"I am very happy that you can understand me like this, thank you for your support of our work, and report to you, Ma Zhongxiang's matter was done by me, in order to respect his opinion, we also agreed with the appraiser he invited to evaluate, but the gap is too big, we are difficult to accept, so we did not agree, in order to show fairness, I want to find a qualified appraisal firm for evaluation, which is absolutely fair, but he did not agree, and we have no way. ∑," Mr. Zhang said.

"Can you be accommodating, it's not easy for him to be a person, you can't embarrass him too much, we are not outsiders, just like our own affairs, can we take care of it. Secretary Hu said.

Zhang Yongjun understood what he meant, and after talking for a long time, he still wanted him to open up and promise Ma Zhongxiang about it. So he said: "Secretary Hu, how dare we not listen to what you say, it stands to reason that we are absolutely obedient, and we can't refute it in the slightest, but this thing is really not easy to do, it's not that I don't give you this face, but the bank has bank regulations, and none of us can violate it, not to mention that he is a person you also know, not to mention that he is not trustworthy at all, and there is a suspicion of debt evasion, in order to ensure that the loan is not lost, we have to protect our rights and interests in accordance with the law, please support and understand this." Also, he had just approached me and wanted me to agree to his request, but I couldn't do anything that harmed the bank's interests, and let people speak, and what was my job going on, so I refused. ”

"In that case, I have to do this, I respect your opinion, and I will negotiate with him if there is anything to say. Secretary Hu said.

"Thank you for understanding us, and to be honest with you, everyone knows about it. I don't dare to call the shots. Brother Shu is also powerless. And please don't blame. Zhang Yongjun said and hung up the phone.

Xu Feng nodded when he heard this, he was still a leader who could speak, could speak and be fickle, and his words were appropriate, which could be said to be leaky. In this way, not only can things be done, but it will not offend people, and it will not affect future relationships. Because the reason for the matter has been explained clearly, and it is reasonable, I am no longer willing to do it. I'm too embarrassed to say anything more.

"After all, they are all leaders, and it is better for you to come forward than us to speak, otherwise it would be really difficult for me to do it. Chen Zihao said.

"I knew you couldn't handle it, so I talked to him. Zhang Yongjun said.

"This Ma Zhongxiang is really okay, in order to achieve the goal by unscrupulous means, he put all the big people out, so that we are not easy to deal with, promised that the interests of the bank will be lost, and if he does not promise the leader, he will be unhappy, and he will be embarrassed to spoil his daughter-in-law and offend his mother. It's not for nothing. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"Secretary Hu is really, knowing that this is impossible. also came forward to speak for him, thanks to President Zhang Xing, who came forward and solved the matter, which is equivalent to relieving us, if it is unpleasant, how embarrassing it should be, and it will be awkward to meet in the future. Xu Feng said.

"Naturally, he has his thoughts on this, but we have to deal with it well, make things clear to him, and try not to offend him. Zhang Yongjun said.

"But he blindly insisted on speaking to Ma Zhongxiang, and we always disagreed, which is not equivalent to offending him. Xu Feng said.

Therefore, President Zhang answered the phone, even if he was unhappy, there was no way, after all, they were all leaders, and they could not give this face, and they could not affect the relationship between leaders because of a Ma Zhongxiang, and he still understood this truth. Chen Zihao said.

"It's easy for him to do if he doesn't agree, I have to stick to my principles, and I will do things that offend people, unlike you who are in his territory, and it's not easy to do things that offend him, and I have nothing to worry about. Zhang Yongjun said with a smile.

"You are the leader of the branch, representing the opinion of the branch, and it is difficult for you to say anything if you disagree with him. Chen Zihao said.

"To put it bluntly, now it's just that human affection is too heavy, and everything is about human affection, thinking that as long as there is a relationship, anything can be done. Qiu Weiqiang said.

In today's society, it seems to be like this, it doesn't matter if there is nothing, there is something, even if it is a small thing, sometimes you may have to find this and that. What kind of children go to school, find a job, etc., it's all like this. Even if you can't get used to it, you can't do anything, and when you have something, you have to find a way to find someone, or others don't look for you, and then nothing will be good. Not to mention a big deal, just a cleaner, a street sweeper, you can't do it if you don't have to do it. Therefore, this kind of atmosphere cannot be changed for a while, people eat cereals, they have to talk about human feelings, human feelings are like a scallion pancake, smell fragrant, eat fragrant.

"As the old saying goes, a favor is a debt, and you sell it with a lid on your head. Chen Zihao said,

Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and human feelings are at work, and the simple concept of human feelings is not useless. The problem is that in today's society, human feelings have changed, and when people interact with each other, love is not put in the first place, only profit is put in the first place. When interacting with people, we should first see if there are any benefits to be gained, and if we have a slightly more long-term vision, we should consider that even if we cannot benefit today, we must also think about the benefits in the future, otherwise it is not necessary to interact with people. People's hearts are not ancient, and they are mercenary.

