Chapter 576
"There is a way that the red flag at home does not fall, the colorful flags flutter outside, correctly handle the relationship with the lover, you can play occasionally, but you must not take it seriously, or that sentence, the ugly wife is close to the family treasure, and you must not give up lightly if necessary. … ≦," Zhou Jun said.
"A lover is actually just an ideal, without any predictable end, she is the money in your pocket, once she becomes a poor egg, she will not hesitate to break up with you, only your wife will accompany you for life." Huo Guangming said.
"But there is always a sense of melancholy in my heart, in the face of chatter, countless family trivialities, and I always feel that there are shortcomings compared with others." Ge Kang said.
Maybe some people complain that the other party is not capable, often find fault with each other, and even regret that they came together. When people are not divorced, they regret that they chose her in the first place, and they feel at a loss, and if they divorce, you will regret that you left her and feel sad. In short, if you don't divorce, you will regret it for a lifetime, and once you divorce, you will regret it for two lifetimes. So no matter who you are, you must cherish it when you have it, and take care of your home with love, so as not to feel precious when you lose it, and regret it later. Zhou Jun said.
"Now it's only like this, it's useless to have any ideas, I have to make up for it, when I am depressed and troubled, I will hunt wild food to eat, find a young lady to talk about the mountains, and I will not forget that life has come in vain." Ge Kang said.
When I was a child, I listened to Teresa Teng's songs, and I didn't want to pick wildflowers on the roadside. At that time, I liked to have fun, and I often sang the sentence that you don't pick the wildflowers on the side of the road, and sang in a male voice after the door. Then connect with the female voice and sing the text with deep affection. Remember my love. Remember my love. Remember that I am waiting every day, I am waiting for you to return, and don't forget me. Immediately following the drumbeat, he turned to a male voice and said, forget it, forget it, forget it, come back. After many years, there has been a male and female double voice on the market, bel canto mixed pop or folk music with rap, which is very popular. Although he has no musical talent. The pentatonic tone is not in order, but he likes to follow the blind coaxing, and the love songs are often tampered with beyond recognition. For example, no matter how dark the night is, it is darker without you, the night is too gray, and you fall in love with someone who is not coquettish. The most excessive song, I want to be with you as soon as I see you, and I will never be enough to be with you. It's always a dream. The song of the pink dudu was painted with bright rhubarb, after teaching others badly. Give me back a song I smile when I see you, and with you, I will never be in shape.
"In fact, it is normal to have this kind of thought, people will have curiosity, and in ancient times, it was said that everyone has a love for beauty." Zhou Jun said.
People all have this experience, the same food will feel tired after eating for a long time, the same music will feel less pleasant after listening to it for a long time, the same clothes will feel no longer fresh, and there is also a new and disgusting psychology in love. When some couples are just together, they are pleasing to the eye, but the good times do not last long, and as soon as the freshness passes, there is a sense of boredom, so there is the idea that the wife is someone else's good child, and the house flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers. Nowadays, there is a popular saying, the wife is still someone else's good, the child is your own good, and there are really many phenomena in the world that have made a good interpretation of it, big money with Xiaomi, extramarital affairs are crazy, extramarital sex is rampant,
There is a limerick poem that says it well, holding the hand of the young lady, as if he is back to the tenth **, holding the hand of his lover, as if he is drinking Moutai, holding his wife's hand, as if holding his right hand with his left hand, he doesn't feel it at all.
After a man gets married, he gets along with his wife day and night, lives together in a circle, and the freshness gradually disappears after a long time. The wife's speech and demeanor are unobstructed, so she is a little dismissive, and the woman is the same as the original wife. Full of curiosity, fresh. The reason why it is fresh is because there are some distances, as if it is a little hazy in the fog, it seems to be clear and not clear, and what men capture is only the superficial phenomenon of floating light, but not the substance, this haze can produce a kind of beauty.
