My second uncle is a fat man who is honest, humorous, upright and does not lack a sense of justice. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info he does not pay attention to food and clothing, and never compares too much with others. To borrow one of his words, it is to compare others with the ability, and if you do not have the ability, you will wait until you have the ability to compare with others. If something that others have is useful to me, I will strive to obtain it, and if it is dispensable to me, then I would rather watch others exaggerate and show off, and I will not blush.

The second uncle is a simple rural man, with the vicissitudes of endless years written on his rough and dark skin, and his thick and powerful palms have supported a magnificent haven for his home. Strong arms shield us from the wind and frost.

If someone asks me what the second master can compare to in my eyes, I will not hesitate to tell him, "The Sky Tree!" Yes, he is a Sky Tree. He has the perseverance of a big tree, no matter how big the wind and waves he experienced, he will always treat it calmly, his hands are the branches and leaves of the big tree, silently in the changes of the four seasons for us to keep away the cold and warmth.

My second uncle always gave me a sense of awe. Maybe it's because he appeared in my world with a serious attitude since I was a child, and his harshness and lessons to me always make me unconsciously afraid of him.

I still remember what he said, you are my son, whether it was before or now, I am your father, and you Ding Qingsheng is my biological son Ding Fengjun.

For most of my memory, he has always appeared in my life as a father, and he played the word father quite well. Sometimes I will make fun of him, saying that it is a big loss for the film and television industry that he will not go to the showbiz in his life, and at this time he will smile and reply, I can act in front of you, if I really go to the showbiz industry, I am afraid that I will lose the face of those artists!

The second uncle, whether it is for things or people, always adheres to a rational word. He is not a vexatious person, but he is by no means a coward, as the saying goes, people don't deceive me, I don't deceive people, if people deceive me, I won't avoid it!

It is precisely because of this word that the second uncle has fought because of this, naturally, the party who loses will always lose to him, and it is precisely because of this reason that the second uncle was named the word "righteousness" by his friends, no way, the reason why the second uncle fights with others is always to wipe the ass for these weak friends, of course, this also includes me, the disobedient little master. Friends are angry for no reason, but he will fight for his friends to get this breath back, the second uncle said, what do people live for, just to fight for breath!

The second uncle also has a time to make a mistake, and the so-called crime is just a quarrel with the family, young and vigorous, and it is inevitable to bump and bump at home, but the second uncle is the second uncle, and the "two" energy can not avoid a bloody storm. The deepest experience is the second mother, that is, the wife of the second uncle, my mother.

She would always tell me about the anger of the second uncle when she was young, she said, it was not long after she got married, and she had just separated from her mother-in-law and father-in-law, the second uncle's family was poor at that time, and the money that her father-in-law and mother-in-law borrowed for several children to start a family and start a business, and who borrowed the money for who would find a way to repay it themselves. The second aunt didn't know about this, and the second uncle, who had always been strong, didn't say it. The day before going out, he pressed the IOU under a brick at the edge of the kang, and unfortunately the second lady found these IOUs when she was cleaning up the room, and the amount of money on the IOUs made the second lady a little unbearable, after all, in that era when even food and clothing could not be solved well, it was tantamount to a fantasy to repay these debts. The second lady suddenly felt a feeling of being deceived, and immediately packed up her clothes, wiped her tears, and returned to her parents' house full of grievances.

After the second uncle learned about this, he was also very angry, as the so-called marrying a chicken with a chicken and marrying a dog with a dog, if you can't share the hardships, how can you talk about the same happiness, the stubborn second uncle's "two strength" has not disappeared, and he hit the second aunt when he returned home.

Whenever this story is told, the second aunt will always be a little aggrieved, but the second uncle on the side is smacking, it was all a matter of youth, why mention it again, and I am not afraid of children's jokes. At this time, the second lady smiled and said, "I just want to tell them about it, let them know that you always bully me, and now that you are old, it is time for you to return it to me." ”

The second uncle grinned and said, "Why do you pay it back?"

The second lady smiled slightly and said, "Spoil me." ”

The second uncle is not a very bitter person, but he has suffered so much. There are three brothers in the second uncle's family and two younger sisters.

The eldest brother of the second uncle got married early, and when the second uncle got married, the debts of the uncle's family had been paid off, but starting a family is starting a family, and it is no longer as free as when he was alone. Especially in the backward villages of that era, everything had to be taken care of. Besides, the uncle's wife is not a reasonable person, even if the uncle has the heart to help the second uncle, but the shopkeeper at home is unwilling to reach out, and the uncle can only help.

A man caught between his brother and his wife can only choose to stay outside for a long time, using seemingly evasive methods to get away from this trouble.

The second uncle did not complain about the uncle and the aunt, after all, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, not to mention that the second uncle does not want to see the uncle and the aunt have trouble because of their own affairs. In fact, at that time, the second uncle had been working outside for some years, and he had some savings on hand, but there were elderly people to take care of, and younger brothers and sisters to study, and these funds were not enough to support such a large amount of expenses.

So after getting married, the second uncle chose to work more tiring and harder, just to earn more money to supplement the family.

My appearance made the second uncle a little at a loss, there were already 4 children in the family, and with me, it undoubtedly added a heavy burden to this originally crowded home.

Naturally, the burden has increased, and the contradictions in the family have gradually increased, and the quarrel between the second uncle and the second aunt has also been caused by my naughtiness and disobedience most of the time.

There are many times, the second aunt always wants to give me to others, which is really helpless, poor rural families, backward ideas, sudden gossip, coupled with naughty mischief, disobedience to discipline and troublesome children, how can the second aunt be alone.

If there is nothing else, the second uncle simply returns home during the New Year, and after the New Year with the elders in the village, he has not had time to warm up enough with the second aunt and our children, so he left home in a hurry.

