Although it is a joke, it is clear that the philosophy is not to be swayed by the opinions of others, and to keep going according to your own ideas. "Dawn.

"As a person with a normal mind, no one will ignore the evaluation of others about themselves, and being cautious in words and deeds is unwilling to give others authority. "Xiao Junqi.

In many cases, other people's discussions, other people's ways, other people's views, and other people's attitudes will have a great impact on their mood and behavior. Cheerleading on the field will undoubtedly affect the performance of the athletes, and at least the morale of the athletes. The opinions of others are often the mirror of their own behavior, and they always adjust their own life coordinates in the eyes of others.

However, when we have a goal in mind and are determined to achieve it, we should not pay too much attention to the Dharma and opinions of others. Especially when you have a relatively novel idea and want to do something that no one else has done, you need strong pressure from public opinion. At this time, if there is no spirit of courage, no perseverance, and no determination to not give up until the goal is achieved, it will not be able to reach the other side of the ideal no matter what.

Self-righteousness, self-righteousness, that is stupidity. But to be submissive and go with the flow is a nest. Throughout the history of China and foreign countries, all successful people have a common characteristic, that is, they are assertive and dare to make decisions in handling things. The fearful ostrich and the parrot man will never come close to success.

"Having an assertive opinion in the face of things is based on the correct understanding and judgment of objective things, and only a person with a certain height of assertiveness will be a true insightful opinion, and only by adhering to the correct assertive opinion will he achieve success recognized by the society. "Dawn.

"I don't have an opinion because I am uncertain about the future. I can't grasp it. Or fear of mistakes and fear of falling. Fear of failure, so I would rather refer to others in everything and let others decide, feeling that this is at least safe. "Xiao Junqi.

The more this happens, the less self-confidence you have, and the less courage you have to be independent. The road of life is to rely on oneself, and many things need to be decided by oneself to face by oneself. Take the path you want to take, even if it hurts to lose. At least you will know where you went wrong and what you went wrong with, and you won't lose next time and it won't hurt. Follow others and let others decide, although it is safe and sure, even if it is wrong, it can not be your own fault. However, such a life is not one's own ★★★★, m.≥.c→om life, born as a human being, you have to live yourself, not a puppet doll on the stage. There is no one who has not missed, and there is no one who has not had the experience of relying on others. But after all, you have to learn to give yourself the courage to stand alone. The one on whom they depend. I have also come through this stage of myself, so there is no need to be afraid. All that you are facing. Try to give yourself the courage to try, it's okay to be wrong, believe in yourself. The decisions you make are not necessarily inferior to others. When faced with a problem, remember that you can ask for other people's opinions, but when making a decision, remember that this is the problem you are facing, and this is the decision you have to make. Other people's words are references, but not laws. Don't be imprisoned by others to control your voice, your own life.

"Assertive people are psychologically mature, and maturity is the accumulation of experience. "Dawn.

When a person has a certain amount of experience accumulation, he will look at problems from many aspects when dealing with others, which will naturally reflect his maturity. Accumulating experience is not a person's experience as he grows older, it depends on long-term contact with society, communication with people with different personalities, and a certain amount of brain, so that people can mature and become assertive. A mature person, even if he encounters difficulties, will not panic and will not run away, but can quickly seek solutions.

A few people were chatting lively, and Shao Yi and Wang Sufang walked in. Shao Yi saw that in addition to Hong Lanqing, there were also Xiao Junqi and others, these people were all personalities, and their status in society was not worse than his. It's Chen Zihao who treats him, how can he have that ability, and he won't be invited no matter how much he spends, this is all sticking to Xu Feng's light, it is his big face, and everyone is present when he is present. This guy is really blessed with a great life, a blessing in disguise, he met a nobleman, with these people behind him, especially with Hong Lanqing as the backing, sooner or later he will be mixed up, so such a person can't be offended.

Seeing Shao Yi coming, Hong Lanqing greeted him first, Xu Feng quickly stood up and let Shao Yi sit next to Xiao Junqi. Xu Feng: "President Shao, please take a seat." ”

Shao Yitou: "President Hong, I didn't know that the leader was coming, Shao couldn't greet him in person, I was really a little offended, I'm sorry, Xu Feng is also a little improper, such a big thing should be answered." ”

"It's that I didn't think it through, and I will pay attention to it in the future. "Xu Feng. I didn't want to call you at all, you were in a hurry. If you don't come to participate, everyone is not restrained, and the words are more casual, which is good, you have to think about it before, I don't know if that sentence will offend you.

"I don't mean to blame you, Governor Hong is our leader, how can we be lazy, let people know that they will think that we can't do things. Shao Yi said.

