"Remember my words, it's never too late to work hard, it's not necessarily a bad thing to lose your horse, you might as well go to learn some skills that you feel interested in, such as law, foreign languages, accounting, etc., the important thing is that you have prospects and prospects in the future, and now you value education and ability, if you have a foundation, you will eat open, unlike me, all day long calculating how to make money, except for money, there is nothing in my head, to be honest, there is no point of interest, sometimes I feel pessimistic. Meng Lihong said.

"Now I also want to open, if I can't pass the civil service exam this year, I can work for someone in a few days, even if it is to serve dishes and wash dishes in a restaurant. Li Ying said.

This might as well be a way out, the key is to yourself, what you want to do and where you want to develop, not what others ask you to do, to have a goal and confidence, and then to achieve the ideal step by step. Meng Lihong said. You might as well set the goal into several stages, for example, a 10,000-meter long-distance run, it is normal to not be able to run down in one breath, it can be divided into several stages, 300 meters and 500 meters step by step, and then to achieve this will not feel tired, the important thing is to have confidence, have the spirit of perseverance to achieve little by little, do not give up lightly, that will be successful, do not be discouraged with the goal, it will be achieved little by little, the important thing is yourself, this is one of the secrets of success.

"The road ahead depends on us to walk, the future is in our own hands, no hard work, no harvest, even if we earn a penny, it is the result of our struggle. Wang Liyun said.

"Cherish the opportunity in front of you, don't waste it, it's not terrible to encounter difficulties, it's terrible to choose to escape in the face of difficulties, otherwise nothing will be accomplished. Meng Lihong said.

During this period, Yuan Yuan didn't say a word, always watched the three of them talk freely, still thinking about what happened in the afternoon, and felt more and more blocked, how well they lived, without a little worry and sorrow, they could speak as they wanted, but they just met Xu Feng, a big liar, emotionally, and completely tore her heart, although she was determined to break up with him, she was still a little unacceptable emotionally, and felt that she was a little guilty, how could she fall in love with such a person, and gave him a piece of sincerity, but in the end she deceived herself, so that she couldn't raise her head in front of her sisters, and her eyes were a little moist when she thought of this。 When several people saw her expression, they knew that she was still sad, and what she just said was enlightening her, don't think about it when you encounter something, and have the confidence and courage to live it.

"Yuan Yuan, why don't you talk for a long time, don't always think about that thing in your heart, even if it's over, since you have made a decision, don't be sad for him, cheer up, face it bravely, we will help you." Meng Lihong said.

"That is, when you meet a ruthless and unrighteous man, don't be suffering for him, it's really not worth feeling sad for him, if you know that you are so sad, he may be happy in his heart. Wang Liyun said.

"Xu Feng can be said to be a scoundrel, such a person is not worthy of your concern so much, you have to completely erase his shadow from the heart, and your heart will feel better. Li Ying said.

"But when I saw him again this afternoon, that gaze pierced my heart, and I couldn't accept it. Yuan Yuan said.

"Your heart is so kind, he still has the face to look at you, it's better to find a mouse hole to get into, this is insulting your personality, is laughing at your weakness, if I have to go forward and smack him a few times, scold him a few times, and let out the evil anger in my heart happily, and at the same time let everyone know what kind of person he is, people in this life will not raise their heads in the world. Wang Liyun said.

"Breaking up with him is the right decision, staying away from him is the best choice, don't let yourself be hurt, missing that kind of person is simply a waste of his emotions, he will suffer the consequences and end no good. Li Ying said.

"Women's feelings are fragile, they can't withstand too many blows, it's impossible for you to let go quickly, even if you are making greater efforts, it's also women's nature. Meng Lihong said.

Give love a little distance, but this distance should be like the wind, always lingering around you, instead of lingering in the flowers from now on, never thinking about it. When you love, you must leave some distance for love, to be able to love so plainly and plainly, in fact, it is the greatest happiness, don't have to be too greedy, don't have too much demand, don't have too much luxury, don't have too much demand, let it be like a lotus in the pool, natural growth, exude a faint beauty, elegant fragrance. If you really want to give up, why bother with the past, there is always no chance if you don't have a chance, even if you meet, it's in vain. The encounter between people is a fate given by God, but such a fate becomes too shallow in the face of fate, so no matter how reluctant or unwilling people are, some encounters are destined to be separation. If you are fated, time will also give you the opportunity not to be too sad and sad.