous people in the world when he opens his mouth. This is the correct state of mind of a mind cultivator, tolerating indifference and peace. This kind of mentality is reflected in life, which is good, and health practitioners should re-do good deeds. Benevolence and righteousness are important ethical categories in Confucianism. Its original meaning is benevolence and justice, the left side of the word benevolence is people, and the bottom of the word righteousness is me, it can be seen that to talk about benevolence and righteousness, as long as someone has my place, it can be practiced. Only those who accumulate virtue and do good deeds are spiritually guarded and do not enter into trouble. All things in the universe, people do their best, things show their use, even if it is a screw, it has its value. Life is just a few decades, and it is fleeting, if there is no merit, it is not as good as a screw.

Some people have tempered themselves to the extreme in the rivers and lakes, just like Li Jinghe, who is sleek and old-fashioned, and does things without leakage. There is a knife hidden in the smile, there is a person in front of the person, and a ghost behind the person, and the cultivation is eccentric. This kind of person thinks that he is shrewd and has the demeanor of a man, but he doesn't know that this kind of person is just a little smart. Through the mirror image, the heart is extremely dark and lacks personality charm. People in the rivers and lakes, the body can be by themselves, we must keep the moral bottom line of the goodness in our hearts to be a person, to cultivate our own demeanor, to be an open-minded person, in the broad mind to learn to tolerate and tolerate all things, the sea has a broad mind, in order to accumulate streams and form a vast trend.

To be fair, it's hard to be perfect when dealing with people, and there will always be times when things don't go as planned. Then we must learn to be generous, learn to be tolerant, and learn to be open-minded. The atmosphere is a kind of wisdom, a kind of forbearance, being an upright person, doing things frankly, being kind, treating people with generosity, and not caring about the gains and losses of a city and a pool. Take the heart as the lamp and look at each other's hearts. Atmosphere is a kind of temperament, a kind of demeanor, this kind of person is willing to listen to the views of others, adopt the right opinions, and can be humble in dealing with others. Atmosphere is a kind of character, a realm, it is necessary to cultivate with virtue and create a zĂ o with wisdom, and the atmosphere of people has a gentlemanly demeanor. As the saying goes, read everyone's books and be an atmospheric person. The atmosphere is a person, and what he has is a beautiful state of mind, and the atmosphere is a person. What you have gained is sincere friendship, ambition, and a good life.

"The so-called generosity is magnanimous and tolerant, open-minded, and tolerant. You should be generous, the ancients said well, the general can run a horse on his forehead. The prime minister can take a boat in his belly, in fact, this is also talking about a kind of character of being a man. Pan Xueliang said.

One of the wisdoms of human beings is to be tolerant of others. Only by tolerating others can we establish good interpersonal relationships, and by tolerating others' mistakes, we will win friends and win the admiration and respect of others. Don't blame people for their small mistakes, don't send people's **, don't think about people's old evils, the two can cultivate virtue, but also can be far away from harm, and tolerate others. You need to have your own measurements.

There is no tree in the forest that does not bend, and there is no one in the world who has not done anything wrong, and some friction is normal. I once heard a story about a river mussel that lived comfortably in the river, and that it was carefree and free from the world, and that a grain of sand broke into its body every day. The sand wriggled in the mussel's **, and the pain caused by friction. Let the river mussel tear his heart and lungs, liver and gall bladder. can't drive away and can't spit out sand, the river mussel can only use its own secretion of hard work to contain the sand. After a long time, the sand was contained into a pearl, and the pain was gone, and the result of the pain was to double the value of the river mussel.

There is also a story of Six Feet Lane, it is rumored that during the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, there was a middle hall named Zhang Ying. My hometown is in Tongcheng, Anhui Province. When his relatives were building a house in the county seat, they quarreled with a neighbor surnamed Ye over the partition wall of the land boundary. Both sides also said that the other side took advantage of each other and did not give in to each other. Zhang Ying's relatives informed Zhang Ying of the news, hoping that he could ruthlessly rectify the Ye family, and he had already vented this evil anger, after all, he was a big man in the imperial court, and he could call the shots. But. Although Zhang Ying is in a high position, she is wise and decisive in handling national affairs, and she is not partial to resolving disputes in her hometown and neighborhood. He only wrote a poem and ordered someone to bring it to his family: A paper book is only for the wall, so why not let him be three feet? The Great Wall is still there today, and Qin Shi Huang is not seen.

