For the interpersonal relationships in the big yamen, Hua Junyao doesn't dare to point fingers, it's too complicated, it's better to let professionals guide the children. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

Hua Junyao raised her eyebrows, looked at them and said, "The ideal relationship between superiors and subordinates should be to be unstingy, spare no effort, work together, and work together to promote the development of the cause." As a subordinate, you should take the initiative to find your own position, consciously obey or obey the correct decisions of the leader, constantly improve your execution, and assist your boss to complete the common career mission, so as to realize your own life value. ”

Hua Commune nodded busily and said, "It should be like this, everyone makes progress together and the society develops harmoniously." ”

"That's just the ideal state, in real life, people have selfish intentions. Xiao Chubei looked at them coldly and shook his head and said, "In real life, there are always some people who are pretentious or smart, unwilling to act in a low-key manner, and always hope to gain praise by showing their talents in front of the leader." As everyone knows, this kind of self-performance is likely to steal the limelight from the leadership and violate the taboo of 'officialdom'. ”

"Taboo?" Hua Junyao raised her eyebrows and chuckled, "Unwritten rules, or unspoken rules." ”

"Uh-huh!" Xiao Chubei nodded, "So, while you are eager to please and impress the leader, don't go too far to show your talent, otherwise it may have the opposite effect - arouse his fear and uneasiness."

The most famous are Cao Cao and Yang Xiu, Cao Cao is eloquent and strategic, willing to show off his cleverness, and likes to listen to everyone's praise. However, Yang Xiu was a little conceited, piercing the mysterious dioramas such as "a box of crisps" and "'live' in the door", and stole the limelight from Cao Cao several times. In the end, Cao Cao killed Yang Xiu under the pretext of the "chicken ribs" incident.

Cao Cao's generals and strategists are like clouds, just to mention many strategists, since they can be appreciated by Cao Cao, I believe they can see Cao Cao's little tricks clearly. But these people know that Cao Cao is personally elegant, and he is very suspicious, and many things are inconvenient to say. Some things can be known by heart, and Cao Cao's thoughts cannot be said casually. Yang Xiu is different, he is afraid that he will not be able to show himself, he often walks in front of Cao Cao, blocking his image, showing off everywhere, doing everything recklessly, and robbing Cao Cao's applause. ”

"Therefore, in the unit, never steal the limelight from the leader, and always let the person in your position feel comfortable that he is superior to you. Only by making your leader appear smarter than he actually is that you can be appreciated by the other party. After all, a leader is a leader, and he needs an absolute authority, and he needs the recognition, awe and obedience of his subordinates, which is also where the value and dignity of leadership lie. Therefore, when you encounter something that is in the limelight, you must think more and consider it thoroughly. Otherwise, just blindly climbing along the pole will often be self-defeating and violate taboos. Gan Liangsheng raised his eyebrows lightly, hooked his lips and said.

"What if your leader is mediocre?" Hua Weidong said unconvinced, "How can we say that we also graduated from the first phase of Huangpu." ”

"You have to accept his leadership, don't you? Gan Liangsheng pointed at them and said, "Don't underestimate them, the education is not high, it does not mean that the ability is not high, you can mix in this job, which is not a human spirit, you have learned what they have in interpersonal relationships." ”

"It's true. Xiao Chubei looked at them and said, "You know that when I first joined the army, I graduated from high school and wrote with a good pen. But you know that my squad leader at that time was the same as me, from the countryside, and he couldn't read a single word. I wrote a summary of my study thoughts, and he copied it. ”

"Then uncle, aren't you at a loss. Xiao Shaoheng hugged and said unevenly.

"Fool! The company commander will not know the level of our squad leader. Xiao Chubei said with a smile, "Dou Da doesn't know a few words, but he can write such a thoughtful summary." I didn't show my face during the whole process, but I actually did show up. His calm gaze swept towards them one by one and said, "If you are right, and others insist that you are wrong, you must also repent to him, and cultivation is to cultivate patience and humiliation!"

Xiao Chubei continued, "Later, after I was promoted, I stayed in the army and became a real soldier. Our company commander told me what is the greatest wish of a young man from the countryside to become a soldier? Don't make up for all those false things, and talk about defending the family and the country...... As a matter of fact, to tell the truth, that is, tens of millions of people have stayed in the army, and we do not have the knowledge and vision of urban soldiers, so we are diligent in order to do it! We do all kinds of dirty and tiring work, and when we do it, our true form will be exposed. ”

Hua Junyao crossed over from behind and patted Xiao Chubei on the shoulder, and Xiao Chubei gave her a honey smile back.

"Uncle was very hard back then!" Xiao Shaoheng said distressedly.

