"It's really okay to meet such a person, although it is not to the heart, after all, it makes people feel unhappy, and it feels heartwarming when I think about it. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info" Xu Feng said.

"From the day of birth to death, people bring nothing and can't take it away, the things in the world don't belong to you in the first place, only the mood is your own alone, and only a good mood can accompany you all your life, forever, people who have a good mood are wrapped in tears with songs, stoically looking for hope, people who are unhappy and troubled, soaked in songs with tears, and sadly exile the years. Qiu Weiqiang said.

It is not easy for people to live for a lifetime, sadness is life, and happiness is also life. Since it's all about living, why don't you live happily. No matter how long your life is, it is only a hundred years, why let yourself be resentful for a lifetime and live up to this good year. Standing on the stage of life, the real performance is not to win the applause of others, but more to let yourself have the happiness of the depths of your soul. Give yourself a good mood, a good mood is the same as your character, although you have innate genes, but it mainly comes from acquired practice. It will not be born in a certain morning, it is the natural expression of personality, quality, and talent over time.

Give yourself a good mood, a good mood is everywhere, the key is whether you are willing to find out. In the quiet night, some people can't smell the fragrance of lotus flowers, but they can listen to the lotus leaves in the small breeze to tease the dragonfly and her lingering love words. In the howling north wind, some people ignore the blooming of the cold plum, but they can enjoy the smile of the cold plum alone in the heavy snow. Give yourself a good mood, with a good mood you can abandon those unreasonable inferiority complex and those contrived modesty, that is, yourself, ordinary but not mediocre, self-esteem but not conceited, in your own good mood, find your self-confidence, self-improvement, self-reliance, self-esteem of the persistent beliefs, find back to the true self and applaud.

"You can really think about it, someone is going to sue you, not only don't you take it to heart at all, but you still ridicule it like this, you are really convinced. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"This bit of is still to my heart, I am not as careful as you, and I can't hold things in my heart at all. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"Look at what you said, who is careful, just muttering, I can open up better than you think. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"That's right, if you have a good mood, you will have self-confidence, and if you have self-confidence, you will have youth and health, let us all have a good mood, because life is luck and happiness. Qiu Weiqiang said.

Health is happiness, healthy days, tranquility, and a comfortable state of mind. Healthy days may be poor, but as long as there is health, poor days are also a kind of fulfillment, and there are a lot of sweetness. A good mood can turn hostility into friendship, jealousy into understanding, illness into health, and the face of any age will be illuminated by a good mood. In fact, everyone needs a good mood, it is an instinct given by life. No one was born in this world for gloom and misery, and no one was born for gloom and bitterness.

"The mood is actually just a choice, you choose to wear optimistic glasses, you see that the world will be bright everywhere, you choose to wear pessimistic glasses, you see that the world will be gray. Xu Feng said.

"As a modern person, how to choose your own good mood? The action of withdrawing from the fetters will make your mood relaxed, the good mood is the cheer of the long drought and the rain, the good mood is the happiness of the rest of your life after the disaster, the good mood is the warmth of each other, give yourself a good mood, let the world smile at you, give others a good mood, let life smile at us. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"There is a good proverb that there are two things that are lost before their value is discovered, youth and health, indeed, youth makes people energetic, health brings vitality and happiness, but health is more important than youth. With health, even in the year of the sixtieth year, his eyes are still bright and radiant. Xu Feng said.

"Having a good mood, any age of the face, will be illuminated by a good mood, beautiful and moving, charming, having a good mood, can help us gain knowledge, make good friends, grasp opportunities, achieve careers, and harmonious families." Qiu Weiqiang said.

"You are now married and have children, you have a black gauze hat to wear, the size is also considered a successful career, this life is content, but I can't do it, now I am a white ding, or no, I have to run for a long time, I don't know when it will be a stop, mixed with you, I can't dream of it." Xu Feng said.

"I envy you very much, the whole family is not hungry when you are fed alone, carefree and no one cares, I don't have the blessing of you. Qiu Weiqiang said with a smile.

"Pull you down, you really don't have a backache when you stand and talk, who dares not to envy you, I won't catch up with you in my life. Xu Feng said.

"As the saying goes, people's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants, greed is everyone's weakness, life is indispensable to greedy desires, but too much is to be cocooned. Qiu Weiqiang said.

