Today is July 10th, and there are still 12 days left before the great heat.

Originally, tonight's update was Chapter 147 - Misdialed, but because there have been too many things happening around the author recently, I feel very deeply, so I decided to use this afternoon to write a good article, which has nothing to do with basketball, but about life, love, and love.

I have been thinking about the topic for a long time, and I have always disliked cumbersome titles, which look unobtrusive, so when I decided on this title, I immediately thought of Jane Eyre.

Jane Eyre is a famous book about love and life, Guan Ai is not, he is just my perception.

Generally speaking, the author is still a relatively emotional person, probably related to Cancer, so I always feel that the word love ~ is not simple.

Guan, love, I want to explain these two words separately, guan, not closed, not relational, but about, caring, not just caring.

Love is not only love, affection, friendship, but also human affection, humanity, and the perception of love.

It's actually very empty to say this, so let's actually talk about how Guan Love is interpreted.

There used to be such a family of three, and it was an ordinary family of three who couldn't be more ordinary. Life is not rich, but very happy, they are each other's spiritual sustenance, they love each other deeply, although they will always be noisy, but that is the spice of life.

As the children grow up, they spend less time with their parents, their parents get older, and the common topics with their children gradually become less, and the family of three gradually lacks communication and exchanges.

But as long as the children come home, the family of three can still sit together happily and have a reunion dinner.

Later, the child was admitted to college and left his hometown completely, and at the same time, his parents also happened to retire, so that the parents added more sense of loss to their home.

The mother is okay, she found another job, played a warm-up, distracted her attention, and missed her child a lot, but the father couldn't, and the father who didn't have a "re-employment" missed the child, because that was what he looked up to, and he never left his side.

So my father's life was to check the calendar and calculate how long the next holiday was.

But as a man, my father still tried his best to hide his thoughts.

On the first night after coming to college, the child took the initiative to call his father.

As soon as the child came up, he said, "Dad, I miss you,,。

Hearing the child's direct expression, the father really couldn't hide it, and said in a trembling voice: Son!! Dad misses you too!

It's just two days apart that the father and son miss it like this.

At that time, as a child, I really wanted to fly to my father's side immediately.

After graduating from college, based on this kind of love for family or parents, the child did not break into the outside world, but returned to his hometown and returned to his parents.

But when he returned, he noticed something had changed.

My mother is still working so diligently to earn money and exert her spare heat.

But the father is not quite like the father on the phone before, maybe it is the leisure time after retirement, or maybe it is the boring life without children by his side.

My father picked up a gambling addiction.

Even when he sees his children at home, the father will show off his cooking skills and cook a delicious meal.

But my father spent less and less time at home.

The child didn't care and didn't say anything.

A year later, my father's body may have been gambling all year round and he had committed an old problem.

The child may have cared out of the heart of "you deserve ~", but he didn't say anything.

Later, my father's situation deteriorated, and the family of three was no longer as happy as in the past.

The child realizes that it's time to say something.

In fact, this is not a story, nor is there a deep meaning, 9.6 million kilometers of China, there are too many such families, there are too many words unspoken, there is too much love, locked in the heart.

Just as there are no identical leaves in this world, there are no identical people in this world.

Different people have different growth backgrounds, different innate genes, and different values.

But whether you are a doctoral supervisor or have not graduated from primary school, you should understand a truth.

Love is to be spoken.

Don't sit idly by when you see a person in a deep quagmire, if you're scared, at least call for help.

This is true for strangers, let alone family.

To love others is to love yourself.

To love someone else is to want to protect him, to love her, what difficulties he has and he is unwilling to say, we can try to find out, because love is selfless dedication, and love is the highest human emotion.

The communication between people can build the emotions between people, and the emotions between people, interdependence, and mutual support are the greatest wealth in the world and the most precious thing in the world.

I remember a PSA saying "family" (Chinese means family. This word is one of the few hieroglyphs in English, and if you take it apart, it is father, and, mother, i, love, you. (Chinese is Mom and Dad, I love you!)

Whether it is deliberately done by the word maker or by chance, this is a good illustration of a truth, a family not only needs the care of parents for their children, but also needs the care of children for their parents.

This kind of care is persistent, and this kind of care is the most worthwhile.

When you spend 30 minutes playing a game of LOL, you just get a mental enjoyment, and you can have such enjoyment at any time, but for the love of your parents, it doesn't take 30 minutes, sometimes, only three seconds is enough.

The child in the story is silent at the beginning, which has become a habit later, he can wake up, he can improve himself, he can say all these loves, supplements, and you can too!!

Stop wasting time in game after game of innocuous and hesitating.

Love is not for you to lock up love, but to love with a caring and caring attitude.

This kind of love is not simple, because often this kind of love gives many people the motivation to live.

This kind of love is very simple, accompany you to visit the vegetable market, simply fry a dish, all of which are meticulous care.

Love is a topic that is not heavy, it is a topic that people must face, and it is a topic that people should take action on.

Let's take action, in this world, there are so many people who love us, we must face it positively, take action, use the love we receive, to spread it to more people, and don't let love be "locked up" again.

After reading and loving, we will take action. (To be continued.) )