Chapter 216: Freedom to Marry

Ding Xiaoqin walked out of the bedroom and closed the door casually, Ding Fengjun and Zhang Fengrong were eating at the table with a few children, just now because of Chen Binglian, Ding Fengjun actually forgot the two people who were sulking in the room, and at this time saw Ding Xiaoqin walking out of the bedroom, Ding Fengjun remembered that Ding Xiaoqin and Ding Qingsheng had not eaten yet.

At this time, seeing Ding Xiaoqin walking out with an unhappy look, he asked, "What about the birthday, why didn't I come out with you?" ”

Ding Xiaoqin said with a caring attitude: "I have no appetite." ”

Ding Fengjun's slightly frowning brows didn't have time to speak, but Ding Xiaoqi on the side took the lead in opening his mouth and said: "It's not a small person, and you have learned to play temper, if you don't eat, you should save food for our family." ”

Ding Xiaoqin glanced at Ding Xiaoqin fiercely and said, "As long as you talk a lot, you can't stop your mouth when you eat." ”

After speaking, Ding Xiaoqin said to Ding Fengjun again: "Dad, it's not me who said you, you are really, how can you say that you are also an eighteen-year-old young man on your birthday, you actually beat him, you said that you can not be so impulsive, besides, what my aunt said is so ugly, if I am celebrating my birthday, I will also say that about my aunt." ”

Ding Fengjun had nothing to say at this time, he also understood that this matter was indeed something he did wrong, after all, Ding Qingsheng was still a child, he was not popular in this family, everyone excluded him everywhere, he put all his hopes and sustenance on this second uncle who only cared for him, and he disappointed Ding Qingsheng again and again, maybe he should really change this temper, society is developing, human beings are also progressing, and his own set of practices when he was young may have been eliminated.

Zhang Fengrong saw Ding Fengjun's guilt, and she said with a round attitude: "Okay Xiaoqin, you think your father is wrong, but I think what your father did is right, filial piety comes out under the stick, isn't it the same since ancient times?" Qingsheng's child is too rebellious, or he will cure his temper early, and if he really goes out to college in the future, he doesn't know what kind of mess he will cause. ”

Originally, Zhang Fengrong reprimanded Ding Xiaoqin with these words, but Ding Xiaoqin's eyes lit up unconsciously because of Zhang Fengrong's words, and the feeling of depression that she had pretended to be was swept away, she pulled a stool and sat next to Zhang Fengrong, grabbed Zhang Fengrong's hand with both hands and said with a little excitement: "Mom, listen to what you mean, do you agree with your younger brother to go to college?" ”

Although Zhang Fengrong was frightened by Ding Xiaoqin's performance, she still nodded in confirmation and said, "I didn't say that I wouldn't let him go to college." ”

Ding Xiaoqin didn't seem to believe what Zhang Fengrong said, she said with a skeptical attitude: "Then what you said to your eldest mother ......?"

Before Ding Xiaoqin's words were finished, Zhang Fengrong looked disgusted and interrupted: "Okay, okay, although your mother doesn't have much knowledge, but I'm not stupid, what should be done and what should not be done, I know in my heart, I don't know what kind of person your aunt is?" If a person is always tripped in the same place, then this person is definitely not your mother and me, just now you also heard your aunt speak loudly, and I am just accompanying her to make a show. ”

Ding Xiaoqin completely believed what Zhang Fengrong said, and she said happily: "I know that my mother is the master." ”

Ding Xiaoqi, who was sitting on the side, was unhappy, she said with a depressed face: "Mom, when did you learn so badly, if I want me to say that my mother is right, you shouldn't let Ding Qingsheng go to college, he is not from our old Ding family, you have worked hard to raise him for more than ten years, in case he is really an ungrateful guy and leaves, won't you still be sad in the future?" You said that he left cleanly, but you are not at a loss, you have raised a son for someone else, and if you let the neighbors know, you won't laugh at us. ”

