I used to always say that the work is too tight, the finance department needs a person, for this thing did not look for a company, Xu Feng was seconded, to see that he work is okay, so he wanted to keep him in the finance department, but Zhu Lianjing saw that Xu Feng is a college student, has a certain ability to work, to the company in accordance with the ERP model to develop rules and regulations, ERP system concentration information technology and advanced management ideas in one, become the operation mode of modern enterprises, reflect the times of the reasonable allocation of resources for enterprises, maximize the creation of social wealth requirements, become enterprises in the information age survivalThe cornerstone of development, ERP integrates modern enterprise management concepts, management ideas, management methods and best business practices, and provides a unified management platform for enterprise procurement, production, inventory, sales, finance and other business personnel. People have a good impression of him, they don't feel like it's a taste, they are afraid that they will replace her after a long time, Lao Du came to work, so he found the chairman and asked Lao Du to stay, Xu Feng went back to work in the branch, and the lack of people in the finance department was no longer mentioned, but said that they had enough manpower, which was not an obvious thing, and did not want Xu Feng to stay in the finance department. Xu Feng has only been working for a few days, and there will be no threat to her at all, but she is cautious, cranky, afraid that she will lose her status, and secretly collude with Lao Du to squeeze Xu Feng away, this is not a thing, even if she has an idea, she will be arranged, the old man of the company will not treat her badly, there is no need to think so much.

"She's like that, she doesn't allow anyone else to be better than her. Li Yan said.

"She has a lot of shortcomings, but she does a decent job. is a conscientious person, so her father trusts her very much. Li Chunhua said.

To get along with others is to understand each other. Your own lack is your insufficiency, and there is no need to worry about it. Seek common ground while reserving small differences, have a measure to tolerate others, others will also tolerate you, there will be more confidants and friends in life, and left and right, as the saying goes, eat a small loss to take a big advantage. On the contrary, he can't rub half a grain of sand in his eyes, and he is excessively selfish. What trivial things are taken to heart, the heart can not tolerate others, a little loss can not be eaten, others will naturally hide far away, ancient and modern Chinese and foreign people who can achieve great things, almost all of them endure what others can not bear, open-minded, a qiē to the good side, to make up for their own shortcomings. That's why they can achieve great things.

"Narrow-minded and small-bellied, she is different from normal people, she always thinks she is flying and domineering, and the company can't leave her. Xu Feng was in her way, there was no need for this, she didn't even dare to get off the car when she went to the company to receive the money. It wasn't like this before, picking your nose and eyes. It shows that she is dissatisfied with Xu Feng, and at the same time feels guilty. Li Yan said.

"People can't be compared. Especially people like her, who are selfish and strict, think about themselves all day long, and think differently from us. Li Chunhua said.

As a normal person, you can also think about the problem from a different angle, other people's practices may not be wrong, or you may not fully understand what others mean, everyone's judgment of others will be affected by their own subjective factors, not necessarily completely fair, and arbitrary conclusions can easily cause misunderstanding. Therefore, before making a decision, you must figure out all the facts, whether it is right or wrong, you have a correct judgment, if you are sure that the other party has really made a mistake, then you will tell the other party in good faith, people will inevitably do wrong things, people are not sages, who can be without fault, try to forgive the other party's mistakes, only in this way, can the work continue, so as to win more friends.

Xu Feng's heart is too honest, so he doesn't have any thoughts about him, and it can be seen that he is a person, but this is not the case in real life, honest people have been repeatedly bullied and blackmailed, honesty is regarded as synonymous with Mu Ne, and even gives honest people the title of honest and useless, which is difficult for people to understand. Li Yan said.

"Life will not disappoint sincere people, after all, they will be given rich rewards, honesty is the most popular quality, is an important guarantee to get friends, is one of the magic weapons to win people's respect, people like Zhu Lianjing lack a minimum moral character, selfish psychology is strict, think about themselves all day long, play clever at every turn, think that others do not know, in fact, people have a scale in their hearts, only no one said it, so it will not be respected by people, only far away from her. Li Chunhua said.

A person's moral character is often exposed from the most hidden and subtle places, in public, on major issues, under the pressure of public opinion, they have to check and restrain their words and deeds, when there is no supervision, or on small issues, people are easy to indulge themselves and expose their true thoughts. A truly moral person, when alone and unsupervised, will also be careful not to do anything immoral, not to let any evil thoughts germinate, so that his moral character becomes noble.