"Human affection must be said, the person who does not recognize the six relatives is not a human being, but human affection cannot be without scale, and if you mess up the proportions, you will dig a pit for yourself. Zhang Yongjun said.

People who talk about human feelings are kind-hearted, easy to move true feelings, and sometimes they have tears in their eyes, which is quite touching. But if you can talk about it, you will naturally be miserable, such as cronyism, and when your own people make mistakes, they not only turn a blind eye to one eye, but also close both eyes for a long time. For example, in the face of human feelings, the principles are gone, the policies are deviated, the system has been changed, and the human feelings are wholeheartedly. The main content is mutual care, mutual respect, mutual trust, and constantly enhance the trust and respect between employees, managers and the managed, and is necessary for a positive and healthy corporate culture, rather than following personal feelings or others.

"But now people are not easy to pass this human relationship, take Ma Zhongxiang's case as an example, some people know that it is wrong, and they still want to intercede, which makes people feel very embarrassed, and I want to simply ignore him, so that everyone can save trouble. Xu Feng said.

After all, people do not live in a vacuum, pure and simple and not affected by the outside world, but are affected by various factors such as the social environment, customs and habits, so that life is complex and changeable, and there are both happiness and pain. Chen Zihao said.

"To pass the good relationship, it does not mean that you are not close to people, do not talk about family affection, and even do not interact with people, on the contrary, a successful person should be humane. Zhang Yongjun said.

Lenin said that without human feelings, there has never been, and cannot be, the pursuit of truth. Most of the factors that contribute to the success of a successful person come from the emotional aspect, and only a small part of the factors come from the influence of the intellectual aspect. One of the distinguishing characteristics of interpersonal interaction is that everyone expects to be understood, respected and trusted. It is necessary to emphasize human feelings without favoritism, and to re-engage without messing with the law. We should care for our relatives and friends, but we must not ignore our principles. As for the things they ask to do, they must do them with sincerity and sincerity if they are reasonable, reasonable, and lawful. Anyone who violates the policy stipulates must dare to say no and adhere to the principle. In life, we should not be burdened by human feelings, and we should pay attention to grasp the scale of interaction with others. Some people break discipline and commit crimes, often related to making inappropriate so-called friends. The ancients are cloudy, those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. Good friends benefit people for life, while bad friends drag people into traps. Only by purifying the circle of friends, making more friends and beneficial friends, and avoiding being used by some people with ulterior motives and falling into the quagmire of human affection. As the saying goes, flies don't bite seamless eggs. Only when the body and mind are pure can the ideological defense line be firm. Always ask yourself if you have handed over someone you shouldn't have handed over, said something you shouldn't have said, accepted a gift you shouldn't have received, or done something you shouldn't have done. Through the constant filtering of morality, seeking the clarity of the mind, the purification of the soul, the decency of people, the cleanliness of things, and the righteousness and noble quality of the body, withstand the test of various temptations.

"In fact, life is often multi-layered and multi-faceted, and people are also very complex, in different environments, in different groups of people, the appearance of people is also different, even completely different. Chen Zihao said.

If you say that this is a difference in heart and mouth, two sides and three swords, it is not impossible. People are actually acting, playing different roles and changing different styles every day. Everyone has a mask, and each person is different, and if you control it well, you are a good actor. The key is to be engaged, to give true love to each character, to be willing and passionate to shape yourself. Everyone wants to perform on the big stage of life, and when the song ends, what is left is the applause of flowers or tears lost, that is, the benevolent see the wise and the wise see the wise. Only when the career and family are almost correct, and the handling is organized and easy, this is admirable.

"It is normal for a society to be cared for, and it is understandable to ask acquaintances for help in case of trouble, and the feelings between people are also deepening in this back and forth. Qiu Weiqiang said.

However, in reality, it is not difficult to find that many helpers have changed their taste, and some even ignore the interests of the country and others in order to help others. I am a buddy and righteous enough. Such a situation is obviously contrary to normal human feelings.

It is not uncommon to seek personal gain and engage in transactions under the banner of favors. Looking for a job to find a relationship, children to go to school to find a relationship, to see a doctor to find a relationship, to fight a lawsuit to find a relationship, it can be said that without finding someone to do things has become the consensus in the hearts of many people. Favor care has become a favor transaction, you help my son, I will help your daughter, and in the end it is your own people who get the benefits, and those outsiders who don't matter can only watch dumb losses. When the unspoken rules become the climate, and official affairs give way to relatives and alienation, it is difficult for everyone's rights and interests to be effectively protected. (To be continued.) )