Chapter 325: The Game and Me, Who Do You Choose?
Cousin, I'm really convinced of you, why do you say anything?
Lin Shuhao was thoroughly beaten by Wen Yating. lā
Obviously, Wen Yating's words just now had been heard by Ji Ran, and Lin Shuhao felt embarrassed to death, and he couldn't wait to find a crack in the ground to get into, and never come out again. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. biqUgE。 info
Ji Ran stood outside, shook his head awkwardly, turned around and left silently.
She originally wanted to ask Lin Shuhao to get her underwear back, but it seems that she should forget it, even if she really wants to go back to her underwear, Ji Ran doesn't dare to wear it.
Ji Ran returned to the classroom, her mood was still difficult to calm down, she never dreamed that a decent boy like Lin Shuhao would do such an unimaginable thing, and he actually held his underwear alone late at night and smelled it, and it was still the underwear that was attached to the most intimate parts of his body, and he felt cold when he thought about it.
"Shu Hao can't have some mental illness, right? If that's the case, then it's going to be troublesome. Ji Ran thought worriedly.
Anyway, the two are also friends, and Ji Ran doesn't want to sit idly by.
After the afternoon self-study class, Ji Ran went to the psychological counseling room.
The psychological counselor of Wanbei University is a young beautiful teacher, who has just graduated with a doctorate, and is a very senior psychology expert.
"Hello teacher, I have a question for you. Ji Ran came to the psychological counseling room, looked at the beautiful female teacher Zhu Yawen and said.
"Well, you name it. Zhu Yawen's gentle smile quickly relieved Ji Ran's nervousness.
"Teacher, I have a friend who has been acting a little weirdly lately, and I suspect that he may have mental illness, can you help me judge it?" asked Ji Ran cautiously.
"Then tell me what weird things he does, such as what you find weird in words or behaviors. Zhu Yawen asked carefully.
"At first, he gave me lunches, every day, and he sent me home after school, and then the relationship was a little better, and he often told me jokes, trying to amuse me, but the jokes he told were not funny at all, and some of them were boring, but he laughed a lot.
Later, he gave me some small gifts from time to time, and often recommended some novels to me, saying that I was like someone in the novel..."Ji Ran recalled Lin Shuhao's past performances and told Zhu Yawen in detail.
Zhu Yawen listened to Ji Ran's description, smiled and nodded: "These are all normal, this is a boy's performance of liking you, when a boy likes a girl, there will be those performances you said, that's normal, there's nothing strange." ”
Ji Ran did not deny Zhu Yawen's judgment, but Ji Ran pondered for a moment and said: "I also know that he may like me a little, but what happened next makes me feel very uneasy." ”
Zhu Yawen looked at Ji Ran's slightly anxious expression, and asked with a smile, "What's the matter?"
"Teacher, I'm not too embarrassed to say. Ji Ran hesitated, and her pretty face was slightly flushed with a lovely flush.
Zhu Yawen smiled slightly, as if he had guessed something, when boys and girls fall in love to a certain extent, there will be physical contact, such as holding hands, hugging, or kissing and other behaviors, and the bold ones may even have further intimate behaviors, Zhu Yawen guessed that Ji Ran must have been kissed by a boy or did that kind of embarrassing thing, so he was embarrassed to speak.
Looking at Ji Ran's shy and cute appearance, Zhu Yawen shook his head with a smile: "Actually, you don't have any psychological burden, falling in love is the most normal thing between the opposite sex, when you fall in love to a certain extent, it is inevitable that something will happen, are you kissed by him?"
"Huh? No. Ji Ran was stunned for a moment, and quickly shook his head.
Although she has a good relationship with Lin Shuhao, she is not good enough to kiss, and it should not be in the future.
"Then you can't have something that has happened, right?" Zhu Yawen asked again.
Ji Ran was startled, and shook his head vigorously: "Teacher Zhu, no, nothing has happened to us." ”
"What's the matter?" asked Zhu Yawen strangely.
Ji Ran lowered his head, hooked the corners of his clothes with his small hands, hesitated for a moment, and still told Zhu Yawen what happened.
After listening to Ji Ran's description, Zhu Yawen looked calm.
Ji Ran was surprised, why didn't Mr. Zhu react at all?
Had she ever encountered this kind of thing before?
Did any other man smell her underwear too?
When Ji Ran was thinking wildly, Zhu Yawen said with a smile: "Actually, this is not a mental illness, it is just a kind of behavior of loving the house and Wu because of liking, which can also be called fetish."
When a boy likes a girl, he can't help but pay attention to everything about the girl, such as listening to the songs she has heard, reading the novels she writes, liking her mantras, and even her smile, joy and anger will be very concerned, when the feelings of love deepen, they will want to know more about the girl, at this time they may propose to hold hands, Kisses or hugs, if the girl can't meet the request, the boy will transfer this emotional need to the girl's use of objects, such as the girl's clothes, hair, shoes or lipstick, of course, the girl's stockings, underwear can attract the boy's attention.
When a boy comes into contact with a girl's underwear, he can't help but have some x fantasies, and even has the association of having a relationship with the girl he likes, but this is a normal physiological reaction, not a mental illness, it can only be said that the boy really likes you, but he didn't find an outlet to vent. ”
After listening to Zhu Yawen's explanation, Ji Ran breathed a sigh of relief, it turned out that he just liked me, but he didn't find an outlet to vent.
"Teacher Zhu, if his needs are not met for a long time, will he be sick? Actually, I am just ordinary friends with that boy, and we will not become a couple. Ji Ran asked Zhu Yawen for advice.
"It depends on the boy's ability to bear, if his ability to bear is strong, he should be able to resolve it by himself, if his ability to bear is not strong, it may produce mental illness. Zhu Yawen said cautiously.
"Then what should I do?" Ji Ran asked worriedly.
In fact, you can help him develop new hobbies and divert his attention, as long as you can find someone or something that can replace you and shift his attention to other people or things, that's fine, in layman's terms, is to find him an emotional substitute. Zhu Yawen patiently explained.
"Oh, I see. Ji Ran seemed to understand, nodded and said.
"When looking for emotional alternatives, there is a trick, that is, you follow his preferences to find, for example, if he likes to play games, then you play with him, and when he is addicted to playing, you have to play a few games with your good friends every day, and when you don't masturbate for a day, you can slowly get out.
If he still refuses to give up, then you can ask him, 'Who do you choose between the game and me?'
At this time, the boy generally does not hesitate to choose the game, and after he makes a choice, you can leave him with confidence. Zhu Yawen smiled slyly, looking like he was very experienced.