When Li Jinghe returned home in the evening, Li Youde asked about today's work, and learned that he went to the barbecue square at noon to participate in the opening ceremony of the franchise store, and sent a plaque in the name of the district committee. &Music&Literature&Novels. {lw} {0}. Sue him that he can't do this in the future, the district party committee is different from ordinary units, it is an administrative department of an organ, and it is necessary to pay attention to its words and deeds in ordinary times, and try to participate in this kind of occasion as little as possible, and if you want to participate, you can only participate in it in your personal capacity, and now the participation of leading cadres in the banquet has attracted much attention, so if you can not go to this kind of occasion, you will not go, so as not to make people talk about it.

"What's this, can't you even attend a banquet?" Li Jinghe said.

"It's not that you can't participate, it depends on what kind of banquet, you can't eat and drink everywhere like before, your identity is different now, especially if you want to participate in various meetings, you can't always drink every day, that will attract the disgust of the leader, and over time it will have a bad impression, which is not conducive to future development." Li Youde said.

"Dad's words are right, pay more attention in the future." Yuan Yuan said.

"After all, you have just become a deputy secretary, and you are young and qualified, and now you will become a deputy secretary, and you are a leader among your peers, there must be many people who will be jealous, looking a little red-eyed, especially with a lot of villains around them, they are pervasive, and they are worried that there is no place to put maggots, as the saying goes, it is easy to block the open gun, and the hidden arrow is difficult to prevent. Around everyone, there will always be a few villains like this, who put on small shoes from time to time, toss and toss, catch people off guard, and regret why they didn't recognize his true face earlier. Li Youde said.

"I still see people very accurately, and I won't be fooled by them." Li Jinghe said.

"Remember, there are villains everywhere, and villains are not very kind. Often use bad means to achieve the goal, get along with the villain, a little careless, will suffer a big loss, learn to distinguish the villain. Li Youde said.

These people like to spread rumors. Usually there is another conspiracy for the purpose, and it is not simply for pleasure. Sometimes in order to be promoted, he sets off his own excellence, and never hesitates to scandalize his opponents. They are afraid that the world will not be chaotic, and they are accustomed to making sentences and distorting the facts. Nothing. likes to sow discord, divide the feelings of colleagues, create disputes and incidents, and fight with each other, resulting in the fisherman profits. They are eloquent. is good at snooping responsibility, playing peacemaker afterwards, a double agent, and the so-called double-faced knife ghost in Min language. Like flattery, praise and encouragement are different from flattery, the latter has a lotus tongue and a lotus flower, enthusiasm and sweet mouth, which makes people dizzy and disoriented. They are more deliberately close to their superiors. Often waiting for the opportunity to make a small report, much favored. Like the yang and the yin, in terms of work. Words and deeds are inconsistent, good at superficial work, and good at taking the opportunity to invite merit. In terms of treating people, they are not the same people on the outside, sometimes they praise you in front of you and reveal your secrets, and they will damage you and betray you behind your back. I like to see the wind turn the rudder. Whoever gains power will depend on whom, and whoever loses power will abandon whom. The so-called watermelon is on the big side. They use the power of others to improve their own status, and there is no use value for people. They don't want to be close, at most they want to be a snake. They like to walk on the blood of others, and climb high on the shoulders of others. You plant trees, he takes advantage of the shade, uses you to open the way for them, and when he succeeds, he will not repay you. even turn their faces and ruthlessly smear you, and they take it for granted that they take advantage of others. They like to fall into the well, and whenever someone falls or fails, they will catch up and make up for it, and go around exaggerating that person's guilt and deserving it. They are also hindsight, and often say some schadenfreude. I like to find a substitute for the dead ghost, obviously I am at fault in my words and deeds, but I don't admit it, I don't know my conscience, and I want to find a soft persimmon with a big head to carry the black pot. They are eloquent and dare to swear, and they can mislead everyone to spread falsehoods, and over time, everyone will make money and accumulate nothing. Sometimes the truth is lost in the sea, forever obscured by twisted and twisted.

"I know this in my heart, I'm not a fool, and I can still tell right from wrong." Li Jinghe said.

"On the first day of work today, I feel like the secretary and the district chief." Li Youde said.

"It's okay, it's still quite appreciative of me, and a reception banquet was held for me in the evening, the scene was very grand, and my heart was very moved." Li Jinghe said.

"These are superficial articles, and anyone can do superficial articles, so it's not enough to just look at the surface, and if you mix in officialdom, don't talk about innocence, naturalness, kindness, beauty, etc., that's all immature appearance. The people in the officialdom are all smiling tigers, with a kind appearance but a stern and fierce heart, and their smiling faces are relatively two-faced. Li Youde said.

