Chapter 105: Home Visits
In the morning, my mother called and said that she was going to make oil cakes to eat at noon, and asked us to go back and eat them together. Pen fun and pavilion www.biquge.info
When I finished answering my mother's call, I saw that Lu Tao had pushed the door and was about to go out, so I hurriedly called him and said, "My mother asked us to go there to eat oil cake at noon." ”
But Lu Tao, like most of the time, shirked again and said, "I want to have dinner with friends at noon, you can take Yangyang there." ”
As soon as I heard Lu Tao say this, I was unhappy and said: "You are always like this, as soon as you say that you go to my house, you are not happy, as if you have a grudge against my mother." ”
"What are you talking nonsense? I made an appointment with my friend yesterday, so I can't change my hexagram on the fly, right?" Lu Tao said to me impatiently.
"Okay, okay, you go and meet your friends, how important are friends? how can my wife and mother-in-law compare with your friends?" I waved my hand and went back to the house.
"You are really a person, you have also gone to college, and you are also a literate person, why can't you talk about many things?"
I didn't answer Lu Tao's words again, and he disappointed me again. Seeing that I didn't respond, Lu Tao sighed and went downstairs.
Lu Tao's attitude towards my mother's family always displeased me, and in my mind, he can't be considered a good son-in-law. He didn't have the hospitable qualities of most Chinese sons-in-law, but he seemed a little arrogant, either not going to my house, eating and watching TV, and hardly helping my family. And I think that this arrogant attitude towards my mother's family is in itself a contempt for me. When I think about it, the good impression I have slowly developed for him in recent years seems to have disappeared in an instant, and you think that there is not a woman who is not angry with someone who neglects her mother's family.
After Yangyang and I finished eating the oil cake at noon, we didn't rush back, but stayed at my house until dinner before we were ready to go back. But Yangyang was entangled by my brother's daughter baby, and the baby had to keep her Yangyang's cousin for one night, saying that he wanted to sleep with his cousin. Yang Yang, who was thirteen years old, was very embarrassed to hear his cousin make such a request, but the baby just held his hand and didn't let go, so he had no choice but to stay.
"Just let Yangyang stay at his grandmother's house for one night, anyway, these two days are weekends, and he doesn't have to go to school tomorrow. My brother on the side persuaded me.
"Alright, then let him be there. I hesitated a little and said to my brother. Then I said to Yangyang, "I'll pick you up tomorrow morning, you haven't done your homework yet." ”
"Okay, Mom. Yangyang agreed.
Before leaving, my mother specially packed ten oil cakes in a plastic bag for me to take back for Lu Tao to eat.
"Forget it, keep it for the baby. "I'm still angry with Lu Tao, so I don't want to bring the oil cake back.
"It's too much, you bring some back, you can't eat with Yangyang and ignore Lu Tao. Mom said.
Poor mother, still caring about the son-in-law who is not very good to her. Although my mother didn't agree with me marrying Lu Tao at the beginning, when Lu Tao really became her son-in-law, she treated Lu Tao well, no different from her own children. And what makes me unhappy is that Lu Tao has not been as generous as my mother.
In the end, in order to fulfill my mother's wish, I went back with the bag of oil cakes.
When I entered the house, it was about half past seven, because the CCTV news broadcast had just finished broadcasting, and the weather forecast was about to start. But in the living room, there was only the TV itself, and there was no one watching TV on the sofa, so I thought Lu Tao was in the bathroom, so I didn't care. But as soon as I took off my coat, I saw the bedroom door open, and two people came out, and I was immediately surprised when I saw it, it was Lu Tao and Yangyang's homeroom teacher, Teacher Han! Why is Teacher Han at my house? How can Lu Tao be with Teacher Han? Doesn't he want to see her? Does this count as a rape? The clothes of the two people are neatly dressed, and there is no evidence that they have any misdeeds at the moment, and besides, I have a good impression of Teacher Han, Teacher Han should not be the kind of casual woman, but she did appear in my house! And with her first love Lu Tao! The two of them still came out of the bedroom! But I also thought that this woman was my son's homeroom teacher, and learned the lessons of elementary school, the child's teacher is a tiger, and I can't easily offend, so I have to restrain myself, deal with it calmly, and don't let Yang Yanggang's heart be hurt again.
"Teacher Han is here?" After a moment of surprise, I immediately changed my smile and greeted Teacher Han.
"I heard Lu Tao say that you and Yangyang went to your mother's house for dinner. "Teacher Han didn't seem embarrassed at all, and greeted me generously. The mental quality is so good! I think.
"Have you been here a long time ago, Mr. Han?" I said, pulling Mr. Han to sit on the sofa.
"It didn't take long, just a while. Teacher Han said.
During the conversation with Teacher Han, I glared at Lu Tao with my eyes from time to time while Teacher Han was not paying attention, and Lu Tao stood there with a helpless look.
