Chapter 142: The more you talk, the more you don't like it
After sending Liao Shulan away, Xing Yanfang talked to her sister Xing Yanfen on the phone again, and told her about Yuan Yuan, Xing Yanfen strongly agreed to this family matter, she had already inquired around, Jinghe's child is really good, his parents are reasonable people, and his family conditions are good, so he will not be wronged if he marries.
"The only hope I have now is that Yuan Yuan can be admitted to the civil service, so we can speak hard, after all, it is the job that we are admitted to, and we can't let their families speak. Xing Yanfang said.
"That's good, but the hope of getting into the exam is very slim, the competitiveness is too great, and we have no one and no power in our family, so it's not easy to achieve the goal. Xing Yanfen said.
"Being admitted to the civil service is the only hope for the child, otherwise what will he do in the future, so the two of us also beat the drum in our hearts, although it is to go to work in the college student entrepreneurship clothing city, it is not a long-term solution to work for individuals after all, but there is still a stable dìng work heart. Xing Yanfang said.
"So I strongly agree with her and Li Jinghe's affairs, the personal and family conditions are good, and the child will not be wronged in the future. Xing Yanfen said.
"What are you asking about? There should be no problem with the parents, the main thing is how Li Jinghe is a person, he can be said to be from a wealthy family, and his conditions are very superior in all aspects, I am worried that like some cadres and children, relying on some forces in the family to act cynically and misbehaps, such a person is unreliable. Xing Yanfang said.
"I've inquired in many ways these days, and this kid is really good in all aspects, otherwise he wouldn't be the president. Xing Yanfen said.
"Did he have a girlfriend before?" Ms. Xing said.
"I haven't heard of it, but it doesn't matter much. Xing Yanfen said.
What age is it now, the mind is still so closed, you can't look at this problem with old concepts, it's normal for young people to fall in love, and it's also their right, and it's as innocent as we were when we were young, even boys don't dare to look at it squarely, children and we are growing up in different eras, and the ideas are very different, which boy hasn't talked about a girlfriend now, even Yuan Yuan, you don't dare to guarantee that you haven't had a boyfriend, but parents don't know, so there is no need to be too harsh in this regard, as long as the person is good, as long as there are no big mistakes in the past, it can be completely tolerated。
"I'm worried about what misdeeds I have done before, just like Xu Feng seems to be quite honest, but his stomach is full of flowers, he has done something like that, and other things can be tolerated, but the relationship between men and women must not be compromised, this is a lifelong event, and I can't live with a man who is involved in flowers and grass, so I don't have a sense of security, maybe I will change my mind at some point, and in the end, it is Yuan Yuan who is unlucky and suffers. Xing Yanfang said.
"I've asked a lot of people, and I haven't heard of such a thing, I wonder if there must be, such a thing is extremely sensitive, if there is a rumor, there would have been rumors a long time ago. Xing Yanfen said.
"You can find someone to help you inquire, in short, the more detailed the better, this is also for Yuan Yuan, you must not marry a playboy. Xing Yanfang said.
"Okay, I'll find more people to understand, for Yuan Yuan should know more details. Xing Yanfen said.
Xing Yanfang put down the phone and told her husband about Yuan Yuan, if Yanfang really didn't find a problem, and the civil servant didn't get in, she immediately told Yuan Yuan about it, this is an opportunity, you can find a good job, and you will have to rely on it in the future, now you are just working for an individual, and there is no guarantee in life at all, maybe one day you will be unemployed, and you will have to worry about the future of your children.
"I still say the same thing, we must follow the child's wishes, and we can't be too demanding. Yuan Weihua said.
"The children's ideas are high, they think that they are not realistic at all, and it is impossible to achieve it, so we have to be assertive and help her get ideas, and we can't always let him or her temperament come. Xing Yanfang said.
"I think there is a sense of mutual exchange in doing this, you can't trade your child's life, if you really don't fall in love, and your marriage is not happy, you will be in pain for the rest of your life. Yuan Weihua said.
"You just use your mouth to talk big, you can't solve any problems at all, you have the ability to find a decent job for your child, who doesn't want to have a house, a car, a job, and an endless amount of money, so you can find any kind of family, and we also feel hard when you talk at home. Xing Yanfang said.
Yuan Weihua glanced at her and stopped talking, the child's affairs made him very helpless, you can't do it with 10,000 reasons, after all, the facts now faced, the child has to find a job and start a family when he is older, he can't do it with his ability, and he has no choice but to listen to his wife's constant chatter.
"Since we can't do anything, only listen to me, Yuan Yuan has found a comfortable job, and we have saved our hearts in this life, otherwise we will always think about her, and we will be even more anxious if we can't find a good family. Xing Yanfang said.
After a while, seeing that her husband didn't speak, Xing Yanfang said again: "Working in the college student entrepreneurship garment city is not a job at all, what can a few girls do, the boss sees that there is no benefit, maybe it will be closed one day, these children will then be unemployed, no one will care about them, and in the end it is us who are anxious." ”
"Now the children are doing a good job, they are working very hard, and they will quickly achieve economic benefits. Yuan Weihua said.
"Just with these girls, I think it's enough, it's not easy to do business, they have no experience, and there is no big way out. Xing Yanfen said.
"Their things are all on TV, which shows that some achievements have been made, and as long as they work hard in the future, they will gradually get better. Yuan Weihua said.
"You haven't seen it yet, this is the boss is deliberately putting on a show, taking college students to start a clothing city to get capital for themselves, to put it bluntly, it is to add fat and powder to themselves, otherwise who will be so stupid, will use some college students who can't do anything, obviously selling dog meat on the head of a sheep, so it is impossible to have good benefits, and no one can do it at a loss. Now some people dare to play any tricks in order to be famous, just want to help others do what they can, why bother to be so publicized and on TV, if I am the boss, I can't make money and I won't use these children, which means that I have other ideas. Xing Yanfang said.
"You think of people too much, and creating job opportunities for college students is a good thing, and it should be publicized, and that's rightly true. Yuan Weihua said.
"That is, you nerds can say such things, how much capital investment is needed in such a big clothing city, relying on a few college students will not earn it back in a few lifetimes, it is obvious that you are losing money in it, there is a way to be no business and no treachery, this is the nature of businessmen, it is impossible to do it without benefits. Xing Yanfang said.
"Okay, don't belittle people's kindness, if you hear you talk like this, it will hurt their hearts, saying that we don't have a vegetarian cultivation, and kindly get jobs for the children and talk nonsense. Yuan Weihua said.
"It's not that I'm talking nonsense behind my back, it's obviously like this, there is a way that is powerless and not early, everyone has a selfish mentality, there is no benefit and will not do this, is it possible to throw money into the water for no reason? Unless there is a problem with the brain, he has other intentions, but we don't know. Xing Yanfang said.
"I'm going to pick up Yuan Yuan. Yuan Weihua listened to his wife's more and more disagreeable, how can he talk about people like this, he has done bad things with good intentions, if no one supports his daughter to go to work, it is not nothing.
"If Yuan Yuan has a good job, go to work on time and get off work on time, you don't need to pick her up every night, the child is hard enough, when is the end of the day when is it the end, so you must find a good job for her. Xing Yanfang said.