"People in the world, in a big environment, of course, will encounter many difficulties, if you want to realize your dreams, there is only one way, that is, believe in yourself, rely on yourself. As long as you have ideals, have confidence, firmly believe in your own ideals, and believe that you are by no means inferior to others, you will take the first step towards success. Zhang Jian said.

"Before doing something, we must first believe in ourselves so that we can find the feeling from it, feel good, we will have action, we will have more action, we will have more experience, we will have rich experience, we will have performance, and we will be more confident with performance, so as to find a better feeling and more positive action. Believing in your own will and determination will make you move towards success faster. Life is all about going your own way, and how to go depends on your own choice. And insisting on being brave and facing it calmly has become the most important thing in life, believing that your efforts and confidence in success will be your forever friend. Shao Yi said.

Now, Huaicai does not encounter this mentality seems to have become a common disease for many people, their common symptom is to complain, not only like to criticize others, but also show a depressed look, this kind of person looks angry, or does not have the ability, if you really have to be discovered a long time ago. Zhang Jian said.

"In this kind of people, it is indeed a talent that is not encountered, because the objective environment can not adapt to it, the tiger falls in Pingyang and is bullied by dogs, and the dragon is trapped in the shallows and is played by shrimp, which is not surprising, because life is forced, and they can't help but wronged themselves, so life is very painful. Shao Yi said.

But in reality, talented people are like this, no, although sometimes there are thousands of horses who don't have a chance to meet Bole, if it's really a thousand miles of horses, a wrong encounter with Bole, there should be a second and third time. Most of the reasons why many people have a bad ending are because of their own causes. Some people are indeed talented, but they often think of themselves as high. Looking down on those with low ability and education, today's society is indeed complicated. It's not that talent can achieve great things. Those who think that they are talented people are actually mediocre talents, and there is nothing really done, otherwise, how can others turn a blind eye to him. They themselves don't realize this, but they complain everywhere and complain everywhere. The end result is that the stronger the sense of talent, the more isolated themselves in a smaller and smaller circle. so that they are unable to associate with other people's circles. Everyone is afraid of getting into trouble and does not dare to deal with such people, and everyone regards them as monsters and respects them. If a person's bad impression on everyone is a foregone conclusion, then unless he is vigorously promoted by nobles, he will never come out, and the final result is that some resign, some are transferred, some are always a small staff, and some are struggling in the pain of not meeting talents all their lives.

"In fact, no matter what your talents are, when you encounter them and you can't show them. You must remember that even if you have the feeling of not meeting talents, you can't express it. Because that's just going to make you look down. Zhang Jian said.

"Of course smart people don't do that, and trying to do what you do might do a lot of good.reads();. Shao Yi said.

The first thing is to evaluate your own ability first to see if you are overestimating yourself, because your own evaluation of yourself is not objective, so you have to find friends and colleagues to evaluate, if the evaluation of others is lower than your self-assessment, then you must accept it with an open mind. The second thing is to examine why you can't use your abilities and don't have the right opportunities for a while. It is still a limitation of the general environment, or a man-made obstacle. If it's a matter of chance, then just keep waiting. If it is because of the general environment, then you have to resign, if it is a human factor, then you can communicate sincerely, and think about whether there is something that offends people, if so, you have to find a way to dredge. The third thing is to consider coming up with other expertise, sometimes Huai Cai is not met because of the wrong specialty, if there is a second specialty, then you can ask the above to give the opportunity to try it, try to transform maybe it will open a way of life. The fourth thing is to create a more harmonious interpersonal relationship, everyone should be careful not to become the object of avoidance by others, but should use your talents to help other colleagues, but remember that you must not take credit for helping others, otherwise you will scare away your colleagues. In addition, being humble and courteous and making good friends will bring unexpected help, and the fifth thing is to continue to strengthen your talents, which will shine brightly when the time comes.

"It is a universal law that you are the master of your destiny and dominate your own mind, and only you can grasp your own mentality, and your mentality shapes your future. It is possible to transform the thoughts and attitudes that are rooted in the human heart into tangible reality, whatever that thought and attitude may be, and it can quickly turn the idea of poverty into reality, and it can also quickly turn the idea of wealth into reality. Zhang Jian said.

"On the basis of knowing oneself, fully believing in oneself is the key to success, believing that oneself can release one's greatest potential in the face of difficulties and challenges, and believing that oneself can unswervingly move towards success under the guidance of understanding and interest. Shao Yi said.

Every age in everyone's life will have their own dreams. From imagining yourself flying like a bird when you were a child, becoming a hero like the People's Liberation Army, or being a good teenager praised by everyone, students who are poor in learning also dream of taking the first place in the exam. When you grow up, you will be affected by the pressure of life, the changes in the environment, and the changes in the people around you. Gradually, you will find that you are no longer yourself, living for your family, working for others, and you don't even know why you are living. Sometimes I will be moved and confused, more often I will feel that I have nothing to do, and I may be pessimistic and disappointed. Pessimism and disappointment will only wear down people's fighting spirit and courage, will only make ordinary people more mediocre, and will only make cowardly people become dolls who live with the flow. People can not lose confidence at any time, and confidence is an indispensable pillar for a person to learn and succeed in employment. A person without faith is like a bird without direction. Therefore, whether it is good or bad, people have to believe in themselves.

