"It's not a nostril that breathes, but they have the same opinion as us, obviously this is the truth, are you still not convinced, otherwise why would you be so close, it is easy for people to think that it is the same thing, why didn't she buy me a leather jacket, what else is there besides love when young boys and girls are together. I think we should respect her feelings and handle this matter correctly, otherwise it will make people laugh. Li Tiecheng said.

"I can't explain it to you, no one understands my mind, and imagines me to be the kind of ungrateful person. Xu Feng said.

"You can't say it clearly, everyone thinks that there is that meaning between you, but you are like this, it really hurts her heart, you have failed a piece of true love, you shouldn't be so ruthless. Li Tiecheng said.

"But I really don't have that idea, I can only treat it as a general friend. Xu Feng said.

"Handle your own affairs by yourself, no one forces you in terms of feelings, I hope you can understand the truth, let alone her heart. Chang Shouxin said.

"I've already thought about it, and I'll make it clear to her after the exam, otherwise it will affect the exam results, and I'll be even more sorry for her. Xu Feng said.

This shows that you still care about her and think about her everywhere. Li Tiecheng said.

"It's two different things entirely. Xu Feng said.

"No matter what it's going on, you have to deal with it well, and you can't let people gossip. Chang Shouxin said.

Came to the eldest sister Hong Lanqing's house, Hong Yuqing and Xiao Junqi warmly welcomed them, and the five-year-old son Xiao Ningning brought fruit, cut it and handed it to them, several people hurriedly expressed their gratitude, praising him for being really sensible, knowing how to entertain guests at such a young age. When you grow up, you will definitely make a difference. Like his mom and dad. Be a big boss.

"Second sister, their family will be here in a while, let's have a few drinks today. Hong Yuqing said.

"We would like to go back to their house in the evening. Chang Shouxin said.

"No need to go, we used to celebrate the festival together, and it has long been a routine, you are here just in time, everyone has a good time. Hong Lanqing said.

"Thank you, eldest sister, for your hospitality. Xu Feng said.

"Don't be polite in the future, coming to me is like coming home, and you are warmly welcomed whenever you come. All right. You guys have a good chat, I'll go see the meal. Hong Lanqing said.

"Let me do it. Xu Feng said and stood up.

"No need for you, my brothers haven't seen each other for a long time, let's talk for a while, in fact, I'm just doing it, your sister Xiang Lan is cooking, her cooking skills are good, you must love to eat the dishes. Hong Lanqing said and went to the kitchen.

Several people chatted, and Xiao Junqi asked them about their business. I was very happy when I heard it, and I must do it well. Although he is still in the initial stage, he will get good results after hard work, and he was the same when he first started his business, and encountered many unexpected difficulties, but he still survived. In a word, be a down-to-earth person, work diligently, as long as you persist, there will be good returns.

"But I think it's really difficult, if it weren't for your care, our brothers would have been unemployed, and your kindness will never be forgotten in this life. Chang Shouxin said.

"A person's life should aspire to a challenging life, and we must never retreat in the face of difficulties. Xiao Junqi said.

Life will naturally encounter many twists and turns, no one can be smooth sailing, it is inevitable to encounter competitors, even very cruel and ruthless, for competitors, first of all, we must have confidence in ourselves, and secondly, we must understand the opponent. It is important to know that any person will have weaknesses, and even if he is better than you in some aspects, he may not be invincible everywhere. No opponent can be so strong that you are invulnerable, believe in yourself, seize the moment, grasp yourself, and you will definitely succeed. As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success, and only after countless failures and lessons can there be a successful harvest.

"My sister and brother-in-law's path to success has inspired us a lot, and it is also an example for us to learn from and a guiding light for us. Chang Shouxin said.

"The hat is too big, don't compliment me like this, I don't have so much energy, I'm the same as you, the most ordinary, but I have experienced more, suffered more, and slowly gained some experience. Xiao Junqi said with a smile.

Everyone will encounter some big and small difficulties in life in the world and even inspirational entrepreneurship, such as economic difficulties, emotional difficulties, career difficulties, and even personnel difficulties, family difficulties, and so on. In short, life will inevitably encounter difficulties and bottlenecks, how to spend it. First of all, we must have the kung fu of patience, when difficulties come, we don't need to panic and fear, we must be able to endure and hold. No matter how great the difficulty, it is born and died by karma, and it will always pass with time. Every insistence battle, as long as you can hold it and withstand it, you can get by. Patience is strength, and if you can't withstand the blow and persist, it will be difficult to succeed.

Secondly, we must have the courage to take responsibility, and the people who can succeed are usually the ones who have the courage to take responsibility, and in the process of undertaking, they can accumulate wisdom and experience. If you are afraid when difficulties come, and you shirk when difficulties come, you will not be able to succeed. Therefore, the more difficult it is, the more you should not shirk the blame, and hold the courage to be responsible and responsible. If you are willing to take responsibility and be responsible, you will naturally have strength and give confidence to others, so you will definitely be able to get through the difficulties.

