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"I'm like you, I'm in contact with all kinds of characters all day long, all kinds of people will be met, anything will happen, it's okay if you don't want to, if you really get angry every day, then you won't be angry. Chen Fei said with a smile.

"The nature of our work is different from yours, you are an administrative cadre, just talking about it, and we are a business unit, the loan issued must be recovered, what you want is the real thing, and you can't get a penny, especially when you meet a character like Ma Zhongxiang, your face is quite unreasonable, and whoever you meet will be angry, no, these days just serve him. Xu Feng said,

"Don't complain, it's not worth complaining, there are many things in this world that you can't get used to, and complaining will only make you sad. Don't resent, don't resent, every society, there are injustices, resentments, which will make you lose tolerance. The world is very big, the society is very mixed, and there are always some things that make us disappointed and sad. Life is tedious, personnel are complicated, and there are always times when it is difficult for us to accept. Life is difficult to satisfy, why be sad, happy is smooth. Chen Fei said.

"It seems that you are still an optimist, optimistic no matter what the situation, no matter how bad it is, maintain a good attitude, and believe that bad things will always pass, and believe that the sunshine will always come again. Chen Zihao said.

"If people are optimistic, they will resist, they can resist, and they will enhance their resistance. Chen Fei said.

As the saying goes. The east is not bright, and the west is bright. It is dark, and there is a north in the south. Don't worry, there's no room for manoeuvre. Where there is a quartet dark and gloomy, you have to think about everything a little, relax your heart a little, don't think about it if it's not good, and it will get better as soon as you get better. When you are in pain and sorrow, you might as well think of yourself as someone else, who has not yet been in pain and sorrow. The pain will naturally lessen. When you are ecstatic, you also need to think of yourself as someone else, and when you are not happy, the ecstasy will become calm and indifferent, so that there will not be so many troubles to speak of.

"Society is very complex, but it is very simple, some people chase money, but some people chase science, many people chase survival, and some people chase harm. Some people pursue justice, and they must not use one theory to unify the people of the world. The development of human society is the development of the struggle for the shield. The question of Guan Jian is how to see oneself and how to grasp oneself. Everyone occupies a small part of the space station, as long as they can grasp themselves, whether it is complex or simple. Chen Zihao said.

"Life is good, it's about how you look at life, it's about how you treat yourself. The mind should be active, and the horizon should be broadened, to find and discover beautiful new things, to discover and create more joy of life. Chen Fei said: "Don't waste time by recalling yesterday, and don't let yesterday's distress and sadness interfere with and affect today's self." Time and space are always changing, without stopping for a second, you have to learn to forget the past. ”

"Society is broad and broad, don't close your eyes to a certain area, and don't limit your thinking to a certain corner. The outside world is wonderful, and only by going out can we find light and hope for survival. Even if you can't travel far, you can exile your mind, think more about the outside world, broaden your mind, and at the same time make your mind broader. Xu Feng said.

"Today's young people are amazing, and their opinions are not at all the same as ours, which has to be admired. Chen Zihao said with a smile.

"How old are you, don't you have much more experience than us, it can be said that you have practiced the oil residue on the pot. Chen Fei said with a smile.

"He's modest, with long hair on his palm, a veteran, and he can't see anything better than us, but he can't hide it and hide it too deeply. Xu Feng said.

"It's over, a big day is a day, and when I'm older, I can't avoid too many worries, and there are no more of you who break in. Chen Zihao said.

"It has been said that a child is a joyful song, a teenager is a beautiful painting, youth is a passionate poem, the prime of life is a rich novel, middle age is a beautiful prose, and old age is a set of rational philosophies. Chen Fei said.

These special experiences will be reflected in the various stages that everyone goes through. On the road of life, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of setbacks, especially setbacks in work, some people are unsatisfactory and unsatisfactory in their work, and their self-confidence will be frustrated, so that they can not develop in all aspects, and even the situation is getting worse and worse, and even bring a certain negative impact on future work. I believe that as long as you have faith, you will have opportunities and everything can be successful.

"The wise quote is very incisive. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"There is a factual basis for this, we have a middle-aged woman there, who used to be an employee of a large enterprise, and due to poor management, the company had to be restructured, and she had to face the reality of being laid off and unemployed. Chen Fei said.

