I thought that after my sister-in-law Lu Fan went back and told Lu Tao about Wu Tian sending me home, Lu Tao would come to me the next day to theorize, but after a few days, I didn't hear Lu Tao mention it. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 I think it's the latter, that is, Lu Tao is completely dead to me, because he is no longer in the mood to quarrel with me. Fortunately, as time goes by, when the resentment between me and him has subsided, we can break up peacefully, and we don't have to look at each other with hatred like many divorced couples. But I know that I think this purely for self-comfort, in fact, the more Lu Tao is silent, the more worried I am in my heart, whether divorced or not, I always don't want him to misunderstand. Maybe my feelings for him haven't completely faded yet, that's why I care what he thinks of me.

And Lu Tao is really like a different person, no longer looking for fault with me, and no longer saying those things that make me angry, every day when he comes to see Yangyang, he is smiling at me, very friendly. Lu Tao, who has never done housework, still helps me do some manual work such as moving honeycomb coal and digging ash from time to time. His friendliness gave me the illusion that we would be together again in the same bed! One night I wanted to keep him for the night.

I know that I don't completely can't accept Lu Tao as a person, but I think he doesn't love me enough, if he can love me with all his heart, I will choose to continue to live with him, after all, we have a child between us. This is one of the reasons why I am not in a hurry to go through the divorce procedures, and it seems that I am always leaving room for myself or the other party, so as not to regret it for life on the spur of the moment. Therefore, I put my mind on Yang Yang every day and try not to think about other things that bother me.

One day, I finally saw Yang Yang start to walk! At that time, he was sitting alone on the foam floor in front of the sofa and playing, a small ball rolled into the distance, and I saw him standing on the sofa next to him, and then staggered forward three or five steps, although he finally sat on the ground again, but I saw with my own eyes the first step in his life! After that, I would take him to practice walking every day, and it only took two weeks for him to be able to come and go freely in the house.

One Saturday at noon, I was at home with Yangyang, and Lu Tao came with a big cake.

"I made it to order at the cake shop, you see, fruit pie, not bad?" he said to me happily as soon as he entered.

"Who's birthday?" I asked curiously.

"You're so funny, of course it's our son Yangyang's birthday!" he said as he looked at me in surprise.

"Yangyang's birthday, you remember wrong, Yangyang is December 29th's birthday, and it's only December 18th!"

"Yangyang's birthday is the eighth day of November, isn't it the eighth day of November today?"

"People all over the world are celebrating the birthday of the Gregorian calendar, and we also celebrate the birthday of Yangyang on the Gregorian calendar. ”

"Chinese celebrate birthdays on the lunar calendar, how can you always be different from Chinese people?"

Alas, it seems that the differences between me and Lu Tao are still everywhere, and even remembering that the birthday of my child is not the same day! If I want my son's lunar birthday and Gregorian birthday to fall on the same day, it will take 60 years, a big reincarnation! That is to say, I have to wait 60 years before Lu Tao and I will celebrate our son's birthday on the same day, and at that time, are we still alive?

"Well, since you've bought the cake, let's spend it today. "I compromised, for the sake of his recent peaceful coexistence with me.

"Go back to my house, his grandmother has already wrapped dumplings and waited. ”

At this time, I found that Lu Tao had been standing at the door since he entered the house, and the cake in his hand had not been put down, it turned out that the place where he celebrated his son's birthday was not here!

"I'm not going!"

I declined Lu Tao's invitation. Since I moved out, I haven't eaten at my mother-in-law's house, and I already feel that I am two families with my mother-in-law's family, and I have long lost my sense of intimacy.

"If you don't go, do you want my mother to wait? What should I do if she is so old and sick?" Lu Tao told me in a consultative tone, this kind of patience was rare for him before.

"Why don't you take Yangyang with you. I also took a step forward.

"Is it appropriate that you are not present for my son's birthday?"

"I'll give him another birthday on December 29th. ”

"Then if Yangyang grows up in the future and sees his birthday photo and asks why his parents are not together, how do you answer? Not to mention that this is his first birthday. ”

"He'll ask that sooner or later, we'll get divorced sooner or later. ”

"I will also celebrate Yangyang's birthday after I get divorced, and I will spend every birthday with him in the future. ”

After Lu Tao said this, it seemed that I was unkind as a mother. There's no way, then go back to his house with Lu Tao.

When I returned to my mother-in-law's house with Yang Yang and followed Lu Tao, my mother-in-law had already prepared a large table of dishes, and when I came back, my mother-in-law did not show much enthusiasm, but her face was full of joy. The sister-in-law's family was also there, and when I saw Yangyang coming back, my sister-in-law immediately came forward and hugged Yangyang from my arms.

"Put him on the ground and play with him, don't always hold him. I said to my sister-in-law.

"I'm going to hug this little birthday star today, come, and see what my sister is doing. The sister-in-law said and put Yangyang and Yueyue together.