In this way, the second aunt doesn't even have a person to complain, but fortunately, the second uncle's family is not too small, although the family ugliness cannot be publicized, and there are not many people who can say what they know, but there is one person who is willing to listen to the second aunt, that is, the third uncle's wife, that is, my third aunt!

The third aunt is a person who cultivates both inside and outside, in the words that are popular now, she can go to both the hall and the kitchen, and Hui Waixiu describes her as suitable.

The most trustworthy person of the second aunt is the third aunt, no matter what happens, she has to talk to the third aunt, the third aunt will also take the trouble to sit aside and listen to the second aunt tell her pain over and over again, when the second aunt talks about the moving place, the third aunt will invite the second aunt to go out for a walk, or go to the market to buy something, or go to the field to see the growth of their crops, in short, the third aunt always has a way to make the second aunt happy.

The third aunt is a lot better, at that time the third uncle worked with the second uncle, the second uncle did not go home for many years, the third uncle was the same, in 1970, everyone was still eating a big pot of rice, the amount of money depends on whether this "big family" can wear new clothes and eat meat rice during the New Year, of course, according to the salary level at that time plus the second uncle and their type of work, the new clothes are simply a luxury, even if you dream of not daring to think about wearing new clothes. But after a year of hard work, everyone's food will still be greatly improved on New Year's Day, pork dumplings, this is the best food we ate in that era.

When the family is bigger, there are more people, and when there are more people, there are more things. Not everyone's heart is close to everyone, and it is precisely because of selfishness that this big family is in danger of dissolution. Forced to helpless, the elders of the family proposed to divide the family, in fact, the second aunt was already pregnant when the family was separated, that was the first child of the second uncle and the second aunt, the reason for the separation and the second aunt's pregnancy is also somewhat related, because there was an unwritten rule in the family at that time, but where there is a pregnant person in the family, there is no need to participate in anything in the family, the wheat is busy with the autumn harvest does not need the second aunt to go to the ground, but the food still has to be distributed to the second aunt, some people always feel that this is a little unfair, although there are selfish complaints, but no one blatantly proposed, after all, when everyone has a family, who will have the opportunity to enjoy such treatment, so why bluff, but among these people, there is still one person who can't resist the temptation of selfishness, and finally puts forward this request for separation, this person is the eldest mother, that is, the sister-in-law of the second uncle.

As an elder of the second uncle's generation, the eldest lady has the absolute right to speak, and no one objected to the questions she raised, and it happened that the second uncle was not at home at this time, and this rule no longer existed after more than ten years.

Because of this separation, after the second uncle returned home, he had many quarrels with the eldest mother, and the eldest mother, who knew that she was at a loss, only used her own status and superior title to suppress the momentum of the second uncle, although the second uncle ignored this set, but in the end, the grandparents came forward to drive the second uncle home.

The eldest mother's family background is much better than that of the second uncle, and the eldest lady is a person with low eyes, whether it is to people or things, she will always show her arrogant side, and she has had a lot of friction with the second uncle in the neighborhood, but the second uncle never disdains to have general knowledge with her.

When the third uncle dropped out of school and chose to learn to cook, the second uncle rushed home from the place of work, he just wanted to hear the third uncle's thoughts in person, the third uncle did not study well, even so, the second uncle did not want to see the third uncle drop out of school early.

In fact, the second uncle didn't want the third uncle to give up his studies because of the problem of money, and the third uncle didn't say too much reason with the second uncle, only said that he was not the material for studying, and he was interested in the chef industry, he hoped that he could learn the technology through hard work, so that when he returned from learning, he must let his family eat the meals he made himself.

The third uncle's determination has been decided, and the second uncle can't say anything, so he can only reluctantly nod and agree. A distant relative of the family opened a restaurant in Harbin, northeast China, and after contacting the people there through many inquiries, the second uncle personally sent the third uncle to the station and instructed a lot of things to pay attention to safety on the road, so that the third uncle could rest assured that he would take the train to the north.

Speaking of this, the second uncle sighed meaningfully and said: "Now that people are old, they can no longer see the shadow of their youth." ”

I helped the second uncle sit on the stone bench in the long pavilion of Penglai Pavilion, and said: "Second uncle, why did you only talk about the three of you brothers, but what about my two aunts? What are their lives? And my parents, and so many people related to me, why don't you mention their affairs?"

The second uncle smiled bitterly and said, "The story must not be told in one go, otherwise you stinky boy don't know when you will be able to return to my side and listen to my nagging." ”

I also laughed along with the laughter of the second uncle: "You are deliberately hanging my appetite, besides, I have always regarded you as my own father, how can I not come back to see you?"

"Alas, you young people are busy with your own careers, how can you care about us old people, besides, you stinky boy really think of me as your father? You have called me father several times since I was a child. ”

I could hear the complaint in the tone of the second uncle, and I thought about it carefully, it was true, and I suddenly felt a little sorry for the second uncle, the second uncle is now in his sixties, his hair is gray, and the wrinkles on his brows are deeper, and his heart trembles unconsciously, and he is always guilty of the second uncle.

The second lady sitting on the side looked embarrassed at me, and hurriedly talked about a topic: "I said old man, you are really getting older and more confused, how good it is for you to celebrate your birthday, this will also take you out to travel, if you want me to say that you are in the blessing and do not know the blessing." ”

The second aunt's anger did not smooth out the wrinkles on the second uncle's forehead.

"You know a fart!" the second uncle only left this sentence and turned his head to look at the scenery.

"Dad, I'd like to hear you tell me more about when you were a kid!"

The second uncle wiped away the tears that slipped down his cheeks with his hands, nodded vigorously, and then said, "Then let's start with the desertion plan when I was eighteen years old!"