Because, everyone's desires are different, which is related to his personality and life environment, don't control your desires, you should learn to avoid it, because few people can really control their desires. Greed is human nature, and only with greedy desires can we have the motivation to live. But greed must have a degree, and this degree is difficult to grasp. Because man's desires are never-ending. The reason why people feel very tired now is because half of it is for life, half for desire and comparison, how to control desire, the only way is not to compare, not to stretch your hand too long, do what you can, put down your face, and don't have too high standards. People only begin to have an inflated psychology after they have obtained a certain amount of satisfaction. If there is no glimmer of hope in the first place, that person will only feel hopeless, let alone have any so-called desires. In fact, Shenma is full of floating clouds, and everyone has more than one desire. If you've done well, you'll want to do even better. Even if it is already impeccable, it will still find fault with it. People are like that, don't worry, just do it to your satisfaction.

"But who can control it, who doesn't want to live a comfortable life. Xu Feng said.

"Because your cultivation is not enough, your self-control is not good, this thing can be changed completely, you think, if a person can't even control what he does, then what else can he do? Arrange each day in a planned way, do more things that interest you, and scatter your energy, and after a long time, it will be a different feeling. In short, do what you have to do first, go out for a walk when you have time, and have fun with friends, there are many ways, depending on how you like to live. Qiu Weiqiang said.

Xu Feng nodded when he heard this, and said: "People should be like this when they live, to be a man, we must be open in our hearts, as the so-called clear conscience, this is the state we want to achieve." ”

"We live with self-confidence, not conceit and inferiority, because we are not much better than anyone else, nor much worse than others. People in essence, the difference is only hard work, I believe that there is nothing in the world that cannot be done, only people who do not work hard for their ideals, self-confidence will make us dare to fight, we are young, we love to fight, so we will win. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"Otherwise, you can think about it and don't take anything to heart. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"I don't want to open it, I can think about it, no matter how gray things are bright, I can't think of it, no matter how beautiful things are, there are gloom, all things in the world, interdependence, yin and yang are opposite, with the foil of green leaves, there is only the beauty of safflower, people in a lifetime, no matter how many roads they have walked, there is only one road after all, but it is divided into countless road sections, flat road sections, the heart is more beautiful, bumpy road sections, the heart is more obscure, it should be understood that no matter which road section, there is always a time to pass. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"It's so difficult to move in society now, and you have to think about it a lot, and it is inevitable that people will feel depressed at times. Xu Feng said.

"The road under your feet is bumpy and bumpy, the journey of life is not so, life is so short a few decades, and now it has passed a few fractions of life, there are really a lot of things that really don't need to drill the horns, think about it from another angle, will make yourself relaxed and happy, everything can be thought of, you can see it, I will do it, and I must do it well, everything has a fixed number, there is nothing to think of, and what can not be seen. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"It's really hard to think openly, to see through and think through everything in the world, family, friendship, fame and fortune, etc., there are indeed many things in the world that can't be thought of. Xu Feng said.

But what's the use, there are many unjust things in the world, everyone has a time when they can't think about it, don't they have to think hard and meditate, besides, many things are not thought about by themselves, if you think about it, life will be full of sunshine, life is short, and the years are rushed. If you can't think about it, it's useless, it's boring for yourself, it's trouble-seeking, it's making enemies for yourself, setting up obstacles for yourself, getting along with yourself, and making yourself depressed, so it's better to think about being happy and smiling. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"This is extraordinary and also a spiritual realm, at least there are no troubles in front of you. Xu Feng said.

"Troubles are found by themselves, troubles will not find people, people are looking for troubles, thinking is the soul air conditioning, is life skills, is the art of life, is the philosophy of people, because of the ability to think, bad things may become good, failure may turn into success, sorrow may turn into joy. Qiu Weiqiang said.

There are some things that we can't control, so we have to control ourselves. What is frustrating is often not the facts, but the comparison of thinking and comparing in thinking. Lost to the brilliant sunrise, we have a brilliant sunset, that is a kind of touching. Lost in the sweet elixir, we have the hope of lying down and tasting the gall, that is a kind of realization. Lost in the moving flowers of spring, to have the charming fruits of autumn. Lost in wine and food, and has the sweet spring of game. A person who can run himself is greater than someone who can run someone else. (To be continued.) )