"Can Yueyue walk?" I asked my sister-in-law. Because I haven't seen Yueyue walk yet.

"Not yet, the girl just walks late, but talks early. The sister-in-law said, "Yangyang can't even call her mother now?"

"I can call my mother, but whoever I call is also my mother. I laughed.

"Alas, there is no way, the boy is just stupid. ”

"Growing up like a girl. ”

"Growing up is different, you see that most of the people who learn foreign languages are girls. ”

"That's because girls love to memorize words. ”

"It's not love to work, girls are originally stronger than boys in terms of language talent. ”

"But boys' logical thinking is stronger than girls'. ”

"Don't argue with the two of you, boys and girls are the same, there are girls who study mathematics, and there are boys who act as translators, only the intelligence is different, there is no difference between men and women. Lu Tao interrupted my argument with my sister-in-law.

"No, it's different!" my sister-in-law and I said almost in unison.

"Alright, it's time to eat!" the mother-in-law called out to the meal, and we sat around the table with a hula.

Before eating, everyone taught Yang Yang to blow out birthday candles, but almost everyone did a demonstration action, Yang Yang just couldn't learn, and then when people didn't expect it at all, he slapped the cake covered with cream with his two small hands, and then covered his little hands covered with cream to his mouth, and for a while, Yang Yang's face and body were full of cream! No way, the mother-in-law temporarily removed the cake. I took off Yangyang's coat and washed his hands and face again, while my sister-in-law wiped the dining table again. Then the mother-in-law put a pen, a yam egg, a toy pistol, and a hat on the table, and motioned for Yang Yang to grab one from it. At first, Yang Yang still didn't cooperate at all, pointing to the cake that was put aside to eat, and then we took the cake away from his sight, coaxing and teasing to draw his attention to the table, and when he saw these things in front of him, he didn't hesitate to grab the big yam egg with his two small hands and stuff it into his small mouth.

"Look, snack guys, it looks like I'm going to be a chef when I grow up. "The sister-in-law thinks that taking yam eggs first is a harbinger of growing up to become a chef.

"What, yam eggs represent farmers, and it seems that they are going to farm when they grow up. The mother-in-law corrected herself.

"Baby, why don't you choose a fountain pen and become a scientist in the future?" Lu Tao regretted Yangyang's choice.

"These things don't mean anything!" I said coldly. Because I don't like to hear what they just said, what's wrong with the cooks and the peasants? I'm from the countryside, and I'm no worse than any of them! I don't like this biased way of speaking.

Maybe it was my words that upset my mother-in-law's family, especially my sister-in-law, who suddenly asked me something like this during the meal:

"The man who sent you home that day was the director of the Longxingma Steel Mill, right? I know him, he is my classmate's cousin, and I had dinner with him at the same table at the classmate's wedding banquet. Yes, he is handsome and capable, but I heard that he is married and has a son. ”

"Yes. Although my sister-in-law's words sounded a little harsh, I answered her calmly.

"Are you with that person now?" the mother-in-law stopped the chopsticks in her hand and asked me with a serious face.

"What do you mean? He was my classmate's husband, and he just sent me off that day, so don't you be suspicious, okay?" I was a little angry.

"Okay, don't talk about these things, eat!" Finally, Lu Tao ended this interrogation.

At half past one o'clock in the afternoon, Yangyang's birthday banquet ended in an unpleasant atmosphere. As soon as I finished eating, I asked Lu Tao to send me and Yangyang back to the rental house.

"This is 1,000 yuan, you take it first, and I will remit Yangyang's living expenses back to you every month in the future." "Lu Tao put some money on me before leaving, and when I heard him say this, it seemed that he was going out.

"You're leaving?" I asked.

"Yes, I was going to work in Shanghai for a long time, and then I decided to wait for Yangyang's birthday before leaving, and now Yangyang's birthday has also passed, and I will leave tomorrow. But don't worry, I will still bear Yangyang's living expenses in the future, you just take care of yourself, but I advise you not to associate with a married man, there is no good result. ”

"Do you think I'm that kind of person, don't you trust me at all?" I asked as I looked at Lu Tao in disappointment.

"I don't mean anything else, I just advise you out of concern, no matter what happens to us in the future, but you will always be my son's mother, and in my life, you will always be the most important person to me. Lu Tao suddenly showed a boundless look.

"Now please don't say that I am the most important person in your life, I am just a person you can't avoid, because unfortunately we are married and have a son, I am in trouble for you. "Like Lu Tao, I have also learned to be polite, just like a colleague and friend.

"How can you say that, you can give birth to a son for me, I have to thank you for the rest of my life, fortunately we have a son between us, otherwise we will get married, and in the end it will be empty and worthless. ”

We just said a lot of movie lines, just a camera, otherwise in this rental house of less than 20 square meters, there would be an emotional drama.

Lu Tao is gone, I actually feel empty in my heart, it's funny.