Chapter 688: Take a step back
didn't even stop while talking, and continued to walk home with Li Taiping and Qixi, leaving the neighbors looking at their backs a little inexplicably, Qixi and her uncle had no choice but to turn their heads and smile at the neighbors, and followed Li Yuan's footsteps.
It wasn't until he walked into the yard and arrived at the door that Qixi ran two steps forward to open the door, and then said, "Grandpa, let's go into the house." ”
For the elders in the family to care so carefully, Qixi actually thinks it's quite interesting, in fact, most of the time the children in the countryside are raised very rough, after all, the life is simple, and the people are simple, and they are not as particular as the people in the city, and they can raise their children finely.
Especially since I was a child, I grew up in the north, how many three or nine days have come, I am really not afraid of freezing, when there is a big smoke outside in the cold weather, it is not for nothing when the cotton jacket, cotton pants and cotton hat cover the door.
It's just that they didn't grow up in front of Li Yuantang's family since they were children, and knowing how they were treated when they were in the Shen family's old mansion in the past, it is inevitable that they will feel a little more distressed, and they will care a little more.
And there is another reason that the Qixi family is now living in the county, in the concept of the elderly, to live in the city is bound to be fine, this change is like people have become delicate, like the past is not a lot of cold and tired, but in the future, I always feel that I can't do that anymore.
Because the old man thinks that when he is in the countryside, he still has to do farm work, and the children have suffered and tired from making snacks, and they continue to do it every year when they are busy with farming, but when they go to the city, their clothing, food, housing and transportation are all different, and they don't do farm work anymore. Naturally, I won't be able to stand it in the future.
In fact, Tanabata also knows about what the elders think. Although I was a little too worried because I was worried. But I also have to admit that some of them are quite reasonable, after all, many people have changed their way of life after entering the city, and it is indeed like the elders are worried, the more delicate the life, the more unbearable the body is.
But that's only part of it, whether people will change in the end is actually more up to themselves, like the Qixi family, even after arriving in the county. According to her family's daily income now, in fact, she can hire a little girl to do laundry and cooking, but they have not hired anyone except for the guys they must invite to open a restaurant.
It's because everyone in the family feels that there is no need for the time being, and the family is not saying that it has changed to a big house with three into five or something, there is just such a yard, and there are people living in it, even if there is any work at home, these old people, can't they do it.
Tanabata actually used to think about it. Of course, at first, she also felt that it was unnecessary like her mother and her sister, and her own family was diligent. In addition, there are a lot of people, so what kind of work is it to cook and wash clothes, and it will be done in turn, so there will be people to serve you.
However, she had that idea at that time after knowing that she was going to discuss marriage with the Jiang family, thinking that if the two families really got married, then the eldest sister would be the eldest and youngest grandmother of the Jiang family in the future.
What kind of family is the Jiang family, not to mention the group of slaves, in the end, there are many people under the rules, just look at the old people who serve beside the eldest lady of Jiang Chao, you can know, in the future, Yun Rong really marries the past, that is, the long house and the daughter-in-law, who is to be cultivated as the future head wife of the Jiang family, such a person The Jiang family naturally cannot not pay attention to it.
But when she was at home, she did everything by herself, and Qixi was a little worried that if she arrived at Jiang's house, she would not be adaptable, after all, if she didn't have such experience, she would have to face a lot of people in the room at once, especially when she had to take care of her own yard or something, although her eldest sister was calm but too kind, she was afraid that she would not be able to suppress the next person, or she didn't know how to control it.
As a result, when she told her eldest sister about this worry, her eldest sister laughed, but still refused to mention it, remembering that it was said at the time: "If our family is really busy now, then it is nothing to hire someone, but if it is for me, then there is no need." Xi'er, what are you worried about, there are only people who can't endure hardship, there are no people who won't be happy, if someone really serves me in the future, I just have to follow......"
This is true, from thrift to luxury is easy to go from luxury to thrift, if you let a daughter suddenly do all the work by herself, it is estimated that it will not be able to adapt to it for a while, but if the life of the family is up, and suddenly you start to eat and dress well, if someone is served, I really haven't heard of a few people who are not adaptable.