The angle from which a husband appreciates his wife is completely different from that of another woman, and a man stands from the perspective of his husband, and the husband always wants his wife to be perfect and superior to others, and to be able to go out of the hall and in the kitchen. Others want their wives to be ladies in the hall, sluts in bed, and nannies in the kitchen. Men and women are mostly observed from the perspective of friends, colleagues and classmates, and they must be humble and friendly in their interactions, and show a gentlemanly demeanor everywhere, even on the street, but also feel that the women who hurry by on the street are all beautiful.
My wife is like a book, when I start to get my hands on it, I am full of interest, I forget to sleep and eat, and I read it tirelessly. When, the storyline is known, the melon is ripe, and it will be thrown aside. In contrast, a newly published book is sure to generate a lot of interest. That is, the most popular metaphor that other people's wives are always better than their own.
When interacting with a woman outside of marriage, you often crave the trust, affection and even affection of the other party. So they greet each other, and deliberately hide their inadequacies, and try to show their superior side. Originally, this woman was the roar of the Hedong lion, and at this moment she would also speak softly and tenderly, she was originally a dominatrix of the East China Sea, and she would also be beautiful at this time, and Ana was colorful. The wife is different, she has to live at home with you every day, she will not be pretentious, there is no need to hide it, and there is no need to hide it. Coupled with the burden of life, housework, and snorting, it is inevitable to quarrel. Once people's mood is affected, they become more and more disgusted with their wife's shortcomings, and they will be pleasing to the eye, thinking of other people's advantages, of course, they will say that other people's wives are good.
After a long time as a husband and wife, they will have the psychology of living in the orchid room for a long time without smelling its fragrance, which is a factor of psychological saturation. Accustomed to the virtues of his wife. For example, braised pork tastes beautiful, but if you eat it every day, I believe you will get tired of eating it, and you will even lose your appetite in the end. This kind of psychological feeling makes it difficult for you to feel the beauty of Xi Shi even if you are accompanied by Xi Shi every day.
Every couple is united because of love, and before marriage, you must feel that your wife is the loveliest person in the world, better than anyone else, so you mobilize all your wisdom to pursue it. After marriage, I feel that my wife is not as good as others. It's just a psychological delusion. In all fairness. It is the wife who shares the ups and downs. It is the wife who shares weal and woe, and it is the wife who accompanies her in life and death, and she is still the wife in the most difficult and needy times.
It is different for women outside of marriage, other women don't need to live with you, they don't have to worry about eating, drinking, and Lazar, and being with you is the most wonderful time, so there is nothing to nag about, and there is no basis for contradictions. If this woman is your lover. The words that come out will make you swoon, even if you go to the trouble for her, the man will not give up, and the lover will accept your shortcomings. The most fundamental thing about contact with other women outside of marriage is the mutual attraction between men and women, which is an instinct. The best person to confide in a man's emotions is a woman, and the best person to confide in a woman's emotions is a man. As a result, in the chat room, you can always find a pair of men and women chatting in the water as if they are matched. Of course. Same-sex chats also take place, but not as deeply and as long as between men and women.
Aesthetic fatigue. It's been a long time, and even if it's as beautiful as a fairy, I don't think it's tasteful. Just like eating delicacies from the mountains and seas every day, I slowly get tired of it, and I want to taste coarse tea and light rice. Then again, although a meal of coarse tea and light rice tastes light, it is also sober: without coarse tea and light rice, you will not taste the hardships of life, and you will not feel the happiness of life.
Long-term life breeds contradictions, husbands and wives live together for a long time, and some family trivialities such as firewood, rice, oil and salt, it is inevitable that women are sometimes unhappy. Especially now, some men also have a lot of shortcomings, such as smoking, drinking, playing cards, etc., of course, women will say a few words. At this time, the man was unhappy. I thought: how did I marry such a woman? And a woman outside of marriage is different, she doesn't have to live with you, she doesn't have to worry about your eating, drinking, and Lazar, so there is no source of conflict, and when they are together, they always talk about happy things, so they naturally think other women are cute.
It's not that someone else's wife is good, but that you didn't approach someone else's wife, and when you get closer, you will sigh, it turns out that it's just that. In addition, when your wife is good, others are also good wives, but don't just care about the outside, let others dig up the treasures at home, and then you will regret it.