People have weaknesses, of course, they will inevitably have such and such weaknesses, the biggest weaknesses, everyone knows in their hearts that good medicine is good for disease, and good advice is good for deeds. This is a well-known proverb, and the truth in it is accepted by the vast majority of people. But in real life, it's for someone else. But when it's their turn, people still prefer to drink non-bitter medicine, or irrepressibly like flattery. Although sometimes I also know that the other party is so flattering. It's probably not true, it's just a fool, and if you don't pay attention, you will be fooled and planted, and you may not know. But no evil is coming, and no one is enlightened. In fact, where in this world can there be a perfect person, this qiē is just people's imagination. In real life, it is impossible to exist, people are to pursue beauty, but it is definitely not perfect. There will be no such perfect person as zài at all. Perfection is just what exists in people's ideals. You can't take the perfect character in the novel to real life, and don't beg for the prince in the fairy tale to appear, this qiē is just a fantasy and cannot become a reality, you can pursue beauty, but don't pursue perfection, otherwise you will only harm yourself.

Life is in the process of struggle, and the process of struggle is the pursuit of beauty in a simple word. On the one hand, it is the pursuit of external beauty, and there is a public opinion in society about what is true, good, and beautiful. To pursue it, it is an external beauty. The other is myself, I have made myself beautiful, and in the process of pursuing beauty, I show my talent and ability, and I hope to be able to have a result, a performance. Many people are particularly discouraged when they encounter difficulties, because in life. There are many problems that need to be honest, one's own problems, interpersonal problems, and social environment problems. There are also some very specific questions, and at this time we must pursue beauty reads();. But don't strive for perfection. It means don't give up, don't give up if you don't pursue beauty, you can't give up, you have encountered a lot of falsehood, evil and ugliness in life, but you must firmly believe that truth, goodness and beauty will be found.

So in such a situation, we should pursue beauty, but don't pursue perfection, because the reason why people finally collapse is often because the world is imperfect, because they feel that the world is imperfect, they will be anti-world and anti-human, and after reaching the extreme, they will become the opposite of all, so they will go crazy, they will feel that they are not perfect, they will encounter some setbacks, they will feel that people are talking about it, things are messed up, they fail, they will self-deny, they can pursue beauty unremittingly, but do not pursue perfection. If the pursuit is too perfect, it is easy to break.

It is a truth in life that we must pursue beauty, but we do not have to pursue perfection in any case. For example, some people pay too much attention to hygiene, and they always want to achieve perfection when they wash their hands, so they wash endlessly, and when they finally finish washing, they immediately suspect that they are contaminated with germs, and they are always depressed. For another example, some women are actually very beautiful, and they continue to have plastic surgery in order to make themselves more perfect, but what bad consequences have been caused, and then they are said by relatives and friends that they are not natural, which makes them angry, and they feel that they have been deceived, and they have become ugly despite the cost. There are also people who blindly pursue interpersonal love, cut off the necessary edges and corners of their character, and even fail to adhere to principles, but in the end they will be upset, depressed and irritable, and difficult to get along with others. If the pursuit of perfection is too extreme, it will cause the patient state, and even schizophrenia, because they feel that they are unable to be perfect, they will commit suicide, and if they feel that others are really imperfect, they will have the evil desire to simply destroy it. If you pursue perfection too much, you will only be hurt for no reason, and in the end it will be just a failure.

"There was a fisherman who caught a big pearl from the sea and couldn't put it down. But the fly in the ointment is that there is a small black dot on the top of the pearl. The fisherman thought that if the little black dots could be removed, the pearl would become a priceless treasure. But the fisherman peeled off a layer, the black dots were still there, and then peeled off another layer, the black dots were still there, and the layers were peeled off to the end, and the black dots were gone, and the pearls were no longer there. Zhang Jian said.

In fact, the pearl with black spots is just a white and slightly flawed, which is the preciousness of its natural and traceless, just like the clear water out of the hibiscus, naturally carved and decorated. The real beauty is in nature, the beauty is in simplicity, and the beauty is real. And this fisherman desperately wants to get the beauty without the slightest flaw, when he eliminates the so-called shortcomings, beauty also disappears in the process of his excessive pursuit of perfection, the real value of beauty often lies not in its completeness, but in that little bit of incompleteness, like the Venus that has lost its arms, giving people endless reverie.

So don't strive for perfection, perfection will make beautiful things disappear. There is no perfection in this world, don't have too high expectations, sometimes it's good enough, you may waste too much time and energy to dream of perfection, but you don't have time to do anything well. What you need to remember is to take it when the time comes. Those who are too greedy often end up with no good results. In the pursuit of beauty, you need to always remind yourself that you must pursue beauty, but you must not pursue perfection.

"Some people demand perfection in every small detail, and often the result is that the snake swallows the elephant, and the elephant does not swallow it, but its belly is broken. Unrealistic goals are just fantasies, I don't want to give up anything, I want to do everything well, so I often set up countless ambitions, I have countless rushes, so I always pursue, always nervous, never know how to be satisfied, and there will never be real happiness. With such a state of mind, such feelings, can we succeed? If we pursue perfection too much, we are not perfect. Zhang Jian said.

"Don't deliberately pursue perfection, this does not mean that you are negative and do not want to forge ahead, just tell you to be content, do not set unrealistic obstacles for yourself, do not expect too high goals, do not always frown, treat things with a normal attitude, as long as you do your best, you can show a satisfied smile. Shao Yi said.

"In modern society, people often demand excellence in doing things, they only ask to do better, not to do things perfectly, because perfection does not tolerate the slightest flaw. There are no perfect people in the world, and naturally they will not do perfect things, so the pursuit of perfection is actually putting a shackle on oneself, and you can't realize what happiness is in the aura of perfection. To do better is within your ability, even if it is not within the scope of your ability, you will use guò this motivation to tap your potential and do things better, which will be very fulfilling and happy. Zhang Jian said. (To be continued.) )