When Liu Shuchen saw the two of them coming back, his heartfelt words came out so quickly, and he couldn't help but be slightly happy, and said, "Why don't you stay for a while, I haven't seen each other for a few days, and I can talk more about my heart." ”

"No, Mom and Dad are not worried when I go back late. Wu Qiong said and walked out.

I feel that it is not a taste in my heart, I want to say it but I can't say it, who can I tell it, I can't say it to Xu Feng, and I can't say it to other people, once I know the truth, how will I look at myself, now I can only swallow the bitter water in my stomach, and I have to bear it.

"Wu Qiong, wait a minute. Liu Shuchen came out and stopped her.

"Eldest sister, is there something wrong?" Wu Qiong asked.

"Of course there is, I have something to say to you. Liu Shuchen said and pulled her to a secluded place.

"What is so mysterious?" Wu Qiong asked with some puzzlement, what could not be said standing still, and deliberately pulled her to this place, as if there was something big, which made people scratch their heads.

"Wu Qiong, what do you think of Xu Feng, do you have any ideas in your heart, if you really want to be interesting, the eldest sister will be your matchmaker, and I promise to satisfy you. Liu Shuchen said with a smile.

"This. Wu Qiong said with a little blush.

Liu Shuchen saw the intimate relationship between the two of them, and thought that they had that meaning, and intended to be a matchmaker from it, otherwise they would not have looked for her alone. Of course, she is happy in her heart, and she wishes that someone would match her, but how did her father pass this hurdle, Dad's temper is the clearest in his heart, and whoever says peace will not agree, and if he listens to others' persuasion, he will not leave here, let alone have a dispute with her.

"You can see that you care about him very much, otherwise why do you always come to him. Why don't you speak at this time? What age is it? I'm still so embarrassed, be generous, don't twist and pinch it, and I'll talk to him if I agree. Liu Shuchen said.

"Sister, I didn't mean that, me. Wu Qiong didn't say anything about what she could say, suing her own father if she was willing.

"What's wrong. You seem to be unhappy, what's going on?" Liu Shuchen saw Wu Qiong's embarrassed expression, he was fine when he came out, why did his face change as soon as he said it, there must be a reason for this.

"Forget it, we'll talk about that later. Wu Qiong said that she was leaving, and now she can only shirk, hoping that her father will turn a corner one day and agree to her and Xu Feng, which is the ending she is most looking forward to.

"I'll talk about that later. You can see that you have concerns in your heart. Is he bullying you, tell me what's the matter, go back and teach him a lesson immediately. Liu Shuchen said.

"No, he's been nice to me. Wu Qiong said.

"What the hell is that, is it because he doesn't have a formal job, or because of what he used to do? Liu Shuchen said.

Xu Feng said that incident before, he was wronged, and it should be seen that he is not that kind of person at all after such a long time. Again, if you can't look at a person before, you can forgive any mistakes you make, mainly because you look at what is going on now, he is a very good person, has a certain ability to work, and manages the branch well, which is obvious to all. The two of you used to be classmates, you know each other well, you can't be obsessed with something because of something, you have to have your own correct judgment, what a good young man, if you really want to be interesting, you must not let it go.

"It's not because of that. Wu Qiong said.

"It's not because of these, why else, in fact, everyone has already seen your thoughts, and the two of you are indeed a good match, I have the intention to match you, if you don't come, I will look for you, and I just met you today, so I stopped you. Liu Shuchen said.

"Let's talk about this later, I'm going home, otherwise my mother will be uneasy. Wu Qiong said.

"Why are you always in a hurry to leave, if you are embarrassed to say it, I will say it for you, see how good you are, Xu Feng cares about you so much, I can't see his thoughts, in fact, the window paper will be broken as soon as I poke it, I saw you today, so I want to make things clear with you, I will be a ready-made matchmaker." Liu Shuchen said.

"The eldest sister really can't do it, it's impossible for me to do anything with him. Wu Qiong said.

"How is it impossible, he has affection for you, and it is natural for young people to fall in love. Liu Shuchen said.

"This. Wu Qiong was a little speechless, Liu Shuchen had good intentions, she also had that idea, and wanted to develop with Xu Feng, but her father couldn't explain it, her father was just her daughter, and she couldn't be too ruthless, if it was because of this, she couldn't forgive herself in this life.

"Wu Qiong, I know, is it because your parents disagree. Liu Shuchen said.