After thinking about it, the Zhang family thought that it was really not worth it to quarrel over the boundary wall, so they demolished the wall and rebuilt it three feet back. Ye no longer quarreled, but retreated three feet, so he also retreated three feet and built another wall. Between the two families that were originally close together, a six-foot alley suddenly appeared that was easy to walk. Quarreling over interests may lead to no feasible road, the width of the alley is only six feet, but the width of the heart road is immeasurable.

This story gives people the word generosity, the ancients had the virtue of letting, but the style of being a generous person has not spread for thousands of miles. More people just talk about it on a certain occasion. While asking for six feet from others, he secretly and silently asked for tiny.

"If you want to be generous, you can't talk to him about generosity, if you have something to say, I'd rather wear a friend's clothes than a friend's wife, he can be good, use despicable means to get Yuan Yuan, and endlessly harass Xu Feng, as a man, it is absolutely intolerable. Li Tiecheng said.

"In life, it is inevitable to meet people who are bad to you, because of the wrong eyes, because of jealousy, because of conflicts of interest, and so on. People's attitudes towards those who make bad things are also different, some are angry, some are-for-tat, and some are generously relieved. Although people's reactions will be different, if we face a qi qi with a tolerant and generous attitude, not only will we not be vulnerable to harm, but we may also have something to gain, even an unexpected surprise. Pan Xueliang said.

"In fact, life is not like this, the result of the mussel containing the sand is to make it a noble mussel, and each of them retreats to the famous Six Feet Alley. Chang Shouxin said.

In the same way, when we tolerate the sufferings and hurts, slanders, and misunderstandings in our lives, we will bear beautiful fruits. Tolerance is a virtue, just as the sea accommodates hundreds of rivers to have a vast expanse, mountains and rivers accommodate thousands of trees to have lush beauty, in the face of the sand in life to tolerate generosity, with a broad heart to tolerate suffering and pain, then life will be more fulfilling and beautiful.

Everyone's personality is different, and the way of living in the world is also different, and people will have ups and downs, troubles and sorrows, and right and wrong. In the face of worldly disputes, interpersonal interactions, all kinds of short-term flows, small things, love, emotional injuries, unhappiness, and sometimes bring troubles and troubles, confusion and melancholy to people. Often, generous people will be able to keep their worries from being swayed, while those who are scheming will often be troubled by small things, so that their lives are full of unhappiness.

"Ever since people came into the world, from the day they were sensible, they began to associate with people. Chang Shouxin said.

Confucius said that do not do to others what you would not do to yourself. In fact, what he wants to explain is that a person should have a tolerant heart, a tolerant attitude. In fact, trying to allow yourself to forgive others, learn to forget hatred, make your mind calm, and enable yourself to understand others is what a tolerant person must have. Such qualities can make us more attractive and make us more popular with others.

"No one is perfect, we should have the strength to tolerate people's shortcomings. Pan Xueliang said.

Since there are black spots on the sun, it is even more impossible for things in the world to be without defects, and tolerance and generosity are a human virtue. It requires a pure heart and few desires. People's hearts are narrow, and few desires are wide. Those who have small bellies and chicken intestines, and those who are difficult to tolerate others, are mostly selfish and self-interested. Tolerance and generosity are the glue, and to be tolerant is to unite all kinds of people and be embraced by others. If you are narrow-minded and cannot tolerate others, you will end up alone. Tolerance and generosity, beneficial to already, beneficial to people, from childhood to adulthood often hear that some people are difficult to be a man, difficult to be a man, and often can feel the understanding of being a man first and doing things later. It can be seen that being a human being is not a small problem, but a big problem, and it is also a compulsory topic in everyone's life. Everyone comes to this world for nothing more than two things, one is to be a human being, and the other is to do things. Although there are no certain rules and standards for being a human being, there are certain general rules for it, and it must have its skills and laws. Practical generosity is a virtue. If you pay attention to your surroundings, it is not difficult to find that in interpersonal interactions, anyone who is lenient with others will generally be popular with everyone.

"A good life should be full of anticipation, surprise and gratitude, people can only live once, don't live too tired. Chang Shouxin said.

"As long as he is really good to Yuan Yuan, he won't care about him in the past. Xu Feng said.

"That's right, no matter what he looks like, it's okay for Yuan Yuan, and don't be like him in this regard. Chang Shouxin said. (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for the recommendation ticket, your support is my biggest motivation. )