Chapter 255: People can't be resurrected after death
Ding Fenghai died, and he persisted for more than three months, but he never fought death, and his peaceful appearance could only be hidden deep in Ding Fengjun's mind.
Funerals in the countryside are rustic but complicated.
On the morning of the first day, the people in the village and relatives will come to mourn, and the morning of the next day is to prepare arrangements for the matter, some to help take care of affairs, some to help receive relatives and friends, some to prepare tables, chairs and benches to make tea and pour water, and some to arrange personnel for Ding Fenghai's cremation in the afternoon.
According to customs, when Ding Fenghai was buried, he needed four people to accompany him to the crematorium, and these four people were also particular, they needed two people from the man's nephew or the man's relatives, and two people from Chen Binglian's mother's family, which meant that Ding Fenghai's last journey was escorted by relatives on both sides, first, he would not be lonely, and secondly, it would also prove to outsiders that the relationship between them was deep, but when this time came, no one from Chen Binglian's mother's family was willing to accompany Ding Fenghai to complete this last journey.
This matter made the elders in the courtyard worried, and they discussed it with Chen Binglian in private.
"Ice Lotus, we have been this rule for many years, you can't break this rule. How can you say that Feng Hai is also your husband, if there is no one from your mother's side to send him off, this outsider will not laugh at you?"
Chen Binglian said with a depressed face: "Everyone is dead, what's the use of going through this form." ”
"My ancestors have been doing this for generations, you can't make something special in your family, how sad it would be if Fenghai Quanxia knew about it. ”
Chen Binglian said angrily: "Dead and dead, dead and dead, what does he know, if he really knew these things, he would have woken up long ago to see me so sad, besides, it's not that I didn't let them send it, the legs are on their bodies, they can go if they want to, and I can't help it if they don't want to go, otherwise you go to them and talk to them." ”
After speaking, Chen Binglian left directly, looking at Chen Binglian's distant back, several elders glanced at each other, and had to shake their heads and sigh helplessly, how could they go to Chen Binglian's mother's family to talk about this, this is too embarrassing, several people decided to let Ding Fengjun and Ding Fenghe persuade after a few people.
When Ding Fengjun heard about this, he was angry at the time, thinking about how Ding Fengjunhai helped Chen Binglian's family so much, in the end, people died, but they were so ruthless.
Ding Fengjun was angry and wanted to go to their mother's family to theorize, but was stopped by Ding Fenghe, Ding Fenghe was also angry, but his personality was tame, his face was full of sadness, and his tone of voice was gentle.
"Second brother, don't be impulsive, let's find them first and find out the bottom of it. ”
Chen Binglian's mother's family only came to Chen Donghan and Chen Dongqing, two brothers, when Ding Fenghe told him and Ding Fengjun the purpose of coming to them, Chen Donghan said with a displeased face: "I won't go, the place where the dead are cremated is so heavy with yin qi, I'm afraid I will encounter something dirty." ”
Ding Fengjun didn't intend to give Chen Donghan any face, he said directly: "You haven't done anything wrong, are you still afraid of ghosts knocking on the door?
Chen Donghan said angrily: "Look at so many people in this courtyard, why do you just let our brothers send it, just find two people to go." ”
Ding Fengjun said angrily: "Why, isn't the money my brother gave you before his death enough for you to send him on his last journey?
Chen Donghan shuddered, and said uncomfortably: "Ding Fengjun, are you deliberately angry with me, let me tell you, even if you break the sky today, I won't go, Ding Fenghai gave me money to spend, but compared to the time when he calculated me, this money is nothing! I have told myself since that day that I will not only not send Ding Fenghai when he dies, but I will not cry him!"
Ding Fengjun knew what Chen Donghan meant by that time, he didn't expect that Chen Donghan and Chen Binglian were the same people, holding grudges, but it just made him stay in the public security bureau for two more days, he didn't expect him to remember it for so long, and even Ding Fenghai's kindness to him was smoothed out by him.
Chen Donghan's voice was too loud, and the people in the courtyard looked at them one after another, and everyone's eyes couldn't help but be mixed with disgust.