Zhang Fengrong glared at Ding Xiaoqi and said: "It's a shame that you are still a college student, why don't you understand this truth, no matter what Qingsheng's child will become in the future, whether he is ungrateful or ungrateful, we just need to do what is worthy of him, as for how he does it, it is his business, if Qingsheng is not allowed to go to college, then these neighbors will really laugh at us." ”

Ding Xiaoqi said unconvinced: "Anyway, I still think what the eldest mother said is right, I shouldn't let Ding Qingsheng go to college." ”

Zhang Fengrong glanced at Ding Xiaoqi again and said: "I said, why can't you get along with Qingsheng all the time, if it weren't for you when you were young, would you say that Qingsheng can always be beaten by me?" And today, after I calmed down and thought about it, if it weren't for you, maybe I wouldn't have quarreled with Qingsheng, besides, you dead girl is really too hungry, have you forgotten that you were almost sold by your aunt when you were a child and never went to the United States? If it weren't for your dad desperately looking for you, it wouldn't be certain whether you are dead or alive now, you are still talking to your aunt, I think you are a little white-eyed wolf. ”

Ding Xiaoqi cut off indifferently and said: "Maybe I was going to the United States at the beginning, maybe now I can live happily, it's too late to thank my aunt, how can I hate her, it's all Ding Qingsheng's fault, if he hadn't cried and made trouble, we would have gotten on the plane a long time ago, and it was because he delayed the time to get on the plane, so I didn't go." ”

Zhang Fengrong was really angry when she heard this, she raised her hand to hit Ding Xiaoqi, so scared that Ding Xiaoqi put down the dishes and chopsticks and slipped away.

Zhang Fengrong scolded angrily: "You guy with no conscience, you really can't even catch up with half of the birthday, how could I give birth to a person like you with a bad stomach." ”

Ding Fengjun didn't want to listen to their noise, he got up and walked towards Ding Qingsheng's bedroom.

Ding Qingsheng was lying on his side on the bed with his eyes closed, he heard all the conversations outside just now, when Zhang Fengrong's words came into the room, Ding Qingsheng felt the warmth all over his body at that moment, the prejudice against Zhang Fengrong in the past has also disappeared at this moment, if he didn't have something important to do, he had to rush to the door and hug Zhang Fengrong, at the same time, Ding Qingsheng was also anxiously calling in his heart, why didn't the second master come in, my lines were perfectly prepared, If he doesn't come in again, I may have to fall asleep, just when Ding Qingsheng was waiting impatiently, Ding Fengjun finally pushed open the door and walked in.

Ding Fengjun looked at Ding Qingsheng who was lying on the bed on his side, he closed the door and called Ding Qingsheng softly, but Ding Qingsheng did not reply.

Ding Fengjun sighed lightly and sat on the edge of the bed, and said to himself: "Qingsheng, I know you didn't sleep, and I also know that you must still be angry with me, do you know, in fact, I also regret it, I shouldn't be so impulsive Every time I beat you, I feel very uncomfortable, but when it comes to that situation, I just can't control my emotions, you say that you are young, young people are very smart, you kid is very smart when you are young, why don't you learn to observe words and emotions this time, see that I raised my hand to hit you, you just run away, You said that your second uncle and I are so fat, how can I have the strength to catch up with you, and you will come back when my anger is gone, right? ”

Ding Qingsheng couldn't help but want to laugh when he heard what Ding Fengjun said, but he tried to restrain himself, trying not to let Ding Fengjun find out, Ding Fengjun sighed again, and continued: "Qingsheng, do you remember when you were a child, it seems that it was also because of something, you are also like now, hiding in the bed and pretending to sleep, it scared me at that time, I thought you were sick, you are good, just to stimulate me, at that time I even had the heart to beat you, otherwise let's make a gentleman's agreement, from today onwards, no matter what happens, I will definitely not be impulsive again, what about you, just supervise me, if I have such a thing again, the second uncle will not say anything, let you dispose of it, what's the matter? ”

Ding Qingsheng was afraid that if he listened to it again, he would really break the credit, he planned to stop pretending, so he turned over and sat up from the bed, still maintaining a sad look, and said: "Second uncle, can you stop sensationalizing, I now have some doubts about the truth of what you said." ”