Wildflowers are more seductive and forgiving than house flowers. Generally, wildflowers are young and beautiful, and even those of the same age are amorous women. Even if there is no relationship with wildflowers, it is just a kind of money to buy sex and save zài, and men will have a sense of contentment and pleasure in their psychology. Wildflowers seduce men, there must be a set of women's methods, which often appear more atmospheric, and often show a tolerant heart, so that men have an illusion, and it is easy for men to like. At the same time, wildflowers don't see each other often, and they don't live together all day, what they show is the advantages and disadvantages, and they are all taken home and left behind, and the man can't find out. And the family flowers live together day and night, and there is too strong smell of oil smoke on their bodies, and all the shortcomings are exposed, including every subtle part of the body, so it's okay if you don't bother, how can it be fragrant.
The difference between a wife and a lover, the wife will throw your lighter out of the house, while the lover will give you a lighter. When she learned that you were bankrupt, she immediately sold the mansion he had gifted, carried a box of money, and left quickly, this is the lover. She learns that her husband is in financial difficulties due to bankruptcy, and quietly transfers her hard-earned money to her husband's account to solve his urgent needs, which is the wife.
A lover is a flower inserted in a vase, which is pleasing to the eye and makes people infinitely loved, but this flower needs the nourishment of special nutrients, money, power, status, and so on. Once you pick this kind of flower, it hurts your spirit, your financial resources, and your personal bright prospects, and your wife is a dish that is put in the blue, indifferent, and even a little cheesy, but it is these nutritious dishes that nourish you with her nagging, with her warmth, with her thoughtfulness, and with her diligence and thrift, so that you are full of red and neat clothes and shoes.
The lover is **, the lover is the coat, although the coat is good, it is for outsiders** no matter how bad, after all, it is close-fitting. The lover is an umbrella, the lover is a poncho, the umbrella can carry the rain and the sun, have you ever seen someone wearing a poncho and a poncho. The lover is a shirt, the lover is a tie, you can wear a shirt without a tie, but have you ever met a person who only ties a tie and does not wear a shirt, the lover is boiled water, the lover is coffee, although the white open is colorless and tasteless, but it is indispensable, although the coffee is fragrant and refreshing, but it is only occasionally drunk. The lover is the bed in the bedroom, which belongs only to himself, and the lover is the sofa in the office, which may belong to all people. The lover belongs to the past, she is a dried flower sandwiched in the diary, it comes from the soil, and after many years, it will be inexplicably moved, the lover belongs to the present, it is a flower inserted in a vase, it comes from the flower shop, and within ten days, she cannot be found in the garbage can. The lover is arthritis, which is a faint onset of pain, and the lover is like Hong Kong foot, which is an unstoppable itch. A lover is a dispensable person, and a lover is something that cannot be lost. Emotions are short-lived, while emotions are long-term, emotions are only impulses caused by circumstances or other factors, the lover is also the object of venting emotions found due to the influence of feelings, and the lover is the one who gives his true feelings.
The lover is the other half of the previous life, which is indispensable, and it is the source of happiness to maintain it by constantly cutting off family affection. The lover is a family flower, and he keeps it for himself, since it is all his own anyway, it is inevitable that he will easily ignore the feelings of his lover. Love has transformed into family affection in this trivial daily triviality. The lover has also become a yellow-faced woman in the daily housework. A lover is a wildflower, not only for one person to bloom, if you want to get it, you must pay all the time, and love will always be alive. Lovers can ignore the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in life, and just dress themselves carefully to please each other, and they can keep their faces glowing. Lovers are comrades-in-arms who share weal and pain, support each other, and accompany each other to old age. Lovers are colleagues with wealth and nobility, and they can't withstand a little wind and rain, and they fly separately when disaster comes. Lovers are passing clouds, perhaps, people will encounter a lot of passing clouds in this life, but as time passes, the clouds will always dissipate, and those who really live together for a lifetime are still lovers. Lover, lover in bed, monarch under bed, lover, lover in bed, lover under bed, lover is the object of venting love xù found due to the influence of love, lover is the object of his true feelings, lover is not married, lover is married. (To be continued......)