readx;? Li Lei heard Qin Yafu ask if Qian You's lack of urgency to get married was because of his vanity, so she hurriedly defended: "He is not vain, if you want to talk about vanity, only I am the most ......."

"You are not vain, for the sake of true love, you are willing to work so hard, this is not something that a vain girl can do," Qin Yafu took the opportunity to soothe, "In the final analysis, you all want to give each other more material enjoyment, this is a good thing, but there is no need to be too forceful." Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

A mountain is higher than a mountain, people's needs are endless, and they can never reach the so-called most ideal state, since they love each other, and you are so eager for marriage, it is better to talk to him.

Frankly speaking, I used to think the same as you, because I cherished it, so I chose to be patient, and when I encountered difficulties, I thought that wronging myself was the fulfillment and support of the other party, but in fact, it may not be a good way to solve the problem.

So, Li Lei, whether it's a matter of marriage or a matter at work, you should tell him what is in your heart, maybe explain it clearly, and you will find that many of the things you care about are not important to him. ”

"Will it?" asked Li Lei, stunned.

"Of course!" Qin Yafu nodded firmly, "Only by resolving these troubles can you truly achieve happiness, life is short, it is not easy to fall in love, don't be like me and Zihang, it is meaningless to waste the good time of five years of pain for no reason." ”

"You're right, a relationship as good as you and Brother Ringe has not escaped five years of separation, wouldn't we be even more ...... Forget it, I'll figure it out slowly. Li Lei was told by Qin Yafu that she was more and more disconfident, but she was also a little unwilling, so she had to grit her teeth and hold on.

"You have a lot of heart!" Qin Yafu sighed, "I hope our experience can give you a little enlightenment, you know, two people get along, you can't say everything frankly, but at least in communication, at least you have to be honest and equal, you can't always worry about whether he will be unhappy, or afraid that his self-esteem will be hurt or something, because these concerns should be borne by you together."

It's always your side that is entangled and sad, it's too hard, it's easy to form a barrier, and if you continue like this, maybe one day you will follow in that man's footsteps. Qin Yafu is ruthless, anyway, what Li Lei is most afraid of is the appearance of becoming that mentally ill person, then, just use that negative teaching material to scare her, otherwise if she continues to be so aggrieved, the situation has changed, what will happen, it's really hard to say.

"Got it, I'll think about it again. Li Lei nodded depressedly, she was still a little uneasy.

"Li Lei, don't force yourself, your previous worries are for you to live a better life in the future, and what I am telling you now is to hope to resolve your troubles, not add another layer of pressure......"

"I understand, Sister Fu, thank you, I will seriously consider your suggestion, I am telling you this today, just because I feel uncomfortable, first of all, I feel a lot better when I say it, and then I hear your persuasion and opinions, it helps me clarify my thinking, and my mood is much better!" Li Lei smiled more steadily than before.

Having friends is happiness, sharing happiness, you will get double the happiness, and talking about your troubles will reduce half of the burden, Li Lei took a long breath, and in general, the depressed heart was still relaxed.

Qin Yafu didn't know if she was right or wrong to persuade Li Lei like this, the starting point was good, as for what results could be produced, it was unknown.

The two chatted for a while, Qin Yafu saw that Li Lei's mood was indeed much better, so Zhang Luo went home to rest, because Li Lei still had to go to work at four o'clock in the afternoon, and she had to rest for a while before going to work.

Li Lei carefully took the bouquet of flowers and said goodbye to Qin Yafu.

Qin Yafu took a taxi to the door of her own community and got off, walked to her home, passed by the downstairs of Chen Yan's house, and saw that the entrance of the building was still more lively than other buildings, and it was estimated that the people who came in and out should still be relatives and friends of Chen Yan's family.

Qin Yafu couldn't help but smile bitterly: getting married is really a tiring thing, not only the bride and groom are tired, but the family members are even more hard inside and out.

"Didi ......"

Suddenly there was a car horn behind him, Qin Yafu looked back, and it turned out to be Lin Zihang's car driving in.

"Why did you come back so early today?" Qin Yafu stopped, smiled and looked at her husband who rolled down the window to reveal that charming face, quite surprised, you know, he has been greedy lately.

"Do you welcome me back!" Lin Zihang blinked his dark eyes, quite displeased, "I went out early and returned late, I don't see you complaining, come back early, but you have to be questioned?"

"What, you're messing around," Qin Yafu sneered and pointed to the building of her house, "Hurry up and drive the car back!"

"No!" Lin Zihang stubbornly stood still, and asked in turn, "You went out for a meal, everyone else has come back, and you actually came back?"

