273 Advice to parents

Zhang Jianye went home, happily holding a teacup and went straight to the kitchen, because he knew that the family was basically staying in the kitchen now. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

The two little guys, Xixi and Yoyo, are in the kitchen, eating and playing games.

Zhang Hao sat in the kitchen, helping the two little girls peel melon seeds; seeing his father come back, Zhang Hao smiled and gossiped, "Dad, how's your luck?"

Zhang Jianye smiled and stretched out a hand to gesture.

I understand, looking at my father's appearance, it is estimated that about 500 yuan went into other people's pockets.

Yu Xiu also laughed, and said with a smile, "Yo, five hundred yuan? In the past, you could play cards for fifty yuan a day, but now five hundred yuan in a morning may not be enough." The cards are playing better and better, and your skills have not improved. ”

Zhang Jianye didn't think that his card skills had declined, he threw the pot, "Isn't this a handful, you shouted that I lifted the bottom, that card is more ruthless." ”

The two little guys didn't care about this, they were still happily playing the game, and the two little girls kept leaning next to their grandmother, not only to see what grandma was cooking, but also to stick to grandma for a while.

Even if it's for a while, especially Yoyo, she's really sticky to grandma now, she really misses grandma.

After lunch, the two little girls played games for a while and took a nap, and the nap lasted for more than an hour, which must be better.

Dad went to play cards, Zhang Hao went to be a dog-headed military advisor, this trip is not to stand next to the side for a while and have to leave, now is to be able to watch for a while, and even give advice, it feels very good.

It's just that it's not fun yet, Christina came over, "Honey, Xixi and Yoyo are awake, we're going to take them to school, they want to play." ”

Zhang Hao was stunned for a moment and asked, "Do you want me to go this time?"

Christina nodded and said affirmatively, "Yes, I discussed it with them." ”

I don't have to say it, although Zhang Hao thinks it's very interesting to watch playing cards, but he has a child, of course, the child is the biggest.

and Christina took the two little girls to elementary school, the so-called playing ball is two little girls holding toy balls running blindly on the lawn, and it is enough to watch the two little girls happy.

Christina leaned on Zhang Hao's arms, watching the children running around happily, just take care of the children, chatting is the main thing for the two of them now, "Have you noticed that Dad and Mom are happier and more adaptable when they return here." ”

Zhang Hao thought for a while and said, "I also feel this way, they do like the ranch very much, but there we all know that their main life revolves around us." But here, they are more at ease. ”

The little heel insect Xixi is running blindly with her sister, and the two little girls are happily running away with a small leather ball.

Christina thought for a moment and said, "Can we discuss with Mom and Dad, they will be in their hometown after the New Year." I know my mom wants Yoyo, but she needs to take care of Shio. I think we can take care of Shioxi now, and I don't think I need my mom to take care of me yet. ”

Zhang Hao was stunned for a moment and asked, "You mean that the two of us took Xixi back to the ranch, and my father and mother stayed in our hometown?"

Christina nodded and said, "I think so, mom and dad can't live around us all the time, they have their lives too. And I'm feeling good now, we have the time, we have the ability to take care of ourselves, and of course because I look great now, even though I'm pregnant now. ”

Zhang Hao still felt a little uncomfortable, he knew that what Christina said was a little reasonable, but he was just a little uncomfortable.

Christina is only three months pregnant, and although she needs to be taken care of now, it is not much trouble. And Zhang Hao and Christina are not very busy at work, they are actually on the ranch almost all day long, and they are not the kind of office workers who are busy with work at all.

Seeing that Zhang Hao was still a little hesitant, Christina suggested, "Mom likes it very much and cares about you, we can't be so selfish." I thought maybe in the summer she would come back to the ranch and take care of us and the tide. But now, she needs a lot of company. ”

Well, Zhang Hao really thinks that this may be a good and correct suggestion.

Mom really wants Yoyo, before there is no Xixi, the little granddaughter, Mom has always been taking Yoyo. But in the past three years, my mother basically has very little time to take Yoyo, to say that I don't want Yoyo, the eldest granddaughter, it must be fake, even if the economic conditions are good now, I will often return to China, but each time I only stay for about a week.

Parents want to take care of you, you actually miss your grandparents too; the other is that Xixi is now three years old, and the little guy is actually not so difficult to bring, or Zhang Hao is not unable to take children now, he feels that it is not so difficult to take children with him, in fact, he can do it.