Ding Fengjun looked at Ding Qingsheng, who had a serious face, frowned and said, "What do you mean by this, can't I still break my promise?" ”

Ding Qingsheng snorted coldly and said: "In my opinion, you are a complete liar, every time you beat me, you say something nice to coax me, and after coaxing me, the next time you encounter the same thing, you play your trick again, so I can't believe you." ”

Ding Fengjun smiled bitterly, he never thought that he would have such a day, he was not understood by others, and this person who didn't understand him was still Ding Qingsheng, Ding Fengjun always thought that what he did had always been right, maybe Ding Qingsheng didn't understand Ding Fengjun's approach when he was young, but now that Ding Qingsheng has grown up and his knowledge has been full, he should be able to understand Ding Fengjun's good intentions, but Ding Fengjun seems to have ignored a problem, even if Ding Qingsheng is in high school now, even if Ding Qingsheng is now in college, He may not be able to understand Ding Fengjun's approach, let alone him, even Ding Xiaoqin, who has already worked, can't understand him, how can he expect Ding Qingsheng to understand?

A child is always a child, and only when he is in the position of Ding Fengjun, maybe he can really understand that some things are done out of necessity.

Wasn't Ding Fengjun the same before, he didn't understand Ding Shide's teachings, but now that he thinks about it, he may not be as good as Ding Qingsheng at that time.

"Birthday, there are some things you can't understand yet, the second uncle doesn't want to explain anything to you, you still have a long way to go, I believe that one day you will understand and understand the heart of the second uncle." Ding Fengjun said affectionately but helplessly.

Ding Qingsheng learned from Ding Fengjun's appearance, sighed lightly and pretended to be deep and said: "Second uncle, since things have happened and can no longer be changed, then let him go over the past, let's not just talk about the past, let's do it, it's rare that the two of us have such a good interest today, so let's take advantage of this good interest to talk about the future." ”

Ding Fengjun was slightly stunned, he didn't quite understand what Ding Qingsheng meant, but looking at Ding Qingsheng's serious and heavy look, it seemed that he really had his own unique opinions, Ding Fengjun frowned and asked: "Okay, you can talk about it, how do you want to talk about the future." ”

Ding Qingsheng was expressionless, and said indifferently: "The future is an unpredictable reality, no one knows what the future will look like, but there is one thing that should not be denied, that is, the direction of the future must depend on today's decision, efforts may not be gained, but efforts will not be regretted, no matter what the future results are, as long as you have good memories in the process." ”

Ding Fengjun chewed on what Ding Qingsheng said, and he couldn't help frowning again and said, "Qingsheng, is your knowledge too high or my knowledge too low, why can't I understand what you mean?" ”

Ding Qingsheng couldn't help but have a black line on his face, he looked at Ding Fengjun, who was a little unclear, sighed lightly, and said in another tone: "In layman's terms, what I mean is that sometimes because of one of your decisions, it may achieve other people's lives, or it may ruin other people's lives, I want to ask the second uncle, do you plan to achieve others or destroy others?" ”

Although Ding Fengjun didn't understand why Ding Qingsheng asked this, he still gave a positive answer.

"Of course, you choose to achieve others, people have to do things in a fair and honest way, but you can't do those things that lose your conscience."

Ding Qingsheng seemed to be quite satisfied with this result, he looked old, nodded slightly, and said: "Since the second uncle said so, then I won't hide it from you, in fact, I talked to you so much, all because of the eldest sister." ”

"Xiaoqin, what's the matter with her?" Ding Fengjun frowned tightly and asked in some surprise.

Ding Qingsheng motioned for Ding Fengjun to listen to him.

"Second uncle, do you know why the eldest sister hasn't married for a long time in the past few years?"