"Governor Shao is polite, we are just out of private friendship, and we don't mean anything else, how can we alarm you, the big banker. Hong Lanqing smiled.

"You are all distinguished guests, and when you come to us, I don't even lose my face, doesn't it seem that I am too rude. "Shao Yi.

"Okay, it's not that everyone doesn't know each other, so many kind words, you don't feel poor and panicked, hurry up and sit down. Dawn smiled.

"President Li, the two of us are walking together, why don't you tell me about such a big thing, let me also be prepared, and treat you nobles well. "Shao Yi.

"This is a private party, how can it be fanfare, isn't it that you are also here. Dawn smiled.

Chen Fei, Han Caifeng, and Wang Xiuzhen walked in and greeted everyone warmly. Xu Feng: "Now it's up to Director Chen." Then he called Chen Zihao and learned that they would be there soon. After a while, Chen Zihao and Qiu Weiqiang arrived and sat at a large table.

Chang Shouxin saw that everyone had arrived, and hurriedly ordered the dishes to go, and the dishes came up in a while. Hong Lanqing smiled: "President Shao, when you get to your territory, you won't tell you a few words." ”

"You're the top leader, or you're speaking. "Shao Yi.

"Then what's the matter, you are the master, how dare we take the host. Hong Lanqing smiled.

"Today is Zihao's treat, he is the real master, Zihao, you come. "Shao Yi.

"You're the president, or you're the talker. "Chen Zihao. How can he talk at this time, although the reason was raised by him, after all, Shao Yi is his leader, and he has to give him this face, otherwise, he will think that he is ignorant, how can he steal the limelight of the leader.

"President Shao, you are not outsiders, you just have two opening sentences, otherwise how can you drink this wine. Xiao Junqi smiled.

"Well, I just have two sentences, on behalf of the colleagues of the firm welcome all the leaders to come, thank you for giving me the opportunity to speak, I feel a little flattered, polite words do not need, this glass of wine I salute everyone, I wish you all a smooth work, all the best. Shao Yi drank it all.

Due to Hong Lanqing's presence, this glass of wine had to be dried, as well as Xiao Junqi and others, they are all battle-hardened people, and they have a certain identity, if they don't do it, they will find fault with him, don't look at himself as a president, he is a figure in the unit, his subordinates will take him seriously, and he doesn't dare to refute it in the slightest, he is nothing in the eyes of these people. If you can't do it yourself, you'll make fun of him to your face.

"Governor Hong, I salute you for this glass of wine, congratulate you on your ascension, and ask for your care in the future. "Shao Yi.

"Thank you, I wish you all the best in your work. "Hong Lanqing.

Shao Yi then saluted Liming and Xiao Junqi respectively, and then smiled: "My task is complete, Zihao, Director Zhang, Xu Feng, it's time for you to play, they are all nobles who can be used, you must toast a few more glasses." ”

Next is the free activity, because the theme of tonight is to congratulate Hong Lanqing on becoming the vice president of the bank, so everyone naturally aims at her first, Hong Lanqing smiled and toasted with everyone.

"Second sister, in addition to Director Bao and the staff on duty in our office, the newcomers and the old people are all together, and we all respect you. "Chen Zihao.

"Thank you and I wish you all the best in your work. "Hong Lanqing.

"Director Chen, the following glass of wine should be toasted to President Shao, he is your boss. "Dawn.

"Don't respect me, but first honor the guests. "Shao Yi.

"This is not good, that is a great disrespect to the leader, we don't care, if we offend you, we will pay it back. Dawn smiled.

"Look at you, what do you think of me, we're all buddies, we don't pay so much attention to it, let's start with the guests. "Shao Yi.

"Shao Xing looks good, we still come first from the guests. Chen Zihao began to toast.

It was Chang Shouxin's turn to toast, Li Tiecheng, and Liu Shuchen toasted, and after they finished toasting Hong Lanqing and Liming, Chang Shouxin then raised his wine glass: "Eldest sister, eldest brother-in-law, if the barbecue square does not have your strong care and support, there would be no beautiful today, we salute the two of you on behalf of the barbecue square." ”

"I am your eldest sister, I should take care of you, and I wish you the development of your barbecue square more and more powerful. "Hong Yuqing.

"President Shao, in order to thank the firm for its support to us, we would like to toast you separately. "Always keep your word.

"I should support you, and I wish your barbecue square more and more prosperous. "Shao Yi.

"One cup is not good, without the financial support of the commercial bank, the barbecue square cannot develop to the current scale, in order to show sincerity, it should be toasted three times in a row. "Wei Dahai. (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to come (. Vote for recommendation, monthly pass, your support is my biggest motivation. For mobile phone users, please go to M...... Read. (To be continued.) )