Correct one's own behavior, mainly to self-reflection, reflect on whether one's behavior is deviant, whether there is something inappropriate in language, whether some habits conform to social moral norms, whether oneself is too arrogant, not modest enough, etc., others always have a reason for some of their own comments, so you should first reflect on yourself. It is difficult for a person with bad conduct and bad morals to meet real friends and achieve success in his career. Because it is difficult for such a person to cooperate with people for a long time. They either engage in a one-shot deal, or cross the river to tear down bridges, unload mills and kill donkeys. Moral level is the inner bottom line of a person's life, without this inner bottom line, life will lose support.

"To be a moral person, worthy of heaven and earth, this is indeed not something that ordinary people can do. However, as long as we correct ourselves, do not be deceived by external things, treat people sincerely, do not take cunning and tyranny as a matter of ability, and act cautiously, we can achieve a clear conscience. Li Yan said.

"Good moral character is a noble sentiment, and it is the behavior of people's hearts to make a correct understanding and judgment of right and wrong in the world. Li Chunhua said.

This is a correct world outlook and a noble outlook on life and values. It not only explains one's behavior, but also one's humanity. The complexity and richness of human nature are derived from these two elements. As long as people's hearts are beautiful, the world will always be full of sunshine, and there is only one way to make the heart clear, that is, to have a heart, a beautiful emotion, and a good character. The world may not need many heroes and geniuses, but it needs many people with good moral character.

But people nowadays don't think like this, they have their own little Jiujiu in their hearts, thinking about how they can get benefits all day long, and once they don't get benefits, they will be furious, and they don't make sense at all. Li Yan said.

"What you say is true, but after all, it is a minority, and most people are still good-hearted, and even those who are selfish and lack morality will be disturbed by people's condemnation. Li Chunhua said.

On a bus, a young man spat out a mouthful of phlegm, and when the female flight attendant saw it, she politely said to him: "Comrade, for the sake of a clean riding environment for everyone, please don't spit." Unexpectedly, the young man not only did not admit his mistake, but scolded loudly, and then spit three or four mouthfuls of phlegm into the ground in a row. The flight attendant was so angry that he couldn't say a word, and the passengers couldn't stand it anymore, and they condemned the young man, and the grumpy man couldn't look at it, and wanted to beat him, and the young man's companions took the opportunity to heckle and scold people for being nosy. At this time, someone stood up and asked the driver to drive the car to the police station, now it is a society under the rule of law, after all, there is a place to be reasonable, and he can't be so fearless and let the law punish him. Unexpectedly, the flight attendant calmly said to everyone: There is nothing, please sit in your seat to prevent anyone from falling while the car is moving. After speaking, she took out a tissue paper from her coat pocket, bent down to wipe the phlegm off the ground, and threw it into the trash. Seeing this move, everyone was stunned. The young man and his companions were also embarrassed to get up, and before they could stand firm when the car arrived at the station, they hurriedly jumped out of the train and said to the attendant: "Sister, we have served you, we will not do this in the future, and promise to be a civilized passenger." The attendant said with a slight smile: Welcome to the next ride, I wish you a happy journey. The people in the car all praised and gave a thumbs up.

This is the power of cultivation, this is the power of shocking people's hearts, civilized manners are enough to replace the role of money, and having it is like having a pass, which can be unimpeded. Educated people don't have to pay too much to enjoy a qiē, they can make people feel the warmth of the sun everywhere, and they are welcomed everywhere. For they bring light, the sun, and joy.

"It is worthy of being a person of academic cultivation, and it is very intriguing and worthy of my learning. Li Yan said.

"Really smart people are not self-righteous, they are proud of being humble and studious, and even if they do have talents, they will not show off everywhere, but restrain their competitive mentality. Of course, strong self-confidence is very necessary for a person's success, but sometimes, if the external factors are too complex, and still blindly rely on talents, not only can not achieve the ideal of standing out, but also will be frustrated. Li Chunhua said.

"To be a man is to know how to be humble and low-key, humility is a low profile, not only useful for ordinary people, but also more important for people with high authority. But humility does not mean to be humble, half a bucket of water is always shaking badly, a bucket of water is not shaking, shallow people always think that they know the heavens and the earth, and know everything, while smart people are always very humble. Li Yan said.

In the path of life, many people often lose their way because of glorious things, and lose themselves, in this case, you should know how to use a peaceful mind, learn to bow your head, and people who want to succeed must have this kind of mind. In today's unpredictable and complex society, we have to learn to bow our heads, but learning to bow our heads is not to be arrogant and inferior, but to learn to bow our heads means to be humble and cautious. (To be continued......)