At dinner in the evening, everyone chatted while eating, and naturally mentioned today's commendation meeting for righteousness and bravery, and they all praised Xu Feng for speaking well, having a certain level, and speaking people's hearts. ⊙, Xu Feng said with a smile: "Where is my good speech, it is Reporter Shao's good writing, concise language, smooth writing, and wonderful plot, I can't write it, I just say it through my mouth, it can't be regarded as my credit." ”

"Or you play well and have a certain eloquence, if I want to read it, I won't be able to read it, and those people in the audience will definitely be nervous and can't open their mouths." Han Pingqun said.

"Look at your little bit of talent, you are also able to speak at home, usually shouting five and six are very good, and when you encounter an occasion, you are dumbfounded, you can't even say a whole sentence, and you are a man in vain." Jin Ju said with a smile.

"I'm really not good, but why do you still fall in love with me, prove that I still have a certain amount of male charm and attract you as a big beauty." Han Pingqun said.

"Look at your virtue, I have a flower stuck in cow dung, and I have to think that I am unlucky." Jin Ju said with a smile.

"His cow dung is also good cow dung, one in a hundred, it will definitely attract a lot of flowers." Pan Xueliang said with a smile.

"The commendation conference is good, with a red ribbon on his body, a big red flower on his chest, he feels extremely glorious and proud, it is not practical at all, we don't care, we just helped a little, borrowed his light to participate in the commendation conference, it doesn't matter what to give, but Xu Feng is different, in order to fight with the gangsters and was seriously injured, he paid too much, how should he be rewarded, knowing that he is an ordinary worker, he will arrange a good job for anything, there is no worries in life, and he truly experiences the care and love of the leader. You can't always keep it talking. It must be put into practice. That's what makes a good leader. Han Pingqun said.

"Pull it down, it's not enough to give us such a high honor, what do you want, do you still want to rely on it for a lifetime, it's not for nothing. That's a lot of bonuses, don't get too greedy. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"That day, when the reporter came to interview, he brought the leader's entrustment and asked you what you wanted. If I had brought it up at the time, there would have been no other conditions, only a small request, to arrange a good job, as a big leader in the city, this little thing should be absolutely no problem, but you didn't mention anything, and you missed an opportunity in vain. Han Pingqun said.

"The leader has taken care of me and given me a high honor, how can I make unreasonable demands. It seems that we don't have a vegetarian zhì, and the more this is the case, the more we can't mention anything. Let alone give the leader a problem. Xu Feng said.

"But you also lost a great opportunity, if it wasn't for this, you would definitely be admitted to a commercial bank. So it's not an exaggeration to make such a request, I think it's reasonable, and no one will say anything. Han Pingqun said.

"Xu Feng is right, we can't make any demands on the leaders, we have to rely on ourselves, and we will be happy only if we work hard." Liu Shuchen said.

"I agree with what the eldest sister said, we have to rely on ourselves, although it is righteous and courageous, and is respected by people, but it cannot be used as a show-off capital." Pan Xueliang said.

"But he is different from us, he has suffered too much, what was supposed to be a good thing was missed again this time, we all feel sorry for him, what a hard worker." Han Pingqun said.

"There is nothing to regret, although I lost this opportunity, I think it is worth it, after all, I have done something meaningful to the society and the people, and I have no regrets at all." Xu Feng said.

"That's how you should be a man, we admire you very much." Jin Ju said.

"There is no smooth sailing in a person's life, everyone has a lot of ups and downs, it just depends on how you look at it." Pan Xueliang said.

Some people see God punishing him for giving birth to a hard life, but some people see him as a kind of reward, he extracts experience from the tempering species, and behind the tempering is happiness, there is no sweetness without bitterness, and after the wind and rain is a rainbow. Life is more tribulation, sadness will be stronger, since ancient times there is a certain regularity, just like grass, not all grass can be planted in the bustling city, but the grass planted in the city is not necessarily stronger than growing in the ravine, everything is dull, life is more interesting. We must have the courage to face, overcome, and overcome, and think about the unforgettable joys of the past when we encounter difficulties. When you encounter a dangerous peak, bravely step forward, dare to do a leap you can see a higher mountain in front of you, when you successfully stand on the top of the peak and look back, in fact, this mountain is far smaller than the future.