"What can I do? At most, I can date a lover or something!" Qin Yafu was deliberately angry, and after finishing speaking, in order to prevent Lin Zihang from jumping out of the car to catch herself, she hurriedly ran forward.

"Hey, you slow down, can I still eat you?" Lin Zihang reluctantly started the car and slowly followed behind Qin Yafu, and had to keep his distance, otherwise, as soon as this stupid woman sped up, it would not be fun in case she collided with someone else.

Qin Yafu ran downstairs to her house, and stopped to wait, saying in her heart, participating in the wedding is a pleasant and touching thing, recalling the scene when she and Lin Zihang got married, everything is vivid, as if it happened yesterday.

At that time, the fear of the unknown after the flash marriage, as well as the complex psychology of longing for happiness, tested Qin Yafu's fragile nerves together, so that she was terrified and worried for a while, but now that she thinks about it, it is a little funny, just like she persuaded Li Lei, many things, just her wishful thinking, and when she let go of the knot in her heart and faced it bravely, she realized that it was not a big deal.

"What do you think, so engrossed?" Lin Zihang got out of the car and walked to his wife's side, but saw that she was in a daze, stretched out his hand to take her into his arms, and couldn't help but ask curiously.

"I think of you and me when we first got married. Qin Yafu raised her head, smiled charmingly at Lin Zihang, and said what she thought honestly.

"Are you embarrassed to say it?" mentioning the old thing, Lin Zihang immediately changed his face, and put his hands under Qin Yafu's armpits to tickle her, "Qin Yafu, do you say there is something wrong with you? I worked so hard to deceive you, but you didn't allow me to touch you, so much so that you almost suffocated me to death!"

"You're!" Qin Yafu ate and laughed, there was no way to hide, so she had to lie and coax him, "Don't make trouble, I seem to hear the children crying, hurry up and go upstairs!"

"Impossible, why didn't I hear it? It's just your ears?" Lin Zihang didn't believe it, but he still stopped his movements and listened carefully for a while.

At this time, Qin Yafu naturally took the opportunity to slip away and ran upstairs.

"How dare you lie to me!" Lin Zihang was not deceived by Qin Yafu, he was just bluffing to play with her, it was only at this time that Qin Yafu came back, she must have increased her milk again, the child should be hungry, and he didn't want to stay downstairs anymore, so he laughed and followed her upstairs.

When she opened the door, Mother Lin greeted her with a smile, she naturally heard the frolicking of the little couple outside the door, and when she saw them coming back together, she was in a particularly good mood, these two people, as long as they were not angry, they were so good that they were mixed with oil, and they were inseparable from the stickiness, but they were also the most reassuring to her.

"Mom, I'm sorry, I'm late again. Seeing her mother-in-law, Qin Yafu hurriedly apologized, she was such a blind and enthusiastic character, for the sake of Li Lei, she delayed going home again.

"It's not too late, it's too little time for you to be tethered out by the child, it's rare for Xiaohang to be free, you can go wherever you like, Xiaojing and I can handle it." ”

"I'm not with her, we just met downstairs, oh yes, Yafu, you haven't told me yet, where did you go?" Lin Zihang helped Qin Yafu take off his coat while clarifying to his mother that he didn't go out with Qin Yafu, but after a change of thought, he couldn't help but ask the answer he didn't get just now.

"I'm ...... with Li"

"Huh?" Before Qin Yafu could give a complete answer, Lin Zihang suddenly straightened her shoulders from behind in surprise and touched her back with his hand.

"What are you doing?" Qin Yafu turned her head and asked strangely.

"Oh, it's water stains!" Lin Zihang exhaled, "It looks a little red, which startles me." ”

"Water stains?well, got it!" Qin Yafu was stunned for a moment, and quickly nodded clearly, without explaining anything, she was ready to go back to the room to change clothes.

Lin Zihang didn't stop him, but silently followed Qin Yafu into the bedroom, and when she found a change of clothes, he asked, "Do you know where that water stain got it?"

"You know, what's wrong?" Qin Yafu sighed secretly, she didn't want to tell Lin Zihang what happened in the bathroom, she was afraid that he would worry, but he still seemed to have guessed something.

"Usually it's hard to notice when someone rubs something on their back, unless you know what you're going through. Lin Zihang sat on the head of the bed with his arms crossed, with the wisdom of a great detective.

"Come on, as if you're so good, didn't you notice a stain on this dress?"

Qin Yafu picked up the sleeves of the changed clothes and showed them to Lin Zihang, and explained in a tone as easy as possible: "The sleeves of my clothes are splashed with vegetable juice, when I went to the bathroom to wash my hands, I met a nervous patient, he was talking nonsense, I was a little scared, so I hid in the corner, it must have been rubbed at that time, look at your fuss, don't worry, I'm fine." ”