In officialdom, you can't be noble, you can't be tolerant and bodhisattva-minded, honesty is equal to stupidity, and kindness is equal to weakness. Whoever loses the ability to resist in officialdom will be passively constrained everywhere. Officialdom can always make people who are originally equal unequal, and classmates, friends and relatives are no exception. After all, officialdom is not a battlefield, and every knife must be cut to see blood. There are many things in officialdom that can only be done but not discussed, and many things can only be talked about but not done. Most of the leaders are good and happy, and from the positive side, the ideals are grand and enterprising, and people become ghosts when they are officials, and they are restored to people after stepping down. In officialdom, what you care about is position. A soldier who does not want to be a marshal is not a good soldier, and a soldier who does not want to be a high official is not a good official.

Behind this qiē, in the deep consciousness of the officialdom crowd, including big officials and small officials, there is also a kind of magic, it is so lawless, so powerful, it makes the crowd in the officialdom almost instinctively impulsive, thus forming an irresistible group rules of life. In officialdom, maturity is the absence of edges and corners. The so-called maturity in politics is actually to abide by the proficient process of mastering and applying the unspoken rules. Otherwise, he will never be a full-fledged official.

To be an official is to be a grass on the wall, and if you don't sway from side to side, you won't live long. There is a strange phenomenon in officialdom, that is, the ability of the number one leader is not important, but whether he listens or disobedience is the most important thing, while some people who hold deputy positions have been working in the front line for a long time and have the ability and achievements, but they have not been promoted. In officialdom, you can't admit death. It is necessary to pay attention to the golden mean, and the top people are not suitable for leaders, so people in the officialdom cannot be too sharp, and shrewdness and cunning are taboos in officialdom. A smart person is smart and understands some things in his heart, but he doesn't break it, he doesn't turn his face, he doesn't show his face, he doesn't show his face, and he pretends to be confused when he plays dumb riddles. Being an official is not an easy thing, let alone being able to go up if you have the ability, sometimes you have the ability to be the second in the millennium, and you can't help it. Officialdom is like a game of chess, the chess pieces are mutually restrictive, and the relationship between the chess pieces changes according to the situation. Officialdom has only interests, not right and wrong. As long as you can speak, you don't have to be able to do. A leader may not be a talented person or a wealthy person, but at least he must be well versed in the world and know how to use the power in his hands to mobilize the enthusiasm of his subordinates. People in different positions definitely think about problems from different angles. Silence between opponents is always the best policy.

Although there are also collective discussions in officialdom, they are not serious arguments, but often whose power is subordinated to whom, and the discussion is just a formality, a formality. Officials always do not accept the advice of others casually. Especially the advice of officials at the same level. Always accepting the explicit hints of others will be considered a kind of incompetence. The ability of leadership is mainly embodied in the employment of people, employing people without suspicion, doubting people without using them, and knowing people well. It is often the words that the leader says unconsciously that are more representative of the leader's intentions. The key to leadership is to come up with ideas, put forward requirements, and use cadres to test results. In the words of officialdom, it is to study development ideas and arouse the enthusiasm of cadres. No matter how good the idea is, no one will give you a specific grasp of the implementation below, and one qiē is equal to empty like. Power is to manipulate cadres,

It is all about winning people's hearts with this hand, and if you don't adjust the cadres frequently, who will be close to you.

The important thing for leaders in officialdom is not to personally do everything and implement it concretely. Rather, it is necessary to coordinate the relations between all aspects in accordance with the work procedures so as to create a situation that is more favorable to oneself. As for the art of leadership, it is nothing more than the art of forming gangs and winning people's hearts. As for the ability to work, everyone has their own set of successful experience and magic weapons to win, and there is no need to show their edge. Be cautious and do things briskly. The leader will stick to the things set by him to the end, even if it is wrong, he will stick to it. To be a leader is not only to achieve political results, but also to coordinate all aspects of the relationship. There can be no individuality, commonality is always greater than individuality, otherwise it will be difficult to gain a foothold. In officialdom, the same person will have at least two or more faces to cope with people on different occasions. It is often said that people have many faces, but in fact they mean diversity of thought. Good at acting, pretending to be a servile face in front of the boss, even if it hates it in his heart, he must show respect, sincerity, emptiness, ignorance, and please the master. In front of subordinates, we must pretend to be majestic, enthusiastic, and decisive, and be good at employing people. The obedient person is to be resolutely promoted, regardless of whether the person is capable or not; Disobedient people are resolutely eliminated, even if this person has great ability. You should also be good at building relationships, and you must make friends with people who are useful to you. This will ensure the formation of its own sphere of influence and the full implementation of its directives.

In the officialdom, it is all about enlightenment and succession, and the level and art of leadership all lie in the importance of dealing with the world, and there are ups and downs. The deeper the person, the lighter it is, so that people don't see the slightest bit of mystery in it, officialdom is different from shopping malls after all, and all the purposes can only be hidden between practices and smiles, which is a tacit understanding. In officialdom, you must cultivate a fiery eye that sees the essence through phenomena. We must stress compromise and balance, whether it is called art or power, strategy or means, and it is often necessary to sacrifice some moral principles in a certain process. (To be continued)

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