"Ding Fengjun, you are not a good thing, I think if it wasn't for your instigation, Ding Fenghai wouldn't have done this, so if you want to blame yourself. ”
Ding Fengjun's heart couldn't help but rise a nameless fire, he clenched his fists, and always had the urge to rush to Qianhaibian Chen Donghan for a while, but he tried hard to restrain his emotions, because he knew that in this situation, he was not allowed to fight at all.
"Feng Jun, what my brother said is also true, this person is dead, there is no need to send it or not, this dead person has too much bad luck, if it is really contaminated, what will it be?" Chen Dongqing said with a smile on his face.
"Are you still laughing? My eldest brother is all dead, just lying there, you don't cry, even if you don't cry, you still laugh? Do you still have a conscience?" Ding Fengjun roared angrily.
"Why are we laughing, is there a rule in this world that doesn't allow us to laugh! Chen Donghan looked at Ding Fengjun angrily and couldn't help but laugh exaggeratedly.
Ding Fengjun felt that he was about to lose control of himself, if he didn't teach them a lesson, the anger in his heart would not be extinguished.
Just as Ding Fengjun was about to make a move, Ding Qingji and Ding Qingxiang came to them one after another, and the tears of the two of them flowed with tears on their faces, and they heard all the words that Chen Donghan and Chen Dongqing said just now.
Ding Qingji said in a hoarse voice: "Uncle and uncle, are you really unwilling to send my father?"
Chen Dongqing and Chen Donghan were stunned for a moment, the two of them glanced at each other, Chen Donghan said with a little embarrassment: "Child, it's not that we don't want to send your father, it's just that it's just ......"
Before Chen Donghan's words were finished, Ding Qingji and Ding Qingxiang knelt in front of the two of them with a plop, Ding Qingji kowtowed to the two and said: "Uncle and uncle, my nephew kowtows to you, please send my dad on the last ride, my dad said before his death, uncle and uncle are good people, and you have a good relationship with my dad, so my dad is willing to always give you money, not lend it to you." ”
Ding Qingji's words made the two of them red-faced, Chen Dongqing looked at Chen Donghan and said in a low voice, "Why don't we go?"
Chen Donghan said with a cold attitude: "If you want to go, I won't go anyway, bad luck!"
Chen Dongqing turned his head and looked at the Ding Qingji brothers again, his face was embarrassed, and he said to Chen Donghan thoughtfully: "Then what do you say?
Chen Dong snorted coldly, pulled Chen Dongqing behind him, and said to the Ding Qingji brothers who were kowtowing: "Okay, don't kowtow to the two of you, your uncle and I are indeed good people, but I will not compromise on this matter, besides, if the corpse qi on your father's body invades my body, how can I be good to the two of you at that time, right?"
The two children didn't seem to hear what Chen Donghan said, the two of them were still kowtowing, Ding Fengjun really couldn't stand it, he held the two of them and said, "You two don't kowtow, kowtowing to this kind of person is simply an insult to you." It's not worth it!"
The onlookers couldn't stand it anymore, and a young man came out of the crowd, this young man was none other than Ding Fengjun's quasi-son-in-law Wang Yucheng, he said to Ding Fengjun indignantly: "Uncle, don't embarrass these two scumbags, although Xiaoqin and I are not married yet, but our marriage has been decided, I am also a member of our old Ding family, they don't want to send my uncle, then I will send my uncle." ”
"Yes, second uncle, I'll go too, don't let others look down on our old Ding family. ”
"Yes, yes, second brother, don't be too sad for you and the child, the eldest brother will let the people of our Lao Ding family accompany him on this last journey, and the people of our Lao Ding family are standing straight, don't mix with this kind of wolf-hearted thing, save the reputation of our Lao Ding family!"
For a while, the voice of anger in the county was endless, Ding Fengjun was both excited and sad, Ding Fengjun, who had gathered all kinds of emotions, turned around and walked to Ding Fenghai's spiritual bed, he knelt in front of Ding Fenghai's portrait at once, and cried bitterly: "Big brother, big brother, you said that your life is not worth living, you have helped them so much in this life, and you have paid so much for them, but in the end, who still remembers your kindness to them, their conscience was eaten by dogs, and there is not even a little scum left, big brother, big brother, you say you are not stupid!"
Ding Fenghai finally lay on the hospital bed, and the tears shed fell deeply in Ding Fengjun's heart.