Mom and Dad are really doing well on the ranch, Dad is basically a cowboy now, and he is very suitable for the life on the ranch, and Mom is basically busy taking care of the family at home, and she really doesn't feel that there is anything bad about life on the ranch.

It's just that in the United States, even if there is no need to worry about the material foundation now, but in the pasture is a foreign country, for parents who have lived in China for most of their lives, they must have all kinds of unaccustomed, they do not have the excellent adaptability of young people, even if they live happily on the ranch, but sometimes there will be some unaccustomed.

Of course, for the parents, they are now taking their baby granddaughter, but they will also think about their eldest granddaughter.

Can't be so selfish, can't just keep asking their parents to pay;I have to admit that Zhang Hao knows that if his parents return to China, his little life will definitely not be so nourishing, but now he can't just think about his own little life.

Thinking that my father ran out to play cards with a teacup every day these days, thinking that my mother would go to chat with neighbors after finishing her family's affairs every day, and occasionally go to play mahjong at night, Zhang Hao knew that my parents were really familiar with and enjoyed life in their hometown.

Back at home, Zhang Hao felt that it was good to discuss this matter with his mother.

"Mom, I discussed with Tina today, you won't go to the ranch in the first half of the year, you just stay in your hometown, take a leisurely and rest. When the summer vacation is over, Tina will be about to give birth to a baby. ”

Yu Xiu was stunned for a moment, and said a little unhappily, "Do you want me to go to the ranch?"

Zhang Hao hurriedly explained, he had to make it clear, so as not to misunderstand his mother, "It's really not, of course I'm happy when you go to the ranch, and I'm happy and relaxed." But I'm afraid that the eldest and sister-in-law will feel uncomfortable and think that you and your father are biased. Another is that you have been in the United States for the past three years, and you must also want to stay in your hometown for a while. Xixi is now a little older, and Tina and I can take care of it well. But when Tina is about to have a baby, you will have at least three or four years to leave, and you will have to stay on the ranch. ”

Yu Xiu thought about it, it wasn't that her youngest son disliked her on the ranch and wanted to drive her back to her hometown, of course, she also knew that it was her youngest son who was good for her, but she was still a little uneasy. "Xixi can't do it now, she's still young. ”

Zhang Hao smiled and said confidently, "I'm really not worried about this, I don't go to work much anyway, and it's no problem to take Xixi." Besides, I will give you a holiday in the first half of the year, but if there is really anything, I must ask you to help us, not that you are at home, and you will go back to the ranch when you want to tide tides, but you will stay here in your hometown for a while, accompany you, and relax yourself. ”

Yu Xiu still didn't agree, and said hesitantly, "Then I'll run with your dad in the first half of the year." ”

Zhang Hao smiled and persuaded, "If you really let you run on both sides, it would have been done a long time ago." I'm tired of running around, and I can't stay at home for a few days at a time. I see, in the first half of the year, I still spent more time at home. It's really in the second half of the year that Tina gave birth to a child, and she basically can't leave it for two or three years, and she will stay at the ranch at that time. I just don't want to see you running on both sides so I want you to be at home, give you half a year off first, and then go to take care of the children. ”

Yu Xiu was very happy and felt that her youngest son was still very filial, although she still had to help take care of the children, although she still had to go to the ranch. But this is also a way for the younger son to feel sorry for her, of course she knows that if she goes to the ranch herself, the younger son will definitely have an easier time, but the younger son does not do this.

Christina also persuaded, "Mom, I think so too. If I'm about to have a baby, if a baby is born, we can't do without you, and you'll need to stay on the ranch for a long time. We hope that Xixi is more independent now, and that Hao and I are able to take care of her and make it easier for you. ”

Yu Xiu still hasn't made up her mind, she still has a lot of hesitation, "Xixi can't do without me, and you have to have the Triple Crown in the first half of the year, and the ranch is also busy in the first half of the year, you don't have time to take Xixi all day, right?"

Christina was very confident and spoke first, "Mom, I'm going to quit, I'm feeling a little inconvenient now, I don't want to go to work with a big belly, it's not good for me and my children." This is the benefit of having money at home, we don't need to worry about making money, I can take care of Xixi, and Hao can also take care of me. ”

This is also something that Zhang Hao discussed with Christina, Christina has just become pregnant, and she has not been affected much now. However, as she slowly began to show her nostalgia, there was naturally more and more discomfort, and since there was no financial pressure at home now, Christina naturally did not have to work hard.

This matter really needs to be considered in the long run, and it needs to be discussed clearly. Of course, the opinion of the parents is the most important.