"It's all in the past. Xiao Chubei shook his head disappreciatively and said, "I said as a person who came over, I hope it will help you." ”

"Speaking of which, I had it when I first started working. Gan Liangsheng put down the chopsticks in his hand and said unhurriedly, "I and two other graduates have just entered the unit, both are science students, Xiao Li has solid skills, people are also smart, and work hard, which is very appreciated by our team leader." He's confident and feels pretty good about himself. However, after three months in the city, he suffered a big blow. "Gently stroked the corner of his forehead, "That time, the deputy director in charge of the design unit called the leader of the design team to the office and asked him to consult on the design plan of a project. Therefore, the leader of the group suggested that a few of our professional people in the group should be called together for discussion, and the deputy director readily agreed. Xiao Li and I were ordered to come to the deputy director's office. After everyone arrived, the deputy director pointed to a few drawing boards and asked straight to the point: "The design unit has made three drawings, which one do you think is better?"

The leader of the group listened to the director's inquiry, and did not immediately express his position, but leaned in front of the boards, looked at it very carefully, and seemed to be concentrating on it. When the deputy director saw that the team leader was contemplating, he turned his gaze to us, as if to say, "What do you think, young man?"

Xiao Li felt that he had been greatly encouraged, and it happened that he had done a lot of homework on the project plan recently, and had a lot of good ideas, so he wanted to take this opportunity to show himself in front of the deputy director, team leader and colleagues.

Seeing that the group leader was still pondering, as if he had no intention of expressing his opinion, he couldn't help but speak first. He made a detailed comparison of the advantages and disadvantages of the three schemes, and then focused on one of the schemes that he thought he was more like. To be honest, Xiao Li's opinions are quite professional, and the language is also very wonderful. Therefore, after Xiao Li finished speaking, his face was filled with a smug look, and he looked at the deputy director and the team leader smugly, waiting for their praise. But to his surprise, after he finished speaking, the leader did not applaud his opinion. What he saw was the cold face of the team leader and the frowning brow of the deputy director. Xiao Li, who was still immersed in pride just now, immediately felt a cold breeze on his head. He didn't know which sentence he had said wrong, and he was a little overwhelmed, so he had to stand there awkwardly, waiting for someone else to speak to break the deadlock. But I waited for a full five minutes, just waiting for the deputy director to say, "Let's do this first, and then study it later." ”

"Ahh Hua Commune immediately said.

"Listen to the sound, listen to the sound of gongs and drums. Hua Junyao said meaningfully.

"Why are there so many science students? He Xiu'e was surprised, "Science students are not all straightforward, very upright. ”

"Science students are also human beings, right? Hua Henian echoed.

Gan Liangsheng continued, "You must know that sometimes the leader's questioning seems to be to solicit opinions, but in fact it is just a transition of his own speech, and he is to find an outlet for himself to speak. For example, in the case of Xiao Li, in fact, the deputy director was fully prepared. He didn't ask for everyone's opinions because he didn't have an idea, but just wanted to get a larger audience when he gave an important opinion. Xiao Li is good, as soon as he opens his mouth, he gushes endlessly, snatching everything that the leader is going to say, and how can he let the leader express his position? How can he be happy when the leader becomes an audience?"

Xiao Chubei looked at them calmly and said, "So in the unit, when facing a similar situation, you must stay sober: say what you should say, don't say what you shouldn't say, and don't climb down the pole." So what should be said and what should not be said? Grasp one point: At no time should you show yourself in front of many people in front of the leader, and in particular, you should not steal the limelight from the leader in front of everyone. In public, it's smart to be dull in front of your leader. The limelight of the leader does not prove that you are stronger than him, only using your stupidity to show the wisdom of the leader is a good move. ”

"After saying so much that shouldn't be done, what should be done?" asked Hua Weidong.

In fact, in the office, as long as you remind yourself at all times and be a sober vulgar thing, you can block it and cover it with water.

A closer look reveals that the protagonists at the center of the storm usually consider themselves "characters", so they don't buy each other, and as a result, a bloodless war is triggered. But in fact, most people are mortals, it is impossible to eat and drink, they are just mundane things, and they revolve around eating, sleeping, and working every day. On the contrary, those who think of themselves as "characters" may have more dreams of getting rid of vulgarity than others, so they can keep a normal heart if they are soberly aware of their own abilities and realize that "office politics" is just a norm. Gan Liangsheng said casually.

"I've been in the government for so many years, and 'office politics' has happened almost every day, and I've been involved in it, but I've always believed that neutrality is one of the best solutions. "In office politics, some people can be drawn into two opposing powers, and if they take sides with either side, they will either get ahead or lose outright. ”