After Ding Fenghai's funeral, Ding Qingji and Ding Qingxiang came to Ding Fengjun's house, the two of them carried a lot of things, after the battle of words with Chen Donghan and Chen Dongqing, Ding Fengjun's mood was also terrible, he was lying on the sofa, his brows were locked, thinking about some messy things.
When he heard the voices of Ding Qingji and Ding Qingxiang, Ding Fengjun sat up from the sofa and reluctantly held on to his spirits, he tried his best to hide the sadness in his heart, but the sorrow wandering between his eyes was faint.
"Qingji, why do you two brothers have time to come over?"
Ding Qingji sighed lightly and said: "Second uncle, our brothers came to see you, the last time you quarreled with my uncle, you must have gained a lot, Qingxiang and I were elusive, and I came over to apologize to you for my uncle." ”
Ding Fengjun waved his hand, showed a particularly ugly smile and said, "It's okay, your second uncle's heart is not so small, I have long forgotten about what happened that day." ”
Ding Qingji rubbed his hands and said with some embarrassment: "Second uncle, don't say that, I know you are easing the hearts of our brothers, it was indeed my uncle who went too far that day, and Qingxiang and I didn't expect them to be such people, and our brothers also decided, we took my mother to live in the city, and we will not be so frequent with them in the future, although he is our uncle, but our hearts are also hurt by them." ”
Ding Fengjun could see a kind of helplessness from Ding Qingji's face, Ding Fengjun didn't want to watch his nephew fall to the point of family breakdown, he sighed lightly and said: " Qingji, you are not small, there are some things you know better than me, after all, they are your uncles, no matter how much they do, they are also your mother's brother and brother, this kind of family affection can not be mixed with any emotions, the reason why they behave like this is entirely because of the contradictions between our elders, the contradictions between adults and your children can not participate, so, how you got along before, you have to get along like before in the future. ”
Ding Qingji smiled bitterly: "Second uncle, do you think we may still face them like before?"
Ding Fengjun said with a serious expression: "Child, you can't say that, it's their business to do what they do, whether they do it right or wrong, everyone has seen it very clearly, and you, as juniors, can't comment on them casually." ”
Ding Qingxiang still wanted to complain, but was stopped by Ding Fengjun, Ding Fengjun said meaningfully: "Child, you remember, whether it is between the elders or between your peers, if there is a conflict, don't involve the next generation, because the grievances of the previous generation will finally be relieved, if the next generation is involved, this grievance will only accumulate deeper and deeper, and it will not be beneficial to you at all, can you understand?"
Ding Qingji smiled bitterly, with a hint of embarrassment on his face, he said: "Second uncle, originally we came here to persuade you, but I didn't expect that in the end, you taught us a lesson, you said this is too funny." ”
Ding Fengjun couldn't help but smile and said: "No matter who persuades whom, as long as we can calm our minds, your father is gone, I believe he doesn't want to see conflicts between you and your uncle, so how filial you should be in the future They still have to be filial, and you can't let others see your jokes." ”
Ding Qingji nodded with a touched face.
Although Ding Qingxiang was still angry in his heart, after listening to Ding Fengjun's words at this time, he just responded silently.
"Second uncle, today we will go back to Liaocheng, when my dad was still there, our brothers planned to take him and my mother to live, but he just didn't agree, and said that he was old, maybe when he would be gone, he said that even if he died, he had to die in the place where he was born and raised, and now that my dad is gone, we can't leave my mom here alone, so we decided to let my mom live with us, so that we can give her a better life. ”
Ding Fengjun nodded and said: "The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to be filial but does not wait, you two brothers should do this, and the second uncle supports you." ”
"That's okay, second uncle, don't be too sad about my dad's affairs, Qingji and I should go back, you can rest and rest." ”
Sending off the two brothers Ding Qingji, Ding Fengjun sat on the sofa again, his mood was no longer as low as just now, after all, a grievance was resolved, the so-called dead rest in peace, the living are gone, maybe this is the best ending, but Ding Fengjun still has a bitter taste in his heart.
It was a bitterness of concern, a taste that could not be tasted.
"Second uncle, second uncle, turn on the TV, celebrate my brother's birthday on TV!"