"It's not all because of this ......" Qixi smiled, but quickly pursed his lips and thought about it again before saying, "I'm actually worried, although the Jiang family is good, but in the end, the family is different from ours, the family is big, there are many people and many things, but there are a lot of people who estimate it, I am worried that you have never been in contact with those at home, don't go back and don't get used to it." ”
It should be said that the statement of Qixi Festival is not groundless, because when it comes to those deep mansion compounds, it is different from ordinary rural families like the Qixi family, the big family, the older the big family, the more old people there are.
There are many people who have been serving since the older generation in the family, and they have been serving wholeheartedly for many years, and they have a love in front of the elderly, let alone in front of the younger generations.
Such people are different, one is that although they have such an identity, they never look too highly up on themselves, or keep their duties, do what they should do, but they are particularly respectful, of course, they must be generous to the main family, each other is sincere, and naturally they are extraordinarily affectionate.
But people are always different, there are those who are respectable, and naturally there are those who are not respected, this kind of is to rely on the idea of serving in the master's house for a long time, and when you are old, you begin to rely on the old and sell the old, in fact, it really comes to say, whether the next person has the face really depends on whether the lord gives it or not, and now a person can give you three points of thin noodles because the elders are returning you, but if you are really excessive, don't you know that people will be able to tolerate you in the future?
Qixi didn't know if there was such a person in the Jiang family, but because of her eldest sister, she had to take precautions, so she thought, even if she couldn't know what the situation of the Jiang family was in advance, of course, it didn't mean that she didn't know it at all, she would always ask more for her eldest sister from Jiang Chao.
It's just that now she only talks about her own words, and she also hopes that even if she can't do it, she can at least hire someone first, so that the eldest sister can adapt to how to take care of the house and the like.
"Do you know what you're worried about, in fact, I've thought about this, but I think, this housekeeper is not just in charge of people, don't you always say that when it comes to the big business, the director is the most important? I just thought, our family started from doing business and opening a shop, and I also saw it in my eyes a little bit of how I came over, and now I know how you teach the guys you hire in this restaurant, and I have always remembered and learned, I even know how to open a restaurant and hire a shopkeeper, and I guess it's not much worse to take care of the people, right?" Yun Rong smiled when she heard this, she could understand Qixi's worries, but she was thinking about it from the other side.
Qixi had been worried before, but she really didn't think about it from this aspect, she didn't expect that her eldest sister had thought about it a long time ago, and she had to admit that what her eldest sister said really had some truth, yes, even the business can be managed, are you afraid that you can't manage a few people?
And according to what he said, the Jiang family's businessman has a big business, and what they need is not just an eldest daughter-in-law who only knows how to manage so many girls and grandmothers, and who is confined to the inner house, but what they need to be able to really take charge of the house with a broad vision.
And Qixi also thought of a point, in fact, in many deep house compounds, the real master, in many small things often not too serious, not to say that the heart is not careful or do not care about the details, but sometimes if you really want to manage a home, you really need to turn a blind eye.
Just grasp the big picture, and there are naturally some appropriate ways to solve the next thing, you must know that the water is clear and there are no fish, of course, on the premise of not violating the principle, if it involves character and the like, then even if it is a small family, the main family will not let go.
In this way, the two sisters have reasonable worries and considerations, so even if they agree with each other's words, in the end, they take a step back for each other's reasons.
discussed waiting for the restaurant at home to be less busy after it opened, and then asked someone to find a suitable candidate, and Yun Rong followed the family to open the restaurant.
I have to say that this is a good experience, I'm afraid that many people's daughters will not have the opportunity to learn like this from beginning to end, even those young ladies may not have this opportunity, and then Yun Rong can always learn.
With such an experience, I think it should be of great help to Yun Rong in the future, whether it is in charge of the inner house or helping her husband take care of the family's business.
Of course, Li Yuan and Li Tai didn't know about these things, and they didn't think that the two children who were not too old to look at them were actually far beyond their imagination when they thought about things, and they were just worried about them now because they were elders.
When a few people entered the house, they were first seen by the Wang family who was still in the kitchen, she had just finished brushing the pot and was about to enter the house, and when she saw a few people, she quickly let them go in first.
As soon as I entered the door, I brought in a cold air, and when I entered the house, the hot air on my face felt very clear, and Qixi shivered slightly, but was seen by the Wang family behind him, so he pushed Qixi to the side, and said to Li Wenmin: "Give Xi'er a bowl of soup first, look at this child is shivering with cold" (to be continued......