Since I learned from Wu Daren that Mr. Han and Lu Tao were first lovers, I also talked to Lu Tao about this matter, I once asked Lu Tao: "Teacher Han is a good person, why did you break off with her in the first place?", but Lu Tao replied: "Can you continue to marry you? Could it be that you still hope that we could get together at the beginning?", "Oh, you always answer the wrong questions." "You're nosy, too. "How can this be called nosy? You told me that you had only been in love with me alone, but now a first love suddenly appeared, can it not make people curious and puzzled?", "In fact, Han Cuifeng and I have never been in love at all, we just had a good impression of each other at the beginning, but we have always gotten along as classmates. ", "Then why did Wu Daren say that you are first lovers?", "Hey, don't listen to him, he always likes to exaggerate when he speaks." Lu Tao has been vague like this, so I haven't figured out the relationship between Lu Tao and Teacher Han until now, but I believe Wu Daren's words more.
After the greetings, I talked to Mr. Han about Yangyang's learning. Now it is more important for me to figure out Yangyang's learning situation than to figure out Lu Tao's first love.
"Lu Chenyang, this kid has a smart brain, but he doesn't use as much work in his studies as other classmates, and he always doesn't want to do one more question after completing the homework assigned by the teacher. Teacher Han said.
"Yes, you are right, Yangyang still can't take the initiative to learn, always thinks that learning is a task assigned to him by teachers and parents, and does not think that learning is his own business. I said.
This requires you as parents to communicate more with your child, explain the importance of learning to him, and let him know that learning is actually his own business. ”
I have told him these truths countless times, but the effect is not great, and the child still can't think too far, and he can't understand the benefits and disadvantages, and only cares about the current matter. ”
"What does Lu Chenyang usually do at home besides studying?"
"I play a lot on the computer, either watching anime or watching movies. ”
"How much do you see about that subject?"
"Look at more foreign countries and less on China. ”
"No wonder!" At this time, Mr. Han seemed to realize something.
"What, what's the situation?" I asked, perceptively.
"Actually, I came here today mainly to talk to you about why Yangyang is reluctant to join the group. Recently, our class is developing Communist Youth League members, and almost all the students in the class have submitted applications to join the league, but Lu Chenyang did not submit the application alone, I asked him why he didn't want to apply for joining the league, but he said that he just wanted to be a free person, and didn't want to join any organization, I was very puzzled by his thoughts, and now I understand that he sees a lot of foreign things, and must have been influenced by foreign liberal thoughts, otherwise how could he, a child with a good character, not want to join the Communist Youth League? You have to do his ideological work, it is not enough for a person to have a good character, it is better to be positive. Teacher Han said worriedly.
And I was not surprised by the situation reported by Mr. Han, I said: "Yangyang's desire to join the group is not all because of watching foreign movies and television, but also because he was hurt in elementary school. ”
"Have you been hurt, what kind of hurt?" asked Teacher Han curiously.
"Yangyang suffered a lot of injuries when he was in elementary school, and the reason that shook him to apply for joining the regiment was that he could hardly join the Young Pioneers when he was in elementary school. ”
"What's going on? He was a bit naughty in elementary school?"
"No, Yangyang's behavior in elementary school is similar to now, but for some reason, he is the last student to get the red scarf, he can't figure it out, he doesn't understand why he was the last to get the red scarf, why the students who are naughty and mischievous than him wear the red scarf earlier than him, why the teacher thinks he is not good, in short, he has something he doesn't want to understand. At the beginning, he also cried about not being able to wear a red scarf, but there was no him in the first round, no him in the second round, and no him in the first round, and it was not uncommon for him to finally get the red scarf, and he even hated the red scarf a little, and he often couldn't remember to wear it when he went to school. Or he can think that wearing a red scarf doesn't mean anything, that is, a child who doesn't wear a red scarf is not necessarily a bad child! ”
"Is that so?" Obviously, Teacher Han was surprised by what happened to Yang Yang in elementary school.
"Yes, now Yangyang must regard applying for membership as the same as joining the Young Pioneers, so he is not interested in joining the group. I added.
"Didn't you explain it to him at the time?" asked Mr. Han.
"Explained. At that time, I said that the Young Pioneers were an advanced organization among children, and that children who joined the Young Pioneers would be regarded as children with positive ideas and good moral character. But Yang Yang said that there was a classmate in their class who liked to fight and steal things, and he was also a Young Pioneer, so the red scarf couldn't say anything. I also said that the Young Pioneers are the vanguard of communism, and he asked what communism means, what does the vanguard mean, and does it mean to fight? I said that communism means that in the future, all property will be shared, and what people want, the state will allocate to them. In the end, I had to say that the Young Pioneers were an organization, and there are many organizations in human society, and many people have to choose an organization, and the Young Pioneers are a good organization, so all primary school students participate. But he also said that if I don't participate in the organization, it doesn't mean that I'm not good, and it doesn't mean that I'm not motivated, I just need to be myself, and I don't necessarily have to join any organization. Teacher Han, can you explain this to him?"
Teacher Han also frowned when she heard me say so much, I don't know if she thinks I am verbose, or if she thinks that Yangyang is not civilized, after thinking for a while, she said to me: "I'll talk to Lu Chenyang another day." ”
Mr. Han left my house around half-past eight. Lu Tao and I sent Mr. Han downstairs together.
During my conversation with Mr. Han, Lu Tao didn't say a word, I think what he is concerned about now is not why Yangyang didn't join the group, but what my attitude is towards Mr. Han after he leaves.
The world is so chaotic that I can't think about it clearly, so let's go to sleep.
As soon as I entered the house, I was in bed, undressed, and washed! )