Looking at Ding Qingsheng's mysterious appearance, Ding Fengjun shook his head and said: "Maybe I didn't find a suitable one, fate is a wonderful thing, especially in marriage, although it doesn't pay attention to the right time, place and people, but it is also inseparable from a fate word." ”

Ding Qingsheng waved his hand and said: "Second uncle, your understanding is a little pedantic, this is the disadvantage of your era, what fate is not fate, in my opinion, everything in the world is obtained by one's own hard work, and love is the same, there is a person who loves himself, and it happens that this person is the person he loves, then he can get married directly, how can he pay so much attention to it, do you say that it is not the second uncle?" ”

Looking at Ding Qingsheng's pretending to be mysterious, chewing on what he said, Ding Fengjun seemed to understand what Ding Qingsheng was going to say, he couldn't help but stretch his brows and said with a smile: "You stinky boy went around in such a big circle, it turns out that you told me about your eldest sister's marriage, how can I listen to you, your eldest sister has a sweetheart?" ”

Ding Qingsheng probably didn't expect Ding Fengjun to guess such a deep level, he said noncommittally: "Second uncle, I really underestimate you, people say that the older you are, the more confused you are, how can I find out that you are getting older and smarter, I really can't hide anything from you." ”

Ding Fengjun smiled lightly and said, "You don't have to wear a top hat for me, stinky boy, tell me quickly, who is the person in your eldest sister's photo, where does the family live, what do the parents do, and how many sisters and brothers are there in the family?" ”

Seeing that Ding Fengjun still had a tendency to talk, Ding Qingsheng hurriedly stopped him, sighed again, and said a little helplessly: "I said second uncle, are you investigating the household registration, besides, how can I know so much about the people in the eldest sister's picture." ”

Ding Fengjun said dissatisfied: "You don't know the other party's situation, so what is the purpose of your discussion with me on this topic today?" ”

Ding Qingsheng grinned and said, "Although I don't know the other party's situation, the second uncle knows better than anyone else, so I want to ask you about the details of the other party for the eldest sister, and ask your opinion by the way." ”

Ding Fengjun was a little stunned at this time, he pointed at himself with his backhand and said, "You mean to say that I know this family?" ”

Ding Qingsheng replied noncommittally: "Not only do I know it, but I also know it very well." ”

Ding Fengjun sighed and asked, "Then tell me, whose child is it?" ”

Ding Qingsheng didn't answer the question, but went around in circles again, he smiled and said: "Before I answer your question, you can answer me a question first." What do you think about the eldest sister's marriage? ”

Ding Fengjun looked at Ding Qingsheng puzzled and said: "I don't have any opinion, as long as your eldest sister likes it, after all, your eldest sister will live with each other for a lifetime in the future, as long as they don't get angry and don't quarrel, don't look at me as a traditional person, but my thinking is not feudal, now it's a new society, advocating freedom of marriage, I also have to keep up with this benchmark." ”

Ding Qingsheng was satisfied, he gave Ding Fengjun a big hug, and then said: "Second uncle, I really admire you more and more, I didn't expect your thinking to keep pace with the times, I knew this, I wouldn't be here to go around in circles with you, causing me to waste so much saliva, okay, in fact, the person my eldest sister likes is Wang Yucheng, and his father's name is Wang Chengxiang." ”

Suddenly hearing Wang Chengxiang's name, Ding Fengjun still couldn't help but be stunned, all that came to his mind was Wang Chengxiang's lifeless appearance, he couldn't imagine that his daughter would become Wang Chengxiang's daughter-in-law one day, besides, Wang Chengxiang had made a lot of nonsense before, he had to let his four sons marry the four daughters of Ding Fengjun's family, Ding Fengjun was very disgusted with this person at that time, and now he didn't expect that his eldest daughter still liked his son, which still made Ding Fengjun a little confused.

Ding Qingsheng also saw Ding Fengjun's mood changes, he was afraid that Ding Fengjun would say something out of the ordinary, so he hurriedly said: "Second uncle, you won't regret it, right?" ”

Ding Fengjun was stunned for a moment, and said with a gloomy face: "What regrets?" ”

Ding Qingsheng replied: "Don't agree to this family business, you just said, marriage is free." ”

Ding Fengjun was amused by Ding Qingsheng's words, he reached out and patted Ding Qingsheng's head and said with a smile: "You kid is really good, you have learned to dig a pit and let me jump, forget it, the child's affairs are still up to your children to decide, I still say the same thing, marriage is free." ”