What it means for a middle-aged woman to be laid off. If it sounds good, it means being laid off, and if it is bad, it is unemployed. lost the capital she relied on to survive, and her fate changed fundamentally from this time, and it was also because of this that her life was even more full of hardships and helplessness. Before being laid off, her work was very easy, drinking tea and reading the newspaper every day. In her words, she is meditating and staying up time, purely mixing time. And he works in an agency, and the salary is also good, and he lives a worry-free life. When she was just laid off, she felt very uncomfortable, she was young, and how to go on the long road in the future. I can't help but feel a little entangled and melancholy, very depressed about life, feeling confused about the future, almost losing the courage to live, and even having desperate thoughts. But you always have to live, you always have to face reality, there will be no pie in the sky, you can't just wait. There will be no way out at all, only to find a way to find something to do. She has helped people drive cars, worked as a plasterer, etc., but these are not long-term solutions, and there is no capital investment in a larger business, so the family background can be imagined. One day, she read in the newspaper that the state had many preferential policies for laid-off workers, and she could no longer hold back her desire to start a business, so she came up with the idea of opening a restaurant. So she took out a loan from the bank and borrowed tens of thousands of yuan from relatives and friends to open this small restaurant. Although the place is not big, the elegant and exquisite decoration, the antique tables, chairs and coffee tables, coupled with the tactful and smooth guzheng music, give people a leisurely and home-like feeling, and the first feeling is very good. After her painstaking management, she developed her own flavor characteristics, and as a result, the business was booming, which changed her poverty situation in one fell swoop and entered a well-off life.

Because she has felt the sourness of being laid off, she did not forget to help others find employment after she successfully started her business. Now, she has not only paid off her bank loans and borrowed money from relatives and friends, but also has her own savings, and most importantly, she has solved the employment problem of several unemployed young people and laid-off workers. Someone asked her what she thought at the time, and she replied: We don't have the final say on the layoffs, but we have to go our own way in the future. As long as you have confidence, you will have the opportunity to succeed in everything. If she didn't have the confidence to start a business, she was still depressed about life, and she had nothing to do after being laid off, she would not have developed to this point, and she might still be struggling in a poor life.

"This is completely similar to the development process of the barbecue square, how difficult we were at the beginning, it can be said that there is no capital, even the qualifications for bank loans are not enough, in order to survive, we have to grit our teeth to go on, there is no money to borrow, in order to save money, we do it ourselves, the original situation can be imagined, it is because of the firm belief, this is gradually developed and expanded. Xu Feng said.

"Every excellent person has a silent time, and that time is a time when he has put in a lot of effort, endured loneliness and loneliness, does not complain or complain, and when he talks about it in the future, even he is moved. Life is like this, God is fair, if you have some, you will always lose some, you will gain some, you will always lose some, life is full of balance, always pay attention to equality, there is no permanent wealth, it will not be poverty forever. Chen Fei said.

"As the saying goes, as long as the effort is deep, the iron rod can be sharpened into a needle, and no matter what a person does, it takes a lot of effort. Only after countless blood, sweat, bitter tears, and hard work can you become a successful person. Chen Zihao said.

"There must be a road before the car to the mountain, there is no endless road, this time and that time, the emperor takes turns to sit, this year to your house, next year to my house, feng shui turns, the long time must be together, the long time must be divided. Xu Feng said.

A man cannot hang himself from a tree, the mountain does not turn around, and there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain. Dust to dust, dust to dust, don't worry about everything. To maintain an optimistic and confident attitude, a person's life cannot be smooth sailing, it must be ups and downs. As long as you persist will win, in many times in life, whether you can win or not depends not on your strength, but on your perseverance and perseverance. As long as you don't give up lightly, everything has the possibility of turning around. As the old saying goes, you get what you work for. Therefore, don't be dead, be flexible, everyone has their own life trajectory, everyone has their own way of doing things, as long as you persevere, don't worry about finding a way out.

"The reality is the general environment, not who can control it, lose the east, harvest the mulberry, fail here, but win over there. Chen Fei said.

"This is thanks to the one who hurt you, because he honed your mind, thanks to the one who stumbled over you, because he strengthened your legs, thanks to the one who deceived you, because he increased your wisdom, and thanks to the one who despised you, because he awakened your self-esteem. Thank you to the one who forsaken you, because he taught you independence. Chen Zihao said.

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