Seeing Wu Qiong's expression, he didn't have a trace of disgust with Xu Feng when he heard his tone, but he didn't say that he agreed, there must be a reason for this. Thinking of Wu Feitong's sudden departure, he immediately understood what was going on, saying that the old man was seriously ill and needed to be taken care of, but in fact it was just an excuse, the purpose was to leave here, and he wanted to break up the two of them, the old man was so confused, the children's lifelong affairs should be decided by themselves, how could they interfere so arbitrarily, making it difficult for Wu Qiong to make a decision.

"Eldest sister, I really have no choice, I can't face the reality, and I can't hurt their hearts, I really don't know what to do. Wu Qiong saw Liu Shuchen say what was in her heart, she couldn't help shedding tears, feeling very aggrieved, she loved someone in her heart, but she couldn't say it, how could she not feel uncomfortable.

"So that's the case, why didn't you say it earlier, we will call the shots for you, tomorrow I will go to the old man and say that I have the right to love, and no one has the right to interfere, let alone use such rough means. Liu Shuchen said.

"It doesn't work at all, I know Dad's temper, no one can say the right way, it's because of this and he is angry, I left them to find a job on my own, we haven't spoken for several days, but I feel uncomfortable. Wu Qiong said.

"I understand your feelings, but you must know that you should not let your parents worry about your life's events at all. Liu Shuchen said.

When your parents disagree with your marriage and block it, it is undoubtedly a painful and difficult choice for you to choose family affection or love. Some people, for the sake of filial piety, choose a loveless marriage, and in the end they bump and bump for a lifetime, leaving behind a sigh for the past, and may even cause family tragedy. There are also some people who choose love and get into trouble with their families and hurt their parents' feelings. How should we deal with this issue? Whether to surrender to our parents, to fight to the end, or to use time to slowly grind in, it will indeed take a long process.

If they hide everything from their parents, they will not only feel unhappy and wronged, but they will also be emotionally unacceptable. In fact, parents have also imagined the image of their future daughter-in-law or son-in-law in their minds, and the person they imagine cannot be exactly the same as reality. Therefore, it is also psychologically difficult to see the young people who suddenly come to us as their relatives, and it may even make an impression of the unpleasant situation of the first meeting, which may affect future relationships. Therefore, no matter what, it is necessary to tell the truth to the parents, let the parents understand the situation in advance, and introduce the other party and the other party's family to the parents, so that the parents can also have a process of understanding and getting familiar with each other. Don't be smart enough to go behind your parents' backs and tell them after you've made a choice.

As a child, when encountering this kind of problem, first of all, we must have a full understanding of the parents, in all fairness, parents interfere in the marriage of their children, all out of good intentions, absolutely no bad intentions, as the saying goes, the world's parents love the truest, tears and blood dissolve into the children's body, and do their best to become a son, pity the hearts of parents in the world. Parents are instinctively worried about their children's marriage and love, and they often consciously or unconsciously apply their personal lessons to their children's marriage and love, the purpose of which is nothing more than hoping that their children can find an ideal lifelong partner and live a happy and beautiful life.

Parents do not act emotionally in their choices as their children, they take into account relatively permanent conditions. For example, whether the body is healthy, whether the education process of both parties, whether the family background and economic status are comparable, whether the occupation and personality are good, etc. As parents who have come over, they know that young people have a bad common problem when they fall in love, that is, they imagine each other too perfectly, try their best to show their advantages, cover up their shortcomings, and even regard their shortcomings as advantages and talk about them.

For those parents who threaten death and try their best to prevent their children's normal marriage and love, it is best for their children to be patient and persuasive, sincerely infected, and never do anything to Mai Mang. As a couple of marriages, in addition to continuing to grasp the progress of the relationship, you should also do as much as possible to communicate with your parents, patiently listen to your parents' opinions and expectations, whether there is a reasonable part of their opinions, and whether you should accept them convincingly. Of course, you should also tell your parents about your opinions and expectations, such as telling them more about the advantages of your romantic partner, and talking to them in detail about your future plans, including specific measures to overcome some difficulties.

In addition, you must also be mentally prepared to fight a protracted war, time will send everything away, you should know that parents all over the world are always good for their children, as long as you plead with each other, what you say is reasonable, I believe that the vast majority of parents will agree with your opinion sooner or later, because children are their hearts. And the parents' ideology is also improving, and they will not embarrass their children too much, even if they are really at the end of the mountain and the water, they can also ask other relatives and friends to help mediate and other methods to maintain the continuation of the love between the two parties.

In short, in the face of resistance from the family, you should deal with it calmly, do not rush to announce the news that the two of you will get married, and do not rush to go through the marriage registration procedures, let alone run away from home and elope or live together behind your parents' backs, and cook mature rice with raw rice. That not only hurts the feelings of your parents, but also breeds conflicts between your young couple and your parents before your little family is born. (To be continued......)