People who have been to the countryside often find that such an agricultural phenomenon is that farmers have to crush the newly unearthed green seedlings. At first, people thought it was incredible, and even thought that it seemed cruel to take such a high-pressure approach to tender seedlings. Later, an experienced old farmer told us that the purpose of crushing the seedlings was to make the seedlings grow better. The newly unearthed green seedlings have shallow roots and cannot withstand the wind and rain, and must be pressed to stabilize the roots and lay a solid foundation. When the roots are firmly rooted, the seedlings will grow strong. How can a person not be like this, born into the pile of blessings, hugging left and right, taking care of them in every way, not going through all kinds of hardships, not suffering a little, can this environment cultivate the talents of the pillars? Obviously not, in fact, in a sense, it can be said that tribulation is the best gift of life. If there were no hardships in life, human beings would not have evolved and society would not have moved forward.

"That being said, it's a little too unfair." Han Pingqun said.

"I feel good, although I have experienced some hardships and lost a lot, but I met you, your sincerity and enthusiasm touched me, brought me a lot of motivation, gave me the courage to live, and I have the courage to live today, so I feel very happy." Xu Feng said.

"As the saying goes, after a great disaster, there will be a blessing, a good person must have a good reward, and your future will be even better." Han Pingqun said.

People talked about the events of the past few days, some people agreed with Xu Feng's approach, and some people thought that it was too low-key, and it was not good to be too low-key, and it was necessary to show their talents and specialties at the right time, and to learn to show themselves and recommend themselves. Just like now, the size is also a celebrity in the city, attracting the attention of all walks of life, many people come to visit, this is a great opportunity to show themselves, completely warm reception of them, accept their requests, explain their views to them, maybe they will be the leader and the big boss to look at, so you can change your destiny, don't be too modest, excessive modesty equals conceit, you might as well be high-profile.

"As the old saying goes, the wood is beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy it, the rock comes out of the shore, and the flow must be turbulent, which shows that high-profile people are vulnerable to attack, and it is said that real people do not show their faces, and they are not real people, so it can be seen that people who are too sharp can not be affirmed by others. Therefore, since ancient times, people who are restrained and subtle can often be respected by most people, and the birds that cry do not grow meat, so you might as well be low-key. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"I think this is very good, indifferent to fame and fortune, regardless of personal gains and losses, low-key and high-profile work, is the noble realm of being a man." Pan Xueliang said.

Maintain a normal heart that is indifferent to fame and fortune, adhere to the principle of doing things, be an ordinary and ordinary person, continue to focus on the thing itself, and not be disturbed by other factors, not affected by other purposes and **, so that you can achieve a great cause, and will not cause you trouble. In the face of fame and fortune, being able but not doing, having but not being heavy, is called indifferent, a kind of elegance and detachment. Whatever you want in life, whether it is fame or fortune, status, art or leisure, is a choice in life, and it has its own reasons. But there needs to be a certain measure of what makes people most fulfilled and happy. Everything in the world is varied, there is no definite law, there is no theorem, all of them are the views held by individuals, and it is difficult to say which is higher or lower. The hustle and bustle of the world is for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is for profit. If you can't see the word fame and fortune in life, you will be bound for life. Fame and fortune are like a pair of shackles, which binds people's true nature and inhibits people's pursuit of ideals.

People are born very ordinary, ordinary people are normal people, and normal people can have an ordinary heart.

Only those who have a normal mind can realize that satisfaction is a kind of happiness. Satisfaction is the affirmation of the phased results, a respite in the process of life, and a short break from one platform to another. Satisfaction is not to be satisfied with the status quo, not to retreat from the rapids, and not to mention a satisfactory end, satisfaction is an adjustment.

A person who does not know how to be satisfied is a person who cannot live, and he will suffer from life, and a person who does not know how to be satisfied is a person who cannot work, and he will be burdened with work. A person who does not know how to be satisfied is a person who does not know how to truly love, and he will be confused by love. Only by learning to be satisfied can we have a vision of a better life, only by learning to be satisfied can we tolerate and accept the existence that we do not agree with but are attached to the actual life, and only by learning to be satisfied can we fully enjoy the joys brought by happiness.

Only those who have a normal heart can realize that giving up is a kind of happiness, giving up is the highest state, and it is a prudent strategic choice after weighing left and right and repeatedly arguing. Giving up is not self-abandonment, not simple discarding, and not thinking of enterprising and inaction. People who don't give up are people who can't work, and people who don't know how to give up don't understand the positive effect of giving up in some specific work environments. People who don't give up are people who can't live, and they don't know how to give up the dialectical relationship between loss and gain in real life. Those who will not give up will always be placed in a tasteless circle, pessimistic, disappointed, and sighing. Sometimes when you give up the sun, you will get the moisture of the rain, when you give up the rainy season, you will get the warmth of the sun. Only by learning to give up can you truly taste happiness and happily integrate into the complex and colorful world. (To be continued......)