You also have to have the spirit of enduring hardships, don't always think of only thinking of others to help you get through the difficulties, the so-called relying on the mountains and mountains, relying on everyone to get old, is indeed very classic, the most important thing for people is to be independent, the important time in life is to need the help of nobles, but just to pull you, a qiē or rely on yourself, relying on others to help is only temporary. If you want to get through the difficulties, the most important thing is that you are willing to endure hardships, be not afraid of hardships, not afraid of difficulties, have such a brave spirit, hard work and difficulties, often slowly disappear and retreat and the hardships come willingly, turning the danger into a disaster.

It is also necessary to have perseverance without frustration, most people are not very able to accept setbacks, and they are often discouraged when they are frustrated, or when others say a word that does not go well and does not like it, they will be angry all day long for that sentence that may be just an unintentional word, and they can't get along with themselves. If you slack, discourage, and frustrate under setbacks, you will not only fail to get through the difficulties, but will also let yourself fall from then on.

There is a poem in the Zen Gate, the real gold must be smelted in the red furnace, and the white jade is also milled by his wonderful hands, which is very easy to understand from the literal explanation, it is a piece of real gold, and it also needs to be smelted out of the Daye red furnace, and a good piece of white jade must also be carved by the skillful hands of the craftsman to become a tool. That is to say, if we want to get through difficulties, we must be able to endure, be able to bear, be able to endure hardships, and be able to not be afraid of setbacks. Therefore, there are these four opinions on how to get through the difficulties, we must have the kung fu of patience, the courage to take responsibility, the spirit of enduring hardships, and the perseverance to not be frustrated.

Balzac famously said: "Difficulty, for the weak is an abyss, but for the strong it is a great wealth." "If a person succumbs to fate and difficulties, then he can only be a weakling. However, if he is strong-willed in the face of difficulties and has the courage to challenge fate, then he will be a strong person in life. Stephen Hawking is a professor in the Department of Applied Mathematics and Theoretical Physics at the University of Cambridge, the most important contemporary general relativity and cosmologist, and one of today's internationally renowned greats, known as the greatest living scientist and the king of the universe. His spirit of not being afraid of difficulties and failures, and having the courage to challenge fate, reveals a true meaning to us. Hardships and hardships make the weak willpower fall into the quagmire of failure, and it is the strong willpower who climb to the peak of success. Throughout the ages, all accomplished people have risen from hardships and hardships after a lot of hard training.

"We all have our own dreams, but to be able to achieve them does come at a price, and in the end we have to stop or even retreat. Xu Feng said.

"A dream is like a bird, you must not bind it in a cage, you must let it spread its wings, fly freely in the blue sky, let the dream take off in the blue sky, and write a brilliant tomorrow." Xiao Junqi said.

Everyone has their own dreams, and every young person has their own ideals and wants to do their own business, but how many people take action and persist to the end. ** is the first driving force for success, pay is not necessarily rewarded, do not pay must be no return. The so-called everything is difficult at the beginning, all people are afraid of failure, don't look for so-called excuses, the time is not ripe, I am not ready, etc. That is self-deception, dreams are a kind of expectation for the future, an expectation, a hope, I think there are three types of people in the world, one is to have dreams, and have the passion and perseverance to struggle, these people often do things successfully. The second is that there are only dreams, and they will only live in their beautiful imagination all day long. The three are people who have nothing, and I hope you can become the first type of people.

"When I was a child, my parents and I went mountaineering, the mountain road was very steep, along the way I stumbled and had to fall from time to time, lying on the ground and not wanting to get up, crying and not climbing the mountain again, my father helped me up and said, the road in the future will be like this, you have to be strong and brave, perseverance is victory. Encouraged me to keep going, and finally I finally climbed the peak, looking at the peaks at my feet with great pride. Now I understand that that time is like my future life, there will definitely be difficulties, but I must learn to be strong and independent, have perseverance and perseverance. Xu Feng said.

"The words of our parents are classics, and they are the best enlightenment teachers for each of us. To be honest, I admire my parents and their generation, although they do not have a high culture, they are hardworking and simple, have a strong sense of responsibility, and will always be our role model. Xiao Junqi said with deep feelings.

They live a very peaceful life, although monotonous, despite the hard work, they can still stay in one place for a long time, can do a job for many years, can raise so many children and can raise so well, in an environment where the old and the young are old, they still have a car, a house and savings. Although it is just a bicycle, a few simple houses, and dozens of yuan in savings, but this is all they paid in exchange, in the eyes of young people now, it may not be worth mentioning, and even sneer, and look down on it at all, but this kind of persistence, this kind of hard work is not something that anyone can do, and only that generation can do it.

"In the workplace, in daily life, too many people change jobs and cities because they work hard or don't like it. Our generation is too impetuous, far less calm and down-to-earth than my parents' generation. Xiao Junqi said. (To be continued......)