Chapter 9: Comparison
"After Yuan Yuan came back, I talked to her to see her opinion, if I think I can date for a while, I will talk about it. Xing Yanfang said.
The phone rang, Yuan Weihua picked up the phone, sister-in-law Xing Yanfen looked for her sister, so she handed the phone to his wife, Xing Yanfang chatted with her sister, and told her about Liao Shulan's door-to-door mention of the media tonight, and asked for her sister's opinion.
"The two of us have no opinion, but I don't know what Yuan Yuan thinks, she has some dealings with Xu Feng, I'm afraid that there are ideas between the two, Yuan Yuan is always secretive about this matter, and I'm worried about this. Xing Yanfang said.
"That's not good, no job will be a problem to eat in the future, as parents must listen to the opinions of their children, you must also have opinions, you can't rely on her in everything, what do children know now, they only know sweet and sweet, and they think about it all over the world, and they don't think about it at all, and in the end it's you two who are anxious. Xing Yanfen hurriedly said.
Be sure to enlighten Yuan Yuan well, and explain the stakes to her, they have not graduated from college for a long time, they have not gone through social experience, their thoughts are very naïve, and they are full of illusions about love, it can be said that they want to be in the wrong, they must face the reality after marriage, economic conditions are the foundation, it is difficult to move an inch without money, don't say anything else, just talk about the house, now the housing prices are skyrocketing, and they don't dare to think about it by earning wages, not to mention them, with a house, they can struggle for more than ten years, or even a lifetime, Xu Feng's family background is average, and he can only stay in the small bungalow, and it is Yuan Yuan who suffers in the end, which can be thought about clearly。
"I don't know what the boy looks like, but I heard Liao Shulan say that people are still good, so I don't have a score in my heart. Xing Yanfang said.
"Don't worry about this, after we meet, we will naturally know that now the matchmaker is not like getting married without seeing each other in the old days, and there is a process of understanding each other, so it is impossible for Liao Shulan to deceive you. Xing Yanfen said. Taking a step back, what does it matter if you look almost good, now pay attention to affordability, as long as the family conditions are good, the boy does not have too many defects, you must know that you can't do anything without money today, so you have to consider being realistic, and you can't be too demanding in appearance. No matter how good it is, it can't be eaten as a meal, as long as it can support a family.
"After Yuan Yuan came back, I told her about it, but I didn't know what she was thinking. Xing Yanfang said.
"I don't want to make it clear to her, as the saying goes, sugarcane is not sweet at both ends, you can't be whimsical, the man's conditions are good, there must be a lot of people who come to propose relatives, he and Yuan Yuan are classmates, which shows that he has a soft spot for Yuan Yuan, and there will be no fault with her in the future. Xing Yanfen said.
After listening to her sister's words, Xing Yanfang felt more and more that the man's conditions were good, if Yuan Yuan really married such a person and had a hearty job, at least she didn't have to worry about her financially, she didn't have to worry about her in this life, if she really found a family like Xu Feng, they wouldn't be able to eat or drink at that time, and they would be uneasy, in contrast, Li Jinghe's side had the upper hand, and told her husband her sister's opinion, she also listened to and agreed with such a family matter, Yuan Weihua didn't say anything more.